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Your post history shows you’ve never actually met her… right? Also you saying her height is why you want her is a funny way to say you have her on a pedestal…
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:01 PM
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It’s her way of checking whether you still think about her. If you play it cool she’ll agree to hang out in the future. Here’s the problem, you can play it cool right now and set up a date, but eventually she’ll see right through you when things start escalating. Why? Because you’re making a post about her which means you’re still in the same emotional state you were in when she ghosted you. I wouldn’t waste your time if I were you, this won’t end well unless you can play games long enough for h…
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:33 AM
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Exactly. Toxic, but she’ll be happier when she’s healthier.
/r/newTRP23/07/22 04:28 AM
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Imagine if your son comes up to you and says, “hey dad, my girlfriend fucked some guy and let him record her sucking his dick. But she’s good in bed, gives me massages, and pays for everything so I’m gonna stay 🤡”.
/r/newTRP19/07/22 10:34 AM
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May be a confidence issue. Ask yourself, “why do I not like being in the presence of countless women looking to be approached by a man”? If it’s because alcohol, that’s fine. I have a friend who can’t drink because his body reacts negatively. He physically cannot drink. Or, do you drink too much you can’t conduct yourself in a normal manner? Or, maybe alcohol isn’t the crutch you hoped it’d be to approach women. Regardless of which hypothetical I gave you, only you can answer which you resemble …
/r/newTRP17/07/22 06:53 AM
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better yet, “after a movie we can read my new bible and confess our sins in advance”
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:19 AM
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Music- when I am in a state of flow it’s almost like meditating and time flys. Can be abused though if you have too much fun and lose track of time as you need to treat it as a blessing. Lifting- feel like daddy after a nice lift. Mental cleanse from whatever was bothering me that day. Calling my friends when off from work - I do this twice a week, today I called my buddy James. We talked for 20 min and expressed how our days went. This is how to keep those you care about close.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:54 AM
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Stop being selfish and stop getting mad.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:19 PM
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Woah, wake the baby? Definitely don’t do that or she will LEAAAAAvvvvvvvveeeEeeEeeeee you. You’re right, we’re all stupid.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:14 AM
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You fucked up when you said you weren’t cool with it. Seems like a dead end, I’d withdraw attention for a week. ALL attention. She also was alpha widowed. Bro, just block her and find someone else. You are going to lose this one and be sad for a while.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:00 AM
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You’re literally supporting a felons child and not EVEN getting pussy? BRO HOLD THISSSSS L.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:56 AM
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this is what you say. “I’m gonna pass on coffee, I’m kinda busy during that time. I respect your decision and I wish you the best” I know your bitch ass wants to see her (cause I’ve been in your shoes) but it isn’t worth it. Also showing her that you aren’t interested in closure will raise any sort of value you have left. Just play the part even though you truly don’t want 2. That’s life
/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:04 AM
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You can't control her decisions toward other men. But you can control your decision TO LEAVE fucking cuckold
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:31 PM
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Stop initiating anything and reply as if you're constantly running on a busy schedule (which you should be). Also bail on plans a few times. Usually that's good enough to let them know who's in charge, but you have to set this frame FROM THE START. She might look past your new found "game" so start talking to other girls casually so you have someone available if she decides to either leave or cheat
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:28 PM
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Crying is apparently only cute if you're "alpha"?Just cry if you need to, you're human after all. Also, I doubt that's the (even if) only reason she broke up with him, just doesn't sound like a normal reason or one I've ever heard of
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:26 PM
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Fuck the hate, I liked this post a lot
/r/askTRP24/11/18 09:20 AM
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why is a transgender your only option? And too answer your question, FUCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCK NO
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:03 AM
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You must be in your late thirties early 40's?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:13 AM
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She didn't reschedule so I'd just leave it on read and hit her up in a week. If she bails again, lose her number
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:52 PM
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I'm in college and broke. I'm about to create a new Venmo and tinder under some cam girl name and photos. I'll be back in a week with photos on how it plays out, this might actually be genius 😂
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:28 AM
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1-2 a week. Don't wanna be the weirdo on campus, and after a couple you should be able to set up at least one date
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:00 PM
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It's once a week, that's not an option
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:10 AM
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Perfect. I've wasted a lot of valuable time playing back and forth just to fuck, it's never ever worth the mental hassle
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:03 AM
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You can still pipe. Don't double text her, let her respond which she will I know for a fact. When she replies, don't reply for about a week. In that week grab a couple numbers, then hit her up and make plans, if she gives you anything other than a Yes or reschedule, remove her number
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:59 AM
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Damn, you're really out here justifying anything in the name of your girl. Be thankful you can't read her mind, cause you'd be a mess lmao. No attractive girl in college will tell you the truth in terms of her n - count (or ugly) . She is not a bro, with her bros, trying to one up each other on who fucks the most. Stop being gullible, and be realistic. And like the others have said, trying to find out a women's truthful n - count is a game you WILL NOT win.... unless you plan on holding her at g…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:34 PM
