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47

I have had a number of female bosses and never had a problem. One even quietly paid me much more. Turns out they need results on the books.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 11:27 AM
41

For implying that some women, like men, can be evil. I was careful to say this applied to both sexs and to state that the moral spectrum in both sexes was broad.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:59 AM
2

While I am not gay, they seem to be. Male gay couples have lower divorce rates that heterosexual relationships and than female gay couples. Female gay couples have the highest divorce rate.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 10:51 AM
14

Top 1%
/r/MensRights26/03/25 05:07 PM
3

To be clear, this is being created by activists who identify as feminists to specifically get everybody mad. This is not a serious bill, but rather part of the left wing political circus.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 04:01 PM
14

America is only a flight away.
/r/MensRights03/02/25 08:30 PM
5

Not even that. She told you she thinks you might be a rapist. Distance is an excellent idea
/r/MensRights03/02/25 12:07 PM
11

Just a side note here. In terms of alignment, in a normal campaign, Drow are considered Chaotic Evil.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 04:14 PM
22

Never argue with racists or sexists. It's like wrestling in the mud with a pig. All it does is make the pig mad and get mud all over you.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 06:11 PM
7

It was coined by a psychologist with father issues who saw the more masculine traits he himself didn't have as somehow problematic. It's hardly a surprise that feminism with similar issues has seized on the concept. Masculinity isn't toxic. Period. There is a necessary time and place for those traits many decry as toxic. Without them we wouldn't be free.
/r/MensRights30/11/24 08:55 PM
24

It was coined by a psychologist with father issues who saw the more masculine traits he himself didn't have as somehow problematic. It's hardly a surprise that feminism with similar issues has seized on the concept. Masculinity isn't toxic. Period. There is a necessary time and place for those traits many decry as toxic. Without them we wouldn't be free.
/r/MensRights30/11/24 08:55 PM
3

While I think the Democrats were generally insulting to men, I think that is only part of the reason they lost. Their appeal to women was particularly insulting. They basically came up with handmaid's tale like scenarios and told women the only thing about them that mattered was their womb. That's not a winning strategy. Women are as complex as men and ask about things such as policy, foreign and domestic affairs, economy, etc. While they did win the female vote, it was by a narrower margin than…
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:15 PM
4

Need? Likely not. A good woman can make life so much better though. As a counterpoint, a bad woman can create hell on earth.
/r/MensRights21/10/24 01:23 PM
6

I once at my grandparents' house as a young 20 something, and the local kids started playing around my car in the street with skateboards, balls, etc. This was a street where everyone parked on the same side, and I was parked appropriately. Yelling at them was clearly not going to work, so I just took a picture of them in case one of them damaged my car. I was on our property at the time. She later called the police on me, claiming I was stalking her kids. When the cops heard from us and neighbo…
/r/MensRights31/08/24 04:06 PM
5

Actually no. Any speech that promotes violence is not protected by freedom of speech under our laws.
/r/MensRights25/08/24 02:35 PM
-1

I'm sorry. I can't help you with your particular kink.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 10:38 PM
2

I am quite a decent cook. Learned to cook once I was older. Primarily from books and video's.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 10:27 PM
1

I'm guessing she has poor people skills.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 10:34 PM
9

Excellent, as always.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 04:38 PM
3

Well...I wear kilts when not on the job. To be fair my job is fairly blue collar and loose clothing is dangerous to health.
/r/MensRights15/05/24 07:45 AM
3

I got Fatherland - Work - Order, with a dash of Pragmatist. I was 26% Constructivist Vs 62% essentials 15% Internationalism Vs 67% nationalism 21% Communist Vs 60% Capitalism 17% Ecology Vs 64% Production. None of my others scores even breached 60%. I was also 50% progressive Vs 24% Conservative. Not sure what I think of the test. It was oddly worded and did seem to have some biased questions. Certain questions used what might politely be called double speak and made me doubt that all who took i…
/r/MensRights26/03/24 04:06 PM
18

No...but not because it didn't try to. Ironically the "Woke" movement has made people far more aware misandry is real. It's an outcome they didn't intend, but a welcome one.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 12:37 AM
2

I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was discussing my experience with a feminist. Have a good day.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 04:02 PM
3

Considering I was a young child at the time... As for the rest, I care not. Her case is hardly unique as it used to be. Stories of bad behavior by women are shockingly common. If you or others chose not to believe me, worry not. There are many similar stories you can easily verify that you can point to. This post was asking for personal experiences. This is mine.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 02:49 PM
14

What part of I would prefer not to be identified is a mystery to you.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 12:24 AM
11

Yes. It was my mother who did so. It eventually resulted in the death of my father. The details are gruesome and specific enough to identify me, so I would prefer to not get into them. Some of them she did personally and others she convinced her multiple boyfriends, with whom she was cheating on my father, to do for her. She was, and is, a Devil that walks in sheep's clothing. The case was extraordinary enough she went to prison. She is still there to this day.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 10:53 PM
4

I may have different thoughts on this one. I am all for days, but I like to have little celebrations all year long. Months for something become annoying and useless. In regards to women's days, I think they should have one primary day when we can celebrate them. By equal measure, celebrating men on international men's day is also a good idea. That being said I tend to enjoy celebrations more. If the goal of the day becomes sermonizing I tend to do what atheists have done with Easter. I either re…
/r/MensRights02/03/24 04:41 PM
3

I thought he did. I just checked. I stand corrected on that point. Seems she wasn't very successful in her murder attempt.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 12:18 AM
1

How did Hitler, Lenin, or Mao kill so many?
/r/MensRights21/02/24 11:37 PM
3

The feminists that call for the genocide of males exceeding 10% of the population by calling forth the phrase that championed such a dark cause. That phrase is, "The future is Female." Sally Miller Gearhart first coined it and connected it to such dark purposes. She, also, is considered a seminal founder of modern feminism.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 10:10 PM
5

That is, if one believes all the claims of "The Future is Female," it is effectively a disturbing call for mass genocide solely to ensure men cannot hold power. That is disturbing. It makes Hitler look like a relatively harmless character by comparison, at least if these ideas were implemented. Such statements being used so freely by media in this time are a demonstration of their true goals.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 07:08 PM
15

This is the simplest critique to answer. Valerie Solanas wrote the S.C.U.M. (Society for Cutting Up Men) Manifesto. Later when she killed Andy Warhol she told people to read her book to understand her. The book in question has featured in theater, movie, music, and literature productions. It is defended by prominent feminists who claim that it is not literal, but a brilliant bit of satire, despite both the claims and actions of its original writer. It could be argued to be one of the single most…
/r/MensRights21/02/24 01:41 PM
9

Excellent work, as always
/r/MensRights29/01/24 06:30 PM
4

That may be your problem. Read Sun-Tzu. Never let your opponent choose the battlefield. By doing so, you may have already lost. Randomly fighting anywhere is useless. Choose the time and place you fight in a way that favors you, not your opponent. Such things are not about what's fair but what's effective. Be strategic.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 02:03 PM
7

I advocate for actual equality. It is amusing to hear misadrist advocate for inequality and claim that somehow benefits everyone. It's called taking the moral high ground.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 01:09 PM
8

