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The guy above was projecting a bit. But I’ll try to rephrase. Definitely good to provide fully for a partner. That’s admirable and ideal for all relationships. Don’t avoid that! The problem is that there are a lot of men (not necessarily you specifically) who don’t have the skills to efficiently provide the emotional, mental, physical, etc. To a partner. Frequently these men try to over compensated via paying for women. Since they don’t know how to maintain a good relationship, they pay for it s…
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:44 PM
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Great FR. One of the best I’ve seen. A few buddies and I are thinking about doing a summer in New York. This was insightful.
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:39 PM
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Great description! Accurate. Reminds me of how then English language has differences in it that at hard to make the same.
/r/seduction08/01/22 10:04 AM
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Eventually you can become friends again with ex. I’m good friends with like 6 of them. They are my best wing women. Since breaking up, I’ve learned that they were not the one woman for me… always see a GF in rose colored shades. That being said, it did take several weeks of low/no contact after each breakup to get that way. Longer relationship, longer recovery. Also, super important, you can’t hook up with them ever again after breakup (vacation sex doesn’t count), otherwise it ruins ability to …
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:18 AM
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Unique events in your city is the best. By far. Huge. Is there a new restaurant opening? Née bar opening? Special DJ or music act coming thru? New art exhibit? Special wine tasting festival? Fancy trivia night? The more unique, the higher the quality woman
/r/seduction10/09/21 09:29 PM
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Which app are you using?
/r/seduction10/06/19 04:23 PM
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Is making friends with an attractive guy a beta move?? Of course not. Having friends is great. You don’t have to only be friends with ugly people or people you don’t find good looking.
/r/seduction01/06/19 11:45 PM
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Smart Move! My recommendation is that you use the additional time that you would have spend swiping or having low success conversation in a productive way. Like building your skills or getting your business done completed faster so you can have those face to face conversations.
/r/seduction10/04/19 05:16 PM
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return key multiple times
/r/seduction18/02/19 10:29 PM
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She probably wants to be invited to more parties. Knows that you're a hookup for fun times. If it's college/frat scene, She probably is trying to collect guys that know where the parties will be. Then chooses whichever party looks the best. ​ I wouldn't invest too much. But (if she is cute) keep throwing her invites to awesome events that your frat is throwing. She may come and bring friends. Either you hook up with her or you don't. Either way it brings more ladies to the party which is rarely …
/r/seduction18/01/19 09:27 PM
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That’s is an unhelpful comment that doesn’t help build this person up. This community is about building each other up.
/r/seduction28/11/18 05:05 AM
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Always approach from diagonally from the front. Never from behind.
/r/seduction25/11/18 04:06 AM
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Invite her out to a fun activity. But frame it as a group activity with other ppl. The key is to only have other women join ya. :) Say “hey me and two friends of mine are doing __________ next week/weekend/Wednesday. Would you like to join us? No pressure, but I bet you’ll enjoy yourself.” Then make the two other friends women. (Always have 6+ lady friends) It lets you flirt with her without having competition and without it seeming like a date. Plus then your girlfriends can convince her to han…
/r/seduction23/11/18 02:22 AM
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I sort of disagree. They need to be profitable at some point. As a business they need to make money. So they are creating pain points to force ppl to start paying. They do that by prioritize paying members over non paying members. I also know they have algorithms that rank more attractive men up front of attractive females. So if you’re not crazy attractive (like super 10/10. Not an 8/10) OR you’re not paying, you’re profile will be less likely be be out in front of a hot lady. If you’re not in …
/r/seduction19/11/18 03:00 PM
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If tinder worked perfectly without paying the company, then no one would every pay for tinder premium. The company intentionally created a pain point to force people to buy the premium version. From a business perspective, it makes perfect sense for tinder to do that
/r/seduction19/11/18 01:50 PM
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They changed algorithms. It’s Guys that pay money to tinder gets dates. Guys that don’t pay tinder do not get dates.
/r/seduction19/11/18 02:42 AM
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Over thinking this too much bro
/r/seduction28/05/18 07:16 PM
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this guy fucks
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:12 PM
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These 8 points are not exclusive to older women....