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that's a tough one. Seems like you might get hurt in the end. You could either end it, or run some phenomenal dread game. Just know she's got some high value mf on call if you're not on your A game at all times and I personally wouldn't deal with a girl knowing that information. But, you know her better than we do so good luck
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:44 AM
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We've all been there once, though i never sent some lengthy beta message like that. just let him learn the hard way through experience
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:12 PM
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Still oneitis. Just a more pathetic form
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:48 AM
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Lol I told her to catch up on sleep and she asked me immediately what I'm up to tomorrow night. Red pill really got the answers 😂😂
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:12 PM
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I hear u. So just leave it at that last text saying I'll hit you sometime and never hit her up?
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:35 PM
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honestly if you guys are cool and in good terms, I don't see a big deal if you're free and able to
/r/askTRP29/09/18 04:37 PM
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I hear you, definitely gonna be smarter with the next girl.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 03:23 PM
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"cool. we can check out (bar) Friday night. I'll pick you up around 9" she wants to hang don't listen to dude saying 5 days. You only act cool when she is, but clearly she wants to see you
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:05 AM
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what's this stigma around dudes being pussy if they aren't down to fuck? I truthfully didn't mind waiting cause I don't care as much as I used to, and she brought up the fact that "we weren't having sex" so I made her stick to her word. I figured sooner or later we would so I didn't stress. I didn't expect her to think it was "rejection". I mean I usually don't do this, but that shouldn't mean I'm a pussy now cause I don't follow the "rules"
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:02 AM
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😂😂😂. I love this sub
/r/askTRP25/09/18 02:59 PM
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Yeah I'm aware. So that's why I'm not understanding any of this. I srsly think it's cause I never came over that night after I declined sex. Idk man, I'm over it now, it could be anything
/r/askTRP25/09/18 02:47 PM
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Gotchu. Yeah, she's not the brightest
/r/askTRP25/09/18 01:03 AM
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you're a doofus. she literally said verbatim, "I'm horny, let's do this". She might've not expected to be in that position and feels guilty for putting out hella soon
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:37 AM
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She said we weren't having sex. I said okay. She later is horny on top and wants to. I said nah, we agreed on next time. I didn't mind it... seriously. I enjoy the wait personally
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:31 AM
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Yeah. That's true I guess
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:33 PM
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😂
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:11 PM
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Who's the book by?
/r/askTRP23/09/18 07:37 PM
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lmao. She's bold af 😂😂😂
/r/askTRP23/09/18 07:33 PM
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Big facts
/r/askTRP22/09/18 08:17 AM
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Learning how to better manage my emotions. Ridiculous how I replied to her. I've been following TRP for 2 years. I've learned too much to react like that and I have more too learn. But someone trying to portray me as something I'm not is fucking wrong. I know what to do next time now tho and it feels good knowing that
/r/askTRP22/09/18 07:38 AM
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I'm very hip. I fucked up. Now she's out here telling ppl she rejected me. Life's great......
/r/askTRP22/09/18 12:49 AM
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Nah man, that is so right. I was just interested to see where she was mentally. Sometimes, not knowing is the best route
/r/askTRP21/09/18 07:43 PM
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Okay this makes a lot of sense shit. Like a lot, cause I pull this shit a lot. Edit: I called and apologized out of respect for flipping out after the convo ended
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:20 AM
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Yes I realize I acted out of pocket. Will definitely learn to just say okay and move on
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:17 AM
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No. I took out information so it wouldn't be long. We hung out for a while in my living room. Talked. I insisted we go to my room and I show her my music. This is all over the course of 2 hours. Then I make a move, and she says, "wow you're so confident". Clearly fine with the matter. She denies sex, so I agree. Then she asks for sex, o disagree. Then I get up cook for us, and we go back to my room. Then she drops me off.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:15 AM
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Yeah, but what's your take on reaching out now? Could she have lost interest already?
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:23 PM
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I wish, it'd be easier to justify this shit smh. Is it salvageable?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 11:46 PM
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I definitely should've not texted her that I couldn't make it over. But I felt like a dick cause she made our interaction and her getting in bed with me so easy I felt it was the least I could do. I need to stop being sympathetic towards ppl, it's hindering my success clearly
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:11 PM
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Stop wasting your time. Stop chasing. If a girl wants you, she will LET YOU KNOW
/r/askTRP15/09/18 02:09 AM
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You give him ammo by reacting childishly. People try to provoke you everyday, you can't think fighting will help (been there, done that). Either reply in a joking manner and continue your day, or watch him ruin your high - school experience. My buddy was the clown of our group in highschool because anything you'd say to him, he'd get butt hurt. And yes, they could say nothing to him and be nice, BUT THAT IS NOT HOW IT WORKS. Fix yourself up and build your frame up better, it'll ruin you if you d…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 10:12 PM
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Ignore her completely. Clearly words don't solve anything and result in an apology... till it happens again. That's literally all you can do, and try to be more active outside your home. There's plenty of things that should keep you busy like other women, school, work, and a hobby
