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| 1 | how to stop letting money psych you out?Not all women want your money and to be more exact not all people want to extract resources from you. When you meet someone that doesnt intend to use you and you dont intend to use them... you'll discover love. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Had a planned "sex-date" but she said a day earlier she gave it a thought and want to stay friendsNobody wants planned sex | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 03:31 PM |
| 1 | men 30+ how well do you do with younger women like 18-25?You're not mature enough | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Are pictures everything on dating apps?90 percent pictures. 10 percent right time right place. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What to say when girls lick their lipsIts not that deep bro. I lick my lips when theyre dry. | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What to say when girls lick their lipsBuddy, reading body language is subconcious. If you're thinking and plotting what to do reactively you're not being present you're being a creep | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 02:51 PM |
| 2 | What to say when girls lick their lipsIts really unnecessary and rude to make comments about subtle movements | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 02:49 PM |
| 1 | my ex accidentally gave me free game. And showed me what I was doing wrong when I meet new women.He held doors and wrote sonnets about game 🤓 | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?I can tell by how you're writing that the best thing you could do for yourself would be to pursue somr education and i mean from a college or university. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?Thats not what im saying. You should put yourself out there but if your intent is just sex you're going to turn most women (and people in general) off. Thats why losers rely on game (manipulation), because desire controls their life. Find the simple joys in life and people will come to you. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?Game is for lames that no inner flame. Invest in yourself and enjoy life. Do not seek pleasures and free yourself from desire for your entire life. Everything will come naturally when you stop seeking it. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 03:28 PM |
| 1 | How do I keep her attention after opening with a compliment?Giving someone a compliment with the true intent of holding their attention hostage is manipulation. Cowardly shit. If you see someone you want to eanestly connect with go up to them and introduce yourself and explain yourself without games. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Questions to break the ice / silenceDont ever do canned questions. Be present. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 06:27 AM |
| 1 | I feel invisible to womenI have better advice. Be an initiater in all things you do. Setup social events, make plans for friends, do all the work... and most importantly do it for the love of the game not just to get laid... women like that shit | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Whatever "it" factor is there I simply don't got itThe it factor is enjoying life and the people around you. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 06:23 AM |
| 1 | What does taking the lead look like to you?Dont ever stay with a woman that makes demands of you | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 06:21 AM |
| 0 | Am I a stalker?Didnt read. If you're asking this question then yes you are. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 06:19 AM |
| 5 | What can I do differently?What do you mean by sexual talk? You killed the mood at some point. Besides that she probably wanted you to take her home that night. "I love your laugh" is practically code for take my clothes off. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?Im curious too about the guys that are obsessed. Seduction isnt that deep or even necessary. When women like you they try to seduce you themselves. In my experience the more sex ive had and the more available it is the less i am interested in it. There is definately a thrill in discovering the body of a someone new but if i had sex with someone else a few times the day before and even someone else a day or two before that... very quickly sex becomes a chore and even moreso relationship upkeep if… | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 06:11 AM |
| 8 | How often do women approach you?Im 32 and ive slept with 50 women in my life and i can only count 4 times a woman approached me. | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Inability to talk to women and even menSounds like you havent built up your self esteem. You have to pursue the things you enjoy doing. Socializing comes naturally when you feel good about yourself | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Where would i find a rich millionaire woman?Sea island in georgia, saint simons island... anywhere on the coast in the south east. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 03:12 AM |
| 7 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badYeah she also sounds mean spirited. Ive broken up with women because the sex wasnt good but i would never tell them that | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badRamming chicks as hard as you can isnt good sex lol. No one wants to be in a relatinship with someone thats constantly trying to win them over or vice versa... for duration i have no advice. Some women can make me orgasm in minutes others it takes all my own effort im sure women have these same feelings | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Do you have a preference in the type of women you approach?I only cold approach 10's. I only feel good cold approaching when i feel compelled to do so. Athletic women and women with muscles are my priority but theres a huge range of female bodies im attracted to. Plenty of hot fat girls out there too. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingYeah and im telling you theres no secret trick for "success" whatever that means to you. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 01:48 PM |
