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Economic Left/Right: 6.5 Social Libertarian/Authoritarian: -1.64
/r/MensRights04/03/15 08:45 PM
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Right Winger here. My target is Feminism. Unfortunately for Left Wingers, Feminism is born from Marxism, as is Socialism that Left leaning individuals tend to flock to. While I do not blame Leftists for Feminism, I do blame Feminism for attempting to (and in far too many cases, succeeded) steal Leftism. As I said, Feminism is my target. Tradcons are my secondary target. I only place them below Feminism because their sway over the public is waning. Tradcons are the cancer in the Right Wing just a…
/r/MensRights03/02/15 08:29 AM
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I'm not either, but I at least know that the Pope doesn't speak for all of Christianity, but just one (albeit the largest) denomination within it. That's like saying Sarkeesian speaks for all women. Give me a break.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 07:47 AM
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On babies? I think it's making a life-altering decision for someone else. On adults, if it's your penis, do what you want. If it's not your penis, then fuck off.
/r/MensRights20/10/13 07:47 PM
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I was dating a girl in college who was frequently angry and violent. When she wanted sex, there was no asking for it, no attempt at obtaining consent from me, it was just...go. If I said no, I'd get my face beat in and she'd do it anyway. I simply learned not to say no, to do as she required, and to keep my mouth shut. She'd beat me during sex anyway, but less so if I didn't object. Eventually, I didn't even have opinions anymore, about sex or anything. I'd just look to her to tell me what "I th…
/r/MensRights12/10/13 05:55 PM
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Well said.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 08:23 PM
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Well, it's in a different category because nobody cares about male victims of sexual crimes. Those guys thinking it's "hot", however, obviously have no concept of criminal victimization. I'd bet money that if such a thing were to actually happen to them, their tunes would change drastically. That's why (in my opinion) rape jokes are funny until you get raped. Not so funny after that. I donno. Those are my thoughts, anyway.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 02:38 AM
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Agenda issues should have no place in academia at all. However, even I'm not retarded enough to believe that's ever gonna happen...
/r/MensRights10/09/13 06:15 AM
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I would say all of the above, but instead of "women's/men's/gender" studies, just expand the curriculum of "History". In my university, we have US history divided into two general education classes: History of the United States to 1877; History of the United States from 1877. Further into the History and Anthropology Department are advanced classes such as: History of the Early World; History of the Modern World; Africana Studies; The African-American in American History; Women in History (the t…
/r/MensRights10/09/13 02:49 AM
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Male Genital Mutilation, aka Circumcision
/r/MensRights08/07/13 07:17 AM
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I'd disagree there. The phrase "fatherless children" is as old and overused as "deadbeat dad". I'd actually bet money that the vast majority of outsiders would understand the phrase and its context in this situation.
/r/MensRights15/06/13 09:00 PM
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Precisely.
/r/MensRights15/06/13 06:26 PM
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Fatherless children, in this context, are children who are forced not to have a relationship with their immediate paternal ancestor. One cannot "man-up" if one is forced into the position where such an act is clearly and unequivocally impossible. In case you forgot, the end of a relationship between a woman and a man, with children under 18, also affects the children. If the end of the relationship is not amicable, the custodial parent should, though frequently don't, encourage the children to h…
/r/MensRights15/06/13 05:56 PM
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But it is in poor taste. Even if a person is a giant sack of crap, you don't publicly call them out on their birthday. It's just bad manners. Same concept.
/r/MensRights15/06/13 05:10 PM
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If we're using anecdote, here's mine: My mother forced my father out of my life until I was 16, and then my father died when I was 18. I'm furious with my mother for her sick and hurtful lack of parenting. Doesn't give me the right to go bashing my mother on Mother's Day. She's an evil person, but Mother's Day isn't the appropriate time for talking about it.
/r/MensRights15/06/13 04:56 PM
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Fiscal Conservative, Social Centrist. Capitalist first, everything else after that. Used to be a Republican, but not anymore. Probably Libertarian, if they could actually sway some opinions out there. Anti-Feminist and willing to educate the brainwashed, uninformed, and/or unaffiliated.
