I’ve read lots of posts in this sub. I’ve actually never read one thats talked about that. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen but to say 99% of men would thats a massive percentage. In my life men have never paid much attention to my disability, they’re indifferent.
As someone who is differently abled, I think it’s pretty gross that you’re calling it undesirable. People should feel indifferent to whether their partners are differently abled. Also I’d like to see where you got that statistic from because you’re over exaggerating .
I’ve been accused of “nagging” several boyfriends and what it was, was me trying to make them into better people, more motivated and ambitious. Really, looking back they were garbage for making me feel annoying and I picked men who were 100% trash. Just because mummy lets you do what you want doesn’t mean I will dickhead.
I wish I had read this years ago! I went out with a boy (22-24) for two years, he constantly slept and missed when we were supposed to meet because he spent all night playing Xbox with his misogynistic friends. I always put up with it because I was 16-18, (which is a red flag ladies) if I complained he would just not talk and make me feel bad about being upset. I bought him an alarm clock and he wouldn’t use it because he didn’t like the sound. Long story short, I dumped him had sex with his fri…