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362	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously.		lordcheesus	/r/MensRights	11/10/10 12:15 PM

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1	Stop Looking For a Wife: You Won’t Find One What a load of crap. Women are only "proper wives" if they are subservient, and will cook, clean and have a bunch of babies? While being a housewife is perfectly legitimate and wonderful, saying that only women who are housewives and who do whatever their husbands want can be good wives is disgusting. It's like saying that a man can only be a good husband for me if he buys me whatever I want.	/r/seduction	14/10/10 09:26 AM
1	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. So basically you're saying that this is wrong, but it's less wrong than other things which happen, so we should laugh at the victim. Neat.	/r/MensRights	12/10/10 12:54 PM
1	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. Even if this German guy ran over a puppy, a woman with a pram, and a troupe of boy scouts, the police officers actions would have been inappropriate. Cops aren't supposed to brag about rape like it's an outstanding feature of the prison system. Give him a ticket, arrest him, whatever the legal punishment is. Rape is not the punishment for speeding.	/r/MensRights	12/10/10 04:17 AM
1	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. Yep, cops have a lot of problems, so we should just ignore this one. Your brilliance has astounded me.	/r/MensRights	12/10/10 04:14 AM
3	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. I know women get raped and abused in and out of prison, it wasn't my intention to make this a girls vs. boys thing. I did mention the "if he said this to a woman" part for a reason though. Most people I know seem to think prison rape only happens to men, and that it's funny. If you say that a man will be raped in prison, they'll have a good laugh about it. If you switch it so that a woman is in that situation, people don't laugh. The only way I've ever been able to get people to take male rape s…	/r/MensRights	12/10/10 04:08 AM
1	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. I'd expect to be told that the prisons weren't a place I'd like to be, and that sexual assault was common, not "YOU WILL BE... VIOLATED". The cop wasn't being friendly and disclosing information he thought the German chap could use, he was being threatening, and he was using the mention of prison rape as a tool to keep someone in line. That's pretty fucked up in my book.	/r/MensRights	12/10/10 04:01 AM
9	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. females do not get raped in prison. Excuse me? Females are indeed raped in prison. And I'm not expecting people to change their minds because something similar happened to me. I desire people to change their minds because at the moment male rape victims can expect almost nothing but ridicule, disbelief, and accusations of homosexuality. They deserve better. It's not about me.	/r/MensRights	11/10/10 02:47 PM
8	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. The officer "suggested" that the man follow the traffic laws, or "you will be violated". He is saying that if this man doesn't follow the law, he can expect to be raped. While it is true that rape is a huge issue in prisons, and it is also true that the German guy was driving like an idiot, that does not justify this talk. Regarding your second point, sure this might not be against the law. I don't really know. My point is that it should not be seen as socially acceptable to threaten someone wit…	/r/MensRights	11/10/10 02:35 PM
2	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. Didn't watch it?	/r/MensRights	11/10/10 02:11 PM
20	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. An extra verbal method being a threat that he'd be raped if he broke the law. That is not just an extra verbal method, it's disgusting. Would you tell a woman that if she broke the traffic laws she'd be anally raped, and otherwise violated? There's a proper procedure for cops giving tickets or warnings. It's not to threaten rape as a punishment for misbehaviour.	/r/MensRights	11/10/10 02:11 PM
13	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. I'm not entirely convinced either, but a good deal of my concern was related to the comments. I found one user who mentioned the threats of rape, and the rest thought the cop did an excellent job. This is viewed as acceptable by a good deal of the public, regardless of its authenticity.	/r/MensRights	11/10/10 02:10 PM
7	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. I don't have any details whatsoever, sorry. For all I know, this could be faked. The thing that pissed me off the most was the comment section. The vast majority of comments were from people who thought the cop did a bang-up job. I found one comment about the rape threats. People didn't even recognize it as an issue.	/r/MensRights	11/10/10 02:09 PM