/r/MensRights15/06/13 11:44 AM
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But that's not to say that one cannot become aware of the error in that concept and begin to move away from it. That's why I choose to support the OP in opening her eyes, rather than condemn her for her label. Eventually, hopefully, she'll shed the label on her own.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 07:45 AM
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Agreed, I got carried away. I admit my error and apologize.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 07:42 AM
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1) I didn't say you can't be angry. I said that I choose to be more constructive with it. 2) White Knight/mangina accusations aside, I'm fairly confident that you feel censored based on previous (and unrelated to me) examples of people telling you to sit down and shut up because you're passionate. I could be wrong. However, I will go ahead and defend myself on this front and say that your genitals aren't my concern. I care neither for what you have in your pants, nor what the OP has in hers. I i…
/r/MensRights01/06/13 07:41 AM
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That's exactly the response I expected. You have no argument here.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 07:13 AM
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I don't care about our issues? Please explain how you came up with this concept.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 07:10 AM
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If not me, then who? Seriously, do you truly think any of this venom is changing anything? I understand anger, I just choose to use it in a far more constructive manner than what I see represented here.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 06:27 AM
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That wins political battles, but it doesn't turn the tide of ignorance. Feminists rule academia and pump out innocent people with brains full of nonsense and emotion. Once facts are thrust into their individual worlds and begin to chip away at their religious faith in Feminism, they become far more susceptible to truth and reality. That's what I strive for, in hopes of ultimately removing the soiled academics and repairing the damage. I admit to the foolishness of the endeavor, but I'll still tr…
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:45 AM
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Yep, White Knighting. Totally. You're absolutely right. What was I thinking?
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:37 AM
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Ah, now I see. You have a certain moral and ethical standard that is neither common nor fully known by others besides yourself, and you perform the function of judge, jury, and executioner based on that standard. To you, insults are acceptable, so long as the criteria fits within that aforementioned standard, for the sake of debate and disagreement. If only everyone else adhered to your standard, they would see the error of their ways immediately and without prejudice. Lonely is the one True Hum…
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:35 AM
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Holy christ, dude. First of all, petty name calling, such as "hypocrite" "nazi" and "idiot", is attacking. Yes. You're not winning the hearts and minds of the public for the sake of the movement or the rights, lives, or plights of anyone with meaningless drivel such as this. Second of all, I consider it "bad faith" to dismiss people who are beginning to see the truth of the world without giving them a fair chance.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:25 AM
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Opposed, sure. A jerk, slapping away the hand of a potential future ally, not so much. I prefer educating people over attacking them. You don't cure ignorance with hatred, you cure it with education. Don't you get that?
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:20 AM
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So let's attack people who are starting to wake up for not having already fully awakened. 'Cause that's going to solve the problem. /s
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:16 AM
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A couple months ago, there was an SRSer who responded to an MRA, asking why they hated us, with "MRM is against Feminism. Feminism is against Rape. Therefore, MRM is for Rape." That's the kind of black and white thinking that we're trying to overcome. Nothing is absolute. Your point has merit, but isn't an all-encompasing truth. Open your mind a little, will you?
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:11 AM
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Did it ever occur to you that the OP may be progressing favorably toward our point of view? Are we not attempting to change the way people think? One does not just wake up one day and renounce everything they've ever believed in. It takes small steps, day by day, single thought by single thought, to change one's own belief system. Give the OP a chance to think and grow as a person.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:04 AM
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We don't know, we're not allowed to explore that yet. :S
/r/MensRights04/04/13 11:07 PM
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I cannot speak for society as a whole, as I haven't researched this trend yet (but I will), however I can speak subjectively in that every woman I've ever known, in the entirety of my lifetime, who has elected to work instead of stay home has been admired by her friends, family, and local governments for her capabilities. Those are strong words, with the "every woman I've ever known" and all, but I mean that sincerely. I know a few homemakers, but not many. Most females in my life have been self…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 11:01 PM
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I agree to a point. I hear the "not all feminists are like that" argument a lot, but my counter argument remains the same: Evil abounds when good people do nothing. You're right, not all feminists adhere to the "men bad, women good" mentality, and only a fringe group of feminism portray that. That said, where is the public feminist response that distances itself as a group from those fringe elements? When feminists call for gendericide, or for mass genital amputation as a means of "world peace" …
