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lordvoltano/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:31 AM
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I had one success in Tinder out of hundreds of matches. She was a real cutie fresh out of college, I'd say a solid 7.5/10. She was looking for a boyfriend but I managed to conditioned her as a plate. She moved on eventually, getting herself a proper boyfriend. But a couple times a year we still met up to shag. She's married now and had recently contacted me and said she regret her decision to get married to this guy. I'm still undecided if I wanna tap that ass again. I think the key here is ther…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:30 AM
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I will tell you my experience in banging co-workers. I have a career job (big international company with operations in more than 60 countries). So far I've banged three co-workers. The first was a 20-something with great boobs. I knew her from my previous job. One day we got drunk and it happened. We occasionally talked about it, teasing and shit, but she said she'll fall for me if we continue. We still bang on occasions, though. The second is a married woman in her mid-30s, also from the previo…
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:52 AM
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Most men with scarcity are forgiving, though. At least I was in my BP days.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 07:53 AM
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I live in Singapore, and she's 15 minutes away in Johor Baru, Malaysia.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:51 AM
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Yeah. By the way I edited my previous post about her religion. Don't want people to get riled up. It's a sensitive topic.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:44 AM
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Yep. But religion made her to be a decent person to everybody else and in her work, e.g. never steals company money, helpful to other people, etc. And I guess it gives her peace of mind as well.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:35 AM
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Through an acquaintance in get-together. Added social media, asked for her number, started texting, flirting, asked her out for coffee, negging, DHV, framing, cocky & funny, bounced, kino, escalated, bounced, kiss close, escalated, etc. Basic /r/seduction stuff.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:32 AM
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All of that and more. But not Christian.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:23 AM
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Well I would leave the bitch right there and then. But to each his own, I guess. I do not tolerate disrespectful women.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:06 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I would like to have kids someday when I'm ready financially. Good to hear you have your life sorted out. Kudos.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:02 AM
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If you like singing (I do), learn to do karaoke at home using Sing! by Smule app. You'll find songs that you can master and you can practice multiple times with video.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:48 AM
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This is not TRP, but The Game by Neil Strauss really opened my eyes about the mechanics of human romantic/sexual relationships. The Mystery Method by Mystery helped me understand said mechanics. And the sidebar at /r/TheRedPill gave me the mindset to pursue the betterment of myself. Seduction is way easier to master than TRP. So if you need to start somewhere, you could start there. But without TRP, you will be just faking it, instead of living it. As most RPs were betas some time in their life,…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:43 AM
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The damage is done. She is disrespectful to you. You could casually ask her about the guy's instagram handle, but don't mention about her liking his pics. Study her reactions. If she lies about not knowing him, then just dump her. If she tells the truth, just dump her. If she begs for mercy and starts sucking your cock, then cum in her mouth and relegate her to plate status. Most of the time she will come crawling back. But she's just a plate you spin now.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:35 AM
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It's different in the MO. It's like a first degree murder vs manslaughter. One is done with premeditation, planning and intent, the other is just a heat of the moment. The end result is the same, though. But the punishment is different.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:17 AM
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I have 6 plates atm, but 1 is back home in another city. One time she came to my city for job interview and we fucked as soon as she lands, before she sees her boyfriend. Not sure why I'm sharing this, but it might clear things up that I don't have any issue with scarcity. Regarding your question, in my case it has something to do with the excitement of making an honest woman out of an otherwise an otherwise a very tepid girl. Being married probably contributed a bit to my peace of mind that she…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:12 AM
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I respect your stand.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:05 AM
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Wow. Just, wow. So the guy wasn't mad at all? This is some beta shit right there.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:02 AM
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Good for you. Personally I think a man should not pay alimony if the wife who fucked up the relationship. But laws are fucked up. Considering your experience with marriage, will you consider getting married and kids again in the future?
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:59 AM
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Why was it a mistake?