| 2 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingI play sports. Particularly co ed sports like volleyball or pickleball. Not only do i play i organize them. I run a kickball league, a basketball league, and a volleyball league I go to the gym, several different gyms. I go run on the beach, walk, play sports there. I'm in the community at parks, basketball courts, coffee shops. Im not doing any of these things trying to get laid but i meet new people every day. I introduce myself. I crack jokes. I'm enjoying myself. I'm just telling you bro the… | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 12:25 AM |
| 0 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingWell dont get caught up in interviews! I dont usually approach women cold unless i have something genuine to say or ask particularly for that very reason. Theres def been some ocassions ive seen a woman that i felt compelled to do so but i totally disagree with forcing it. Be natural. If some hot chick gives you a glance go say hi. You dont owe anyone the perfect conversation. Remember that. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingYou should figure that out first. Sex and dating should come after your own personal fulfillment. I suggest you do things you really enjoy doing and have fun without worrying about sex and women. When you're in a good place you don't have to play these deadend mind games or waste your time trying to sleep with someone who's not really attracted to you or vice versa. I've always been a loner my whole life. Doesn't mean i don't love people. Actually being a loner is something i didnt enjoy for mos… | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 12:13 AM |
| 1 | What am I supposed to do at the bar?You're supposed to come to bars with friends. Sure you can go solo but I've almost never had a good time by myself. Its only been good if its an event where theres more than the regular bar goers out. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingI dont mean just women. Make eye contact. "Hi". Talk. I know it sounds impossible but you should seek interactions | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 08:56 PM |
| 0 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingConversate with every one you can | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Why is persistence and chasing such a bad thing?Because persistence over sex and relationships is thirsty behavior. It reeks of desperation. You don't pull people in by chasing. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Rank compliments for a woman ranked from safest to riskiestDont make sexual comments before you get that vibe from someone. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 10:50 PM |
| 0 | How to successfully get woman of any age?Make it to 26 first | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 03:57 AM |
| 2 | How to get laid if i dont drink alcohol?Play sports. | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 03:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you safely sleep with hoes?I get tested every few months. I dont go to bars and have drunk sex. I either meet women online or at the beach, gym, or sports/run groups/yoga etc. Healthy girls are safer imo. Ive slept with 50 women and have never had an std | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Help. Girls become upset and feel betrayed when they don't become my girlfriend.I have to assume you're leading them on. If you have to lead someone on and directly lie to them its not worth it imo, it'll end in bad blood and reflects poorly on you for good reason. Don't have any conversations about relationships. You can and should treat women like a gentleman if you want them to like you but dont lead them on. Sometimes you'll do it anyways its okay just dont get too caught up in it. Just to make it simple, its being lied to that people are insulted and dejected by. Not w… | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 02:40 AM |
| 2 | how to show men interest without being desperateEye contact and smile when appropriate. If he cant pick up on that hes not worth your time. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 04:42 AM |
| 4 | I don’t know what just happenedThis is really what she meant by old fashioned lol lol | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 04:40 AM |
| 10 | How to escalate at 4th date ? Cut my losses ?If shes pulling away on a neck kiss that tells me she's drawing a hard line in the sand. If you're not getting what you want i would focus my energy elsewhere. Also I wouldnt directly talk about sex with her. Setting expectations is a huge turnoff. You can gather the information you want but you have to be subtle and indirect with questioning and only in person not over the phone. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | a religious girl at a guest houseShes jewish? | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid?You're not really comprehending what i said. Pretty much opposite to what i said in fact. I'm not surprised becase you are acting like you have to solve a puzzle of women. My advice is to look inward and the rest will follow. Dont chase women ever. | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid?Best advice 👌 | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 04:43 PM |
| 14 | How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid?What no one ever explains is that expressing your desires without being a creep only comes with experience. You will creep girls out regularly just dont be an incel about it. When it happens reflect on it. Empathize with how you mightve made them feel. Its not going to happen overnight. There will even be times where a woman creeps you out. Its part of life we learn from our mistakes Being present is the key to all things social. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 04:42 PM |
| -6 | How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid?Invading personal space 👎 | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 04:31 PM |
