| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | I get along w women better than men | Conversation | louied862 | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 12:33 AM |
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| 1 | I'm tired if pretendingI do wanna apologize for using the word incel, that was harsh an unnecessary. All I'm saying is dont ask for advice then tell the person giving advice to fuck off | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | I'm tired if pretendingIs anything I said wrong? You people literally come to a page asking for advice, I try to give advice and get told to fuck off lol. It's safe for me to assume the reason those ppl don't get laid is because they're assholes. Doesn't take a genius to figure that shit out | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | I'm tired if pretendingLmao ok then. Have fun being a fucking incel u miserable prick. Have u ever considered u can't get a girl cause ur an asshole? | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 02:46 AM |
| -6 | I'm tired if pretendingIt doesn't matter how you look I can promise you that. There's a girl out there that's right for you, you just gotta find her. I understand that might sound cliche but it's true. I believe in you (: | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 12:57 AM |
| 9 | Remember: we don’t chase, we attractThis is partially true. I'm a shy male but women find me attractive so I get hit on a lot. I usually shit my pants and blow it lol but nonetheless it happens. My ex girlfriend actually hunted me down when we first met and I just went along with it all. Its possible for women to be hunters also, especially if you're looking for a cougar. Cougars tend to pounce on cubs 👀 | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 3 | how do I rebuild my destroyed image?Yea that's also true. My ex girlfriend never put me thru shit tests when we first met cause she really liked me. Girls that are more controlling or unsure of you will attempt to do that. You can still get w them just dnt fall for it | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 06:05 PM |
| 13 | how do I rebuild my destroyed image?Yea dude, that's exactly what therapy is for. My therapist gave me advice on how to pick up girls. He told me not to fall for their "shit tests". Girls will test you to see how much bullshit you're willing to handle | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 04:16 PM |
| 4 | When can I invite myself to a girls place?I would never invite myself over to someone else's place, but that's just me | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I agree. You're getting stuck on minutiae. Just breath and be yourself | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 03:48 PM |
| 33 | How do I successfully ask a girl out in a way she knows that I want to just have sex?I messaged a bunch of girls on a dating app "hey, I know this is blunt but I'm just looking for a hookup buddy, lmk if this interests you". A bunch of ppl denied me but a few answered and i banged one of em. So yea its possible but very difficult | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If u agree to be her friend then u can't hit on her afterwards cause that's literally what u agreed to, I hope u realize that, so if your trying to date her tell her now or just settle with being friends. Whatever u do don't get friendzoned and still hit on her, it's creepy and will make you look like a bitch | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The only way to avoid over confidence is to be yourself. The only way you'll ever act over confident is if you're trying too hard and faking your personality. Don't "try" to hit on her, just hit on her. Don't "try" to act confident, just be confident. Hope this helps! | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 09:03 PM |
| 24 | Can confidence hide inexperience or does it always seep out?This this a million times this. You can be confident in your lack of confidence | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I know this sounds cliche, but if you love yourself fully on the inside you'll love yourself fully on the outside too. If you wanna work out and focus on fitness that can be helpful, but I wouldn't recommend surgery or anything permanent. Often times were more critical of ourselves than other people are of us. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Regular pornography use mess up your game.Yea this is definitely true. I only let myself watch porn 2 or 3 times a month tops. It should be a delicacy, not a habit | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 12:53 PM |
| 2 | I get along w women better than menThat makes a lot of sense. Sometimes I'll focus on the end goal too much when trying to flirt, instead of just being present w the situation | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 3 | I get along w women better than menI haven't considered that. Sometimes I won't be myself around women I'm attracted to....that's eye opening | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | I get along w women better than menYea definitely gotta work on that | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | I get along w women better than menYea I can totally understand that. I have a few good true friends that always got my back, and we bust each others balls cause we know were kidding, but whenever i see acquaintances or certain "friends" when I go out, there's always some type of competition there, and I get it, but it can be annoying.....i feel like that's just the nature of being young tho. Always searching for chicks, always tryna out do other dudes lol | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 01:33 AM |
