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| 4 | Would you cancel in this situation.I bet you paid for every meal. She’s using you bro. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidIt’s normal to feel it. But acting out against her is weak. Just have some self discipline and play it cool. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidShe might be a “bad texter” but after a few dates she should be acting more interested. Is she just getting free meals from you? Have you gotten physical? | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider this red flag, high maintenance?No, Spiritual-Smoke is probably right. I find such women unattractive, I don’t go for high maintenance princesses, they’re too full of them selves; but they definitely exist. When people tell you who they are, it makes sense to listen, in general. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider this red flag, high maintenance?Yeah it’s a selfishness, that would piss me off. Ill pay for a date, fine, but if they don’t say thank you that’s the last I’ll see of them. Like okay you want me to provide, but what do you offer? Sex? Most women offer that anyways in a relationship. Stay at home mom to raise my children? I don’t want kids. Basically it just boils down to a selfish, materialistic and probably lazy woman who wants a father to take care of her, not a husband or a real mate. So yeah, I wouldn’t ever go for a tradi… | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Women that aren’t experienced/flirtatiousI mean, me too. I've never dated a super shy girl. Hopefully she's not a prude in that sense (I associate "prude" with being some frigid moralist type)... just shy and unsure of herself. But she deserves love too, so if you're actually into her, yeah give it a chance! Good luck | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Women that aren’t experienced/flirtatiousI dunno, if you like her, and she seems to like you, just ask her out? Make it something pretty casual, like coffee and a walk in the park or something; and don't expect to move fast on the date. She'll probably be more open when she's relaxed more, you can even help ease the nervous tension on the date by saying your a bit nervous too, you can talk about it, I've done that and it helped both of us get by our mutual nervousness (it was my first date after getting out of a long relationship, she … | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Throw yourself in imperfectlyI’m in a class so we’re all beginners. Then we go to actual dance socials together sometimes, where many are pretty good but there are newer folks too. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Throw yourself in imperfectlyI’ve definitely met a good few awesome people, men and women. It’s a fun, hard to feel bad when you’re dancing to good music. Wish I’d started sooner. As for meeting women, results are mixed, same as any endeavor, but it’s not necessarily why I started either. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Throw yourself in imperfectlyI’ve found that learning to dance (salsa, bachata, and two-step) these last 6 months has also helped me with women. The only way to really learn dancing is to embarrass yourself in public with your inexpert moves. But it’s a ton of fun. It’s almost a perfect analogy. Though in general I’m getting older so this was sorta true anyways, I now care even less about looking a bit foolish, can laugh at myself that much more easily, and also, though I got dates and situations going before, I’m even less… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:00 AM |
| 3 | girls think i am gay, but i'm straight and attracted to women. what to do about this?This is such a weird take, lol. About fighting the manliest man of your friend group (what are you, a gorilla?), and also the part about what women like. Masculinity isn't about violence or even machismo, necessarily. But there is a polarity that needs to be established, this is true, and OP seems to be hanging out in the middle of the range, and it makes him seem gay or effeminate. But probably his #1 issue is his voice, the gay voice is a big obstacle because it's such an established associati… | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | The king does not need to tell people that they are the king.This displays very little social intelligence. | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 11:43 AM |
| 8 | I asked her out today, she told me she had a coffee with a friend but they’d love If i join. What do i do?applauds | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 11:55 AM |
| 6 | Should you be phisically fit to be sexually attractive for women?Then you need therapy, not a woman. They can sense this energy, people in general can. Attractiveness starts from within, you gotta love yourself first. Otherwise everything you do is fake, manipulative, and hollow. I’ve been there man. I will say going to the gym can help. Do it for yourself, it will give you goals and health and vigor, and reasons to feel good about yourself. And endorphins! Effects on women/your attractiveness is secondary but will come too. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 04:28 PM |
| 2 | I’m convinced you don’t need tight game to get laid, only confidence.Maybe, but it’s fun to spend a night out with her and let that tension build, and have a fun experience along the way checking out the city. Life, and even fun with women, isn’t just about sex. I dunno I kinda feel like YOURE missing the point. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 03:49 AM |
| 1 | I’m convinced you don’t need tight game to get laid, only confidence.Because women need a ramping up usually to get turned on. The night out, all the incidental touches, innuendos, compliments, etc. they rarely just show up to a place and want to fuck immediately, like men would. You can’t jump the process, and really the process is fun anyways, OP had a great night too. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Let’s hear some going same night lay success storiesSure you clearly made it work. But I avoid starting with a startle lol | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Let’s hear some going same night lay success storiesDamn you startled her. Don’t approach on the blind side man, or say “hey” first. But I guess it worked out in the end for you, so whatever. | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 07:28 PM |
| 4 | At Some Point “Day Game Sessions” start getting degenerate.I think indication of interest | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 07:21 PM |
| 3 | how do i put myself out there after a rejection?Rejection is rarely really about you. She doesn’t even know you. It’s almost more about her own inner state and status and mentality Let it go it means nothing. Even physically, okay if it’s that, well, your not her type so what? How many girls out there aren’t yours? And you can work on your body, your charisma, your personality, etc. all of it, so you have some control Really the key is what the other guy said, don’t put women on a pedestal, when you barely know them. She’s just another human,… | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 11:23 PM |
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