They likely should. This being said I think it is simpler to take a practical view. Regardless of what "should" happen we have to live in a world of what does happen. The costs to protect yourself are minor compared to the potential cost of not doing so.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:45 PM
78

While it might cost a small amount, if you are going to be performing vaginal sex talk to your doctor about a wide ranging HPV vaccine. You can do oral and protect your health.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 04:12 AM
88

So...here is a useful study on this issue. This being said, if you are going to graded on it I would suggest avoiding direct conflict with your teachers. They don't treat those that question the leading ideology well.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 01:34 PM
23

Trust me. They complain if you go too long as well. This isn't a flex. I have had to stop before orgasm many times because I tired my partner out. This may sound good...but one does hope to achieve orgasm. On the one hand I understand the feelings here. On the other hand, sex is by nature a two person job. This should mean you want your partner to have pleasure as well. You generally go to extra lengths, if you will pardon the pun, to please your partner. If you aren't willing to consider your s…
/r/MensRights10/01/24 12:02 PM
2

It depends on whether I thought her life was in danger or not. If it was, then I would help and damn the consequences. If it wasn't, then I might take the time to phone the police and let them intervene. This, by the way, is what I would also do if it was a man. Karma is harsh. While society has made it dangerous to help others, sometimes you must if you are to be able to have a better soul.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 03:56 PM
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I don't like the concept of men's rights. I think long-term it could fall into the same sexist trap that feminism has. Equal rights....that I can back.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 07:29 PM
11

To be fair....feminists have pretty much made it their goal to destroy equal rights. It would be hard to have conversations that don't acknowledge that. Can I imagine equality without specifically referring to either sex though? Aye. It's easy to do.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:12 AM
5

Actual equal rights under the law, fair trials, assumption of innocence rather than guilt. All trials based on someone feeling threatened or other such criteria would have to have evidence of actual threats being issued, not merely what someone felt. Deeds would be valued and judged far more harshly than words. Contracts, including verbal contracts would be considered ironclad, if recorded. You could trade goods or services for sex, but you couldn't withdraw your consent after the fact. Your bes…
/r/MensRights14/12/23 02:19 PM
1

The flimsier the product, the higher the price! Rule of Acquisition 82 Learn the customer's weakness, so you can better take advantage of them! -Rule of Acquisition 87
/r/MensRights13/12/23 07:50 AM
3

Don't adopt their language. There is nothing toxic about masculinity.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 06:00 AM
2

Not in my experience...but I wouldn't go too much on that. I know lots of "Artsy" types. Male or female, that type seems to thrive on chaos.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 05:13 AM
10

I was thinking the same. I am part of some large, primarily male groups. Aside from passing references to a partners health or job, they are simply not brought up at all.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 03:02 PM
4

You missed the point. It doesn't matter if you want to fuck me. It doesn't matter if I want to fuck you. Whether I like it or not, and I don't, taking into account just how sensitive our society is about sexual issues in general, for men or women, does matter.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 07:02 PM
2

Speaking as a straight guy, I see your problems as being a mix of ones that are legit and ones that aren't. It is perhaps better to explain my relationship to women. In doing so, it will make your situation clearer. I am a happily married man. No, I am not wholly sure how my marriage is so successful, but I feel blessed that it is. I have a number of other female friends, but aside from work, social, or family events, I rarely spend time with them. This is not because I hate women. This is becau…
/r/MensRights11/11/23 05:03 PM
6

I would say yes, but also no. I hesitate to use terms such as "blue party." Instead we need to take a look at philosophy of liberalism, and how it was twisted by feminism. Liberalism, as originally accepted, was an interesting mix of enlightenment ideas combined with what me described as a 'liberal' live and let live policy. You should be free to do whatever you want, as long as it wouldn't hurt others. Speech, under this philosophy could not harm unless you were directly calling for violence, s…
/r/MensRights10/11/23 12:18 PM
12

True. The best solution is to remove any hint of alimony all together.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 09:59 AM
23

Join the Foreign Legion
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:45 PM
7

Learn more, do more, become competent, achieve mastery. Become so good they can't ignore you.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 08:16 PM
1

Speak for yourself.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 12:03 AM
11

Why is slavery a stretch? What is slavery but forcing others to work for someone else's benefit and generally not be able to profit from their own labor?
/r/MensRights01/10/23 06:01 PM
24

So...those headlines are already happening.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 01:12 PM
3

I was actually careful not to conflate those ideas, instead making a point of asking you to address thoughts from either spectrum. Your unwillingness or lack of ability to do so tells all what level of discourse to expect from you.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:58 AM
1

For our edification feel free to regurgitate any specific views, either political or philosophical you disagree with that he holds. Just because I hold his views in high esteem, doesn't mean I always agree with him politically. His weakest political position, in my estimation, is on his unwillingness to wholly back military action in Ukraine. His primary reason there is fear of a nuclear conflict. While I have to acknowledge his underlying reasons, I think his logic would eventually lead to givi…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:52 AM
4

I was considering ignoring your comment entirely since it is clearly either an intentional misconstrued version of his work or a radical misunderstanding of it. I won't continue a long form conversation with you, but I will address the single cogent point you made. Peterson doesn’t advocate for either God's existence or God's non-existance. He does advocate for living life as though in service to a higher power. He unabashedly cites scientific data, psychological data, historical outcomes of suc…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:19 AM
2

Such a unique perspective. You clearly want advice from a specific non-traditional perspective. What kind of non-traditional model do you advocate for?
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:04 AM
0

May I introduce you to "12 Rules for Life," by Jordan Peterson?
/r/MensRights28/09/23 04:34 AM
3

Not a lot. I think this is merely a discussion of double standards and strategies on how to counter them.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 03:58 PM
9

I would say they already are. They are fighting for the equal right to children. They are fighting to be fathers. People like Jordan Peterson have laid out visions of what leadership in a community looks like. Ethical behavior for a fulfilling life. Perhaps what you should be asking is at what point is it no longer the responsibility of the community but the individual. Since the community has already done its bit, I would say that time has already come.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 10:52 AM
11

They aren't. In general, they are the oppressors. This may not be true individually, but as an interest group feminism has certainly bent this way.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 08:03 AM
1

More like every week or two myself.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 09:59 PM
7

One of the issues I have seen in the past is women appearing years after the fact, usually once a person is rich or famous, and then finally making these claims. In this case, there is at least one incident, according to the article, that the act in question was reported to police the same day. While I do think we should always be skeptical of claims unsupported by evidence, this does not appear to be the case here.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 08:32 PM
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As long as they leave children alone, these are huge decisions and can have horrendous health effects that literally last a lifetime, I am so neutral in regard to this as to not care. I simply do not think that minors have the maturity or even basic understanding to make such permanent life altering decisions. As an adult if you want to do this to yourself, that's your own business.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:19 AM
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I'm a bit older myself. I got one in my late 20's. I literally had doctors almost refuse to do it when they found I had no children. The reaction from women was...mixed. Keep in mind I'm from the generation where sex was safe and drugs weren't. Some women were, frankly, appalled. Some women thought it was pretty much the best thing in the world and wanted to date me. The difference was so stark it pretty amazing. I would say it was about 60%/40%.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 07:00 PM
4