/r/askTRP09/09/18 10:07 PM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:33 AM
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who cares. Let it out man, tf is this 'I can't cry or I'm not a man bs'. My LTR of 3 years ago found me crying in a room drunk af, she asked why and I said, "it hit me you're leaving soon'. She teared up and we hugged it out. Nothing changed in our relationship. It was also the first time I cried in front of her. What I'm saying is let it out if you feel the need to. Your mom died, it's beyond warranted. We can't continue to tell ourselves we're pussies if we cry, you can be a man and have emoti…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:16 AM
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genius haha. that couldn't not work
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:51 AM
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It's a pride thing I guess. I'm drunk and NEEDED to hear that. Thanks
/r/askTRP30/08/18 10:42 PM
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no, they give you talking points and it seems like you have a life. That's good, a lot of people don't do shit but go to school, work, lift, and watch Netflix
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:10 PM
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I don't even need to read this. Yes, it's stupid and there's no reason why you should have a desire to do so.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:09 PM
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agreed
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:36 AM
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If she can walk normal and state coherent sentences, yes. Otherwise no. It's common sense, just look at her behavior
/r/askTRP28/08/18 01:52 AM
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lmao send this
/r/askTRP24/08/18 03:42 PM
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Y'all bout to drop a mixtape 😂? Hustlejayjay85 - they gon' respeck me ft. (Sitchnatio)
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:33 PM
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DO NOT DO THAT
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:12 PM
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You played yourself. On 2 the next
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:23 AM
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Don't call back. Just shoot a text and say, "I was tied up yesterday, what's up?"
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:17 AM
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She expected you too break and you said "lol cool". Couldn't have handled it better. Keep up the good work. You probably want her badly and if you keep this good acting up, you can reverse the roles soon and truly decide if YOU want her
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:33 AM
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The only advice you need is to block her on everything without notice and get your life in order before you actually kill your self over this bitch
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:31 AM
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this is beta af bro
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:28 AM
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the only right answer
/r/askTRP17/08/18 02:15 AM
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hahaha
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:20 AM
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so pussies like you can make posts about it
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:49 AM
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Oneitis beta bitch boy: she's the best girl in the world, NOT ONE WOMAN can compare to her, I must figure out any way to make her mine forever Normal man: she's an ideal girl for me, and if things don't work out I know there's more out there
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:18 AM
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man fuck, just when I thought I knew it and heard it all, this happens. And I'm not surprised it's a thing
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 10:51 PM
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You told her you had work. She asked what you do for work. Simply tell her doofus
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:48 AM
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I feel that
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:06 PM
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Last time a girl asked me in bed, I just told her which was like a month ago, she said few weeks for her. Probably lying, didn't change anything. I don't think everything a woman says is a shit test....
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:24 AM
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You won't know in a day haha. Give it 2 months then come back to me
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:02 PM
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Being aware of your potential LTR's behavior regardless of circumstance and deeming that behavior worthy of a woman you feel fits the criteria of relationship material. Simply put, is she making your life easier, or is she making your life harder. After a few months you can decide which it is, and whether you want to drop her, or continue a relationship.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:50 PM
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literally you're overthinking this way too much. You're going to fuck up I see it. Do whatever you want, just also do this and remember this Don't be needy (every time you want to text her ask yourself, what am I hoping to accomplish? how would I feel if she sent me that text? Am I being needy? Am I trying to gain back her interest through this text or is this interaction natural and not a plan to "hopefully" get her back on track?) these questions will help you since you're still trying to figu…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:00 PM
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She's giving you a free pass to fix up your act. Get it together
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:13 PM
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you have oneitis. or atleast it's coming soon
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:11 PM
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There's no right way, every girl is going to react differently. Focus on making a good first impression, and text her the next day after noon. There's really no "too soon" if you were able to gauge her in a way that made her attracted to you. But some won't agree with me, just my perspective after a few wins and losses
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:56 PM
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Agreed brotha
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:41 PM
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you're so concise and blunt I laughed 😂
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:23 AM
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Okay buddy. Anything else you'd like to add?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:10 AM
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Appraisal? For venting my experience and seeing if anyone feels the same? Totally makes sense.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 04:22 AM
