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Maybe she has watched too much porn herself and she thinks it's supposed to be like that everytime. Could be the reason she's "acting" Talking about sex shortcomings with partner is very delicate. Could backfire easely. Have to be subtle. good luck
/r/askTRP25/12/16 04:47 PM
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Research "intimacy disorder and sexual addicition" as a possibility. Chicks interested in physical sex only and can't make love. They get off on rough sex only and as soon as they start having feelings for a person the sex drive plummets. Also search the term "fraysexual" and see what you find. Some guyz love these girls but It aint for everyone.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:13 AM
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WERA? It doesnt hurt that is for sure but just make sure you arent a motorycle geek. I am guilty of that so I always downplay that part of my life because chicks dont wanna spend all day hearing your motorcycle stories and about the new R6 that is coming out.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 02:57 PM
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Hard next and don't tell her why.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 02:42 PM
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Name him Chad
/r/askTRP22/12/16 04:23 AM
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One way is to not threaten to end your life on reddit. https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/5jftnz/my_last_moments_alive_goodbye/ https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/5jh85g/im_still_here/ Crying for attention on message boards... get a grip and get your shit together.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:44 PM
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Ran into a very similar situation this month. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5i4v69/how_to_work_with_shyintrovertbookworm_types/ On my end cut my loses. Turns out I am not attracted to someone who is that shy and introverted even if shes is good loooking. Turned attention to other prospects instead. I't ok to be selective. Also... not attracted to me? then GTFO... Not gonna beta my way into your heart. Done with that.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:05 PM
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20 bucks says she is not pregnant. She wants you to go thru an "emotional event" with her so you can build a "connection" then lock you into an LTR.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 04:56 PM
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I'd say you did it correctly and he screwed up. Agressor is mate guarding and has a bloody nose from sucker punching you. He completely lost frame.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 09:52 PM
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So let me get this straight: She is the cheating whore and you are the one feeling like shit from this... She wants control over you and she's exploiting your weaknesses to make you feel inferior to her. Anything to avoid having to face the fact that she is garbage. Be glad this happened to you and ghost her. She doe not exist to you anymore and be damn glad she's not your problem anymore.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 07:24 PM
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Well detailed advice such as this deserve honest report from the second date. We went to see a comedy show but I was not able to get seating that put me in a position to kino. We both had fun but no escalation. This time she did not have a single drink. After the show we went out to eat and we sat across from each other. The energy felt very similar to the first date. Cahtting it up, me driving the conversation moreso than her, few laughs, lots of eye contact. I told her that come to think of it…
/r/askTRP18/12/16 04:06 AM
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Unless you are in an LTR with her, her past means nothing, zero, nada. If you let it get to your head, you are fucking yourself over. Keep having fun with this plate and if you arent comfy with the way she is, dont LTR her. Simple.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 02:40 PM
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This is classic oneitis. Every minute you waste thinking about this ex-gf, you arent imrpoving yourself or focusing the the next girls you will date. A lot of us are guilty of this.(myself included) She's your ex for a reason, dont forget that. And right now shes using you.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:37 AM
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I completely agree with what is written here. Before stumbling into the redpill I was a natural MGTOW. What I started doing is crossing continents on motorcycles. Just you, a bike and some camping gear. I rode as far North as I could, I rode South into Mexico in the areas where we are told not to go. On these trips, I did not give a crap about anything(well almost anything), taking risk, going into the unknown, living life, finding myslef. Now, today when I am faced with a tough situation, I tel…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 03:29 PM
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Best response here
/r/askTRP14/12/16 09:21 PM
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I like women my age, someone help me! ;)
/r/askTRP14/12/16 04:56 AM
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I agree on all except the tan.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 04:33 AM
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Good stuff here. Gonna keep you updated on what happens.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 04:16 AM
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She's not a snowflake. I have two more dates lined up for friday and Saturday. I am doing it for real this time. but have to admit I need to get better at this. It's a process.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 04:12 AM
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Dating app
/r/askTRP13/12/16 09:11 PM
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Dont get entangled by conversation by text. Big time waster. If she brings ip a topic "where are you going for your next vacation?" Tell her "well talk about this when we see each other" otherwise youll be spending you whole days texting meaningless stuff then when you do meet you have nothing to talk about.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 05:34 PM