This is pure B.S. Both men and women love being cooked for it's a romantic gesture, not a power play. Sometimes romantic gestures are rejected. It happens. Someone who isn't comfortable with such a gentle gesture will likely be uncomfortable with anything else as well.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:13 PM
1

May I introduce you to...D&D.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:36 PM
2

Advocate for equal rights and equal treatment under the law. Vote in a similar way. Don't let anyone, men or women, convince you any other position serves the "greater good."
/r/MensRights03/08/23 03:06 PM
2

This is wonderful. Women are now self filtering for stupidity. How can we promote this!
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:32 PM
3

Sounds like a healthy relationship, my friend.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:09 PM
29

Asking them to bear similar burdens is lacking empathy? Huh....? I thought that was equality.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 06:06 PM
3

I must not be most men. When I was younger I had two different stalkers.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 08:38 PM
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So here's the deal. Professional help is always good if you can get it, but you aren't wrong, it's harder to get for men. You do have two in built advantages though. Firstly most places have hobbies or other scenes that are male dominated. They won't say women aren't allowed, but women tend to self exclude. Bros, real guy friends, are great for long-term mental health. If nothing else, they will at least listen and offer advice. That being said, men are different than women. Women generally want…
/r/MensRights09/06/23 11:22 AM
2

You can moderate how hard you hit, but this much easier to do if you have experience in things like martial arts or boxing.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 12:50 AM
5

In addition to therapy, not to replace it, just as a supplement, try exercise. A regular exercise routine leads to increases in natural dopamine, which makes us all feel happier.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 06:11 AM
47

Don't help someone like this. Just smile and nod, pretending her point is valid.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 12:19 AM
-3

Let's be honest here, while this viewpoint isn't the most ideal, it is understandable. Few individuals care about issues that don't impact them. If we can show them how these issues impact them negatively, they are more likely to become our allies. So they aren't children of Ghandi. Who is?
/r/MensRights11/05/23 07:46 AM
1

Not according to faithful Children of Feminism. Such religious bigotry is their inheritance.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:42 AM
7

In my experience legal remedies aren't applied equally and are unlikely to stop these women. The best solution is to start similar groups that track women and post honest reviews of the women in question. Even by that standard some will be insane. When they try and go after only the men's groups threaten a lawsuit based on sexist treatment until they go after the women's groups too.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:22 AM
3

The criticism over healthcare is legit. That's an interesting conundrum, no? Freedom or healthcare. Chose wisely.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 12:26 PM
7

So...welcome to the old US of A. It ain't perfect, but it's better than Canada.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 03:57 AM
1

And the lesson is...never ever get involved with someone you work with. I truly feel bad for you, but you pretty much were doomed from the moment you let this relationship begin. The Mike Pence Rule
/r/MensRights27/03/23 03:42 PM
23

Yes, or so it appears.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 07:35 AM
3

It's true. I think the best we can realistically hope for is gyms with environments that specifically cater to men...complete with cameras everywhere just in case you still have to deal with the rare sexual harassment claim from time to time.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 09:57 AM
2

We can still use men in America. Particularly if you are actually physically healthy and can join our armed forces. Welcome to the old US of A.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 06:24 PM
2

You are, in essence advocating for male slavery. You just don't like to admit it. To amuse myself I will answer your questions and prove the point. How does an abortion ban protect bodily autonomy? For women it harms it. For men it is less clear. It now makes the seed they provide have value and their decision to have sex has substantially more impact?. In essence they now have autonomy over their own seed. In your argument they have none. Your question regarding financial responsibility, as you…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 08:26 AM
3

I am not wholly convinced you read anything I wrote. I did not speak either against or for abortion. To give personal context I find it a gray issue burdened with massive moral complexities. I am against the arbitrary death of life, but understand that instances such as rape, incest, life of the mother, genetic diseases, and other factors might reasonably justify it. As such I fall on both sides of the fence. Addressing your reading comprehension, however, if you accept abortion as a 'right' the…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 07:53 AM
1

If the argument were only that simple. Allow me to paint this by the numbers. Your assessment is that women's rights will be impacted by 'forcing' them to take a pregnancy to term. Essentially you are marking a normal biological process as unnecessary and even defending the choice to terminate a baby as a 'right.' For the sake of argument of women now have such vast powers over their own biological process you are arguing that such power becomes not only an option, say in the case of rape, but a…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 07:40 AM
2

Another step in our mad path towards the total destruction of the family.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 09:36 PM
2

Welcome to Dungeons & Dragons!
/r/MensRights17/03/23 12:59 PM
4

I'm going to take a different tack. This falls under the 'golden rule' of do unto others what you would wish done to you. I will wish women well for today. I will also wish men well in November.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 01:42 PM
6

I think women are self sabotaging themselves here. I don't know if I will ever have a visible 'six pack,' but I can tell you that I am working out regularly in hopes of getting there. I am a long ways away, but one has to have goals. The simple truth is both men and women benefit from being fitter. We do not want to be equal in denying reality. We shouldn't make fun of or deride people that aren't taking care of themselves, but rather we should offer a positive you can do it attitude. There is v…
/r/MensRights05/03/23 08:45 PM
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I could beat a dead horse to death, but most of the other posters have already done a better job than me here. Allow me instead to offer an example of a "healthy" relationship with a woman. This isn't theoretical. I have been with the same lady for almost twenty years now and I do love her. For that matter, she loves me. That being said the emotional 'balance,' if you will has never been equal. From the beginning I have been, and still am, expected to treat her emotions as valid...even when they…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 05:31 AM
1

I consider myself a centrist. My conservative tendencies value things like family and marriage, though I have eventually conceded that the current legal framework for marriage is so corrupt and malicious that I would no longer suggest it or even view it as a form of traditional marriage. I value ideas like being fiscally conservative and freedom of religion. I do think that the right to bear arms is key to preserving our freedoms, though I do think this right can be abused and that some behavior…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 11:54 PM
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This is a fairly stupid argument. Women are just as intellectually capable as men. While it's true they tend to be more agreeable, that strategy sometimes, though not always, can be more effective in businesses. I am not a men's rights activists because it breeds this kind of misogyny. I equally am not a feminist because it creates a similar amount of misandry. I am an equalist and this kind of hogwash is not only unhelpful but divisive in the worst possible way. A lot of businesses fail. In fac…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:27 PM
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Equal treatment under the law.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 06:43 PM
5

In the west? I don't think so. Age might be a factor, but ask one man above the age of 30 about how divorce treats men, male parental rights, or even whether marriage legally disadvantages men. Across political spectrums you will find a surprising unity of voices when it comes to men. Don't believe it? Look at declining martial and birth rates. These aren't accidents. They are symptoms of our 'lived experience.'
/r/MensRights13/02/23 05:56 AM
2

You say this as though everything except your last sentence hasn't already occurred.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 05:10 AM
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I honestly agree. I have and will continue to refer to myself as an equalist. This is because I think modern feminism has cleary taken its goal as subjugation of men, while claiming they want equality. I do want equality under the law. I think long term equality is the best and most lasting solution. While I have had some absolutely nightmarish women in my life and have been sexually harrassed & assaulted, though not raped. I have also had some amazing women in my life. My wife is one such woman…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:47 AM
18