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I was bitter for a little after her, but now I'm just kinda guarded. Not vulnerable, not stupid. Not even mad with all honesty. I'm just not up for anything that seems like it's value is being inflated. And it will ruin a lot of opportunities, but it will also give me some. I chased a girl for 2 months just to sleep with her. I wasted 2 months of my life for nothing. And I'm glad I did it, cause now I see bullshit MILES away before it can reach me.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:55 AM
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after my most recent fling with this girl where I put work in and in the end ruined it (I genuinely liked her and I knew cause i wanted to hangout after sex). I've had no desire to build any connection after sex. I'll take you out, I'll have a great time, but after sex I don't want to be your friend anymore. I swear I was never like this, I don't even know when it all happened. it might be because this one chick. She made me realize a lot of my faults with girls without ever telling me. I got in…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:41 AM
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facts
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:07 PM
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She's not "valuable". She's just the only girl giving you attention. Once you have abundance, THEN you can decide who's valuable and who isn't.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:50 PM
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Cause she won't just come over, I tried once subtly and she deflected it. So I radio silence a couple days and she contacts me to hangout for the date yesterday
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:58 PM
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I did go for it, did you not read a thing I said ? I'll definitely let her know I'm not looking for anything serious though
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:30 AM
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I'm heading to college in 3 weeks, just want a nut before I go, not a plate. Thanks
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:47 AM
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I'd hangout, her interest is high and after this second date, you can start having her work around your schedule. Stop trying to play "mr alpha" all the time, go hangout with her
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:57 PM
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that can't be a real person. No wayyyyy
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:06 AM
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It's never too late to change my man. You're aware of your problems, now it's a matter of finding out how you'll leave them in the past and build a new self.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 06:40 PM
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Oh! The main sub that has 200,000 subs but only 10% actually post. Don't be pessimistic, I'm tryna have people preach their progress without being shat on for "bragging". Just have fun
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:27 AM
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my boys plate faked. Desperately trying to get even or some shit cause he actually was busy the past two weekends and bailed on her. She's still 19 so I'm not surprised she's like that. Still went out tho 💪
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:37 PM
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well aware buddy. cheers
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:53 AM
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Yeah. I'll just do my own thing. Wont even acknowledge her until I get some ioi
/r/askTRP27/07/18 11:39 PM
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word. I wouldn't be surprised if I opened up another girl and she started hitting on me. I'll post what happens, this should be interesting
/r/askTRP27/07/18 11:35 PM
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Apparently "she always brings her brother out cause he doesn't really have friends".
/r/askTRP27/07/18 11:34 PM
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this is what happens when you let autistics vote for anything
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 06:26 PM
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thanks g
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:52 AM
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did this and the girl said, "I just wanna let you know I'm not looking for a relationship". I didn't expect it, but was she trying to make me enter her frame? Or was I acting to provider like?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 04:39 AM
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You: I'm gonna make plans. Her: I'm gonna be a bitch and see how you respond. You: Show you're butt hurt Her: indifferent You: Makes plans again..... SMFH. Her: Still a bitch You: Okay, no problem. She approached you, and you got her number. Now you're validating her bad behavior and giving her attention. There's no salvaging, you showed you're a bitch already. I'm not even trying to be a dick, you are desperate. Just learn from this and fix your game up a bit, you should've said, "cool, np" aft…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:45 AM
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😂
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:44 PM
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Work on your confidence. You really have none. Regardless of how you were looking at the bus stop, you should've approached and made small talk. There's no excuse to cold approaching unless you were having a stroke
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:27 AM
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Free rent? Tf I would take it up for occasional drama. It's up to you to make big boy decisions not us
/r/askTRP20/07/18 12:39 AM
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Yeah. I was 19 at the time. It made me so uncomfortable, but I acted like it was no big deal and directed the conversation in another way. He was a officer in the marines. Won a few medals. Runs a non profit organization, wrote a book. This guy is big shit, and no one knows he likes young black boys because he's married. Weirdest shit I've ever experienced
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:12 PM
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Yeah. I met this one guy at Dunkin' Donuts. We became friends. Found out he worked at an accounting firm and he wanted to help me get an internship. After a few email exchanges regarding my goals and ambitions and working at his firm, he insinuated giving me oral. And how he likes "large black men". He's also 70 and has a wife who recently died. People always have alternative motives aside from what you may think.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:08 PM
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It's, if not, one of the most lucrative disorders only because every human has experienced one of the symptoms on the DSM scale. This leads to self diagnosing, and over diagnosed children. Easier to just live with it and keep your mouth shut about it than give knowledge to people knowing you'll only be berated. I don't blame people who are ignorant. I was about depression thinking it's all about "mindset" when in fact those with depression have brain deficiencies that can only be regulated throu…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:10 AM
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Hmu
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:23 AM
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It'd be easier to respond to this if you actually could provide sufficient evidence that it's fake aside from, "big pharma wants people to be addicted to stimulants".
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:22 AM
1

