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| 26 | What are books that are a must read for a solid seduction foundation? | lordofunivers | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 10:16 PM |
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| 1 | How to talk to a women in online dating appsShe either attracted or not. She might have other dudes line up. You have to commit and shot your chance. You will have your answer so you don't waste your time. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | you can have ANY woman of the world..I think he wanted to say that you need to make a move, then look like you don't want her but inside you want her. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Be like PresleyHe likes curve. | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Does online game negatively effect your day game?They are picky because they have abundance. Otherwise they would mad click like man are doing. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | My #1 rule of seduction: Never fucking chaseWhat are thing that turn you off? | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | My #1 rule of seduction: Never fucking chaseA tango between two little birds. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | My #1 rule of seduction: Never fucking chaseThe initial approach is not part of the chase. After that, this is chase if you are over invested yourself with a one way communication. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Gina is love <3C'est audacieux! | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | My game seems 3x better when i first wake up and then gets worse as the day progressespower nap work too! 15-20min top | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | My game seems 3x better when i first wake up and then gets worse as the day progressesYou meditate and try to focus on feeling of the present. The feeling after meditation is the same as when I wake up . | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Do I have to be masculine to attract womenA true man can embrace his balding to become a bad ass viking with a beard! | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Do I have to be masculine to attract womenMuscles and aggressiveness are characteristic of men. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 08:50 PM |
| 2 | WARNING: Don't give RSD your credit card!Real Social Dynamic | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 05:04 PM |
| 2 | The fool-proof way of making more connections, meeting more women, and meeting likeminded people. This is impossible to mess up.why? | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | The fool-proof way of making more connections, meeting more women, and meeting likeminded people. This is impossible to mess up.Smartphone camera are great now, you can get nice picture from it. I believe you need to go out in events so that you social media have content. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 06:55 PM |
| -4 | Signs of Verbal Submissiveness: Full ListWow really nice!!! | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 07:31 PM |
| 3 | If you find it “weird” or “creepy” to approach women, READ THIS! If you want to successfully approach women, you must normalize the fact that approaching others is entirely normal. This first step starts with YOU.How do you get warmer then? | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | How do I lose feelings for my FWB?The only way to reduce feeling is to have a buffet | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 10:41 PM |
| 3 | From hopeless to abundance: how pickup changed my life.How did you find your PUA lair? It look like your story started there! | /r/seduction | 04/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend always insults me, but I have a problem.Part of being a man is to be able to set bundaries and make people respect that boundaries. My guess is that your girlfriend is insulting you because you let her doing so over time. This will unfortunatelly lead to less sex and less respect until the relation die. I suspect that this situation might repeat itself in the futur with another girlfriend if you don't set clear boundary of what you accept or not. The way to do it is to put in the abundance mindset that you are getting out of this rela… | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | [F28] SHY GUYS: How do I tell a potential (but extremely shy) guy that I'm in an open marriage and want to play, without scaring him away?I could see a win-win situation here. If the guy is shy, this possible relationship with you might boost his confidence and also you could have fun. Look like most of the hard work is done because you did hang out to his place isolating him to the public eyes. One day, if you plan to hang another time to his place, you could say during the day that you have something to tell him. This might spark some interest to know what you have to see. Seduction is also needed to spark sexual tension. You do… | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Insights on Consistently Pulling One Night Stands after 5 Years in the GameI agree the phone tip was a bit much, it's a level that I wouldn't do. People is lying all the time, so what's the problem? You make woman look like they cannot do anything at all to protect themselves. Don't you think that would be more useful to educate woman at young age instead of brainwashing man? | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Two dates in a row blocked my number after the dates?This gray area that you speak of is seduction :) | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Two dates in a row blocked my number after the dates?Your example is showing a guy that continue pushing beyond the fact that the woman rejected him. Correct me if i'm wrong, but it's not what this post is about. This is about a guy that could escalate but didn't do it and asking why his chances didn't work. that's it. I also don't understand why you degrade yourself as a vagina? I also not so sure that #metoo mouvement is doing great for both gender. It look to me more of a gender war than helping woman at all. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Two dates in a row blocked my number after the dates?I disagree, you assume what other females thinks. When they don't think like you, you are being patronizing and contemptuous over them by labelling them as bitches. It doesn't look like you respect the majority of woman (85%). By asking consent directly will kill attraction very quickly because it look weak and anxious like asking permission as when you were little. Asking permission doesn't make man and woman equal at all. Moreover, it look childish. Consent is communicate by the respectful esc… | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:50 PM |