/r/seduction18/08/17 03:46 PM
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I sorta disagree with you. Maybe FIRST time hook ups they won't. But I have experienced that women girls still try to pull shit tests as a way to figure a guy out. I have another friend who is a good looking C list celebrity; girls still pull shit. This is a sample size of 1 dude that i saw with his girl for the night, so this is anecdotal not statistical. It'd be great if justin timberlake hoped on here to let us know how it really is
/r/seduction11/07/16 07:51 PM
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Exactly. I know a lot of guys that would chase and say I am sorry and be afraid to lose. He was able to avoid that. Also wrote this drunk last night. So I am impressed that it is not a sloppily written as i expected.
/r/seduction11/07/16 04:20 PM
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All true... But hot girls will always try to shit test even if he actually was bradley cooper.
/r/seduction11/07/16 04:18 PM
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Two things: First, try to have a nice enough place that you'd want to have people come to it. Girls or guys. A nice enough place ideally close to the action is soooo helpful. This helps 1 because of logistics. If you live close to action, girls are more willing to come back. And 2 because when they try to shit test you with "do you bring girls here" thing. Say yes, I bring a lot of people and friends over. It's a nice place. Second. Bringing people back to your place regularly is great because i…
/r/seduction05/06/16 11:40 PM
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It is definitely possible to live a life in your 20's-30's involving tons of parties with hot models who are 18-30. I am fortunately to have a bunch of attractive guy + girl friends who are good with women and like to party. That life does exist. Now having these legendary holleywood esq parties is not something that comes easy. It is a lot of work! You have to: 1) keep your group of good friends close. 2) stay in shape! Be good looking (or at least confident looking) 3) have money.... If you wa…
/r/seduction24/01/16 11:24 PM
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Thanks for the response. Notes: 1) This is a family trip first organized for my grandma. Great traveler back even 10 years ago.... but her muscle strength is not what it used to be. Also i would likely go traveling to a hostel in Thailand, Jordan, or Columbia before i'd do a single cruise. I prefer that over touristy things. 2) Your point about making arrangements with him is a good idea. 3) I don't want to be the one to get a junior in high school to drink. He can wait till college. 4) you migh…
/r/seduction27/12/15 04:35 PM
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Hey dude. I think she is just shit testing you hard. I've seen these foreign Italian and Southern European girls shit test for days. If you stay persistent it should work. Be romantic but not sex driven.
/r/seduction04/09/15 01:47 AM
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Tips for Getting a girl to becomes a FWB: 1) Pick up the girl and bring her back to your place for sexy time (yes this is way harder and takes more than 1 step, hence seddit, but go with me) 2) Have Unbelievably Great Sex the very first time you hook up. Make it be passionate, last a long time (ideally an hour), get her off multiple time, communicate. If you need more concrete examples, I HIGHLY recommend /r/sex (it is a great subreddit; very raw conversations) 3) After the sex. DO NOT set any g…
/r/seduction26/12/14 06:00 AM
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1) I consider myself really good with girls for several reasons. Some being luck, some being practice, some being mindset, some being chance. Overall, I am a strong believer in myself and stronger believer that any guy can get any girl. 2) After hooking up/getting to know/being friends with enough girls, you will begin to realize that there are some girls that you just want to be friends with. 3) MOST IMPORTANTLY: I have found much success in purposely friend zoning girls. If i meet a girl and s…
/r/seduction04/12/14 05:38 AM
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Go on all the dates!! Serious, you might get to the third dates with each of them and realize that all the girls suck (aka you don't match). Don't get it in your head that "Shit I'm Dating 3 different women!!" instead have a mindset of "I have three awesome events coming up with three really cool people!" It's quite acceptable to have 3 different "friend dates" and you wouldn't get into your head and think "oh god, im friends with three different people!" Consider this the same way with dating. …
/r/seduction03/12/14 09:14 PM
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4- have a threesome
/r/seduction08/08/13 09:59 PM
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I was told that once. My response was something like "wow thank you! A girl hasn't told me I am too nice in a long time!" Basically it was thanking them for the complement, which throws them off, but also shows that you interact with many other girls and many of them think you are not "too nice." Furthermore, she might even think that she is experiencing a different side of you, AKA she is special/different than the other girls. Just a thought
/r/seduction14/07/13 03:27 AM
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I have found that taking a 90 minute nap can really help. But that's not always a viable option.