/r/MensRights04/04/13 10:17 PM
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First, hypotheticals are HOW one determines the nature of crimes without there having to actually be one. Take a law course, please. Second, I'm perfectly aware of the concept of agency. What you're completely ignoring about drunken sex is the possibility (as well as what probability) that the act was pursued or encouraged by an intoxicated individual. That person would BE the above hypothetical man getting behind the wheel of a car while drunk. You're taking away the agency, the adulthood, even…
/r/MensRights12/02/13 06:01 AM
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So...it's better to presume that a serious crime was committed and sort through facts in an effort to prove that? What ever happened to "innocent until proven guilty"? And you're absolutely wrong in assuming I trivialize serious sexual assaults. You're taking responsibility out of the hands and mouths of adults who make the gamble in consuming toxic substances that are widely known and documented to cause a decrease in judgment and inhibitions and (depending on the type of alcohol) increase libi…
/r/MensRights12/02/13 05:13 AM
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How in the hell is that going to be prosecuted? Coming from the standpoint of a court of law, both parties engaging in drunken sex could be construed as mutual rape, but it'd be a hell of a lot easier, less messy, and would avoid ruining two lives that don't need to be ruined, by simply settling the dispute as "consentual" and calling it a day. It'd be easy to prove it was consentual rather than the much more difficult determination of mutual acts of rape. Don't you see how making all these broa…
/r/MensRights12/02/13 04:42 AM
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0.0 holey crap, dude. That is rape. Sleeping with a drunk woman who wouldn't consent if she weren't under the influence is rape. So, if both parties are drunk, as is the norm in bar/club type settings, they BOTH raped each other? Or is it just the woman who gets to cry rape, since women totally can't be rapists? Doesn't this concept utterly remove the responsibilities that adults have for what they do? I mean, it'd be pretty sweet to get drunk and go do stuff I normally wouldn't, like say...smas…
/r/MensRights12/02/13 04:31 AM
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Please don't tell me how to act in my personal relationships. Also, nice assumption about my sexuality. You're complaining about him/her missing your point, and you miss his/her point? And then you come out of left field with accusations of assumption when it makes little difference. If you're a straight female, it fits. If you're not, then adjust it in your head until it does. The message is sound. You got my style but missed my point. There is such a thing, but societally the way women are for…
/r/MensRights12/02/13 04:19 AM
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We are hoping to be able to provide a place for women victims to go to based on whether or not they are comfortable being housed with male victims. The idea is to never flat out refuse anyone. Someone who is suffering should be given the help that they need regardless of gender. Hopefully we will be able to work in tandem with women's shelters in the area though so that if a woman is not to a point where she is comfortable around men yet we can still help her find a safe place to be.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 05:25 AM
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Absolutely will do.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 11:06 PM
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I honestly hadn't thought of that before. Animals are just as much victims of abusive homes as the people. Since we're already networking with a Women's Shelter, it only makes sense to do the same for pets. Wonderful idea!
/r/MensRights19/01/13 11:05 PM
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I'll be on the lookout for divorce attorneys that would be willing to help. The counseling will actually be fairly easy, considering the faculty we already have backing us, and my girlfriend's degree. I'm also gonna see if I can get licensed to run workshops and groups, since I have personal experience with abuse. We'll see. Thanks a ton!
/r/MensRights19/01/13 11:04 PM
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I'm terrified, but as of yet, I'm not sure what to do about it.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 11:01 PM
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This is great advice! I'm writing down everything you guys are suggesting.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 11:01 PM
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Thanks! I hope this works out. It means quite a lot to me, considering my own experiences in the past.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 10:46 PM
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Thanks! I honestly feel overwhelmed by the adversity I know we face. We know what we're up against, and it terrifies me. Your wishes give us strength.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 10:45 PM
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Thanks! This means quite a lot to us, and your kind words lift us.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 10:43 PM
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Do you have any ideas to help avoid, delay, or push back?
/r/MensRights19/01/13 10:42 PM
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We're a little hesitant to do that just yet. It's difficult to admit, but reality loves to get in the way of plans, and we're a long, long way off from making anything tangible happen. It all hinges on a Ph.D, which could mean moving to another state, depending on the Ph.D program she gets accepted to, and then raising awareness in that area enough to proceed. Reality loves to butt in and ruin plans like that. To accept money right now would just seem...dishonest. But when we get closer to our g…
/r/MensRights19/01/13 10:40 PM
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Awesome, we'll look her up. This means a lot to us, thank you!
/r/MensRights19/01/13 10:37 PM
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I'm saying that knee-jerk criminalization isn't the way to deal with those problems.