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Hard next and don't tell her why you broke up. I hard next someone a little while ago and I told her exactly why. Big mistake, I will never do this again. She's debating my reason to anyone who will listen (online and in person) and she's convincing them she's right. An immense wall of uneccesary drama has hit me. And she quickly went from heartbreak to revenge. I am telling you this from experience, hard next and break all ties. Nuke this relatinship from orbit and never come back to it, it's r…
/r/askTRP10/12/16 05:08 PM
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"There is a straight 10 in college: looks, face, personality, ass, boobs. Everything is straight 10 in my book." There is never "a girl", forget about her. Read up on abundance mentality and oneitis because you need help there.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:50 PM
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Also another thing about high school and college friends: I have a friend who obsesses over girls he knew from HS and his teenage years. Whenever one breakes up on FB, he starts messaging them to try and win them over. He wastes a ton of energy just texting and texting these girls. He thinks he has a better chance because they already know him. I tell him the opposite. Forget everyone you already know, waste of energy 99% of the time.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:41 PM
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You dont need friends like these. If they see you as what you were before and nothingelse, no need being their doormat.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:37 PM
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100% Troll
/r/askTRP02/12/16 07:50 PM
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My advice is to tell her you want to break it off relationshipwise -clean. If you play your cards right and with a little bit of luck, she may come back to you for some fun whenever he new LTRs start to go sour.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:46 PM
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In my short pathetic life I have never-ever seen an LTR relationship work out with the new guy when the chick was cheating on her old LTR with the new guy. I have a guy in mind with a story just like yours. He fell for the girl that was cheating on her old bf with him. After he LTR'd her she started cheating on him.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:45 PM
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She is swinging from one branch to the other. Now that she has "locked" you, she's going to leave her old bluepill and hang onto you for while until she gets bored and starts looking for the next branch to grab. You will be her bluepill Beta Bucks if you LTR her. With everything that comes with it.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:39 PM
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First of all start liking yourself and work at bettering yourself. Throw negativity out of the window. If you need help with this, go see a specialist be prepared to open the fuck up and work thru your issues. Everytime you start having negative thoughts that are detrimental to your self esteem, realize, stop and do something that makes you a better person. That is what I do, whenever I start on a negative roll, I stop myself, and I act. ie. Gym, clean apt., call friend for drinks, work on side …
/r/askTRP02/12/16 04:20 PM
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Feel like you are losing her? She is not yours dude! If you LTR her, youll be taking BluePills, job and someone else will take yours.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 03:55 PM
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It's been my experience that everytime you tell someone that they should not be with someone, it makes them stick to them even more. I would not tell him to quit seeing that woman but I would send him links to TRP that you think he might enjoy reading. Tell him about how TRP helped you. He needs to reach a conclusion himself. Even I when I came to TRP and explained my situation, everyone told me to leave her right away. I did not not leave right away but I kept reading TRP and the more I learned…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 03:14 PM
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All I hear are excuses. Action, action, action: start believing in yourself, get out there. Grab every opportunity to meet people even if platonic setting. Quit doubting yourself and your imperfections. Join classes or activities that involve groups and interaction.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 05:02 AM
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Sidebar: How much time between the two dates? Chicks fall in love when you arent not around. Dont set up second date too close to the first date. What is the volume of text msg you send her between dates. You must keep it low and straight to the point.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:52 AM
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I was dating a girl who threw some red flags. I googled the red flags and found TRP. Girl was hard nexted because the LTR was already too far along.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:48 AM
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Read the book of Pook
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:44 AM
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Yoga class (only partly kidding)
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:41 AM
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Assuming this LTR is something that you want to keep going strong. I would only tell if there is a possibility that she might find out from other sources. Because if she learns that from a 3rd party you are fvcked. If there is no risk of her finding out otherwise then let it be.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:35 AM
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Thank you guyz, I see a trend a varying opinion and I am soaking this all in.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 06:48 PM
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Listen to Glory Days : Bruce Springsteen
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 02:52 PM
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I had a friend in college who pulled some decent action and one thing he said to me made me laugh because of how true it was. "Hey I got a small dick but when they find out it's already too late!"