1	Dear Men from this subreddit: Anyone else in a relationship who likes doing the dishes? It seems like 'doing the dishes' may be like a "man's chore"? I think everyone has something like this that they really like doing. For me it's peeling potatoes. When I was a kid I liked to pretend I was a discovered stow-away on a ship, and I'd been sent to the scullery to peel potatoes for the remainder of the journey :)	/r/MensRights	06/10/10 01:24 AM
9	THOUGHT OF THE DAY: If it is natural for men to be attracted to teenage girls, and it is illegal for men to have sex with teenage girls, then natural male sexuality is criminalized. It's also natural to rape, it's natural to steal, and it's natural for women to find a stable man suited for fatherhood, cheat on him with a genetically superior man, and then trick the first man into raising the offspring, and it's natural for men to have multiple sexual partners. All of these things, plus the desire to have sex with minors, are natural and have an evolutionary explanation. However, as a society we have decided to differentiate between what is natural and what is moral. For thi…	/r/MensRights	06/10/10 01:14 AM
5	What is the cure for cat calling? The entire article is about her and how all men are creeps and she get's to determing who get's called a man? How is calling someone a creep dehumanizing them any more than if you called them a disrespectful person? "Creep" is defined as someone who pays excessive unwanted attention to another. This word does not deprive or attempt to deprive the subject of human qualities, and is therefore not dehumanizing. Do you not see the difference between harassment and a lame pickup attempt? There's the regular crap like "Woooohooo you're a hot bitch!", which is free speech, even if it is vulgar, and then there …	/r/MensRights	05/10/10 01:28 PM
8	What is the cure for cat calling? The entire article is about her and how all men are creeps and she get's to determing who get's called a man? Did you read it? It because of this ( I hope small) demographic of creepy guys that men get a bad reputation, when the truth is lots of guys are respectable, wonderful, men. That broke my heart, my boyfriend who I know loves and respects women, does not need to apologize for the actions of these animals I love men, and I love women. I do not like threatening, disrespectful people. This woman, like almost all women, has had the misfortune to encounter creeps who have no qualms about harassment an…	/r/MensRights	05/10/10 10:57 AM
9	What do you tell your daughters? Just because a boy says "I love you" faster than a girl does not mean he's just trying to get sex. But even if he was just trying to get sex why is that such a bad thing??? You don't see a problem with lying to get sex? What about lying to get pregnant, lying to get money, or lying to get child support? I've got to say, lying to trick someone into having intercourse with you is pretty low.	/r/MensRights	26/09/10 10:31 AM
1	An anonymous survey of more than 10,000 teenage girls and young women reveals shocking statistics: STDs, drugs and unprotected sex are running rampant. Yep. Exactly. It's seen as cool to not give a shit about the people around you, which contributes to this problem. This has to stop.	/r/MensRights	20/09/10 06:49 AM
6	WTF is a "Non-forcible Rape?" Rape without overt violence. This includes statutory rape, sex with someone unconscious or blind drunk, or sex with coercion, like "If you don't have sex with me I'll fail you this semester", or "If you don't take your pants off right now I'll show your parents those photos your ex emailed me".	/r/MensRights	18/09/10 02:29 AM
1	Poll: What is your position on circumcision? Circumcision is fine and dandy - so long as the person being circumcised has consented. A baby can't do that. So in short, adult circumcision - indifferent. Infant circumcision - morally repugnant.	/r/MensRights	17/09/10 10:21 AM
2	I was raped by a female who knew I was compromised. What hope is there for me for justice? Should I even try? Call the cops and charge her. A woman definitely can rape a man, and it happens a lot. In the eyes of the law, this is just as severe as a man raping a woman, or a man raping a man, or a woman raping a woman. Rape is rape. Gather all the evidence you can and bag it up. Also, how long ago did it happen? If you had any bruises or scrapes during the attack which are still present, I'd recommend taking some photos. Take all the evidence you can gather to the police station and report this woman. Unf…	/r/MensRights	17/09/10 10:20 AM
4	An anonymous survey of more than 10,000 teenage girls and young women reveals shocking statistics: STDs, drugs and unprotected sex are running rampant. And this has what to do with MensRights? I'd say the STD and loss of virginity stuff would be pretty even across the board. These girls are obviously having sex with someone, and yes, it's terrible. This is why we need comprehensive sex education as a mandatory thing for all students, and easily accessible contraception. Kids are going to fuck regardless, and kids are pretty dumb. Refusing to educate them on the basis of outdated and puritanical values is making things worse than they need to be…	/r/MensRights	17/09/10 09:58 AM
