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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
295	Caught a man filming me yesterday	DISCUSSION	loserinasweater	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 12:09 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Caught a man filming me yesterday I apologize if it seemed as if this only happens to women who are dressed provocatively. As someone who has faced sexual harassment as a preteen, I know that it's not about what you wear, or even how attractive you are. It just honestly makes me feel a bit safer when I tend to look much more androgynous, as I've learned, if men think there is any chance of you being a man, they seem to hesitate way more. I feel much more comfortable when men don't immediately recognize that I'm a woman. That's w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 03:55 PM
74	Caught a man filming me yesterday Oh gosh, abduction didn't even cross my mind! Thank you for this advice, if it happens again, I'll definitely do this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 01:10 AM
9	Women aren’t difficult nor are they a burden. I really needed to see/hear this. I've been feeling like a burden to everyone around me lately as I deal with finding the correct medication balance for my PTSD, anxiety, and depression. Watching this I didn't realize that my inferiority and imposter syndrome could stem from historically being pushed to dim my reactions / problems as to not be deemed as 'too much' or 'crazy'. Thank you for posting this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 02:52 AM
10	Well said, thank you. Men be like, 'I want a girl who will dink beer and play video games with me.' Just say you want to kiss your homie and leave.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 10:14 PM
60	HVM anticipate your needs! I have an IUD so I don't really bleed, but I still get bad cramps and whatnot around every month or so. Currently on a cycle this week and things my husband has done for me: Reassuring me that I'm beautiful and he loves me multiple times a day without asking for validation, bringing me my Midol and a bottle of water when I looked pained, when I went to clean our bird's cage, he told me to sit and relax and cleaned it for me, etc, etc.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/20 02:19 AM
5	How to avoid ending up with someone that fetishizes young women: If he says body hair is disgusting, if he's into video games/anime and he likes the innocent type or the girl who looks super young but is immortal or some shit. If your a younger girl below 18, if he calls you mature for you age and smokes weed, run. I've had men who hide their age lure me in when I was a young teen, then reval their age after I agreed to certain things like dating or sexting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/19 01:09 AM

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