/r/MensRights11/12/12 11:53 AM
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That's absolutely not true. Viewing you as a sexual object and treating you as such is NOT threatening behavior. Tactless, rude, even vulgar, but not threatening. You're claiming victimhood without reason. A fear of their intentions? Who's to say what ANYone's intentions are at ANY time? This whole concept of objectification has become so poisoned and disillusioned that it no longer makes any damn sense. You want to be treated like a person instead of a sexual object? I'd like to be treated like…
/r/MensRights11/12/12 10:27 AM
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I'm aware now that doctors can help, I simply wasn't aware when it was crucial. I believe more people, men and women alike, need to be better educated in recognizing symptoms within themselves and those around them to maximize help. It's been the majority of a decade since the issue at the campus mental health facility, and now that I'm dating a psych grad student, and getting to know the professors in that department, I've already learned that the people responsible for my dismissal no longer w…
/r/MensRights10/12/12 04:45 PM
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Why yes, yes I did, when I went to my campus mental health facility AND battered women's shelter after I was repeatedly raped. I was told that women don't rape men and turned away. What I "expected", if I expected anything, was for someone to just listen to me. That doesn't require a Ph.D. I don't think you fully understand the broad social implications of men with mental or sexual issues. Sure, people eventually listened, and I'm seeing a great therapist, but it took a nearly tragic event to ge…
/r/MensRights10/12/12 03:36 PM
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And to be honest, I only used that word myself because I was accused of being "crazy" because of therapy. The idea that I had to be "crazy" to be in therapy, I felt, was degrading.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 03:20 PM
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I have, personally, experienced that. It took a suicide attempt and being admitted to a mental hospital for anyone to acknowledge that I had depression. In fact, I had to look up the phone number myself so that I could be admitted. Your point has been made clear in multiple posts that men simply don't seek or stick with therapy. My point is that men need to be better informed and better supported so that they DO seek and stick with therapy.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 03:10 PM
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Precisely. Men with depression need support, not shame. Women with depression GET that support.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 03:02 PM
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I see your point, and I feel it valid. I just don't feel that it's conducive to mental health recovery to separate a person from their environment due to some affliction they may have. It singles them out, makes them feel alone, and less likely to remain a part of that environment. People with depression don't need another reason to feel alone or helpless.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 03:00 PM
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I don't mind the discourse. Besides, if males aren't educated better (read: undereducated on purpose) and treated better socially, then they won't seek out or stick with therapy.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 02:51 PM
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I find a distinction between who a person is and what that happens to that person. I am diagnosed with MDD and PTSD due to childhood and early adulthood sexual trauma. That doesn't make ME sick, just means that I have a sickness. Do you know what it does to a person dealing with severe depression to be told that there's something wrong with them? That they're crazy or sick? I'm fully aware of what depression can do, but I refuse to accept that it defines me.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 02:40 PM
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You're absolutely right, here. This topic is related to my girlfriend's Master's thesis, and I've read dozens of articles on it. It most certainly is an issue that more women face than men do. I still believe that marginalizing the men affected by it is still wrong, however. There are plenty of arguments depicting female-on-male rape, even though it occurs less often, but it doesn't mean that it's any less of an issue. One cannot ignore an issue simply because it affects another demographic more…
/r/MensRights10/12/12 02:35 PM
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You don't have to snap out of it. You're a human being, with thoughts, feelings, and insecurities, just like the rest of us. I strongly suggest therapy, as it's been miraculous for me, but I recognize that it might not work for you. Just know that you're not alone.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 02:19 PM
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The concern I have, specifically, is the social stigma that there's something wrong with them. External influences affect decisions, male or female, especially in social circles. I cannot count how many "friends" I've lost because I was a "pussy" for seeking therapy and continuing with it, or because I had a problem in the first place. Side note: mostly female friends gave me the latter reason. I'm not sick, I'm not broken, and I'm not crazy. Yet I'm treated as such, socially ostracized, and deg…
/r/MensRights10/12/12 02:14 PM
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I don't have specific sources, but I have personal experience and testimony from other people in my life that point toward a trend that says it's socially acceptable for females to be depressed, and have numerous methods of support and help (some free of charge). However, depressed males are often not taken seriously, ignored, medicated instead of therapy, or given the "man up" mentality that you mentioned. Males are frequently left to wander alone in their depression until something drastic, an…
/r/MensRights10/12/12 01:53 PM
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I'm sorry for being a little touchy about it. I don't fault you at all, it's just a really difficult thing to rehash. I really appreciate your input and curiosity, it's not exactly something people hear about very often. It took me six years before I could even admit it to my own family. Honestly, what I've told you here, I haven't even told my current girlfriend yet. I may just have her read my post...