Equity in action!
/r/MensRights08/02/23 07:11 AM
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While I think draft and conscription laws should reflect equality, we don't need to put women on the front lines. Front line grunts often have strenuous physical demands. Only those who can meet those standards should be there, men and women alike. It would be fair to point out its hard for many women to meet those standards. This isn't false. Napoleon pointed out that an army lived on its stomach. This is still wholly true. Our logistics and supply units are the lifeblood of the modern military…
/r/MensRights26/01/23 05:15 PM
1

I think, like most issues of sexuality, it's about consent. If the performer feels fine in exhibiting their sexuality that's cool. Let's be honest here. Sex sells. Women have been getting naked for a long time to get attention. In an equality based world we would need to apply the same standards to men. All the same standards. What I men to infer by that last sentence if that if a woman is pressured into such a role against her will, this is generally as prosecutable sexual harassment. The same …
/r/MensRights30/12/22 03:03 PM
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I work nightmarishly long hours, but oft find myself taking care of the chores. My wife works about a third of the time I do, but cannot get anything done. I watched her work. It's not malicious. She is just shockingly slow at such chores.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 11:03 AM
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This was surprisingly well thought out. I don't think I have ever seen it so clearly stated before. It seems such a clear example of sexism to have songs popularizing women's sexual needs, such as WAP (Wet Ass Pussy,) yet at the same time have them arguing in the UK that even the act of men looking at a woman to long may soon criminalized as sexual harassment via staring in the UK. The ability of one side to express their sexual desires and needs on every level and the other side being criminali…
/r/MensRights23/12/22 10:55 AM
2

While I have seen numbers like that thrown around, they don't seem to have substantiation. Homicides in the US, according to 2020 data seem to be approximately 87 percent committed by men. It would be fair to say men commit the greater share, but not 98%.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 07:57 AM
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I don't call myself a men's rights advocate because I see it oft taking the same path as feminism. Feminism got to where it is by taking a US vs Them approach. This approach led to hatred and vilification of their perceived enemy i.e. men. It defines feminism more than ever today. The men's rights movement seems to be inadvertently adopting the same philosophy. I call myself an equalist because it expresses my views thoroughly. I do have an issue with women being treated substantially better tha…
/r/MensRights20/12/22 08:41 AM
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This article was indeed misandric. It, however, did make a good point. Sexual objectification is natural. I don't disagree with that. I don't even disagree with the concept that men can handle it. All things being equal, women can handle it too.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 01:46 PM
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Well...if you lived in such a place where you dare not lift your gaze to your matriarchal masters, make it impossible to prove that you did. I personally would suggest a cyberpunk face mask.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 01:34 PM
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It's possible. I randomly respond to things on here every week or two.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 04:42 PM
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While I don't disagree with you about their lack of respect for women, that begs the question, has feminism made things better or worse for women. While different groups offer differing perspectives on why, recent studies show women are more unhappy now than ever before. Men, despite claims to the contrary, are committing suicides at an unbelievable pace. In essence the modern feminist world has been a nightmare for both sexes. Men faced with such a nightmare while being almost universally derid…
/r/MensRights07/12/22 01:13 PM
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Speaking as a truck driver...in three weeks half the world's remaining population would be in full starvation. That's a conservative estimate, it could be quicker.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 01:38 PM
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It's worse than that. It's likely most of these posts were made by feminists trying to claim this is how men think.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 08:19 AM
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Happy Men's Day Haiku Men are strong from birth They dream, love, make, and create Beacons in the night
/r/MensRights19/11/22 12:30 PM
6

I didn't suggest we shouldn't fight. I suggested we hold ourselves to a higher code of honor.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 12:07 PM
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To uphold a higher standard you have to hold a higher moral standard. To try and combat a monster by becoming that monster debases us all. For an easily understood example you could say that the allied forces had to fight brutally and even barbarically to defeat the axis powers. They did, however, not have to become the Nazi's and open death camps, nor did they need to follow the example of the Japanese in something like the the rape of Nanking. Thankfully they didn't. We do have to fight femini…
/r/MensRights18/11/22 11:52 AM
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We cannot return hate for hate. It would debase us.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 11:37 AM
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In answer to your question, approximately in the last 10 years. Racism and sexism in the form of white hatred and hatred of men has become rampant in our society. Feminism can be blamed for the sexist attitudes towards men, but the only group that seems to push the agenda of white hatred is the far left. The excuse for their attitudes and behavior is that they are part of the 'oppressed' groups. Phrases like this mean it's time to go back to basics. Here is a dictionary definition of the word op…
/r/MensRights17/11/22 09:42 AM
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I already answered your questions and I note, you answered none of mine. That being said I will pick one of the stories you mentioned and make the point you are clearly avoiding. Cinderella is an example of the Disney princess story you are clearly obsessed with. Is the love story core to that story, to be fair yes...and no. The first three quarters of the story is about the tragedy that has befallen Cinderella. The last quarter is not primarily about her love story, but rather how love allows h…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:55 AM
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I think the big mistake a number of people make in Hollywood is one you are making yourself. You are taking a very small subset of children's stories and equating them to all children's stories. The second big mistake they make is trying to rewrite beloved stories, which people negatively react to as you are changing what they love. A much better tactic, assuming you wanted to write stories of the kind you are focused on would be to offer new stories rather than changing old ones. The reality, a…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:40 AM
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As long as their sexuality isn't the primary emphasis, I don't think it matters.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:30 AM
14

After reading more of your comments here, it’s fairly clear this is a troll account. While it's wholly possible you encountered a single jackass, most people advocating men's rights have zero issues with homosexuality. You ask what men's rights are doing for homosexual men. The answer is obvious, but if you need it stated here it is. They are fighting for men's equality within society. Sexuality be damned.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:30 AM
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Not really. Allow me to explain before you go nuclear. Older cartoons or shows for kids often showed traditional couples as well as groups of men, groups of women, and even single individuals taking care of children. Could they be gay? Who knew? The important thing wasn't their sexuality it was their willingness to properly care for these children. Modern shows are starting to emphasize their sexuality to children. Emphasizing their sexuality over their love to children is something that doesn't…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:21 AM
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Objectification theory is primarily about blaming men for objectifying women or the so called harmful "male gaze." While it might be possible to find a single study flipping that dynamic, it would not be unfair to say there are thousands of studies to support it. What is strangely absent in almost all of these studies is any sort of serious research on whether women objectify men. From my personal experience I'm wholly sure they do, which makes the one sided nature of these studies particularly …
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:11 AM
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Those isn't really a competition. The only way that makes sense is to claim victims don't deserve help because they need to be treated poorly because of their sex. Any such argument is inherently sexist.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 09:56 AM
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I did just that. No regrets.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 05:26 AM
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I must disagree with the opinion expressed in this post. As I have said in the past, I am an equalist. In the west this often means standing against feminism, which has becoming openly anti-male and happily works to deny us equal rights. In Iran, however, women really do need to struggle for equal rights. I still don't support feminism, but I think all sexes should work together to achieve equality for all of us. Depending on the region you are in that struggle will take on different forms.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 01:15 PM
12