3	I don't even know what to say to this besides I'm disgusted. This is one of the most deplorable things I've ever read. It's Yahoo! Answers. Full of trolls. This woman (or man... it is the internet) is just trying to get a rise out of people. That said, it's a pretty sick joke.	/r/MensRights	17/09/10 09:54 AM
2	Why I hate 2x Chromosomes Feminism doesn't necessarily have to include inaccurate statistics and anti-male policies. I'd say I'm quite involved in feminism, and one of my main goals is to try and eliminate shit like this in the feminist movement, because at the end of the day the people who are man-bashers and who misinform people just hurt and discredit the movement as a whole. It should be about equality, not lies.	/r/MensRights	15/09/10 11:15 PM
9	Why I hate 2x Chromosomes Blurring the issue was not my intention. Most women on 2XC stay silent about their incorrect claims because they don't know that they are incorrect. I don't know any of them (aside from the small group of hardcore nutbags) who would deliberately lie and propagate claims they know to be false, and they don't see what they are doing as "attacking men". While they may sometimes be making false claims and attacking men, they certainly aren't doing it with malicious intent. Here on MensRights there i…	/r/MensRights	15/09/10 05:25 AM
12	Why I hate 2x Chromosomes Actually, I visit 2XC frequently, and whenever someone brings up the 1 in 4 women will be raped statistic, and many other similar stuff, there's always someone else who calls them out for the dodgy statistic and corrects them. Sure, there are people over there who say things which are sexist, sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly. There are also people here on MensRights who say sexist crap, sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly. And like on 2XC, often someone here steps in to ma…	/r/MensRights	15/09/10 02:39 AM
3	Hospital Circumcises Baby After Parents Repeatedly Tell Them Not To..Lawsuit filed. Male circumcision can have medical benefits, yes. However these benefits are not so great as to warrant infant circumcision, I believe. The medical benefits which are gained from circumcision are also gained from showering and having safe sex. Why not let a boy do that until he is capable of making the decision for himself? I think that if people want their genitalia to be mutilated, that's fine. They can cut as much off as they like when they are an adult. This is not a decision parents should …	/r/MensRights	15/09/10 12:21 AM
8	Hospital Circumcises Baby After Parents Repeatedly Tell Them Not To..Lawsuit filed. I should have guessed... I suppose that's what you get when puritans start a country. It's still just so shocking to me though. With female circumcision, men and women speak out against it. Male circumcision is entirely different. I've spoken to so many men who actually advocate this, and take their sons to be circumcised so that they can look alike.. How can they not understand what they are doing, and how can they advocate such a violation of men's rights? It's just so bizarre.	/r/MensRights	14/09/10 10:46 AM
2	Does anyone else think child support should work like EBT? It's a great idea, but I see problems. My parents divorced when I was a kid, and my dad had to pay child support to my mother (and before someone gripes about this, it was fair. Before this he was making lots of money, and giving my mum $20 a month sometimes for two kids, plus he left her with upwards of $50,000 debt and kicked her and us out of the house). Child support was supposed to come in every month, at the start of the month. It often was late, or didn't arrive, so in the mean time my mo…	/r/MensRights	14/09/10 10:41 AM
4	Update: seeing naked men in a male locker room is now "sexual harassment." Did you read the article? I think what she was complaining about were the balls thrown at her during practice and the sexually explicit comments some of the players allegedly directed at her. I don't think there's much for her to complain about, honestly, but lets get things straight. Nowhere in that article did it say that she thought seeing a naked man was sexual harassment. She said that she was embarrassed to be in the locker room full of naked men, but that's hardly unreasonable. I'm sure a…	/r/MensRights	14/09/10 10:28 AM
14	Hospital Circumcises Baby After Parents Repeatedly Tell Them Not To..Lawsuit filed. Why has America become so accustomed to this though? You guys all seem pretty nice and normal... is there some crazy shit in the water there which makes people want to play slice n dice with the genitalia of infants? Here I think the current circumcision rate is 14.3%, but as far as the US goes I've heard anything from 60-80%, which I hope is false...	/r/MensRights	14/09/10 10:17 AM