Be indifferent. Have 2-3 options at any give time. Fuck her correctly. That's the cure, and no one can say otherwise
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:14 AM
1

Yeah. I like dealing with random things like this, cause it's just more insight to not do the same thing ever down the road
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:03 PM
1

Good perspective. I was mentally handicap at the time clearly, idk why I thought it'd be a good idea
/r/askTRP15/07/18 03:56 PM
2

You tell them respectfully that if they continue insulting your mom you'll cut them off. My boy called me a nigger, and asked me why I was mad, "it was just a joke". Told him to say it again and I'd drop him forever. He never said it again I shit you not, will accidentally say "Nigga" and apologize. Just be willing to cut anyone off who doesn't respect how you deserve to be respected.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 03:49 AM
6

Don't force it. If the opportunity presents itself, go for it. I lost it at 18. And wasn't fucking regularly till 21. Anyone telling you you're a simp cause you didn't lose it at 15 or whatever pulled that statement out there ass. College is where the commodity is, that's where you'll have fun (and stds if you're autistic)
/r/askTRP14/07/18 03:41 AM
2

enjoy the process. You can't be good without being shit for a copious amount of time
/r/askTRP13/07/18 06:20 PM
1

No no that's confrontational. We haven't even gone on a date, and my minds set on hanging with friends now. If anything, I'd say, "hey, I'm going to have to reschedule. Something came up"
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:35 PM
1

you're right. I just needed it vocalized. I don't know why I was justifying Smh
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:26 PM
1

I'm thinking I should wait in case she does say, "hey I'm free at this time" so I can say we need to postpone this date. Or should I do it now and set the tone for what's up. Or just ignore her
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:22 PM
3

How did you come to this conclusion 😂 fragile masculinity huh
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:32 PM
5

Well yea, you did fine. Try to keep yourself busy so you aren't overthinking these trivial situations.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:34 AM
6

She hit you up to hangout on a later date. Stop being stupid, you know you did fine
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:23 AM
4

why are you gossiping man? Forget her, focus on YOU. And otherwise, there's no statistic answering your question. It's not quantifiable.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:20 AM
29

Everything wasn't good a week ago. You were just oblivious. Truthfully, when guys (even myself) say things were going well, idk what happened! You do know. You just ignored it till shit hit the fan. There's nothing wrong with that, it happens with guys and girls. I still do it occasionally, I'll talk to a girl and start acting in ways I know is wrong. Then when things crumble, I say, "wait, everything was so good". Just be more honest with yourself, know you probably fucked up, and you will agai…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:56 AM
7

I'm 21, single, and kidless, no ones projecting. You know your marriage is mediocre at best, but agreeing with me would make you face reality so you lie. keep it up champ, so alpha bro, go run that pathetic game since you got it all figured out
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 06:22 AM
13

I hear your last sentence clearly, but this type of game is actually ruining his life. He's summarized maybe 1/10th of what's he's truly battling. A pathetic marriage. This type of game is good when you're dating, or not committed, if I'm married I'm not making my wife cry 3 nights a week and fucking bitches each week. That's not alpha lmao, that's just ruining your families life
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:57 AM
26

this shit is toxic. I hope no one truly thinks this guys life is good. You can run game and not be a total shit head
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 02:23 AM
3

most ppl who claim they're "alpha" are not. And you have zero options. And you're "attractive" but still a virgin, so you must be socially retarded. To top it off, you've wrote the boys a college paper on a girl who didn't let you fuck for 5 months. You've got some working on yourself to do champ. Start with removing her from your life smh
/r/askTRP26/06/18 05:22 PM
1

He might as well roll the dice and hit her up. If she says no, life continues. Unless he's Brad Pitt, which he ain't, she's not searching for shit
/r/askTRP25/06/18 01:20 PM
8

Why are you asking her if she landed safely and how her new job is? I'm asking because A) you've never met. B) you're concerned about a girl you can't see for 3 months. C) shows her you have nothing better to do than make sure she's ok D) clearly have ZERO options. Do I need to go further? Who cares about the shit test. After she said she's traveling, you should've said, "I'll catch you when you're back", and left if at that.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:20 PM
6

"I'll consider it"
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:17 AM
1

Yup, finally internalizing this mindset. And it's so different from "acting" busy, being truly busy makes it natural
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:00 AM
2

okay, so it's normal. I'm used to within a week (which actually failed more than it worked). But i also did nothing and was free all the time. But I like it like this, I'm not so desperate or trying so hard to set something up
/r/askTRP20/06/18 12:21 AM
1

Honestly, personalities prolly shit cause you're a good looking guy
/r/askTRP18/06/18 10:29 PM
4

Sarcasm doofus 😂
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:08 PM
1

damn, that's rough. Yeah it's weird how she's so open about being crazy. Like excited to let me know
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:01 AM
2

one of the few times to believe what a woman says 😂😂
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:54 AM
1

Your perspective isn't even one you should have. You think getting a college degree will mean you have a job lined up at graduation? You network, you make connections, join clubs. College is just the foundation. Lifting is the foundation, you need to also socialize, meet people, join clubs, get a hobby, excel at work. Your perspective is shit
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:26 PM
6

you just wanna find an excuse to any form of progress. Keep doing that and stay stagnant then pussy. I gave you advice, I want to help you, but it takes baby steps
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:47 PM
7