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:57 AM
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Abundance is a red pill mindset. I doubt most married men has it.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:55 AM
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Personally, I would never fuck a woman in her house or on her matrimony bed, or even in her cars (which usually her husband bought for her). It will mess too much with her mind, as she will be reminded of how I pounded her on her bed while she's laying there with her husband. I'd like to keep everything separate with her home life as much as possible.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:30 AM
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No, I live in a part of Asia, where guns are illegal, sex is taboo, and religious people are the majority. But I lived in Europe for a period of time, and from what I gather people in the western countries tends to more litigative, so people would be more afraid to throw the first punch. And the divorce court favors the women, so guys would be more hesitant to file for divorce, knowing the women would take half their shits and kids, and getting free money from the him while being fucked by Chads…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:15 AM
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Personally, I think it's possible that they are really religious, but just can't fight the tinglings in their vagina.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:33 AM
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I think it's inevitable. Not everybody will agree with the situation. But there are a few gems here explaining the rationalization which I really appreciate.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:31 AM
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This is a truly TIL moment.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:29 AM
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She's one of my 6 plates atm. I wouldn't call that abundant. Maybe, enough to never having to do cold approach on weekends because I'm always occupied. But, plates break... Nonetheless, I will take a breather and re-assess the situation strategically.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 02:01 AM
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Not trying to convince anybody. Just I don't really care about being a homewrecker at the moment, because she already wrecked it before and will do it again. I just need to be careful and think first of my self preservation if the situation go bad.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:57 AM
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After getting the valuable insights from this thread, I can say that if things go south, it will definitely be my fault. I'll take precautions.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:55 AM
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What you say is actually the kind of insights I'm looking for in this thread. I have been 'tamed' before by my previous plate, and it did not end well for me emotionally. I will never go through that again. From now on I will be wary of my actions and will have a zero tolerance policy for shit tests. I will make sure she delete our chat history from her phone (or else she won't get the cock next time). There are some incriminating shit she said to me over chat, mostly involving the infamous egg-…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:54 AM
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Yeah, right? But I do respect their opinions, nonetheless, which actually have some sense in it.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:48 AM
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If I get out unscathed from this (not shot/beaten to death), it would be a very good first hand learning experience on AWALT.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:47 AM
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I can connect with you here bro. Over-compensation is a thing we should be aware of.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:45 AM
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Well all I 'give up' is my time and man juice. What I said about her being nice is what I observed she do to other people. To me, she nasty.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:44 AM
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Good insight.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:42 AM
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She's cute. And having a religious girl munch through my meat is a very big ego boost. Every one of my plates are in different situations (one is divorced with kids, one has a beta boyfriend, one is a 'player', i.e. has 2 other guys beside me; one is single; and one used to be my best friend). This girl a different taste of ice cream to complete the circle
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:41 AM
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Good advice. I'll take it into consideration.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:35 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:33 AM
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Yes it will be. It will be.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:32 AM
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I'll heed to your advice, my man.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:24 PM
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Well, she should be. But hamsters. I need to be smart with this. Framing her as a regular FWB is a good idea. Not sure she'll be down with it, but I'll give it a shot.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:24 PM
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Thank you, I'll take your advice in consideration.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:21 PM
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You seem to be very well versed in the art, Master Jedi. I will revisit your comment from time to time whenever I feel I will lose my footing on reality. Much appreciated.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:20 PM
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Yeah, come to think of it, it may take this to whole another level in her mind, triggering a sleeping hamster, or something. Who knows what kind of crazy shit she'll do after. Better to keep this going as it is.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:17 PM
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SPOT ON. According to her, she blows him some time as part of foreplay, but never cums in her mouth, because it's "indecent". Also, they have sex like once every two months.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:14 PM
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You're right. Although, he never cums in her mouth, ever (according to her). She said he thinks it's 'indecent'. She was a virgin as well when they where married, never do anything remotely sexual during dating, bar some light kissing. Little did he know he was kissing particles of other men cum she gathered since high school. She probably miss the taste of semen, might be the one of the reason of her conduct, come to think of it.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:11 PM
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FUCK. Phone. I need to layoff the text game with her. Also, make sure to delete her chat history with me the next time I see her. And maybe change my name in her phone book just tp be sure.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:08 PM
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Haha the "beta smokescreen" thing is genius! I have a plate (a widow with 2 kids) that I want to get rid off because she want something serious. I might use this. The husband is a religious guy and seemed like a straight arrow. Beta all the way. Also, no fun and not thoughtful, according to her.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:05 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience. I will keep it in mind. And a very sound advice. I will start to limit myself in order not to compromise my position.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:59 PM
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Thank you. A very sound analysis. Something I'm having a hard time to do myself because of being in the dynamic. So basically, AWALT?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:54 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I will consider it.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:51 PM
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This is true.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:50 PM
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Thank you. I will take your advice in into consideration.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:48 PM
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Ah. Didn't think about that. For what it's worth, I have absolutely no intentions of stealing the girl from the husband. She just happened to falls into my lap, figuratively and literally speaking.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:46 PM
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Yes I know. And I appreciate all the advices.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:42 PM
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I saw a picture of the guy from her social media. He looks like a straight up beta. Guns is the least of my concern because it's illegal and very, very hard to get in my country. I agree with the risk. I will be careful. She never mentions her man by his name, for what it's worth. She always uses the words "my husband" if it's absolutely necessary to mention him in a conversation.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:41 PM
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I'm just curious. Knowing how women thinks might help me minimize the chance of my woman cheats on me when I decide to settle down someday (I want kids to carry on my legacy, but AWALT). And the advices from fellow trp are enlightening as well, because they might have previous bad or good experience with the situation. Do you have any insights on how to keep frictions of any kind at a minimum? Also, DD?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:36 PM
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How did the husband find out about your friend?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:30 PM
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TIL about 2:4 digit ratio. And this is might be a very good opener for a cold approach! Thank you. I never noticed her fingers before (they were almost always reaching for my meat). But I will the next time I see here.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:29 PM
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Thanks I'll keep that in mind and will not escalate this further to a point of no return.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:24 PM
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Very small chance he'll find a gun in my country. Knifes on the other hand...