| -1 | How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid?Step 1. What do you like about these girls you're meeting? Do not be more "direct". If you only want sex its going to be a complete turn off. Women (and men that arent addicted to sex) desire emotional connection. Sex is just assisted masturbation without it. Step 2. If you really want to have great sex, you have to actually enjoy the company of this other person and vice versa. What a wonderful feeling. Also, do you like yourself? Serious question because if you don't theres no good reason anyo… | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas?It comes from your own sense of fun. You have to make your own fun. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas?If thats how you describe yourself you've failed before youve begun. Do you want to hang out with someone because theyre tall and rich? Sure women will use a man with money much like a man will use a woman for a nut but you know thats easy for them. Almost any women could sell their body and thats not attractive. You're doing the same thing essentially but selling your soul by focusing on how to attract others rather than fulfill yourself and if you think fulfillment relies on sex and attention … | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas?What do you think women like? Ask yourself that. Whatever answer you have abandon it. What do you like? What would the most secure version of yourself look like and be like? Go with that and the rest will follow. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 06:22 PM |
| 1 | For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you?I like how i look. I have no tattoos or piercings. Im hairy everywhere but not too much i guess? No signs of balding. I am very in shape even while carrying more fat than id like at 6'0 215lbs. My weight fluxuates a lot because i eat a small amount of weed edibles every day and eat a little more than i should in phases but ive been going back and forth between lean and pudgey every year for most of my adult life... i am a sports performance trainer and have a bs in exercise science so i have goo… | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 05:59 PM |
| 2 | How to stop caring whether she texts you or notSure. You should avoid getting addicted to attention or sex though. I do text other women when the one i wanted isnt reciprocating, but i usually just go do things that make me happy to really get my mind off them. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 10:12 PM |
| 10 | Keep running into the same problemUse apps if you want to have sex on a first date. Random sober people in public will want to get to know you first. At least go to a bar and pick up drunk girls | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 02:07 PM |
| 1 | The first time you fuck a girl you have to slowly escalate to it without asking. But every other time you can just ask her, why is that?Sex with the expectation of it sucks. I like the thrill of not knowing. Getting to know someone and escalating in the moment. Way more hot. | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 01:12 AM |
| 2 | older guys getting younger girlsIm 32 i went on a date with a 23 year old and could not vibe with her at all. Prior to that though i went out with a 22 year old and we hooked up it wad great. She was an already retired stripper with a face tattoo though. Younger girls have to seek you out. | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 01:10 AM |
| 1 | how addictive can game become?I've never done "game" and I've slept with nearly 50 women. I think you guys are pretty ballsy for saying weird shit or lying to women to their face. I'm not even against that it just unnatural for me. I get a lot of enjoyment out of making connections with people. I either meet women at stuff i enjoy doing like the gym or the beach or rec sports or online dating. I feel like its every guys dream to have some roster of women but its overwhelming and i can only have so much sex. I think you guys … | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | regrets are hitting me hardRegret is useless. If you don't like yourself why would anyone else like you? What would the most secure version of you be like? Act on that impulse. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 03:37 AM |
| 1 | is it just me or is malevolence way more rewarding for a guyI think you have a really poor outlook on life if you're looking up to guys that treat women like subhuman. What youre looking at is a path of misery. Enjoy your life. Stop chasing women. Good things will come to those who make it for themselves. | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What is your biggest sticking point?Abandon all of the game and focus on your health and achieving things that satisfy you. | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Do women instictively know when you have options?I mean you can tell when a woman has options can't you? | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 03:22 AM |
| 34 | She is testing me. What would you do?Sounds like shes prioritizing someone else and they flaked on her. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | What was your experience hiring a dating coach?Youre better off hiring a personal trainer | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 09:08 PM |
| -2 | Does anyone here have any advice for attracting hood chicks?Gross dude. Hood chicks have extremely low standards and low intelligence. | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How to become a good talkerHave genuine interest in others. | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?Let me put it this way. I wouldn't be interested in a woman that isn't feminine, doesn't take good care of herself, isn't hot, and or is stupid and has poor job or status. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Why liberals get more casual sexMine is about 50. I would get a little jealous if a girl i was dating was higher than mine not because id think they were a slut but because id feel like id want more experiences. I just dont ask body count because it doesnt really matter | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 04:16 PM |
| 2 | On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place?Usually i invite them to mine but ocassionally they want me to come theirs. It happened more often when i had roommates | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach guys at the gym? How do I approach guys in general!?Make eye contact, smile and wave. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 11:33 PM |
| 8 | Best Jobs for Maximizing Seduction Opportunities?It can be dangerous for your credibility | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Kissing cute housekeeping staff at my hotelPretty creepy | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Had (drunk) sex for the second time of my life with a milf and feeling a bit down about itThe only thing worse than drunk sex is sex without chemistry. | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 11:12 PM |
| 10 | How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe?Be a good athlete | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 12:29 PM |
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