lostdog1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How do I stop being so beta and getting feelings for a girl so quickly? Recognize what this was, process it, and move on. She was cheated on, her inner cavewoman needed security, and you were the next available, attractive and put together male. She gave it up to you, and the alpha came back and she reverted back to him. It’s ok to catch feelz, but there are millions of cavewomen out there. She got temporary security from you, that’s it. As a previous reply said, it was “your turn” Move on, you got this.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 06:48 PM
2	Snooped on LTR’s phone Ill piggyback on this and add that if you’re able to cut your feelz out, there is nothing wrong with demoting her to plate since she has obviously done the same to you. But only treat her as a fuck toy; do not buy her shit, do not go out of your way for her, treat her as she treated you while you look for a higher value person. You’re 30something, she is 19? Did you really think you were getting a rational, mature, ready to commit her whole life to you woman? If sex were removed, would you still…	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 06:17 PM
1	Initiate fool! Or "Passive dread and you." Raises hand. Thanks tanning room! Thanks sauna!	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/12/18 03:57 AM
2	Initiate fool! Or "Passive dread and you." Totally agree on the constant pushing/initiating... its like poking and saying “now?”, getting shot down, and trying again in the morning. That’s not attractive. Pulling away and not being available adds mystery... take that time to improve yourself. Ignoring her for a time is the ultimate push, and initiating on your terms is the ultimate pull. You fuck when you want to fuck, and that’s the message you need to send unspoken... because if it’s not her, she knows you will fuck elsewhere, and pass…	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/12/18 03:57 AM
2	Red Pill Truth- Nagging LTR/Wife? You are the one at Fault. Not Her This point (and your post) is relatable for everyone on this board.... while getting women is easy enough, finding a high quality, eager to please, sex on demand, hot as hell woman is rarer than we’d like to admit. My LTR is just that, and i had to wrestle with either spinning 3 uninteresting plates, or just her to get the most out of her. You sound like me as well, softening up a bit... until i caught myself and stemmed that tide of BP and reverted back to my over masculine ways, which reminded…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/18 07:43 PM
6	Alpha / Beta ----> Madonna / Whore? (Discussion) Dude here, and this comment deserves some positive attention and I’ll add on to it as an RP male who doesn’t spin plates. If a woman lusts after him (not fake lust, that is something we’ll internally realize, have our way with you for one night, but ultimately feel manipulated and can cause us to seek that actual list elsewhere), it evokes that provided/protector mode in us. If a woman loses the list for her man and it becomes duty sex, big problems are on the horizon. Experienced it and left th…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/18 08:07 PM
58	TRP Quarantined This forum and TRP really helped me understand my role in my marriage failing, and how to better myself so that I could become the man I want to be. It took the rose colored glasses off and I understood the world completely, and the “red pill truths” continue to ring true every day. But of course, I can look at thousands of women posting naked selfies and all the porn I can ingest right here on reddit. That seems a bit more toxic than a forum where men can discuss masculinity and sexual strategi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/09/18 10:29 PM
5	Advice on Creating Dating App Profile [30 years old] Dude here, Piggybacking on this.... totally agree with not putting on a photo of you at your absolute greatest (ie a wedding). And for the love of pearl ladies, we don’t want to see photos of you wearing sunglasses. Eyes are the windows.... Be up front and honest with what you are looking for, and don’t sell yourself as more than you are. Respect your time as much as the prospective mate. I came out of a 15 yr marriage and took about 6 months to actually start dating again... met my lady on bumb…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/18 09:14 PM
3	Mental Fitness The first time I read that short story it tweaked me... not only did Hemingway nail the atmosphere and tension, but the hidden veil that women can possess which all men should be aware of. That was my first lesson of actual TRP knowledge; excellent of you to point this story out to the forum	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/18 02:21 AM
3	3 Year MRP progress Although that’s not as much as I would be ok with, that doesn’t make for OP being mediocre; that is an immature and inexperienced thought. Having sex 7 days a week takes up more time than you may even have the want or energy for. A little sexual angst goes a long way for both parties. I’d personally rather spend 7 hours fucking over 4 nights than doing it an hour a day. I got shit to do, which in turn makes my LTR more turned on by the fact that she knows I’m out kicking ass, and wants crazy sex…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/06/18 10:58 PM
3	25F freaking out about the wall, just want to get engaged and married already. Both RMV and SMV are up to you... if you are taking care of yourself, working out, working on yourself, working on your relationship, etc then you will have way less decline in both areas. Wise men know that getting married can lead to a complacent attitude from their betrothed, because what's the point on keeping your SMV or your RMV high if you already have a mate? That goes for both men and women... the healthy LT relationships I've seen are when both parties are working on themselves consist…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/17 08:55 PM
17	25F freaking out about the wall, just want to get engaged and married already. As a man going through a divorce at the moment, this post reeks of future major problems. You did not mention once how much you love your man, what fun future things you want to do together, etc. but you did mention that the ring he could afford is acceptable.... if this post gets viewed by the RedPillers, prepare to be used as a case in point for those theories Maybe he isn't asking you to marry him because he doesn't feel that from you, or because you are pressuring him to commit to a life wit…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/17 03:27 PM
1	Premature ejaculation has begun ruining my life I had a similar problem for 15 years (I'm 42). Stop with porn, teaches you bad habits in that you are in control of your release (especially compared to real life sex). If you do have to pull one out, kegels and edging help. I've found employing red pill thinking and confidence has helped more than anything else. If still having problems, I found this stuff works wonders... https://www.amazon.com/Genuine-Chinese-Erection-Orgasm-Ejaculation/dp/B00YDJKEMI Seriously, I had to concentrate to cum one…	/r/askTRP	02/04/17 07:33 PM
2	Stuck on the final boss level Work on gaming your wife so you can get what you're missing from life/women. If the marriage sucks, that's on you. Some hot piece of ass that you've had a chubby for years over ain't worth blowing up your years of hard work where you'll have to give up at least half in the divorce when wifey finds out (or the guilt slowly gets ya)	/r/askTRP	10/03/17 12:40 AM
13	Gave me a fake name but insists he's serious? Me being a dude, this is what I would do if you were a plate, or if I were married/in another LTR. Small apartment, sparsely furnished... There is a fine line between being purposefully mysterious, and hiding something (or many things) from the ladies I'm enjoying. You have plenty of time and options with other fellas, ditch this one ASAP	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/16 07:44 PM