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Well keeping thoughts and actions separate is important but also just looking at women as a person first, not as feminine thing to fuck, is ideal. I would draw a line between looking at an attractive person and saying damn, nice, then moving along vs staring at a person and imagining all the things you’d want to do to them. It takes active effort to not do this if you’re used to looking at people like that. I want to say as long as it’s just imagination not actions it’s fine, but dude, how do yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:34 AM
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… wild perspective. Some people do just love sex to showing their love in a physical way or just for pleasure. It’s ok if you don’t but crazy to imply all women are just doing something for the benefit of men and not because both parties want it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:25 AM
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Everyone is always changing, ideally for the better. The phrase “fixing people” in my perspective refers to people who would depend on their partner for positive change. I think good partners better themselves but don’t depend on each other to do this, rather only get a boost per say. There is a difference between someone with social anxiety that is working on themselves and someone severely depressed that is spiraling and may take you with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:21 AM
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I would dare say the exact opposite: men only care about women’s issues when they directly impact them. It’s well known that women have higher empathy than most men, how they act upon this is dependent on person. You’re right in the sense that some women are indifferent but it’s easy to be indifferent to someone you don’t know. That’s true of any human. Not disagreeing with the fact that men do have struggles, but it’s silly to compare in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:15 AM
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In most regards, yes. Yes I recognize discrimination men face in what job they chose, in what role they are expected to play, in how they’re expected to suppress human emotions, in how thier friendships hit a low emotional level. I try to ensure all my male friends feel comfortable to even discuss these issues with me and more importantly, I try to push back anytime a friend says stupid stuff like “I hate all men” or fuck men or stuff like that. It happens… a tad too often. I think men hear thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:12 AM
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See I feel like the thought of women “having to resort” to approaching men is less than makes women even more hesitant to do so. Personally, if I find someone hot and it makes sense to do so, I don’t see the issue to approach. If they feel I’m less than for doing so and reject me, thank god because that means I don’t have to figure that out later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:08 AM
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Yes but that’s the same as saying both men and women and be assholes. Just because they do it differently because of remains of societal structures doesn’t mean either should be done. Saying that some men don’t still objectify do this is bullshit. Some women do this and try to play it off and some do so proudly. Frankly, I think if you’re surrounding yourself with either gender that does this so much so that it seems like a majority , that’s more reflective of you than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:03 AM
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I’m 20 and refuse to go any younger but would be willing to go up to 26. It may seem silly but a lot of change happens from that 18-25 range and although maturity doesn’t always correlate with age, my personal experiences have been consistently poor with younger people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:12 AM
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I’d rather be single than be with someone I don’t truly love. I feel it’s worse for both parties involved when someone is “settling” or just together with someone to not be alone. Frankly, a partner would enhance my life but isn’t my life purpose. I have other goals and things that are important to me and I don’t think I’d ever be able to hold a single person as the only priority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:09 AM
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lol I’ll stay single. Paul could be a good choice since he seems actually like someone I’d get along with, but I’m looking to retire early. My salary will allow me to do so alone but my partner’s should as well or at least have a concrete plan of doing so. Personally choice, but the rest seem like people I’d avoid being close by on personality alone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:14 PM
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Nope. I’ll foster or adopt if I rly rly crave motherhood but not of my own. I don’t think it’s worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:19 AM
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Height: I’m 5’5 so anything above would be nice but below isn’t a deal breaker Income: idc, just not spoiled rich kid type Body type: just not in extremes( not rly skinny or obese lol) Kids: none I’m 5’5, 130lbs 18 F. Have had 3 bfs but none longer than 3 months and am still virgin. Lowkey most of my standards are personality dependent: makes me laugh, asks about my day, gives a general shit about me….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:17 AM
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4 if it can be child free 3 otherwise, although I’d really miss having a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:16 AM
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The worse part is the time in my life where I actually have some confidence to start a relationship is in the 2 months of online schooling just before summer another long 3 months.... thank you tho, I'll figure this out with time i suppose :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:27 AM
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Fair enough, thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:23 AM
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Thankfully it's closer to rigorous Catholicism, but I can meet guys in class... idk how to go further than just that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:22 AM
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They could truly bring me the ideal perfect man, but that religion is something I've worked too hard to get out of to just get back in simply to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:17 AM
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Oh sorry, read over the second "not"! I mean, I just wish to do the least damage possible. I'm fully aware most have already been in relationships and are much more experienced, so I'd like to be somewhat prepared, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:12 AM
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Not too far off, he's been forcing me do chores nonstop and threatens to stop paying for online classes, if only I was trolling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:07 AM
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Ah thanks, sadly enough I am swiftly leaving thier religion for various reasons so my father is currently beginning to process of disowning me :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:01 AM
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But if that were true, everyone would still be in their first relationship, would they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:59 AM
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