lostintheoverworld Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	all men have the same problems? Basically all in person interactions with girls, cold approach or even just casual acquaintances irl, range from going just merely bad all the way to downright awful, very rarely are they good. However, dating app success, from matching, getting dates, and getting laid, has been sky high for a while. The dates from the apps usually go pretty well, and dating overall has never been better for me. In irl interactions, even warm approach, I will consistently strike out with all girls, even 1s and 2…	/r/seduction	13/06/26 06:19 AM
4	I’m having a crisis in my 20’s… Deadass when I was in a relationship I was wishing way too often that I was still single, addicted to video games and jerking it to porn every night. There is no winning.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 09:23 PM
1	Reality Check for Daygame Pick-up? This sub needs to start talking more about how 95%+ of women you meet just suck or aren’t worth trying to date for the gamer anyway. That’s the reality of dating. Even if you could daygame well enough your way into a date or relationship with every girl you think is attractive, you’ll still be disappointed because women also have all sorts of issues and cause problems themselves that are annoying to deal with. So it’s not necessarily always the guy’s problem if they’re struggling.	/r/seduction	26/08/25 05:40 PM
2	Anyone here a loser who turned it around? Yep, I was always singled out and on the outside looking in growing up. The plus side of this is that I never bought into groupthink since I was never part of the group, which led me to try out game and improve my life 1000%. So now that my issues with women are gone, I just go around antagonizing the normies while still getting laid every so often.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 04:43 AM
2	Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical. Indicators of interest. Like eye contact or a smile.	/r/seduction	20/06/24 08:49 PM
1	Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical. You don’t need ioi’s for a cold approach to go well. (To be clear, I’m talking about before you go up and start talking.)	/r/seduction	20/06/24 08:48 PM
7	Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical. When I was starting out I watched Pimp by rsd Julien and after I got a sense of things I watched a lot of todd v dating. Eventually though you’ll find your own style.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 05:34 PM
46	Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical. lol yep I think this is one of the most interesting things you can experience as a man. I used to think I was alright with women as an early 20s kissless virgin even tho I never talked to them, since I got a lot of eye contact and smiles from random women. Then I tried approaching a few…realized most of them never wanted anything to do with me. Kept cold approaching and got decent after a few years tho, and fast forward to today…I get laid regularly, with the caveat that I never get any ioi’s an…	/r/seduction	19/06/24 05:05 PM
1	easily jealous of other guys who get a lot of women. The lifestyle you’re jealous of is highly overrated and hanging out with girls that much is - and feels like - a massive waste of time.	/r/seduction	11/03/24 05:17 PM
2	I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M) There was some subreddit I was reading not too long ago and a lot of the members seemed like naturals that had gotten with many women starting at a young age, and they all seemed miserable about it, saying like “I’m tired of women” or “it was cool but it’s not worth it.” Also saying like “who cares about women I just want money”. They genuinely seemed miserable about their lives too, which made me realize the grass is not greener on the other side. Idk if that helps you feel better but it certai…	/r/seduction	11/09/23 05:07 AM
1	Bad social skills ruined my life 😞 As someone who was exactly like you, and then worked on himself a ton to become more social and comfortable with who I am, to the point where although I’m not totally cool I catch glimpses of what it’s like to be cool, let me say that being great socially is not all that it’s made out to be. Being a cool guy is like this big elaborate scam where you feel just as unhappy and lonely as the uncool guy, only you’re out tons of time, money, and energy that could’ve been more wisely spent on a true pa…	/r/seduction	18/08/22 06:39 AM
13	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” Women who do shit like that have nothing going for them besides the fact that they can turn guys down. Feel pity for them, they live a very empty, unfulfilling lifestyle.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 04:07 PM
2	On being a "Player" As someone who's had that mindset before...I think it's a natural stage in the evolution to actually becoming attractive to women, because I don't think it's all that effective of a mindset. There's too many reasons why I think what I said is true but it's hard to explain logically, but it's almost necessary to pass through that stage imo...	/r/seduction	10/08/22 04:52 AM
1	Showing off my previous relationships on Social Media somehow helped me sift through. Honestly, as someone who's done similar things before, it has a soothing effect on the soul to do this. It's like you get this sense of satisfaction from displaying proof that the men and women who have hated on you in the past can't look at you smugly and think "also, that dude doesn't get girls." It all barely means anything though, because they'll just perform another set of mental gymnastics to justify their hatred of you or just continue thinking you suck, and nothing changes in your relati…	/r/seduction	10/08/22 04:31 AM
