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In my opinion Rebel Media is quite cringeworthy. Just apply the 'red-pill lens' to news of any kind that you read or view. I'd like to ask the OP - /u/ppanther92 - What kind of stories do you want to read about? How does reading it benefit you?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:39 PM
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Up vote for Steven Pinker
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:23 PM
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You're overthinking it. Just continue to escalate and see where it goes.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:02 PM
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We can't make this decision for you. Too old to become Alpha? This title makes no sense given the context of the post. What do you mean how do you not mess her up? Be a stable person, be her rock. The virginity thing might be a big deal to her or nothing at all.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 03:46 PM
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There is certainly an upward trend of women choosing polyamory. Is it a product of our culture. Absolutely. Is there anything you can do about it? Not really except for choose not to participate. Continue to work on yourself. Increase your value regardless of your relationship status. I hate to say it but it's almost a class thing. Lower class women choose polyamory because it benefits them. Higher class women don't usually choose polyamory because of stronger bond with family, reputation, and s…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 05:01 PM
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The end result is that the value of college education will continue to decline.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 02:59 AM
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The shit storm is already happening.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 04:27 PM
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OP points out that there comes a time when patience instead of continuing escalation can achieve success. OP could have made a move in the car after dropping her friend off and that might not of gone over very well. Patience. OP gave the girl options, just enough IDGAF that doesn't set off her slut defense alarm. Good job /u/md619
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 02:32 PM
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The truth is women really don't like dark skinned guys. Don't use this as an excuse or as a barrier to approaching the kind of women you want. My advice? Look for ways to get more social validation amongst friends and groups you hang out with. I'm not saying you have to be known as a nice guy. They probably find you attractive, no problem with your skin color. Unfortunately its stupid stereotypes you are up against-- so you'll need to get your name out there in ways that proves those stereotypes…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:59 PM
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I do worry that I'm wasting her time. I know she sees me as "the one" and I'm pretty torn about it since she is my only LTR. This sums it up for me. You worry that you are wasting your time because you ARE. So you have 4 choices. Don't move in with her, stay together. Don't move in with her, breakup. Move in with her, stay together Move in with her, breakup later. My opinion -- let her go cause thats what you really want to do. So JUST DO IT #shialabeouf
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:51 PM
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In 5 months time you should of been able to find out. You were either willfully ignorant or treating her like a prostitute, not a plate. Did you two ever go out/hang out in public? Did you only meet up at your place but never hers? If you went out were you always the driver, or would she sometimes drive you around? You're asking how to find signs she was in a relationship? Pfffffft.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:27 PM
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Go with your gut son. Don't ignore your instincts. Find a way to ask a couple of unimportant questions about her family visit and gauge her reaction.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:22 PM
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OP's feeling is caused by bouncing around inside of the biggest echo chamber women have ever created. The feminist narrative wasn't as mainstream as it is now. Women who don't particularly care about feminism or don't really wish to participate are being dragged in, shamed and possibly cast out, and punished if they don't nod in agreement and shout inside the echo chamber along with everyone else. Peer pressure is causing a lot of women to participate in the hookup culture when it wasn't their o…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 02:59 PM
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Do and say what you want but don't try to explain yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 02:39 PM
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Bitter pills in the comment section. You guys are right though. Cant let me kid myself.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 06:07 PM
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Its too early to ask those kind of questions. You are in a similar spot as me -- once you work and focus on yourself a path, a direction will be more clear. You'll hopefully have a better idea of what you want from plates or a new LTR. Do you need women's attention? How will plates or a LTR benefit YOU. Whats in it for YOU?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 06:38 PM
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Just broke up with LTR. This is the message I tried to teach her. She was too emotionally dependant on me and others. Its like trying to save a drowning person -- you try to save them but they pull you under water in the process. They have to learn how to swim on their own.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:51 PM
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Exactly. What keeps driving me back into the angry phase are stories like this. TRP says to maintain high SMV, evolve, always improve -- but the fact remains that you can do all of this and still get stabbed in the back. One thing I've noticed is that people, men and women in relationships are not able to communicate or work things out on their own anymore (were we ever able to?, I think the answer is -- we didn't give women the choice). Men are now punished by white knights, feminists, Chads wh…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:51 PM