/r/MensRights16/10/12 03:22 PM
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so she took it upon herself to begin sleeping with my friends I didn't know who she was sleeping with until much later. My so-called friends were having sex with my girlfriend behind my back and threatening to put me in the hospital due to a bruise on her ankle. Do the math.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 02:08 PM
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I was 19 before I had my first consensual sex. When I started dating this girl (which was a fiasco from the start), I really thought my life was going to get better since she really seemed like she cared about me. I was more than willing to open up sexually to her, and it was really nice. But then it turned sour after about a month when I had gone to sleep (was a heavy sleeper back then) and she began touching me until I became erect. Then she rolled me onto my side, threw her leg over my hip, a…
/r/MensRights16/10/12 01:39 PM
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Generally, I'd say not. However, like the MRA, Feminism has feet firmly planted in both liberal and conservative movements. Now, conservatives are splintered, as are liberals, so it'd be incredibly difficult to pin a "movement" upon another "movement" when both movements are comprised of individual people. As a conservative myself, we tend to divide ourselves into two super-categories: Social Conservatives and Fiscal Conservatives. I'm a Fiscal Conservative, Social Centrist. Social Conservatives…
/r/MensRights15/10/12 03:41 PM
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Very nice. A refreshing change, I think.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 03:14 PM
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What were you expecting? Aerik is fairly closed minded and full of hatred. It's a shame, really.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 12:22 PM
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Normally I'd agree, but after living with my friends for over a year, his "rent" was to clean their livingroom and wash dishes, and he refused to do either, which was why they kicked him out. He had no problem eating their food, using their water and electricity, and living under their roof, but put zero effort into pulling -any- of his own weight.
/r/MensRights13/10/12 01:03 AM
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I don't follow your reasoning here. Please explain?
/r/MensRights12/10/12 09:03 PM
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It's cool. Really, I'm speaking out of frustration, since it's a commonly acceptable sentiment, sexist or not. It's a shitty thing to say, but fairly wide-spread in practice. I've seen your other posts where you say you try to educate women who say things like this, and for that, you have my deepest gratitude.
/r/MensRights12/10/12 09:03 PM
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Agreed. You seem pretty cool.
/r/MensRights12/10/12 09:00 PM
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Thanks. I'll take that to heart. I can see how my own actions would alienate my brother and his children. Thanks for the advice
/r/MensRights12/10/12 04:15 PM
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I have told some of them (not all, that'd take too much time). I get the usual "it's just a joke, so pull the sand out of your vagina and man up" response. Yes, that's a direct quote from multiple sources. How do you respond to people who don't even have respect for their OWN body parts, let alone the feelings of another human being? It felt meaningless to pursue my point with them further.
/r/MensRights12/10/12 03:08 AM
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Oh, I already know what I think of that worthless sack of protoplasm. In fact, I was mortified when my brother and the harpy he married decided to procreate, let alone three times. She's just as guilty of the worthlessness that I lay at his feet, but I didn't want to go into another circlejerk about deadbeat moms. I see your point about my brother's actions not reflecting that of other fathers, and I sincerely hope you're right.
/r/MensRights12/10/12 03:01 AM
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You, yourself, argued that jokes still hurt the people they're pointed at, did you not? Need I dig up your post from that AskReddit regarding, I believe, a "get back in the kitchen" joke? When I get lazy and don't shave for a few days, many of my female friends tell me I've got a "pedo-stache" going. Yes, joke. No, not funny. Nobody likes being associated with pedophilia, no matter how cute or innocent it was intended. Intent does not reconcile the effect.
/r/MensRights11/10/12 11:03 PM
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Okay, this question has been tugging at the back of my mind for the last day now: Who, or where, are these feminists you describe as concerned with men and transgender? We've sited over and over again, in this very thread, proof of feminism-at-large being vehemently and (sometimes) violently anti-male. Who are these kind feminists you mention so often? Do they have published works? Are they vocal within the feminist sphere? Are they gaining ground? What sources do you actually have to support th…
/r/MensRights11/10/12 10:56 PM
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I'd like for my hypothetical children to have the same freedoms as you've just described. My methods of going about granting them those freedoms will be through education, support, and love. I will accept if my son may be gay or may want to be a cheerleader, and I'll put forth all the effort I can to support him. I'll also accept if my daughter may be gay or may want to be an automotive mechanic. I'll also teach them both the dangers of interpersonal sexual interactions, how to defend themselves…
/r/MensRights11/10/12 10:45 PM
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You may not be. That doesn't preclude many others from being so.