| 2 | I get along w women better than menI hope to find my future wife like that, but in the mean time I'm just tryna have a lil fun and live it up while I'm young haha....its extremely hard to do that w my type of approach....just gotta keep experimenting I guess | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 12:42 AM |
| 2 | confusing situation with a guyTake it from an awkward dude.....u need to be more direct w your signals....he probably doesn't wanna misinterpret the situation. Give him some stronger signals and he'll probably make a move | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Glad to see how mature this sub has becomeYour initial point is valid on paper and I'm not refuting that. What I'm saying is you cant use such an analytical approach when it comes to human interaction. It just has to flow. I should've made myself more clear in my previous comments | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 09:06 PM |
| -1 | Glad to see how mature this sub has becomeWere talking about women, this isnt a philosophical dissertation.....and treating seduction like such is a sure way to never get a woman | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Glad to see how mature this sub has becomeThis is the most spot on post I've seen. Nothing wrong w pulling chicks but that doesnt mean you have to be a misogynistic asshole | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Glad to see how mature this sub has becomeMature is not ambiguous. If your goal is to get laid 24/7 you'll end up being a loveless loser like all those "ladies men" who are still 50 yrs old hanging out in bars all the time. Sure they get laid but is that seriously what u want out of life? | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl introduces me to her friend and says I’m her boyfriend and we aren’t actually datingShe's interested in you, just make sure u dont go head over heels and actually act like you're dating. Pursue her while simultaneously keeping your independence, u dnt want a girlfriend when ur in college | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 07:57 PM |
| 26 | I've definitely been guilty of this...One step atta time 😂 | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Deep thoughts about actually very simple stuffYea that's me, a high energy beta that really wants to fuck but has no idea how to even talk to ppl, let alone chicks.....lol, all excuses aside I gotta keep trying | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 6 | Date and a kiss.I like ur style | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | This sub in a nutshell nowadaysThis approach is somewhat neccessary because a lot of us are socially awkward and too analytical and it can help. But I definitely agree that u also gotta just lose yourself and be more natural. Eventually it will all come naturally but at first the tips can help | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | One Approach Every Day ChallengeHell yea man, this is inspirational | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 01:18 AM |
| 5 | Girls want sex too, you’re the one that messes it up.I always found slut shaming to be sarcastic to some degree, sex is a pretty normal thing biologically speaking. I also feel like it's somewhat easier to pull older women because of this whole "slut" concept. U might have to brush up on ur game, but middle aged woman are much more willing to sleep around than younger women because they simply dont give a fuck about being labeled | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | First Ever Bar Pickup On First TryI'd tend to agree. I know men that literally look like models but dont know how to talk to girls or carry themselves. I think luck plays somewhat of a factor tho. Sometimes the most confident, interpersonal men cant get certain girls | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Keeping girls engaged and interested after openingThis is what I dont understand either. I feel like u have to pursue a little bit more than 30 seconds because it'll make you look "weak" if you walk away that easily. But u also gotta learn when enough is enough. It's a very difficult distinction to make. Maybe u should just keep trying and keep striking out, eventually the right ones will come. Try "planting some seeds" and let them blossom on their own. Confidence is also huge but let it radiate from within, try not to have that false confiden… | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot?I believe it's a test and they're trying to check your availability. A good idea would be to show your available and show you're interested, maybe even follow up? But don't try too hard, if she's unresponsive to your follow ups move on to a new girl and explore different options. Chances are she might come around, or she just might not be interested in you. It's a difficult thing to differentiate as there's a lot of psychology behind dating. Just keep trying and keep practicing and over time you… | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 02:27 PM |
| 9 | Strategic friend zoningI usually use the same approach, be direct w everyone, but it doesnt work. Unfortunately there's a psychological game to dating and you gotta learn it. It drives me crazy lol | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 01:15 PM |
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