Buddy Guy - Cheaper to Keep Her
/r/MensRights22/09/22 01:41 AM
1

I just ignore it.
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:11 AM
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😉
/r/MensRights09/09/22 04:17 PM
2

Good bot!
/r/MensRights09/09/22 11:05 AM
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While I agree with all the sentiments, speaking as a man who regularly wears kilts (since this is mentioned in a lot of the comments), this is why we wear sporrans and spread our legs when we sit. The sporran serves double duty as a pouch. In mine I keep a Swiss army knife, keys and my wallet. When my legs are spread it handily falls between the legs when you sit and makes such exposure substantially less likely. In other words, though we may go au natural, we take precautions so this won't happ…
/r/MensRights09/09/22 11:04 AM
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We are aware. We just know it's better to walk away as no one will believe us.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 12:39 AM
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Good bot!
/r/MensRights03/09/22 03:25 PM
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To be fair to women in general terms, it's not wholly the fault of these younger women. They have been instilled with this vile philosophy of hate since they were children, just as you were. To even contemplate alternatives is a betrayal of everything their matriarchs teach. Some still question it, but many don't. There is a lesson for life here. If someone is making broad derogatory claims regarding an entire group, they either hate that group or will come to hate that group. It becomes a binar…
/r/MensRights03/09/22 03:24 PM
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This is the way.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 09:37 PM
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I used to, but I haven't done so in the last three years or so. They have become purveyors of hate.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 08:46 PM
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The one my doc used was cologuard. Honestly, Consult your physician on this.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 04:13 PM
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Aye...it's basically for screening for issues.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:52 PM
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My doc started having me poop in a box after 40.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:14 PM
1