| 3 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?There is no true formula here. If you feel bad about her behavior, you say it and you don't let them cross it again. Otherwise, you will let her ate you alive. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?It's also worth to mention that bad behavior can be hold back for some time. Usually, you began to see the real person after 1-3 months. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 02:48 PM |
| 6 | One of my funniest tinder experiences.It is but not at this stage. You can just say "I usually don't add stranger to my facebook" If she is really interested, she going to see OP with a least a date. | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 05:32 PM |
| 2 | It's scaring me (28m) that literally nothing worksI want to congrats you! You just began your recovery journey! However, I feel that you need more than just read books and practices. your core confidence is very low and I would suggest to see a therapist for a while. You will discover your flaws and begin to work on it. After while, you will see that relationship with woman is attainable. source: my own experience | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl at a wedding this weekend..she said she was interested, then I guess you must act on it to validate that. In your post, there is no evidence that you want to date her. The best course of action would be to plan an activity and invite her. That will tell you if she is interested or you have to move on. | /r/seduction | 01/10/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Things I've learnt so far in night game after 3 months working in a clubThis ^ | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 07:58 PM |
| 10 | Everybody thinks im nice, nobody thinks im hot-No more Mr nice guy That's the book you are looking for. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupHow long was your last relationship, maybe you are dating another age range than before. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Is being too skinny a bad thing? Also, other questions about finding girls in college, which I haven't been able to do in my 5 years here.My guess is that you rationalise too much about what is not working in a way that pull you farther for your ultimate goal. My suggestion, which I did myself, is to go see a therapist. I know it sound silly but I discovered my own flaws and worked on it. Things improved from there. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I get out of this THINKING thats stopping me?Instead of finding what to say next, I try to dig further into the conversion so I can know her. Me: Did you have nice vacation? She: Yes Me: What was the most fun thing you did there? Her: blabalabalbla.... It's crazy how long she will speak about it. As she speak, you will find something that she felt and you felt it too. So then you share that you had the same experience with an example of your story. This is what I do differently and I feel connected. Before, I was always staying in the supe… | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I get out of this THINKING thats stopping me?First part: I'm introvert and the way I used to get out of this was to improve my conversation by asking the right question. Then, people share me interesting stuff and I began to see that I was not connecting before. Also, I stopped over analyse everythings and tried to let my body feel the moment. In that precise moment, I felt not anxious. Second Part: It's related to my first part. I felt anxious and I wasn't confident. The woman feel that and it's turning them off. The goal is to look like … | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Best guide on how to eat pussy...PERIODLook like a red flag to me. | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I get matches on tinder but irl im hideous and different looking?Are you really getting matches? For profil validation, go the r/tinder. There is a weekly post that you can get feedback from the community. | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Girls who show too much interest.Look like a mom to me. | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | If a girl isn’t putting in much effort in texting, should i just stop?I'm in the same situation. I kind of openned her with the right questions. Then at some point, I used my imagination to ask her out in a funny way. She replied very short message that shut the convo down everytime. I don't think I was boring in anyway. She might have many guys in the list, no time for you or no interest. It make you chasing her and that's not good. I just don't care, delaying my response and mirroring her response. I would say, delay your response, distance yourself, respond wit… | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | What are books that are a must read for a solid seduction foundation?What is the unfriendly place of old school community are you speaking about? | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 05:25 PM |
| 2 | What are books that are a must read for a solid seduction foundation?While experience get you somewhere, my view is that a mixture of knowledge and experience get your further. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 03:33 PM |
| 3 | What are books that are a must read for a solid seduction foundation?I agree with you, I always see seduction as the top of a piramid while the foundation need to be solid. My work progress is that I need to improve my core confidence and also my social skill. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 03:29 PM |
| 3 | What are books that are a must read for a solid seduction foundation?While youtube is good, I feel like there is more detail in books like a movie vs book. Thank you for sharing, I will put the list of books inside the post | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 03:26 PM |
| 5 | What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her?Rejection is always better than ejaculation. Oh wait! | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 03:05 PM |
| 23 | When you match on Tinder with someone less than 1Km from you...yell "(her name) is a bitch" and she is on my deck | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 02:22 PM |