/r/seduction21/06/13 05:46 AM
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That's like saying what is weeds or game of thrones or entourage. You should definitely check it out sometime. I think it's a HBO show. There have been 6 seasons so far. Definitely start from beginning if you have hours (days) of free time.
/r/seduction21/03/13 08:57 PM
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Pardon my different meaning of celebration. I refer to celebrating the fact that the sister is visiting and that they are staying in a hotel (both typically infrequent occurrences.) using champaign to celebrate the gathering (not the threesome!) can definitely set the emotional mood that would benefit OP
/r/seduction18/03/13 09:41 PM
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Champaign I think is a fantastic threesome choice from my experience. Sets a celebratory mood.
/r/seduction18/03/13 09:10 PM
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I second Nitutte... My number 1 pickup line of all time is "Hi, my name is _____" and offer a hand and a smile. (insert first and sometime last name). It helps to have some things to talk about after the greeting. Let me know if you need ideas.
/r/seduction06/02/13 04:12 AM
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yup. the game by neil strausse. its a must read in the pick up community. google for a PDF of it online.
/r/seduction04/02/13 11:14 PM
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I am no expert in sex. BUT this book does have some pretty good techniques that are supposed to get even the toughest girls off. It says guy (or girl) can learn. You can save the PDF of this book to your computer. http://ebookbrowse.com/gdoc.php?id=381137024&url=85a12e57c7dbb9fadc392b2c57313bfd
/r/seduction03/02/13 06:00 PM
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thanks dudes
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:58 PM
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Sorry about the lack of info. I definitely was drunk when i typed this up. BUT: This is the original FR. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/16cvrc/fr_trivia_night_a_local_bar_close_in_an_hours_work/ This was the field report from the A girl. my moral of the story was less about the pick up and more about the trying to be good at sex because it will directly and indirectly help with your pick up game. Here is a book pdf titled "give women screaming orgasms." I like it because its premise …
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:51 PM
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Thanks for the spelling correction. Was definitely drunk when i typed this so i hope you can forgive me. haha
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:50 PM
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This is the original FR. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/16cvrc/fr_trivia_night_a_local_bar_close_in_an_hours_work/ This was the field report from the A girl. my moral of the story was less about the pick up and more about the trying to be good at sex because it will directly and indirectly help with your pick up game. Here is a book pdf titled "give women screaming orgasms." I like it because its premise is that any guy can give any girl the best sex of their life. Pretty good. http:…
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:49 PM
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Sorry about the arrogance. I typed this when i was too excited to sleep and was just really proud of myself at the time. So I am sorry
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:46 PM
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Here is a downloadable PDF of a book that might help. Its titled "Give women screaming orgasms." I like it because its premise is that any guy can give any girl the best sex of their life. Pretty good. http://ebookbrowse.com/gdoc.php?id=381137024&url=85a12e57c7dbb9fadc392b2c57313bfd http://ebookbrowse.com/give-women-wild-screaming-orgasms-pdf-d381137024
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:45 PM
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Here is a downloadable PDF of a book that might help. Its titled "Give women screaming orgasms." I like it because its premise is that any guy can give any girl the best sex of their life. http://ebookbrowse.com/gdoc.php?id=381137024&url=85a12e57c7dbb9fadc392b2c57313bfd http://ebookbrowse.com/give-women-wild-screaming-orgasms-pdf-d381137024
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:44 PM
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Sorry i misspelled it last night. here are some articles that I found about it. http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/dual-induction-massage/ http://dualmassage.tripod.com/
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:40 PM
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Yup robot_army is right.
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:39 PM
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Yeah sorry about that. I definitely was super happy with myself that I had just had a threesome and I can tell how it might have come off as arrogant. I just really excited to share the story cuz i couldnt sleep/drunk. So I am sorry for any cockiness that came about from it.
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:38 PM
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Just give a one word response. (sometimes a head nod or subtle smile is acceptable) Trust me. The ones that i think work best are either a simple "thanks." or my favorite by far: "Respect." (It might make them feel like they "earned respect" and that you are a person that they should strive to get respect from? Qualifying statement! haha) The tone/inflection should be much lower energy than how the prior conversation has been going earlier.
/r/seduction25/01/13 02:02 AM
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