1	Is it a bad thing for girls to see me approach other girls after closing with them ? Haha, “I swear this is not what it looks like. They really looked like they could help with the environment.”	/r/seduction	09/08/22 11:49 AM
1	Is it a bad thing for girls to see me approach other girls after closing with them ? Yes, I even had a girl see me talking to other girls 10 minutes later, but also take a photo of me in the set, and send it to me.	/r/seduction	09/08/22 10:51 AM
2	Is confidence the key to attracting others? Lol I’m a supremely confident ugly guy with an extremely polarizing personality. It’s not the key to attracting, but it’s the key to scoring with the girls who find you acceptable enough after you’ve approached them.	/r/seduction	07/08/22 09:17 PM
1	Most men are invisible to all women 😁 I’m just glad I’m fuckable	/r/seduction	31/07/22 01:58 PM
1	Most men are invisible to all women Lol that was my initial suspicion…which makes the fact that I have any success at all feel that much more gratifying. 😏	/r/seduction	31/07/22 01:49 PM
1	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me Ahhh needed to hear this.	/r/seduction	29/07/22 05:32 PM
2	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me I’m at one of these crossroads too. I’m kinda realizing I don’t need this and want to pursue my other passion more now. Am I making the wrong choice giving a lot of this up when I’ve finally got the sex life I want? I don’t know…but, getting decent with girls is like last on the list of things that have satisfied me in life, behind sports, school, money, hell even progressing in a game of Pokémon felt more fun than this...	/r/seduction	29/07/22 05:13 PM
2	Tell us, what was the #1 experience you had (positive or negative) that showed you that game was real and works? One, like you asked, it was eye opening. Two, it definitely helps with getting a foot in the door so even when the conversation went back down to my normal level, it led to some nice things (insta dates, numbers with hotter women). 3. It motivated me to improve my communication so I can always speak like I’m a 10, so…we’ll see how that goes.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 09:06 PM
2	Tell us, what was the #1 experience you had (positive or negative) that showed you that game was real and works? I opened with copy and pasted lines I saw watching infield instead of using ones that came to me naturally, girls were way more receptive and happy to talk to me. Like insanely more receptive	/r/seduction	27/07/22 08:44 PM
1	What do you call it when your self improvement leads to the world’s value going down? / Offer advice. I believe this is called The Theory of Relativity by Albert Einstein. All jokes aside, I went through something similar, not with fashion, but with personality and sense of humor. I used to hate my personality and felt like the worst guy in every room I walked into, until I leveled so far up that now I can't stand 95% of other people's personalities and view them as inferior to mine. My view is that self-improvement to the extent I went through should not be possible in nature so I kinda just ap…	/r/seduction	27/07/22 08:31 PM
18	Girls are attracted to you if they see you with another girl I may have exaggerated my point a bit... But waitresses have been rude to me and only me on dates as if they’re trying to “save” my date, or other girls will give me the death stare when I’m with a girl or do the “oh, my, god” look…not entirely sure the motivation behind that it could be for other reasons than being ugly. I just ignore it lol and it’s mostly a non factor…but I definitely sense the hatred.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 01:32 PM
41	Girls are attracted to you if they see you with another girl Social proof is the most pointless thing to try and use to your advantage unless you’re explicitly going for threesomes. I don’t even know what’s the point of having 5 other girls into you when you’re already with one. For me it doesn’t even work that way, my main concern when I’m with a girl is trying to not get other girls to put a wrench in the date out of spite that my ugly ass is pulling girls as hot as them lol.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 09:56 AM
1	How to find your flirting style? For me I practiced free associating with nothing held back on different Xbox live parties til I accidentally stumbled upon a talking style that I liked. I say accidentally because I didn’t even know I was being funny/entertaining but it turned out I was at one point and I got that initial positive feedback that I needed to get my style right. It’s anonymous, it’s fast to join, and you already have a commonality so it’s super easy to practice flirting/banter.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 01:41 AM
1	Should I pursue women or focus on myself Ooh didn’t get that impression from your initial op. Nvm…	/r/seduction	25/07/22 04:49 PM
-3	What do you say when your friends call you out for flirting with their friend? I don’t have friends because I’m afraid of what they’d do to my dating life for reasons like this.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 04:40 PM
6	Should I pursue women or focus on myself Lol wut is this advice im reading is this not r/seduction anymore??? 100% you gotta start cold approaching/online dating now.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 04:38 PM
