loveavocados Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 I came here for some hard truths. And this is the one I struggle with the most.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 08:36 PM
63	“It’s normal to feel attracted to others in a relationship.” I also went through a phase of being okay with porn and even including it during sex. I thought I was defective for being uncomfortable and thought the only way to deal with my emotions was to learn to objectify men and women like a "normal" person. That backfired and made me less secure. I'm honestly much happier now that I can admit to myself and others that I want true loyalty. No one needs porn to masturbate except porn addicts. Porn is betrayal. Porn is disrespect.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 08:29 PM
75	“It’s normal to feel attracted to others in a relationship.” I feel the same way. Do I notice attractive men? Yes. Do I allow myself to be attracted (I.e. let my eyes linger, think of them, seek their attention, give them attention)? No. I stop myself at 'they're hot' and I move on because I'm a firm believer of monogamy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 08:17 PM
2	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 2 years	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 07:42 PM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 You're not wrong. I have a date and I'm not sure I'll be able to wait until then to pull the trigger and end it. I feel myself falling out of love and more and more I'm picking up on the things that he's not saying. The next step is to face the reasons I'm holding on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 07:41 PM
2	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 That was the old me. He knows I want to be engaged before we move in together. I made a promise to myself to never initiate milestone talks and to walk away if there is no progress by a set date.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 07:30 PM
10	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 I've taken to writing instead of talking the same points to my boyfriend. This sub has made me understand that I shouldn't have to keep communicating to be heard. I want to remind myself a year from now about this entry: "When he is ready to move this year, he will probably ask me again if he should consider me in his search. Every talk regarding moving in with each other has not gone well, so I doubt another will be any different. All of my compromises were shutdown and he flipped on his idea t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 07:05 PM
2	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020 I've taken to writing instead of talking the same points to my boyfriend. This sub has made me understand that I shouldn't have to keep communicating to be heard. I want to remind myself a year from now about this entry: "When he is ready to move this year, he will probably ask me again if he should consider me in his search. Every talk regarding moving in with each other has not gone well, so I doubt another will be any different. All of my compromises were shutdown and he flipped on his idea t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 06:22 PM
18	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020 Had a chat with my man last night about our perspectives on engagement...it was not great. We both agree that living together before marriage is important, but he doesn't see the proposal happening before moving in together. I will not live with a boyfriend. Apparently, he ranks engagement as a higher commitment than marriage...wtf. I'm cooked. Take me out of the oven - I am done.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/20 05:55 PM