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Judgment is natural. Judgment how our ancestors survived. To turn off that trait is making you a weaker human. I say judge, make decisions accordingly but keep your judgment to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 09:10 PM
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I am less of a fan of the kite metaphor because it makes it sound like you need to be held by someone to shine. Like you con't shine on your own. Otherwise great post
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 08:53 PM
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Cell phones are relationship killers ​ I already limited the amount of use for the cell phones in the house. I realized that we ended up laying on the couch looking at our phones and completely ignoring the other person. This is somehting you see everywhere, couples bored out of their minds and browsing away on their phones. Solution: After I come back from the gym in the evening, it's reading time, in bed. She jumped on this bandwagon and we made a habit of it. We shower, get in bed and start r…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 08:23 PM
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It's not a threat, it's not a power play, or any of that nonsense. either the people around me provide value, or they aren't around me. And you'll know if you're there when/if she starts crying or yelling at you, and you don't get mad, sad, or anxious around it... More mildly annoyed. Like clockwork we reached this stage last night. And I did not get mad, I just stated the facts, remained calm and asked her to lower he voice when needed. And I let her talk and boy oh boy she buried herself deepe…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 05:57 PM
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Let me tell you a story, the story a guy named Rick. This guy is a smart guy in high paying job. He's married to a woman in a high paying job as well. They earn about the same and share the household expenses pretty evenly. They are both saving money and have a lot of discretionary income for fun activities. Then she looses her job. She doesnt find a job and he lets it slide. Months turn to years and next thing you know he wakes up one day and she has not worked in 10 years while he's been payin…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 08:33 PM
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The core issue is the direction the relationship is headed if I just allow this to go on. 3 months turn into 6, 6 months turns into a year, a year turns into two years and so on. I am on my way to become a provider and she, my dependent. So I have to make it clear now that it is not acceptable to be jobless in this relationship. I am not a job search expert but when I found myself jobless, I was a lot more active than she was, and more realistic as well. There tons of jobs out there for her to b…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 08:04 PM
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On "where has the leadership been?": I am not going to dwell on the past, I gave her "slack" for 2.5 months and that was a mistake. What I do now and forward is what matters. ​ We were able to get some things out in the open this weekend. We had the jobless talk and I caught her saying "I want a job that gives me x an y" And I did not even let her finish the sentence, I said "right now it is not about what you want, it's about what you need. " And you need a job, period" You can worry about what…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 06:59 PM
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In every woman there is a whore, a girlfriend, and mother. A lot of people have fallen in love with the whore but they have not seen her in decades. What they truly have on their hands is a mother and maybe the girlfriend shows up once in a while. And that is the problem a lot of couples face. ​ Also this triangle thing is too conveniently methaphorical for my taste. "Dude your relationship is like a triangle and let me explain how" I dont buy it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 04:09 PM
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The 3 sides of a relationship triangle are: Sex, Monogamy, Longevity. The ideal state of the relationship is all 3 sides are equal. If you want to increase any one sides value, you sacrifice from either or both, of the other two sides. ​ This triangle thing is too conveniently methaphorical for my taste. "Dude your relation is like a triangle and let me explain how" I dont buy it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 04:02 PM
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Thanks! I really liked the one on boundaries.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 03:22 PM
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I am really starting to see the value in befriending people(couples) that are older than me(us). If you pick them right, the wisdom and the maturity that comes from them helps you grow and get your shit tighter. I also have firsthand experience about what happens when you start befriending couple that don't have their shit together, their instability can rub off on you and your partner. So CHOOSE the couples you want to befriend.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 09:40 PM
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Allowing other couples problems to become mine and leaving my frame ​ I have been having a great year. Things are going well at work, and in the LTR.The GF however lost her job 3 months ago, she was handling it well in the beginning. She would get up at the sime I would, cook me breakfast and cook me nice dinners, running errands for us so I wont have to do it when I come home . However on the job searching front she is failing. She wont compromise on jobs/salary and doesnt put enough effort int…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 06:21 PM
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