2	Went to try to go pick up at the mall yesterday Lol my first time was nearly as bad as that. I drove to a mall 45 min away (past three other malls) and walked up to some girl, pointed at her and said “you!” She ignored me and then I reopened saying “hey what’s your name?” Then she flipped out and was like “why are you following me!?” …And I went home, and that was that. As a hard case shut in newb at the time I still remember feeling this odd sense of joy though. Welcome to the game.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 08:37 AM
1	Does plowing through negative body language ever work? No not for me, but Ill keep on plowing through particularly strong greyrocking (bitch mode) when I’m feeling especially spiteful just to piss her off and waste both our time. Do not recommend tho idk why I get sadistic pleasure out of doing that.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 04:44 AM
2	Is cold approach overrated now? For immediate results it's probably a little worse than OLD currently. However, take someone who's done 10k cold approaches vs. someone who's only done OLD for 10 years, the cold approach guy is gonna be way better.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 02:31 AM
0	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? For me it was being a conventionally low value guy looks, social skill wise all my life leading to bullying, rejection, and more bad social skills up to young adulthood. It took years of unnatural modern methods (cold approach, learning from the internet, etc.) to overcome those scars and start to have success. Every day I wake up feeling like the luckiest man alive I was able to fail at cold approaching for so long to fine tune my personality to become attractive. This is truly an outcome I don…	/r/seduction	22/07/22 09:24 PM
0	How conventionally attractive are you? Lol I’m guessing you probably bat downwards.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 02:50 AM
-1	How conventionally attractive are you? Ah, then are you making up for lack of dick size by comparing yourself to others?	/r/seduction	22/07/22 02:30 AM
-1	How conventionally attractive are you? I guess you’re just passively dumb and close minded then.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 02:07 AM
2	How conventionally attractive are you? Tbh I’ve got a bad look lol I’m like a 3. Hot women look my way and their looks always say “man I hope that dude finds a way to die.” It’s funny but only because now I get success with like 5s and 6s. But I have huge confidence…which only intensifies these random girls’ desires to “put me in my place” even more. When I’m with a girl I get the “hot girl gross out” look on repeat from strangers lol I kinda love it rubbing my success in their bitchy faces.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 09:21 PM
93	Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women? To be fair I’d say not to take advice from 99% of men too.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 12:16 AM
3	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? Women’s dating advice can all be categorized as follows…it sounds good but doesn’t work!	/r/seduction	19/07/22 12:18 AM
9	Why is there so much jealousy on this sub? Lol I was just thinking this today. Newbie posts get upvoted tons. Intermediate questions all score 0/negative/single digit positives with lots of hate, and then advanced guys posts get largely ignored unless they dumb down the advice a ton.	/r/seduction	13/07/22 07:14 PM
2	Woman's intuition ?? Slight exaggeration on my part. But I’m saying being with a girl or having just been with a girl seems to lower how attractive I am.	/r/seduction	05/07/22 10:56 AM
2	Woman's intuition ?? Literally the exact opposite happens with me. I have like a reverse social proof effect. Whenever I’ve gotten laid recently or am even with a girl, I get menacing glares or hate-filled stares from women. It’s insane. I mean, who cares at that point because like I’ve said I’ve just gotten laid/am with a girl but I notice that these random girls become robots who just look at me with hate hate hate. As for text, very rarely do women reach out to me ever.	/r/seduction	05/07/22 04:10 AM
1	Most men are invisible to all women Ha yeah that’s probably just it then. Sweet ill keep working.	/r/seduction	20/06/22 08:27 PM
2	Most men are invisible to all women Is there a name for the category that when youre just out in public and you feel like you draw a lot of attention from women but it’s like they will probably notice you, but then their face says they hate you, glare at you, or groan and try to actively avoid eye contact or being around you entirely.	/r/seduction	20/06/22 08:19 PM
2	Emotions Ups and Downs of Pickip Lol after going out i am either: The most suave man in the world and can befriend anybody. The most unworthy social retard on the planet about to be exiled from society. No in between! I cope by realizing that the pain of the bad days out is only a tiny fraction of the pain I felt after getting bad results in another hobby I use to have (gambling).	/r/seduction	23/05/22 03:07 PM
2	Who would be the person that everybody like to look at, like stare at, girls, boys, young and old, even children? Yeah I know what you mean, you see ridiculously handsome people out every once in a while. As someone with the exact opposite effect you appreciate the fact that life can be won in other ways. People who give me bouts of gutripping laughter are way more impressive, for instance.	/r/seduction	20/05/22 11:02 AM