Ask yourself if you'd date a girl with your body. That's the answer to your problem. Get in shape and take care of yourself
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:40 PM
2

You're thinking to much, I'm done giving advice. Good luck
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:21 AM
2

Ok bro 😂😂. Are you gonna analyze every response I say with a counter. I promise you'll be fine. But for this one, "Haha. You just love talking about sex don't ya? Get your head out the gutter, were just catching up" In reality, you can fuck if you aren't special ed. At this point just get her over and off of text
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:20 AM
1

At this point I'd say, you seem to still have feelings and forget her. But I know for a fact you wont. So I'd say, "Sounds good, don't forget the wine and we'll see where it goes"
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:33 AM
3

sure. I'd go further and say, "let's do (insert date) 8 o'clock at my place. Grab some wine on the way over. Any other response unless she offers an opposite date, you reply with IDGAF attitude and that only.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:15 AM
3

don't be saying all that extra shit. "Good to hear from you, thanks for reaching out, glad you messaged me". None of that. Don't acknowledge the "I miss you". And do not say "I miss you too". You say, "I'm free (date) let's catch up at my place, I have this bottle of wine I've been meaning to open". Don't say that verbatim, but along those lines gets the job done. Women love wine. Don't forget to buy wine either lol
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:59 AM
1

I didn't even read the post. It's not that she didn't let you escalate, it's that you don't know how to escalate properly. Keep learning
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:09 PM
2

just embarrassing case of scarcity mentality here. My biggest mistake with women is thinking I can talk to one and get away with it. I just recently understood what "abundance means" and I promise you, you'll smile when a girl flakes or a girl ignores you, cause you just won't give a shit. Stop pining over this girl, you're actually killing your self esteem as we speak
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:08 PM
1

Don't read any books. Go and talk to everyone. Understand how to socialize with anyone, regardless of race, age, gender, beliefs, you get it. I had a job in sales for 2 years. Best decision I made. Idgaf if you're having a bad day, or an amazing one, you better socialize or spark conversation with whomever. Ask millions of questions, even if you don't care. People love talking about themselves, make sure your listening and give them your undivided attention. If you can't figure out how to begin …
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:02 PM
1

Tinder is fine if you realize it's a validation tool and never overthinking messages. I either say, "let's fuck, or unmatch", or "tell me 3 interesting things about yourself and we'll see if you qualify for my number". Nothing else. I get unmatched a lot, I also sometimes get numbers. Don't take it seriously, cause women don't... and you'll be straight
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 03:04 AM
3

Essentially you're saying, "my wife is shit, I need better women to provide me with what she can't" Get a divorce bum. Your relationship is dead and you gotta stop cheating on this woman
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:45 PM
1

If you're average in looks, you can do anything if you have confidence and inner game. How ugly are you?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:34 PM
3

"This guy has been my barber for 3 years" Oneitis
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:52 PM
1

On next weeks asktrp post of the day. "Girl comes over to my house and is laying her head on my lap as we watch a movie. Is she interested? Or playing games? I hate women man, they're so hard to read. "
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:19 PM
1

well, assuming she's more invested than you right? breaking up with her would make her even more "attracted", and we know it's hard for girls to go through with no contact and remove that guy from their lives. So as they continue to try to "make it work", they believe a relationship is around the corner when in reality, they're just someone you fuck here and there
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 02:01 AM
1

Lmao. She played herself. You won buddy, get a new plate
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:43 PM
1

Even if you fucked them?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:38 PM
1

Not fwb. Like a "every 2 months lemme hit you up to fuck" kinda girl. She's blocked now. Today she came straight for my neck with the disrespect
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:44 AM
1

Nah. I went off on her. "You want me to come over when you're feeling down or need to vent, then ridicule me for being horny when you're cuddled up on me from the jump, and say shit like, "you're never going to fuck me unless we date, which won't happen". Then say "fuck you" cause I won't walk you to the library. You might be able to string along desperate guys who are apparently, "smarter, stronger, and better than me" (and I'm quoting you) but don't think for one second I need you." Her: Why d…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:30 AM
9

Because that could be you but you have no confidence in yourself so you despise guys for having the courage? just my opinion, I'm not roasting u
/r/askTRP01/05/18 11:33 PM
20

An optimist is what you are
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:14 PM
1

I was thinking "for what"? That's way too bold
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:16 PM
1

me: what's up her: "I wanted to apologize"
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:33 PM
1

Gotcha, Ima wait a few more days and hit her with a, "whats up". Ill keep you posted on how it pans out
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:03 AM
1

I was being sus after sex.,.. I'll admit. do you think she's giving my ass a second chance, or wanting an orbiter tho ?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:24 AM
1