This is the way.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 08:29 AM
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While you may be right, I try not to call out the Democrats this way, especially since they are so racist and sexist about it. Targeting men, specifically those who are Asian or Caucasian, and gleefully denying them higher education, employment opportunities, and vilifying them based on nothing other than these immutable facts leaves individuals left in these two categories being told that they should "man up and take it." They aren't just not helping us they are actively hurting us and they see…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 11:14 AM
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She claims...it was written by a woman.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 11:02 AM
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To be honest when I was a young man I figured out asking women for dates was both a brutal and losing game. Luckily, although I am not the most handsome I am fairly charismatic. I tried new tactics that required a much higher time investment but often ended in the women asking me for dates. I am married now and have been with the same woman for 15 years. P.S. She asked me to marry her.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 11:40 AM
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I can only speak from as early as the 80's, but in general if women were treated by by men and each other the way they are now, people would get hurt. At my church, when I was a child,once they once found out a man was abusing his wife. The men marched him out behind the church out of sight of the women and beat him up. He never did it again. I legitimately cannot even imagine something like that being viewed as acceptable now. Women were treated with respect for a reason. It was because men wou…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 11:34 AM
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Speaking as a man, I totally agree with your last paragraph. I refuse to call myself a feminist or men's rights advocate. I call myself an equality because I think that's the only logical solution. I of course speak of this as equal treatment across the board, not the warped attempts at equity that feminism engages in.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 11:29 AM
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Therapists rarely backup the man.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 08:29 PM
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I actually didn't find her all that balanced. The implications were that the situation they find themselves had nothing to do with the goals of feminism. She dismissed that argument out of hand. It was implied that these problems are somehow societal issues disconnected from anything else. While she did acknowledge these issues could lead to a dangerous place, her examples implied that the place of danger was that of men inevitably becoming violent towards women. She acknowledges the issue witho…
/r/MensRights15/08/22 03:44 PM
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I actually agree. To be honest I am older and a bit old school. I never talked about my sexual relations with anyone other than my lover. I never will. Talking about her specifically is, and always was to my generation, taboo. She is my Lady. I treat her as such.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 03:11 PM
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Speaking as a straight guy who has had both good and bad interactions with the gay community, I think it depends on the person. If the subject comes up and, as a straight guy, I make it clear that I'm not interested. That should be the end of the conversation. If it is the end, then a friendship is wholly possible. We can totally bond over tons of other stuff and be friends without talking about sexual interests. If it isn't the end of the conversation and keeps being brought up, particularly in…
/r/MensRights15/08/22 03:01 PM
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People that chose to be ignorant should be ignored. I could list a ton of historical reasons why they are wrong, but I am in a bit of a weird humor today, thus I will only give one. Ever wondered why that red drink is called a Bloody Mary. Let's just say that her reign earned the name.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 05:39 PM
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I live in an apartment and have effectively assembled a home gym. It's open to both me and my wife, but she rarely uses it. It's great. I have kettlebells, bands, pull up bar, rowing machine, treadmill, yoga mat, etc. For the road I use bullworkers or a macebell. All in all I would never go back to a traditional gym. On the plus side I felt like a king during the Covid-19 lockdowns. I turned on the metal and just continued to roll. Home gyms rock!
/r/MensRights30/07/22 11:44 PM
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So....according to you all forms of structural government are right leaning? If you believe what you say, that would follow since all governmental structures rely on laws that are upheld by the authority of the state.
/r/MensRights29/07/22 05:02 AM
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While this is said sarcastically, with good reason, you have inadvertently made a critical point. Men consistently do the dangerous jobs because we have to. There are simply less good paying positions available to us across the board. Women aren't demanding equality in the more dangerous areas of life. They are demanding it only in the most prestigious aras. They will be managers of some of these industries, but don't generally care to share the jobs that have a higher proportion of risk. It's a…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 10:01 PM
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They sow the seeds of their own destruction.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 12:40 PM
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Just...wrong.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 03:53 PM
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Just to be clear...are you saying forced sterilization is legal? Source?
/r/MensRights01/07/22 03:34 PM
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🤪
/r/MensRights25/06/22 04:40 PM
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Here is a Harvard study on testosterone being connected to risk taking. The role of testosterone related to aggressive behavior in animals is scientifically a fact. In humans there are tons of studies, similar to this one that show aggressiveness is linked to testosterone. It should be noted that this has become a bit of a quagmire as many researchers have become to argue over the current data and some question the theory despite a ton of work showing its connection in animals and, yes, even in …
/r/MensRights25/06/22 11:48 AM
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While you are generally correct, it should be pointed at testosterone does lead challenging others by refusing to agree. Men are less likely to just go along with what others tell them they should do. They need to be convinced or they will refuse. In young men testosterone does lead to more aggressive behavior, but honestly by the late 20's that's usually gone. Testosterone also leads to a higher propensity to take risks. This is a mixed blessing. Taking risks results in higher income, when succ…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:39 PM
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To be clear, I was never a feminist. I did, and still do, believe in equal rights. Feminism never really struck me as striving for that goal and some of the people I knew who described themselves as feminists were some of the most bitter misandrists I ever met. As I got older women describing themselves as feminist became more the norm, but the hard core ones continued to be some of the most appalling humans one could meet. My personal experience with women started with my family. Men were expec…
/r/MensRights22/06/22 01:04 PM
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This is specific to Georgia, but is a good baseline on how to interact with police. How to deal with police
/r/MensRights22/06/22 12:14 PM
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While I am fairly sure this charge wouldn't vaguely stand up in court, it's not really worth going to jail for a day to make that point. The only way the law would stand up is if you were homeless and didn't have a job. Having said that while I would leave if I was threatened with that charge, I would also get the officers names and badge numbers and file a lawsuit against them later for police harassment, which is something that you would win.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 12:09 PM
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Just to be clear...creeping them out is a fairly vague call. Officers usually use vague statements like this as a "reason" to check things out. It's not really legal, but there's not much anyone can do. Unless they find specific illegal behavior that can't really do more than be hostile and question you though, at least not in the US. Your best option in this scenario is to handle it the way you did. Be patient with the hostile police. Give extremely minimalistic answers to questions. Understand…
/r/MensRights22/06/22 11:57 AM
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I would say their underlying philosophy does. They ascribe everything about the nuclear family to the "Patriarchy." As pretty much every feminist is dedicated to destroying anything they see as the Patriarchy they inevitably seek to overthrow the nuclear family. They don't see relationships between men and women as that of coequals, but rather that of master and slave. The only acceptable answer to someone who views the world this way is to avoid the relationships or demand that they be treated …
/r/MensRights20/06/22 06:32 PM
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"The nuclear family must be destroyed, and people must find better ways of living together. ...Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break-up of families now is an objectively revolutionary process.” Professor Linda Gordon, feminist/historian, “Functions of The Family” in WOMEN: A Journal of Liberation.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 10:54 AM
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Actually Google did have something for fathers day. The graphic was...odd, bit it linked to an article about it.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 10:30 AM
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That's...creepy.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 06:19 AM
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Do whatever makes you feel good today. Me? I'm off to hit the kettlebells. I like feeling strong.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 12:48 PM
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While I agree with your general premise, they are not wholly wrong that there is a boys club. They are wrong about why it exists though. Men throughout time have always been aware that the wrong complaint from the right woman, say one of nobility or wealth, could get them thrown in prison or even killed. The new variable is that principle extends to all women. They had a fairly reasonable reaction to what is a fairly intolerable situation. Remove women from the equation to give themselves opport…
/r/MensRights16/06/22 10:24 AM
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Change that just "men" and I will agree with you.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 03:52 PM
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Do we dare?
/r/MensRights05/06/22 01:19 PM
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Eat and drink and be merry, for tomorrow you die.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 03:33 AM
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Bro...they will do that no matter what. If the system has a built in prejudice we must find ways to bypass it until wiser souls start advocating for actual equality.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 07:02 PM
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Totally. We shouldn't be holding a pity party. We should be strategizing how to use the system against itself.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 12:39 PM
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Actually I didn't mind the films you mentioned and loved Black Panther. Your point about men going shirtless while eliminating the female versions of that is spot on, but I didn't consider it a major issue. I think I am much more concerned by the trend I pointed out in my original post.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 12:54 PM
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To be honest I have zero issues with this scene. I also have pretty much no issues with showing women in sexual related scenes either. Is it sexist? Probably, but let's be honest men think women are beautiful and women, thankfully, think we look good too. All of that being said, as a Thor fan I am not vaguely interested in seeing this film. Strong female lead? No problems. Depowering the title character and making him seem like a joke to make the female lead look stronger? That's not cool. This …
/r/MensRights26/05/22 03:01 AM
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I don't disagree.
/r/MensRights15/05/22 11:41 AM
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Mulan was a great film because of this.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 11:38 PM
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To quote myself elsewhere in this thread... "Even for experienced fighters this is somewhat true. The best advice I have for anyone is avoid any fight if possible. If not possible do not hesitate. Hesitation leads to defeat." People who are seriously into martial arts learn some things that are quite useful, but look odd from the outside. It's quite hard to explain to newcomers that they need to learn how to fall, as an example. Generally fighting is a suboptimal choice. It's just even more subo…
/r/MensRights14/05/22 05:48 PM
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Working to attract the opposite sex is good advice for any carbon based life form.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 04:56 PM
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Even for experienced fighters this is somewhat true. The best advice I have for anyone is avoid any fight if possible. If not possible do not hesitate. Hesitation leads to defeat.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 04:54 PM
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Not counting time with the ref protecting her, she lasted 1:15, which all things considered is fairly impressive.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 04:18 PM
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Sort of a good representation of me. Epic beard! Epic kilt! All fun.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 02:59 PM
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I used to be seriously into Tae Kwon Do. When I was into it we taught a free class weekly to women who had been sexually assaulted, usually in public. These were legit cases so let's not get into that discussion. I am a big guy, maybe not the biggest in the world, but at trim fitness I stand 6'2", 52 inch chest with the rest of me being proportional. Most guys in martial arts are smaller so I was their training partner to represent the 'rapist.' One of the things that was surprisingly hard to ed…
/r/MensRights14/05/22 02:41 PM
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Women love bald men. Source: I am a bald man!
/r/MensRights12/05/22 07:09 PM
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To be fair, your other points are solid. I, however, was under the impression that health care cost women more. Is there something I am unaware of?
/r/MensRights07/05/22 04:02 AM
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So....in the UK the message to men is "When around women, do not look them in the eyes. Keep your eyes down lest your betters take offense."
/r/MensRights30/04/22 08:30 PM
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Speaking as a 6'2" dude, it's true. The world is totally designed for munchkins.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 08:16 AM
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They pretty much already are.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 06:00 PM
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I honestly think a lot of people, including the men's rights movement misunderstand him. As an example his political position hasn't really changed. What has changed is the politics around him. As a consequence of so many people moving a great deal further to the left and his unwillingness to go along with that, he has ended up on the right. I actually understand that. I too have found myself in such a position. By any standard from my childhood I am a far left liberal. By modern standards, exce…
/r/MensRights09/04/22 05:19 AM
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Regardless of your opinion it should be pointed out that this poll is misleading. It isn't law yet. It still has a couple of hurdles to cross before it actually becomes law.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 12:53 AM
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It, quite literally, is pushing both racism and sexism specifically at white men. It's chilling. Twenty years ago I never thought I would see overt racism or sexism in our politics again. The Democrats have proven me wrong, which scares me. Until recently I was an independent. I voted for a number of liberal candidates including our current president. I am appalled by what he and those in his white house are pushing. Until this changes I find myself forced into the conservative camp simply becau…
/r/MensRights04/04/22 07:35 PM
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I personally find gyms to be both a waste of cash and an unnecessary hassle. I started working out at home years ago. The only person that judges me is my cat.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 10:00 AM
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Depends on the man.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 09:45 AM
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I totally agree. Feminism is a nightmare, but to tar and feather all women with the same brush falls into the same logical trap.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 02:07 PM
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These are two separate arguments mashed together. Let's take the first one, most wars are started by men, first. It seems to assume that because a leader happened to have male genitalia that only men should fight. If one was to follow that logic to its end one would also conclude that only men should rule or benefit from any male leaders decisions. If they really believe that the sex of a leader demands the subservience of the other sex, I would be shocked. It's only in a world where they believ…
/r/MensRights09/03/22 12:35 PM
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I read through the article. You have unpacked it fairly thoroughly. I am surprised at the amount of hate she specifically addressed at black men, especially as she emphasizes she is a black woman. Her view of men within her own culture is particularly vile and weirdly racist towards her own group. I think even a quick read of this article would lead anyone to the belief that she needs psychological help.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 10:15 PM
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Sexist always find ways to justify their sexism. Does it really surprise you that she is finding a way to justify hers?
/r/MensRights15/02/22 04:09 AM
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Both.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 07:59 PM
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Take your time in leaving then. Leave with a plan. If possible leave with alternative housing already set up. Be extremely careful in the environment you are currently in.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 07:34 PM
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Allergies are no joke and can literally lead to your death. If someone cares that little for another human, they are poison to be near them. She is legitimately dangerous to you.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 07:19 PM
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Run. Run now.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 07:11 PM
2