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:23 PM
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I know for a fact that she cheated before she met me a couple of years back, with a married man and had the relationship for 3 years (she told me. I should probably put bit of info in the original post). So the argument actually holds. I was presented with a chance and I took it.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:22 PM
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Just out of curiousity, after taking trp, would you stop or continue if you're in my position?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:17 PM
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I said to her repeatedly that she should not neglects her responsibility as a wife and a mother. I've been maintaining frame by hinting that I still have my other plates and giving sexual vibes all the time. If she has a little bit of sense in her, she'll know that there is no future with me. Hopefully it'll stick.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:14 PM
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High T?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:10 PM
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Good idea. I'll just ride the current dynamic until it wanes off on itself.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:10 PM
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Wise words. I'll keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:08 PM
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What you're saying makes sense. I'll back off from the idea.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:07 PM
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I also didn't think the trp community would judge me. I was just asking about what you guys think of her behaviour and the reasoning, which had me baffled.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:06 PM
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Agree. I'll be careful. No woman worth a (fist) fight.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 05:30 PM
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If not me, it's gonna be somebody else, right?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 05:22 PM
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Because, I found other things that are fulfilling when I was with her that I don't find with my other plates (intellectual compatibility, matching values, taste in movies, etc.). That's the reason I decided to respect her decision at the time. Plus we were thinking of getting married back then, in which sex is religiously allowed. I live in a country where Moeslem is the majority, and I can't just say "choose me or God" and be branded a heretic or some sort, which she and other people certainly …
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:42 PM
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I went through the meeting. She said some stuff that doesn't make sense. She said, I wasn't very attentive during these past three months (kinda true, I was busy with work) and she kinda accepted that fact and got distracted with her work instead. She said thinking about me all the time while I'm not around depleted her energy. Now she said she want to achieve her target in work and not think about romantic relationship until she get that promotion. I might be at fault here, but she's clearly ta…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:36 PM
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Thought about it, but decided againts it. I don't want to settle down with someone I'm not sure is head over heels for me. If I do get married, I need to be sure that there's no reason for the girl to cheat on me from the beginning. I've been with several married women before and I try to avoid situations that made them came to me at the first place.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:29 PM
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Good advice. I'll check out the link.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:28 PM
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Well actually, those other girls are not worth my time. I did fuck them a couple of times a during this three months, but I just don't maintain them no more, that what I meant by giving up the other girls. One of them has a boyfriend now and she still fucked me, so...
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:27 PM
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Never done this before, usually I just stopped contacting the girl and they would get the hint. But this time this might be necessary.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:25 PM
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I think you're right. A girl lost interest in you is not a good feeling. Worth the effort or not to try relight the spark with her?
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:24 PM
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Okay, I will man. It just that, of all the other girls I banged, I never round someone who's well rounded as her. So I don't know how many girls I have to go through again to meet someone like her. I'm think soft nexting and no contacting het would made me slip from her mind and drifted even farther away, like in your case (which I'm sorry to hear. Good mannered, intelligence girls are a rare breed these days). Do you think you did the right thing or is there something that you would do differen…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:23 PM
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Why do you think that she was cheating on her boyfriend with me?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:04 AM
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Okay.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:01 AM
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The God thing, I actually don't mind. The other things you say, you're on point. Some advice?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:52 AM
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