| 6 | Seducing someone that you are datingDo what she/he said . I call it a sexual energy build up. It's the next level thing because you try to hold on your need until you cannot old it. It create a massive passionate burning sex lol. It can be done in one evening, one day and the most I did was one week. Also, you need to hold any fap. The only thing it that you need to have concentration skill to go through the workday lol. | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 02:09 PM |
| 5 | My little research on my Tinder deckMaybe the elo score only for one gender, because of the obvious double standard? It would be nice that OP try his deck as a woman hahah | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Starting out on tinder advice/inputMaybe you might consider r/tinder instead, this would be more insightfull. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I(25m) want to express feelings for (24f) whom i know already 10 months. I talk to her for this period but haven't done anything so i guess its turn off to her and Im already friendzoned. But i developed feelings for her over this time. Can you advice how and what will be the best way?Hey OP, there is something that was writen by a fellow redditor. In summary, you need to cut the friendship between you and her, talk to other woman then comme back as new you with seduction in mind. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/83nvti/the_answer_to_every_question_about_this_one_girl/ | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | I(25m) want to express feelings for (24f) whom i know already 10 months. I talk to her for this period but haven't done anything so i guess its turn off to her and Im already friendzoned. But i developed feelings for her over this time. Can you advice how and what will be the best way?I never worked for me this way. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | The Answer To Every Question About "This One Girl"This post should be on the side bar Guides list. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Guys who quit and or minimized porn/masturbating, how has your life changed?I feel the same as you, it motivate you to contact woman more often. It's important to release the pressure sometimes. | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 03:50 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when your date cancels last minute? Go to a cafe anyways and get the number of the girl who works thereI like how you redirected your energy into motivation to get another one that you might not have spoke otherwise. | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Quickest ways to become more attractive as a manHow to start continue having sex: be good at sex | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 07:00 PM |
| 3 | I've just started dating 2 women at once. What is the etiquette here?Be honest yes, reveal too much information no. Just give what is necessary to share. I learned this the hard way. | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | A milestone, personallyNice job. For me the shit test was the biggest advantage for me. It make me more mysterious. The shit test question appears to be common. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl outMovie can be fine after 2-3 dates. I used movies to build kino and leaded to the bedroom right after. I agree not to go for the first date. | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Is my family trolling me?I think your mother, aunt and mother friend are preventing you to become a man. You see, the word "boy" refering to a little boy. It's not about lying to you, it's all about how they see you just as little boy. It doesn't help you at all. At some point, you need to distance yourself a bit from your mother to be able to become a man. Where is your father? If you do not have any man around you, find activities that man hang out. Watch them closely. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Tried having sex for the first time in years and couldn't get hard. Need life advice.Well she wanted sex with you for a reason. You have something to give that she wanted. Maybe the problem isn't you, the chemistry is not there. Try not fap 2 days before you meet her again. Also, you can daydream about it so that you can build your own build up. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm always acting how I "should" but not how I "want to" and it's keeping me single and depressed.Yes it help, to know your weaknesses so that you can work on it. Indirectly, this will give you confidence in order to achieve the ultimate goal. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 04:08 PM |
| 3 | I'm always acting how I "should" but not how I "want to" and it's keeping me single and depressed.I was in the same situation than you. Therapy definitivelly help knowing where are your weakness and discovered where you didn't put any effort at all. To become resilient, you will have to accomplish small victory that will give you confidence. Establish a goal with baby step. Write down everything you want to become on a paper, then write every tasks needed in order to complete thoses goals. Make it like a game with achievement. When you succeed a step, give yourself a reward. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Tried having sex for the first time in years and couldn't get hard. Need life advice.You need some time to get your gear running again. The thing you can do is to pleasure your partner by other means and get her to orgasm. Are you exercising? Every time I exercise I bit, It help me. An other thought, try to create tension and teasing before having sex. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Is The Dating Market "Broken"?Exactly, they choose men in dating app related to their specification. They are not emotionally hook. However IRL, you can try to get them hook with seduction. I had to practice and read a lot before getting confortable IRL. For me it's much more rewarding. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 06:18 PM |
| 8 | Is The Dating Market "Broken"?As an average guy, I have much more succes IRL than on dating apps that need a lot of work for taking good pictures and writing bios. At some point, I have to like 70% of the woman to have some match. It look more like a lottery than meeting someone. Then, I have to conclude very fast because a lot of guy have been matched as well. Again, I feel that a lot of woman are isolated in their own bubble that technology created us. Maybe the new trend will be to return to the basis. Trying to seduce wo… | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 04:07 PM |
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