Totally a zen moment.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:56 AM
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D&D isn't specifically for men, but tons of men love it. That's a solid choice in my book.
/r/MensRights13/02/22 01:48 PM
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In steps. 1st tier: Metal. 2nd tier: Metal and workouts. Highest tier: Metal, workouts, followed by time with a pet that loves you for the win. If you want to go out with other friends join your local D&D group. Most will welcome you with open arms.
/r/MensRights13/02/22 01:45 PM
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You can usually tell the strength of an individual's argument by how often they desperately reach for insults. If they cannot clearly lay out the case for the insult, which in a few rare cases they can, each insult is usually an attempt to deflect others from weaknesses in their argument.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 05:19 PM
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I checked out that sub some time ago...it seemed skewed at the time.
/r/MensRights11/02/22 06:19 PM
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I think you are right that this strategy is less effective, though I suspect the reasons are not the same. Feminism encourages a 'hookup' culture with minimal commitments. That culture is too beneficial to many men who don't really want a commitment. Combine that with extremely nasty divorce laws and child support laws that wholly favor women and you have a perfect recipe for both fewer men willing to make the commitment or actively wanting to have children. I think this hurts both men and women…
/r/MensRights11/02/22 06:14 PM
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My concern is that both sides, male and female, are poisoning the waters so much, that if we aren't careful both sexual and emotional relationships between men and women could suffer permanent damage. I support equal rights across the board because anything less is dangerous. Being a male, I obviously am concerned about males. I, however, also like women. They are wonderful not just sexually, but emotionally and intellectually. They often offer a different perspective which is sorely needed. The…
/r/MensRights11/02/22 02:38 PM
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I got mine back when I was single. They were pretty bitchy about it though and demanded I wait a month so I could "think about it." They were clearly against giving me one since I didn't already have children and were not shy about expressing this opinion.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 02:22 PM
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I will fight beside anyone who seeks equal rights for all. Right now men's rights happens to be doing that for men. I will fight against any group that seeks inequality in favor of their own group. Currently feminism is the leader of that vanguard. I am, however, a westerner. If I lived in say, Afghanistan, I would very much be trying to get women equal rights there. Being a westerner I am focused on the issues on my own society, but I am willing to acknowledge that different societies have diff…
/r/MensRights30/01/22 02:41 PM
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You made a bunch of flawed assumptions. You assume I agree with you. You assume I am like you. I am not. I am an equalist. This leads me to things like men's rights, but if I seen severe unequal treatment of women I would fight for that too. I don't think you can only fight for one group. I think affirmative action is proof of that. As for Black Lives Matter, while few would disagree with the title of their group most would question their motives. Less than one percent of police interactions res…
/r/MensRights30/01/22 02:30 PM
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I note you didn't answer my questions. Please, for edification, show us examples of feminism fighting for men to get equal treatment. I can, and have, cited massive examples of them demanding unequal treatment in our society. Affirmative action is just such an example and is loved by, in your words, hundreds of millions of women. Can you show an example as sweeping and widespread of them caring to promote equal treatment for men in our society?
/r/MensRights30/01/22 02:15 PM
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I could spend all day arguing with you but it wouldn't be worth my time. I will instead demand you prove your points, which you cannot. You claim feminism is about equality. How does this argument for equality justify the specific favoritism of women over men in legal policy? Affirmative action is a pet favorite of feminism. How can unequal treatment of the sexes in favor of women be justified if feminism only wants equality? Why does feminism dabble in group guilt and blame men, via the proxy o…
/r/MensRights30/01/22 02:06 PM
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Jordan Peterson would not support statements of this nature. He talks about equality vs equity and how equity undermines a fair and free society. He speaks of general psychological tendencies of men and women, but acknowledges they are tendencies and some in both groups do not conform. He does use these the tendencies to describe more 'masculine' and 'feminine' traits. Either sex may express these traits and both groups of traits have notable upsides and downsides. His revolutionary message coul…
/r/MensRights30/01/22 01:38 PM
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Emphasize equality rather Men's Rights. Suggesting all people, both men and women, should be treated as equals and is if equal value is less controversial. To only give support to one group and not others is to emphasize the superiority of the group given the support and the inferiority of the group's not given. All, regardless of immutable traits, should be treated as individuals each having value. Setting a greater value on some and a lesser value on others is inherently sexist on multiple lev…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 02:29 AM
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I can't help but wonder how this would play if it was written in reverse. "Female pride causing children to fail to be born. Women refusing mating opportunities bypassing likely candidates to produce offspring!"
/r/MensRights24/01/22 02:08 PM
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This is a complex issue. I don't wholly disagree with a stay at home mom or other woman in a similar circumstance pointing out they are doing unpaid labor. If the woman is parenting the argument becomes MUCH stronger. It comes down to whether or not we put value on child rearing and education and how important that is. By equal measure if a woman is home all the time and refusing to share the familial burden, I totally think it's fair to call that out. Even if the sexual roles were reversed I do…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 08:31 AM
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True enough, but I would be a hypocrite if I accepted that argument since I am not wholly convinced by that argument regardless of which side the power dynamic favors.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:48 PM
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To be fair it's not clear whether or not it was consensual. There is obviously the power dynamic to consider, but that is only one factor. It's wholly possible it was rape, but it may not have been as well. This article isn't exactly chock full of facts.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 07:00 PM
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If accurate, a legitimate point. I didn't notice any substantial differences myself, but feel free to reference them for our edification.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 10:09 PM
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To be fair, it appears this article was actually referencing an article from a much more trusted source, namely the Washington Post. https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2021/11/21/facebook-algorithm-biased-race/
/r/MensRights12/01/22 09:31 PM
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Sexual attractiveness is so subjective. Bashing her for her clear lack of logic is fairly useless. I'm not defending her position, but I do appreciate the innate honesty in it. As a man I might say something like, "A woman with a twinkie fetish isn't attractive. I don't care how 'sexy' you eat your 82 twinkies a day, it just doesn't look great. It looks even worse when you add in the fact your are gaining about 5 pounds weekly and have gained over 50 pounds in the last year!" Such a statement mi…
/r/MensRights11/01/22 08:13 PM
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Support equal rights...in the broadest sense. Anything that gives special privileges, beneficial educational acceptance practices, beneficial hiring practices, extra services, or even lighter sentencing to someone based on race or sex should be abolished. Support equal rights backed up by the laws. This is a radical concept as currently the laws and/or policies favor women over men almost across the board. I personally think women are amazing. That doesn't, however, mean that by inference men ar…
/r/MensRights11/01/22 12:44 PM
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Being told that men have "value" in society. Maybe not all men, but the 'good' men. On the upshot it was assumed that being a 'good man' was in reach of any man that wanted to take on that mantle.
/r/MensRights11/01/22 10:47 AM
2

