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I'm 24. So you think she's gaming me for kids?For marriage?All because her time is running out? She's pretty clever in a creative way. However, she is prone to moments, where she doesn't Works as a therapist. So yes, she has studied psychology the same as myself.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:26 PM
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No, vibrating one because she apparently needs the vibrations to have an orgasm. I'm not hung like a moose but i'm doing pretty well.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:23 PM
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Hers but mine is starting to get that way. Especially with the women flirting with me at work, female friends who are clearly DTF.It' made me question it because i'm in my best years. She's offering me her later years and doesn't seem to respect that. What do you mean the right perception of me?She has a fetish that she doesn't indulge because she's Christian. Well, i know i'm the valuable one. She doesn't have kids. She's hitting her pregnancy wall soon. Before she met me, she was depressed bec…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:20 PM
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I don't do shit. She invited me over one time when she was sick. I was through the kitchen after having a smoke.Shouted through "could you stick some toast in for me?" So i stuck the toast in and sat down. Toast pinged up. She made a big sigh and said "I don't even think i can get up. Could you get it for me?" I had no intention of getting up, so i said "You go get it. You've been off work for three days, so you can use the exercise." She got her own toast. So chores are a no. We don't live toge…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:14 PM
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Yeah, the first one is a red flag. Second one, i changed jobs and she didn't work with me. Merely came into my work. I was a car salesman.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:40 AM
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I had trouble with this for a while. My solution was to examine my current self.Know yourself. Then, stick up for your ideas and boundaries. Don't concern yourself with the favour of others. People will always be there, that try to bring you down.It's a matter of life. Would you rather fight off people trying to bring you down, for ideas that aren't your own?Or ideas that are your own?
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:18 AM
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So it's likely a waste of time?I'll read the link. It's not so much negotiating her to be attracted, more to set boundaries and be honest about my needs in the relationship.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:05 PM
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That's what i'm going to do man. Thanks for the solid advice. Always aim higher.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:28 PM
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So talking it out is a no go?Even with solid frame? I'm getting to work on my SMV. Working on goals tonight. Going to start journalling and setting targets. I need to read up on dread and put it into practice. Any articles on LTR dread?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:26 PM
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Update I know what i want to say but don't know how to word it.Basically (unfiltered): Where do you feel that we are, at this moment in the LTR?How do you feel?I feel that our closeness has dissolved and that you are distracted. Like you're throwing me scraps of attention, when it suits you. I respect you and i both have to develop ourselves, both have to have our own goals and aims. I wouldn't want it any other way. However, if we are together, there are certain things that i feel are required …
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:22 PM
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Cheers man.I'll check it out!
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:57 PM
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That's exactly how i feel. It's tough to pull away because she knows my family. They adore her. I have to stop my mum from talking about marriage and such like. I will need to do it, for my own sake.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:55 PM
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Well she lied about he date. We had arranged the date, that week and she went out and had a one night stand. She is putting out but never messages in a flirty way.I tried for a while but i got bored of her not returning. When we have sex, its usually her initiating.Apart from the odd times when i get "I'm tired". Before, she complained about me doing her from behind or deepthroat. Now, she does that but stops when her mouth gets sore. I know i could get other women.I have a girl at my work, who …
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:53 PM
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The guy she slept with before me, i have a good idea who he is. I did the most bluepill thing you could do, after she told me. Read her FB messages. A guy she has on FB and her, were chatting about the Rugby. She made a comment about being distracted and missing most of it. Messages were missing from the convo.I can't be certain. Is that from the TRP post about levels of dread?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:47 PM
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Thanks man. I'm glad i have had this epiphany.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:44 PM
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Yeah, i know what i want to do now. I have made her the focus for most of the relationship. I indulged her "cutesy texts". Her closing "love you" texts. I'm seeing her Saturday, a week and one day after i last saw her.Don't know how i'm going to handle it, with the way i feel. So how should i firmly set these boundaries?I've allowed it to transcend beyond a certain point of no return.Can i rail it back in? I want to focus on getting out of my dead end job.I'd love to work as a Substance Abuse wo…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:44 PM
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This right here!I never thought of it in that light.haha
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:37 PM
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Yeah, i got hit with that nugget before i knew about TRP. I handled it in a BP way. Instead of getting off the train and heading back home,i stayed on. I even told her "I wouldn't judge you". Spent the day out i had planned, trying not to fucking snap at her and "enjoy the day". Now?It would be a different story.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:37 PM
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Great choice of quote. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:32 PM
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As a guy who suffered from suicidal idealization and self destructive behaviour, i empathize completely. It's rough waking up each morning and wishing you didn't. However, there are three things i can be certain of: Your "world" isn't the limit. This existence you find yourself in, isn't the end of the line. It's merely a bubble, a picture of the complexity out there. The limits are truly endless. Everything dies eventually so why create death? Each moment of each day, someone is dying. It isn't…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:47 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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