lostthering Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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13	My husband wants me to quit my 6 figures job How often do women hit on him at his job?	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/25 10:41 PM
23	Should you give wifey treatment to a boyfriend? I mean you have to show him you’re wifey material before he puts a ring on it first right? You should only give him what you enjoy giving him, and ONLY if he enjoys receiving it. You may be surprised at the things your particular man places little value on, that you felt were expressions of your deepest affection for him. Likewise, you should not feel entitled to receive anything from him unless he enjoys giving it. Also, gently inform him if he has incorrectly assumed you would enjoy something. He may be surprised to find out that some of the ways he shows affection, you find irritat…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/01/25 03:25 PM
1	how to NOT be jealous of porn? Start watching movies filled with men better than your husband. Men who could provide what your husband can't or won't provide. Japan has an entire industry that provides attractive young men to have conversations with women. I don't know if they have expanded to online services overseas, but if they have they can provide you with the emotional affair your husband deserves to lose you to. See how he reacts to that.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/24 04:19 PM
1	My fiancé wants me to address him by a term of endearment (1) She already explained why she has an abnormal aversion to verbal endearments. Asking her to simply ignore her deeply ingrained feelings is very controlling. I'm sure you have your own boundaries and phobias that you want others to have consideration and respect for. (2) He said he wanted it to be genuine. You asking her to do the opposite of that. Picking a random word would not convey any genuine emotion from within her. It would be a shallow external performance done solely to placate him.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/24 12:28 PM
-2	My fiancé wants me to address him by a term of endearment Ok now I am pissed off. He is demanding you give him what he wants ... but won't tell you what he wants??? Forgive me for possibly projecting my own past relationship trauma onto your situation, but that perverse combination of demand and refusal to clarify, reeks of a precursor of abuse to me. He says he wants your expression to be "authentically from you"? Well I assume you have already told him that your most deeply authentic self is uncomfortable with pet names, and devoid of any genuine cap…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/24 06:59 AM
7	My fiancé wants me to address him by a term of endearment Why haven't you asked him what names he would like?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/24 06:05 AM
6	Husband confessed to me It's pretty common for people in the psychology profession to view all inherited traditions with suspicion. Especially monogamy.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/12/24 03:28 PM
4	Husband confessed to me Deep down he is probably hoping she will tell him he can have his threesomes without anything else in their marriage changing. Especially not her bringing another man in as the third partner.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/12/24 03:21 PM
1	High body count - am I cooked? What does he want you to give him, that you can't give him?	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/24 08:34 PM
1	High body count - am I cooked? What does he do to anger you?	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/24 08:33 PM
1	Is being boring a big deal? If not, why do men never commit to me? When you have free time to do what you enjoy, what do you do?	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/24 04:37 PM
2	Is being boring a big deal? If not, why do men never commit to me? This makes me so sad. The same thing happened to me, except as a result of parents deliberately punishing my interest in imaginary things. They especially hated videogames. So I didn't even have those to hide in. The result is that my true personality disappeared and I became a hollow groupie who hangs out with more inspired friends, and mirrors their passions instead of feeling any of my own. When alone, I compulsively surf a vast variety of online knowledge. Just seeking the high of learning s…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/24 02:47 PM
2	Is being boring a big deal? If not, why do men never commit to me? What do you enjoy doing, purely for your own solitary enjoyment?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/24 01:04 PM
6	Is being boring a big deal? If not, why do men never commit to me? What do you talk about with your female friends?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/24 01:03 PM
3	Is being boring a big deal? If not, why do men never commit to me? I never show my true personality. I consider myself as a weird person Tell us, specifically, what is weird about you. That might give us a clue as to why men ghost you. Especially if your weird traits are the kind that good-looking men despise. For example, if you are a gamer nerd, or a classic literature nerd, those are areas that handsome men usually don't care about ... in which case the unpleasant solution to your problem is to start dating men who share you weird interests, even if they are…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/24 12:15 PM
2	Is being boring a big deal? If not, why do men never commit to me? they text me regularly with quick responses and ask me out on a second date. by date three (most of the time it doesn’t even get to that point), they get cold, distant, and ghost. Are you having sex with them on the second date? If so, you are either (1) attracting players who are only interested in notching their bedposts or (2) doing something in bed that repulses them or (3) getting so relaxed after sex that you fail to keep up your fake personality, and once they see your real one, they bolt…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/24 12:12 PM
5	Is being boring a big deal? If not, why do men never commit to me? It would help us a lot if you told us exactly what you mean by "relationship". When you imagine having one, what things do you imagine happening? Sex? Cuddling? Saying affectionate things? Eating together? Cooking together? Getting gifts from him? Being seen together and having people admire how good you look together? You are being so vague, I am starting to think you are using "relationship" as a euphemism for "sex". Is sex the only thing you want from a guy?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/24 12:00 PM
1	Is it normal to speak this way? But he shares personal this with other coworkers. Just not her. What does that indicate?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/24 11:47 PM
2	How do I (24F) stop behaving like a demon? This is very simple. Any time you feel like saying something to him, just ask yourself "How would I feel if he said this to me?". If it would make you feel bad, then don't say it. Keep doing this until you learn to ignore your feelings. That's really the core problem here. Somewhere in your past you gave yourself permission to believe and do whatever your feelings tell you to do, no matter who gets hurt. When men do this, we call them narcissistic sociopaths. So just start focusing on the feelin…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/24 08:24 PM
1	If I get approached a lot by men and get often told I’m pretty why do most men never actually end up wanting to get to know me other than sex? Can you more detail on what you mean by "energy"? Were you have certain thoughts and feelings during different times?	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/24 10:43 PM
2	If I get approached a lot by men and get often told I’m pretty why do most men never actually end up wanting to get to know me other than sex? I am curious why you think there is a connection between looks and personality. A person can be ugly and have a great personality that everybody wants to be around ... but nobody wants to sleep with them. Likewise, a beautiful person can have a terrible personality that makes people want to leave as soon as sex is over. I know some girls that have causal sex but the men still treat them decently outside of sex. What attractive personality traits do those girls have that you don't? What unattract…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/24 10:42 PM
1	Do you think you can actually sense misogyny? He said somewhere that he has a therapist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 08:01 PM
1	Do you think you can actually sense misogyny? I guess the final point I forgot to make is that I am guessing he thinks women see sex as transactional because ... His lifestyle is transactional. He doesn't just sit and talk. He performs actions. All of his free time is spent doing things instead of communicating thoughts and feelings. He wants to bypass the communication phase of sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 04:37 PM
3	Do you think you can actually sense misogyny? I bet the answer to his problem starts with finding out what he does with his free time. I bet none of it involves long periods of superficial conversation that GRADUALLY leads to deeper conversation. I bet his only interests involve performing tasks. I bet he loathes sitcoms and movies with lots of talking. This leaves him with nothing to talk about in situations where there are no tasks to perform. This also leaves him with no time around women, where they could gradually get to know him. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 04:32 PM
0	Do you think you can actually sense misogyny? From your posts it seems you have very poor understanding of your own and other people's sexuality So that I don't have to go hunting through his posts myself, can you summarize where he lacks understanding?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 05:20 AM