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This relevant video has been trending - Do Nothing Bitch.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 06:42 PM
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I think its ok to write out your opinion -- just don't always opt to hit the send button.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:40 PM
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First off, boo fucking hoo. Whining about getting touched by women? Pffft. Let it boost your confidence a little and feel some extra validation -- just don't let it overinflate your ego. Anger? Sure I understand you being angry at the hypocrisy of it all. "OK, my turn now" -- inappropriate response. Your response should be something like "Sorry ladies, I'd check out your pecks too but but I'm taken". Basically, something like blah blah blah but you're taken. Why? Because it earns respect but sti…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:51 PM
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I'm in a LTR now. I was hospitalized for my condition while with this gal. She stayed at my side the entire time. I rewarded her for it AND she got lots of validation and praise from it. If I had previously shown to her that I was a whiny bitch I doubt she would of made herself available. She knew I was strong and would overcome my illness. Because of my confidence, frame and maintaining good attitude -- I'm not displaying weakness, I'm displaying strength.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 11:21 PM
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Not seeing any great advice here yet so let me chime in. I have Ulcerative Colitis. Good days, bad days. Long story short -- minimize whining. If you are sick and have to cancel, bail, whatever -- state what you are going to do about it -- not how you FEEL. "I am sick, I have to leave". Or tell your lady to take care of you -- continue to maintain control of the situation. Early on I caught myself saying out loud to my partners that I was feeling ill, but wouldn't leave or pace around like an id…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 09:59 PM
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They didn't want to attack her beauty (or lack of) so they turned her down because of her age. She never was the hot girl and she can't accept that.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 07:04 PM
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You can compare your friend's behavior to guys at the gym who have "fuckarounditis". A term coined by the dude that runs LeanGains. They go to the gym a lot, read up on various diets and workout plans -- but they aren't consistent, or disciplined enough to make the appropriate gains. You know what's holding people like your friend up? Fear. Fear of success. One of the hardest parts of completing a "transformation" is shaking off the pity party, woe is me attitude, or fear of failure, fear of rej…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 06:40 PM
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Sounds like you might be pushing it a bit -- but increase your zinc intake. Eat some celery, maintain hydration and electrolyte levels.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 04:36 PM
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Just say that you will take responsibility for any issues that arise due to having girls over. She might be worried about things getting stolen, damaged, etc.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 04:33 PM
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You need to take more risks, find a challenging hobby. What you have done by age 22 is basically eliminate risks and stresses that produce motivation in life. Find a hobby or two that challenge you. Volunteer somewhere, help old people I don't know. If women aren't really on your mind right now -- awesome, use the extra time on your hands to your advantage. Master a new skill that fortifies your future success.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:18 PM
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Men: Better yourself. Women: You don't need no man redpilltruth
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:27 PM
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I think some economic points should be discussed as well....but I'll keep it short. The attack on the middle class and savings is basically an attack on men. It has stripped our breadwinner title from us. We are no longer able to raise a family on one income. I'm not saying women shouldn't be allowed to work -- I'm just saying that the economic policies we have experienced in the US has been detrimental to the "traditional" American Family -- which is detrimental to masculinity. Why are many for…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 03:25 PM
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Its in the Washington Post article. Basically the dude she has named didn't go to the fraternity she claimed -- so she has her own facts all mixed up.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:55 PM
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But this shouldn't be based on a belief system. It should be based on forensics and evidence.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:54 PM
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I agree -- but also at the same time measures should be taken to motivate actual victims to report the rape as soon as they possibly can. I really don't understand how victims could expect anything good to come of their situation when they report their rape that occurred years ago. Same thing applies to the recent news regarding Bill Cosby. Why are victims waiting years to report their rapist!!?!? It seems these days that women are really causing a huge problem amongst themselves by using their …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:23 PM
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What people think of you It’s the hardest thing to let go of, but the most worthwhile once you do. Once you stop giving into everyone’s perception of who you are, you can finally figure it out for yourself — and that’s the first step to really growing up. This one applies to both men and women. It is the hardest for women to give up because they are constantly seeking validation -- but you'll probably find you are more attracted to the ladies that aren't bitching about other people's behavior to…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 08:38 PM
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