As you like it, Act 3, Scene 5.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:50 AM
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Just to play devils advocate, let's say you had said you would think less of her. Personal judgements about what you look for in a relationship or partner are quite reasonable. It can become unreasonable if you have a single spaced, small type, two hundred bullet point list. If you only have three or four expectations, it isn't unreasonable to screen for them. Mine was a geeky girl who got me, was a bibliophile, had a great personality, was generally trustworthy, and agreed with some of my philo…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 07:12 PM
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Excellent research
/r/MensRights31/12/21 02:59 PM
1

To be fair, Quasimodo level ugliness doesn't work well for men or women. Just ask Quasimodo.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 02:17 AM
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Honestly dude, most guys would prefer a far less attractive woman with a beautiful attitude than a beautiful woman with a bad attitude.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 02:00 PM
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If they apply this principle equally, I'm one hundred percent behind it. Imagine lying and dishonesty being taken as nonconsent. If this is the case whether you refer to makeup, plastic surgery, breast enhancements, sex change, failure to disclose std's, implying financial success you don't have, or even failure to mention religious hangups could be seen as nonconsent by both parties. This being the case either both parties are at fault or no one is at fault. While I do advocate couples being wh…
/r/MensRights14/04/21 06:07 AM
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This is true. It could be notably more widespread. Since data isn't being gathered on this issue, however, we have to use the data we do have.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 03:44 PM
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This does sometimes happen. It shouldn't.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 03:06 PM
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As much as I understand some people's desire for punishment, children are always treated differently. It's generally for the best as most just don't understand the effects it has on both themselves and others.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 07:33 AM
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You are right. A woman should be absolutely safe in her person wherever she goes. Allow me to cite other things I would like to see in an ideal world. Identity theft would be impossible, in fact theft would be impossible. Dangerous drugs would never be sold illegally. Police would always do the right thing. Violent physical assault of any kind would never happen. Everyone would be nice to each other. No one would lie. I can go on and on with this. Asking people to take precautions in our less th…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 03:41 PM
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It seems here you are saying women owe men sex. They don't. Just like we don't owe them sex. You may think this still provides a power imbalance. It does, but only if you think only that one woman can provide this resource to you. If you are willing to go fishing for other fish in the sea, and there are many, worry not other mermaids will happily flop their way into your boat.
/r/MensRights26/03/21 11:22 AM
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Timestamp is 1:20:13 approximately
/r/MensRights26/03/21 03:48 AM
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As a kilt wearer, at least on my free time, I would say, "Men do wear kilts."
/r/MensRights17/03/21 12:41 AM
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Here is an interesting article, as an addendum, on how such collective punishments violate international law. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.spectator.co.uk/article/mark-drakeford-s-men-only-curfew-would-break-international-law/amp
/r/MensRights15/03/21 01:50 PM
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What's happening in the UK is concerning. I don't think it's far gone enough to pass...yet. I could be wrong, but I don't think so. I hope something like this never happens. If it should, then any country who passes it will unquestionably be like unto the Nazi's. It might be even argued they would be worse than the Nazi's. If you can see the dark path laid down by history and still take it, how far will you be willing to go?
/r/MensRights15/03/21 01:42 PM
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I'm a wee bit older than you, but to be honest your right. This attitude isn't prevalent anymore in the west, however...there was a time it was. Since it doesn't apply anymore, it's a flag that should be packed away though.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 08:18 PM
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To be fair, and I hate to be, to the participants in these posts. They are partially right. The problem is that word 'partially.' Women are at a disadvantage when it comes to physical aggression. It doesn’t mean they can't or won't do it, but simply due to the fact that men are larger and have more upper body muscle mass, it makes such cases different. For instance, there is an increasing body of work that show women are at least as likely to physically abuse men, but men are far more likely to …
/r/MensRights03/03/21 03:40 PM
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The horseshoe theory of politics exists for a reason.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 01:11 AM
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This article from the LA Times will offer light on the subject. discrimination
/r/MensRights10/02/21 07:46 AM
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I'm glad to help. One hopes that the moderates on either side could eventually join forces. It's probably unrealistic to hope for the that, but I'm a hopeless idealist.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 04:20 PM
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Honestly this kind of thing is quite prevalent. The truth is we have no idea how widespread it is. We can't know. At present no one keeps statistics on it since it is generally considered impossible for women to either sexually harass or sexually assault men. I suspect the 50% number is overblown, but I wouldn't be surprised to find women committed 25% of rapes or sexual harassment as I have been sexually harassed by two different women myself. Arguing over a statistic no one keeps is a fairly p…
/r/MensRights07/02/21 12:56 PM
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To be fair, I think the same can be said of certain men's rights activist. There are, sadly, misogynist's among us, just as misandry runs rampant in feminist ranks. In either case it's both toxic and unhelpful. We should all be striving for true egalitarian views. Threats of violence or insults from feminist groups such as "Kill all men" or "Incels." Are equivalent to threats of rape towards women or calling them slots and whores. In both cases both groups have extremes within them. I think the …
/r/MensRights05/02/21 10:46 PM
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I got a vasectomy as a young man to avoid this particular issue. While some women are delighted by the concept, many aren't. My wife loves it, but in relationships previous to that one many women plainly felt it was a nightmare. They were horrified at my decision and weren't shy about expressing it.
/r/MensRights27/01/21 02:55 AM
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In reference to her statement that no one wants to kill all men, I offer the link to the following article. While these kinds of things are, so far, isolated incidents there is little reason to believe that children being fed this diet of hate will not grow up to be like her. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valerie_Solanas
/r/MensRights22/01/21 10:29 AM
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As much as I am appalled by the kind of feminism you describe, this seems a bit much. It's quite literally throwing out the baby with the bath water. Traditional roles served a valuable function. They still do. I would, as an alternative, suggest both parties settle on a prenuptial agreement. It's not very romantic, but it is very practical and helps put a clear set of lines in place in the off chance the relationship ends badly. Good fences, as they say, make good neighbors. I am, as always, pr…
/r/MensRights19/01/21 08:54 PM
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Don't let her misandrist attitudes stop you. Misandry is equally as bad as misogyny.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 11:01 PM
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While I agree with the other posters in this thread, equality for men is a thorny issue. It doesn't need to be, but that doesn't change the fact that it is. It isn't really a political issue, despite people wanting to politicize it. I am a pro-egalitarian and think all individuals should be treated equally, men and women alike. The sad truth is that the western world is clearly stacked against men currently. Not only does it hamper their education, punish male behaviors, and stigmatize them for …
/r/MensRights16/01/21 09:46 PM
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