100%. Would ignoring it fully get my message across? Or should I respond maturely that it's not gonna work right now? My thinking is no ones EVER turned her down, so this could keep her thinking down the road. So when we're back in college after summer break, I can even possibly plate her
/r/askTRP22/04/18 10:25 PM
1

also, if this is considered bragging I'll edit the intro paragraph mods! I was just giving context of what kind of girl I am dealing with
/r/askTRP22/04/18 10:12 PM
0

You 5 my guy?
/r/seduction22/04/18 06:13 AM
18

Walk up. Introduce yourself to each friend. Then introduce yourself to the one you're gaming last. After you've introduced yourself to all the hoes: look at her friends and ask, "is it cool if I flirt with your friend real quick". They usually say, "yeah" really excitedly. 10/10 always works
/r/askTRP20/04/18 09:07 PM
1

This is how I view because I've been 3 guys in a relationship/talking phase with women. This guy is the nice/needy guy. He manages to land a dime (god knows how) and acts overtly nice to her. He tells her everything about her that he loves. He constantly initiates contact, and reminds her that he's available whenever she wants to hangout. This man is NICE because he doesn't respect himself enough to be honest with whomever he's sexually with. And is NEEDY because he believes she's the only one w…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 02:13 AM
1

Are you asking if I showed neediness? Or if you should never show neediness? I'll answer once we clear that up
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 12:38 AM
2

Bruh, you might have Ebola now 🤢
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:30 PM
14

If there's one aspect of my game that I need to work on, it's neediness. And it's sad cause I'm good at getting them comfortable and fucking. But the second she starts showing a BIT of pull, I initiate contact. It's all about patience and abundance on god. I seriously had this bitch on a leash, she really liked me... but I was so concerned about keeping her around that I in return fucked myself over. And the funny thing is, I wasn't even weirdly needy. I was doing my own thing, she was initiatin…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 02:19 PM
4

you are indirectly talking to her pussy though if you think about it
/r/seduction17/04/18 07:12 PM
31

First off. Delete this post, what made you think this was a good idea. Second, talk to her pussy.
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:07 PM
4

If you can't articulate how you write, what does that mean when you speak to women? Work on that
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:18 PM
1

trying* to. If she feels obligated to announce it, it means she's insecure and trying to PROVE worth.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:24 AM
3

My ex used to do that after I ended things. We took a long break from each other, then she'd hit me up to grab coffee and food. She'd always do it and I'd tell her to go fuck them, have fun. But there was one instance where I didn't tolerate it. She said, "blah blah blah is so hot, id fuck him". Mind you, this was my best friend. I remember vividly looking her in the face (we were actually in the library doing homework) and said, "are you fucking stupid, what do you gain from telling me that?" F…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:24 PM
4

😂😂
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:09 AM
1

Word
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:28 PM
1

Let him learn the hard way
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:22 AM
6

Why haven't you asked to hangout?? Few weeks?? My nigga, you're buggin....
/r/askTRP14/04/18 12:40 AM
1

Lmao, when did I whine about fucking her. I'm complaining about my inability to keep things going positively between me and her, and I got advice. My assumption is you're still a virgin and hate the idea that guys fuck but you don't. And that's cool, just stop projecting your insecurities out here. Own it like a big boy
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:36 PM
1

Why are you so uptight. Seriously, I was stuck and asked for help. Quit crying like a big ol baby. And thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:41 PM
1

whether you believe me or not is up to you. I'm not here to convince you. I'm here to figure out how I went wrong and what to do next. Mainly cause my mind wants to keep being persistent. But thanks again for the laugh
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:41 PM
1

You're right man. Just rough cause it took me damn near 2 months to fuck her, and I've never been this determined to get a girl. And now I'm not even satisfied and want more....
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:02 AM
1

we fucked. But that was hilarious haha
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:47 AM
1

For sure. I only have her snap and cell, but I deleted her cell so I wouldn't be tempted to hit her up. But blocking on snap will seem like I'm hurt
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:28 AM
2

Our personalities are concrete (occasionally cracking) in such that we are what we do 99% of the time, but to say we're perfect in who we are is ludicrous. We mess up, we learn a little more, then we mess up again, and learn a little more. No ones personality is ever stagnant whether they want it to be or not.
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:35 PM
8

Tagged along and never entertain her there on out. His approach was really admirable cause it's something we all should strive to do. I wouldn't say I'm agreeable in the slightest; that truly gets you no where in life, but there's still situations that I have FULL control over in which I disregard my true intentions in hopes of a better future. He was true to his intentions and disregarded the outcome because he knew exactly what he wanted. That's integrity. No matter how minuscule the scenario …
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:28 PM
58

Boss shit. I wouldn't have even done that
/r/seduction11/04/18 12:38 PM
2

Aight
/r/seduction08/04/18 10:50 PM
1

cause it wouldn't bother me, and she's hot
/r/seduction08/04/18 10:47 PM
3

This is spot on. Explains why I've fucked up good situations.
/r/seduction07/04/18 03:56 PM
17