/r/askTRP16/11/16 05:25 PM
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I made the comment becasue I felt the same way for a long time. I was never very very heavy but always chubby and out of shape. I lost a lot of weight some years back but the confidence never came like I expected it would. I also had and am still working on some self-esteem issues. It took a lot of courage and a lot of introspection but with the guidance of a therapist, I made a huge breakthru and I am glad I did. Still working on improving myself but I feel like a lot of progress is coming thru…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 02:31 PM
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First of all congrats on taking care of your body. I am thinking that even thou you lost all of the weight, you still have the fat person mentality. You still carry the shame of being fat even thou you are now fit. The excess skin does not matter one bit and once the other person has shown interest you just need to close and not worry about what will happen later on in the process. This is a 100% self esteem issue, not a physical. You have to believe in your own value before you can express it a…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 09:30 PM
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I personaly really enjoy the JRE podcast. He is not pure red pill but he makes total sense 99% of the time. If your goal is to better yourself physicaly, spiritualy, socialy and mentaly, I would say it's worth looking into his podcast. But you do have to wade thru many of his podcasts to find the true gems, the red pill diamonds. But when you do find a gem, it makes it all worth it.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 06:27 PM
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Maybe I am old school but I never try to solve anything thru text messaging. When I have something of importance to say to someone, it's eye to eye. It's my opinion that text message relationships are for teenagers and are the perfect breeding ground for unnecessary drama. On any given day, in an LTR, any converstion that lasts more than 10 SMS is a complete waste IMO.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 05:56 PM
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So are you telling us that you have performance anxiety related ED and not an actual physical problem? You can get hard easily on you own but you are anxious in a new relationship and your stress kills your boner?
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:44 PM
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Yep call his parents and his children. The taste of his own medicine.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:35 PM
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Indifference trumps hatred, everytime. When you hate someone, you let them affect you, you give them value and control over you. When you are indifferent, you show them they mean nothing to you, thus preserving or increasing your value. I say ignore (emotionally) but when they make a major faux pas, put them in their place without getting emotional. This is easier said than done but it works. I used to worry so much about what everyone at work thinks about me and now I have made an almost recove…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:19 PM
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I am by no means an RP expert (I am working on it; it's a long process) but getting piss drunk and having sex is not LTR behavior. That's the type of behavior reserved for a girl on the CC. Whenever you get drunk, you lose all you inhibitions and the true nature of your desires come out. Clearly if she is not all over you when she is getting drunk she not that lit up about you. I am willing to bet that if you were a fly on the wall and could see her drunk at a party where you are not around, you…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:07 PM
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The problem is not the Cialis, the problem is your attitude about having the Cialis. Tell her your buddy Joe gave it to you for recreational use. Now that she knows about it, why not use it with her? If you are shy, or shamed by the fact you have one of these, it shows your insecurities and that is not good. Full disclosure: I have some blue pills that I keep in the the drawer and the girl I am dating knows about them. They are recreational and I am totally cool with her knowing I have these. We…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:51 PM
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Here is a data point: My friend married a woman who dated mostly black guys before settling down with him. He gave her children and after the second kid was born they barely had any sex at all and finaly at the end of the relationship they did not have any sex for over 2 years. He left (took too long but he did) and she is back at dating black guys again. He's now dating all over the place and having a ball.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:36 PM
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