63	Hospital Circumcises Baby After Parents Repeatedly Tell Them Not To..Lawsuit filed. No physical complications? Did they miss the part where they hacked off the end of his penis without his consent?? This just makes my blood boil, and I don't even have a penis. I don't understand why performing cosmetic surgery on an infant is okay even with the parent's permission, let alone with their outright refusal. Why on Earth is this not left until the boy is grown up and can make his own decisions about what he wants his penis to look like?	/r/MensRights	14/09/10 08:03 AM
3	Sex with a 17 year old is rape, because her consent is invalid. Feeding junk food to obese infants is child poisoning, because baby cannot give valid consent to health damage. Feminist laws obsess about nude photos, but don't worry about the deadly child obesity pandemic caused by "child food porn" Okay, I am confused as to why this is in the mensrights section, and also why you tacked on the bit about sex with a minor.... I consider myself a feminist, and here is my perspective on this. I think the age of consent should be 16 or 17. If you are an adult, no sex with a person under this age. No sex with a person under 18 if you are in a position of power over them, like a teacher or a counsellor. And yes, feeding crap to kids is child abuse. But you are wrong in assuming that this is the fa…	/r/MensRights	10/09/10 11:17 PM
1	Feminists invent "birth rape": "belittling and degrading comments by the doctor and inserting catheters without warning are appropriate to compare to sexual rape because personal boundaries have been violated" Yes, that sounds like a good idea. I think many women would find it difficult to stand up to a bully doctor while giving birth, it's an incredibly vulnerable position to be in, so I think another safe-guard would be to make sure the husband/boyfriend/partner/father is in the room at all times, to stand up and say something if the doctor is being a dick.	/r/MensRights	10/09/10 12:04 AM
2	Feminists invent "birth rape": "belittling and degrading comments by the doctor and inserting catheters without warning are appropriate to compare to sexual rape because personal boundaries have been violated" Of course proper preparation should be a no brainer, but even if a couple is unprepared for whatever reason, they should not be subject to abuse in the hospital. No one deserves this shit.	/r/MensRights	09/09/10 10:44 PM
31	Feminists invent "birth rape": "belittling and degrading comments by the doctor and inserting catheters without warning are appropriate to compare to sexual rape because personal boundaries have been violated" While the use of the word "rape" is unnecessary, and dilutes the meaning of the word, this type of treatment of women while birthing is a serious issue, and the people laughing and joking about it here should be ashamed. This isn't just doctors doing normal vaginal exams. This is doctors sticking their hands inside vaginas while their owners are begging them to stop. This is doctors sewing vaginal wounds with no anesthesia. This is doctors standing over women who are having contractions and tell…	/r/MensRights	09/09/10 01:55 PM
12	Daughters increase probability of a divorce by 10% As a female child, I did this. Just saying.	/r/MensRights	09/09/10 01:40 PM
10	Gen-Y females: 64% would release a sex tape if it would help advance their careers, 36% would blackmail a co-worker or a boss to get ahead, 45% would sleep with their professor to pass a class Ah, a highly scientific survey! Definitely representative of the general population!	/r/MensRights	09/09/10 01:45 AM
12	I work with mostly women, and today one coworker was telling a "funny" story about how the reason her cousin got divorced was because his wife was beating him. They all started laughing ... I try and call other women out on this kind of thing as much as possible. The problem is that for their whole lives, when they have heard about abusive relationships the image of a man abusing a woman has been attached. The idea of a woman physically abusing a man seems ridiculous, it just doesn't happen, you never hear about it, The men should just deal with it, they probably did something to deserve it anyway, etc. The best way to change this is to stop this attitude wherever you find it. Brin…	/r/MensRights	26/08/10 04:14 AM
3	Do you believe that 25 percent of women will be raped in their lifetime? I don't know the percentage of women who have been raped, or who will be raped. Often "rape" is defined differently in different contexts, and surveys can give odd or hazy definitions to skew the results one way or the other. Also, many women who have been raped do not recognize their rape as a rape, because their rapist was a friend or partner. On the other side of things, many women who have had sex with a man and then later thought better of their poor judgment think that they have been raped…	/r/MensRights	14/08/10 12:46 AM