The ppl of r/seduction have spoken. We leaving that ass on read
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:29 PM
19

She hit me up on Snapchat. Y'all saying open it and don't reply? 2 upvotes I'll open and not reply lmao
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:18 PM
3

I hit it though. Don't get it twisted lol. But I feel ya, she definitely gets a high from the attention
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:15 PM
17

Word. I just needed to hear someone else say it
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:07 PM
9

bruh. it's annoying tho. I back off right, let's say a day OR 2. And then she contacts me trying to start conversation. Then I divert the convo too a hangout because IM NOT TRYNA FUCKING TALK THROUGH TEXT, and she says..: "I wish but I'm busy with school work :(". NIGGA. NO YOU NOT! QUIT PLAYIN WIT MY EMOTIONS IM TRYN CUDDLE GAT DAMMIT
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:06 PM
5

No. Nothing's ever to big for girls like her, but something's are tooo small
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 04:30 PM
6

I sent it to a whore actually. She asked me how big my dick was cause that's all she wanted to know (WHORE), so I sent it and she came over that same night. Outside of that I would never send a dick pic. It's pointless
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 04:24 PM
6

damn. good shit, really gave me a whole new perspective, cause I was feeling empathy towards this bitch. phew
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 04:04 PM
3

Yea, but in the process of doing it, it's a lot easier if you aren't a sped and dress well
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 03:58 PM
10

I got lucky and it changed my view. I went downtown with 2 buddies. They ended doing their own thing that night. Instead of going home I small talked with a dude who was their with 4 of his bros. They told me I could bar hop with them. Added a couple on Snapchat. So my take is people are welcoming if you dress decently, and can hold a conversation. You got it bro
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 02:29 PM
1

Yeah, stupid call on my part. We both know what's going on, I just brought it to the table like a fool. Soft next till the times right I guess
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:21 PM
2

he really played himself Lmao
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:54 PM
1

if you pay, you have too send me your address cause we're fighting
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:41 PM
1

thats normal. every dude was like that at one point. shit. I remember vividly this one date, I was trembling, socially inept. All because she was cute and I wanted it to be CALCULATED. glad that happened tho, I've learned a lot since. go into it and learn from it. and if you manage to fake it till you make it. HATS OFF TO YOU BRO
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:31 PM
3

Man, if you're like this dont go on the date. I used to be like this and I would just fuck it up. You just go, and talk, and learn a little about each other. If you try to make calcualted moves (do EVERYTHING RIGHT) youre just going to fuck it up. THERES NO right way, be yourself and do shit in your free time so you have experiences to talk about
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:19 PM
1

plus one. Well said my man
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:15 PM
2

" one ugly unfuckable girl" lmao brutal
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:05 PM
6

word. I gotta control my emotions, I'm slightly embarassed about it, but it's a learning experience
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:55 PM
4

but did I fuck up by calling her out? I usually play calm, but her bullsht about falling asleep after asking me if she could come over pissed me off, then the next day, she ignores my text when she usually replies in a respectful time.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:46 PM
1

Honestly. The fact that she expects you to message her first says a lot about her inability to be mature in a relationship
/r/askTRP23/03/18 06:25 PM
2

Fr. Homie gives no fucks 😂
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:19 PM
4

Surprise me one is perfect
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:25 PM
1

bad move? Also this is a first w her
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:15 AM
1

You got it. It ain't easy, but when you do it once, it gets easier the next time, and the time after. Uncomfortable Boys 2K18 is the new slogan
/r/seduction31/01/18 03:00 PM
1

And this was my first actual really successful weekend. Usually I don't confront or get rejected with the "I have a boyfriend". So just keep practicing. Sooner or later things will fall in place.
/r/seduction31/01/18 06:44 AM
1

I'll give it to you as simple as possible. There is no science. Watching videos and "learning" only gave me the courage to actually put myself out there. Use videos as a means to fuel yourself to get uncomfortable and confront, but not to copy. I'll take a couple shots with my friends at a function or day drink, enjoy myself, then I'll go around trying to finesse. Dress well, drink some alcohol and DO NOT try to muster up some quick phrase you plan to say. It has to be natural. I don't have a wi…
/r/seduction31/01/18 06:34 AM
1

using rejection as a means to talk to someone else. I wouldn't say I have "next level" game. But after doing the same same thing continuously each weekend, you just slowly get into the groove.
/r/seduction30/01/18 05:39 PM
10

Is this the definition of a wingman
/r/seduction23/09/17 07:36 AM
1

sometimes I come here to read self motivation posts, but then I come here and read some weird shit like this. No one can fix this but yourself... tf
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 05:28 AM
2

Sounds like you have low self esteem. Work on that instead of writing long posts that have no credibility, and are sweeping generalizations
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 08:46 PM
2

"Looked like I shot her mom" 😂
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 07:32 PM
2

This is solid, great write up
/r/seduction24/04/17 04:59 AM
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