/r/MensRights11/10/12 10:31 PM
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Insightful. And good link by /u/typhonblue in the comments. Nice!
/r/MensRights11/10/12 09:05 PM
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Right? A good natured "men should be on leashes" is just joshin' around! However, a "get back in the kitchen" is oppression. If one were to break down the statements, then it would stand to reason that Should be = Back in; Leashes = Kitchen; Men = (implied) Women I think?
/r/MensRights11/10/12 11:04 AM
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Good analogy. Upvote for joo.
/r/MensRights10/10/12 05:53 PM
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I wish I could say she was just making a joke or some such. She's been pretty adamant that "men fucked the world up, so now they need to sit down, shut up, and let women take the reigns" et al. At first, when she said that horrible thing to me, I thought my (then) girlfriend would cull the behavior or something. She did not, and in fact laughed about it until she saw the look on my face. Her friend's face hardened and the topic was dropped. However, as time progressed, her radical anti-male sent…
/r/MensRights10/10/12 05:51 PM
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You sound strong willed and able. I tip my hat to you, there. I ask, therefore, that you DO stand up against misandry. There are dozens of ways you can stand for what's right. Get in there, start advocating for equal reproductive rights, or fair family courts, etc. I'll stand with you if you'll stand with me.
/r/MensRights10/10/12 05:38 PM
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My ex's best friend, an active feminist, ~25 years old, looked me in the eye and told me that all men should be on leashes, and only the pretty ones could be allowed outside, as long as they remain on a leash. That is female superiority. [Edit]: She's a self proclaimed Third Wave feminist.
/r/MensRights10/10/12 05:26 PM
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I'm gonna shave on Halloween and then let the whole thing grow wild until Dec 1. Then I'll trim it down to my normal goatee.
/r/MensRights10/10/12 04:38 PM
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Nor should you. She's too young to understand infidelity, et al. You can, however, explain that mommy and daddy aren't getting along, and that it's NOT her fault. As others have said, open some lines of communication with his family (if not him, himself) and keep her in the loop with what her father's family wants from you AND her. I genuinely hope that your ex will come around. But even if not, his family probably will, and that's the next best thing for her.
/r/MensRights10/10/12 03:19 PM
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I'm in therapy for the laundry list of wrongs I've endured, but every single therapist I've ever gone to has always focused entirely on the situation when a male molested me as a child. Yes, an issue I contend with. But that instance was comparatively short-lived, and I've long since gotten past it. My therapists still rarely, if ever, touch on the many, many, many times a female molested me as a child, or the 8 months of daily rapes after I started college. Yes, I know, I should find another th…
/r/MensRights10/10/12 03:01 PM
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Just read it. Lots to think about, there. Thanks!
/r/MensRights10/10/12 02:46 PM
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I was not aware of this organization. I'm gonna go read all about it right now. Thanks!
/r/MensRights10/10/12 02:13 PM
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Heh, been lurking and lightly commenting for a month or so. I feel like I fit right in.
/r/MensRights10/10/12 02:06 PM
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This. My mother and father were very...uh...tense when around one another while I was growing up. Problem was that my mother refused to allow my father to come to our home or allow us to visit him very often (even though they had joint custody) and badmouthed him to us for most of our childhoods. Eventually we fought for our right to spend time with our father and found that the horrible evil man we'd heard about so much just...wasn't there. But that's my story, not yours. I hope that your ex ge…
/r/MensRights10/10/12 02:04 PM
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I can honestly say that what attracted me TO the MRM and AWAY from Feminism is, what I perceive, the fact that I was personally victimized by multiple female perpetrators over many years of my life and nobody believed me. I got the "Men can't be raped, men rape. Women can't rape, women are raped." mentality from social workers, doctors, and even my Second Wave mother. Secondly, my aforementioned Second Wave mother raised me to hate myself because of my gender. To denigrate and even physically hu…
/r/MensRights10/10/12 01:58 PM
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Why, exactly, aren't YOU running for office? I'd vote for you in a heartbeat.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 07:17 AM
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This is a separate argument entirely. This current discussion is about the rights of both parents, not the rights of the child.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 07:06 AM
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I donno, I've witnessed plenty of older women do the exact same. I still don't believe it's gender-specific. Actually, I don't even believe it's age-specific. I've seen children do it, teens do it, my age group, and so on. I think people, as a whole, tend to just talk a lot, and sometimes offend or bore their audience.
/r/MensRights22/08/12 08:27 AM
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