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I came back to this sub to post exactly this. I am so glad I found your post, op. I’m pregnant, and reading these stories on other subs are driving me nuts!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/22 08:44 PM
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I can relate to you very much so. I promise you can change!
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 02:40 AM
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You’re so welcome, I am happy I can help ❤️ I had a fall out with a nasty woman at work the other day. I caught myself asking for guidance from another woman I work with (who is not in management like me) but she spoke to me such great words and advice... it was so meaningful and I just started crying like “crap, why can’t I run to my mommy about this stuff” and “why has it been so hard for me to connect with women” lol. We will find our peace!!
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 01:59 PM
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Omg girl I hear you on making friends sooo easily with men vs women.. it’s HARD and part of the theory is how men aren’t meant to be friends (not exactly this verbatim) but it really sucks. Every female colleague I have is out to get me, nasty, rude, condescending. All the male colleagues get along with me fine, and appreciate me. I am 31 now and started following around 27 years old or so. ITS NOT TOO LATE GIRL!! I promise. I am a much much more better person when I was 30, than 22.. yeah, life…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 01:56 PM
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Hiiii! I was a basket of all basket cases in my teens - mid 20s. I cringe thinking about the things I’ve done. I spent many countless days obsessing over what I did wrong, what could of been done, how I acted like a w - and shouldn’t have.... the list goes on. I still obsess over things like messing up at work, but I’m trying to push through it. I had to peel off many many layers over many many years. My daddy issues (no dad growing up) were actually mommy issues (lack of motherly compassion, bo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 09:59 PM
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this. You need to think about the what if’s. What if you guys break up? You’re breaking the child’s heart more than anything. Keep our children pure. If you’re 1000% certain you are 1000% committed, go for it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 02:12 PM
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Long story short - for me, yes. Been together 6 years. let’s just say if I continued to act the way I did another year for the first 3 years of our relationship, I would not be where I am today.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/21 09:15 PM
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Same here. I am quite healthy, I get tested every two weeks, I’m 31 and don’t need anything in my body that can cause more infertility issues than what I may already have at this age. Or, birth defects. I’ll wait out out. Let’s see the real effects the next 10 years brings us. (And if there’s nothing, that’s great!! Wouldn’t regret not getting vaccinated right away still, thank you very much.) I am not anti vax and always thought it was wrong for mothers who did not vaccinate their children or w…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 04:23 PM
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Yup. Same here. I’ll be 31 tomorrow and I feel like the ship sailed and I have no idea what my purpose in life is since my eggs are dying by the minute basically. all I can think of is if I have a kid at let’s say 35 I’ll just be an old hag and not enjoy milestones the way I would if I was 10 years younger.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 01:09 AM
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My mom wasted 25 years with a man 10 of those as an affair, the last 5 basically being his nurse when she can barely take care of herself. Never got married for “personal reasons”. Guess where he is buried? Next to his wife he betrayed for 10 years. When a man wants to commit, he will. If he makes it clear there’s no future aligning with your expectations, not worth your time.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/21 09:26 PM
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Omg I can’t 😐. I have no words. the amount of delusional people in this world (Reddit) is very concerning to me.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 09:57 AM
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Omg no loss there. that subreddit is a train wreck “my DH forgot to sign me up for MY COVID shot!!!” 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 10:34 PM
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Same I always feel like women are threatened around me when I dress up. Then when I don’t, treated like crap by them like if I’m way inferior to them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/21 09:00 PM
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He is not that into you, I’m sorry. I’ve been there, feeling sucks. you will learn from these things! I promise.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 03:57 AM
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“Hey so yeah, I want to apologize for the way I came off during our discussion. My response was completely unempathetic placing my knowledge before your feelings.” Something like that wouldn’t hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 03:54 AM
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Hello lovely - I’m having a VERY tough time the last few weeks just wanted to send some virtual care and empathy to you!! I know it sucks but hang in there. Looking up enneagram now. I don’t have any opinions yet, but while I follow this sub, I am catholic, but I loveeeee learning about other religions, philosophies, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 09:16 PM
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It’s okay I got downvoted on this sub earlier today for stating a scientific fact that the HPV vaccine isnt 100% effective and you can still contract it. I think your comments are meaningful and for us women who discover RP later in life learn to not beat ourselves up so much!
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 03:44 PM
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This ^ exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 03:42 PM
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That’s appalling. I’m sorry 😞❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 05:25 PM
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This is literally the least hateful sub out of all the subs I’m subscribed to!
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/21 07:35 PM
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“Let us know your decision” lmao what a condescending hateful tone.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/21 04:26 PM
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You sound like me 😔 wish I had advice for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/21 05:26 PM
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I’m 30 and tbh I look better than I did at 18. Not to mention my mental health. In a much better mental state than I was.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 12:43 AM
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Dress good for you! If your date shows up unkempt. That’s on him. Dressing nice and feeling confident in your outfit makes the worlds difference for a woman. Honestly it would be telling for me if a guy showed up like this to a date. I get it, the world sucked for the last year, so people aren’t at their best; but if you feel like he didn’t put effort into his looks what else doesn’t he put effort into?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 11:59 AM
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5’4 115-120. I just dyed my hair blonde(r) and noticed I am getting a TON more attention now, too.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/20 02:50 AM
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Me! I’m so sad about how my mom raised me and I never want to end up like her. I kick myself in the ass everyday how I did not realize the damage in my early 20’s. Instead I thought I was some unique unicorn. All I want to do is raise 2-3 children properly and start my own (proper) legacy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 09:53 PM
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Same here girl.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 12:54 AM
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Two, but ideally 3 because my family sucks and he really doesn’t have a big family and I would like to start a new legacy and provide something I never had.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 09:45 PM
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Stacey without the mean personality!
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 01:14 PM
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I am setting up my first appointment sometime early next year, so I will let you know the results! Same here, I have some problem areas working out has not helped with 😟
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 01:14 PM
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Ugh so many things. I’m doing the whole “stand your ground / get back your confidence / stick up tor yourself / grow a backbone “ after a looooong hiatus of just letting people stomp on me and roll with the punches. Yeah I just come off a little too spicy when I do.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 08:22 PM
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I was always afraid I’ll “end up like my mom” and stop caring about my appearance. Now, at 30, I know I will never!! Things like Botox, cool sculpting, therapy, fitness and diet are so convenient now a days, imo there isn’t an excuse not to take care of yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 11:37 AM
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Good bot
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 07:54 PM
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This is some whole hearted and beautiful advice, and the reason why I LOVE this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 07:54 PM
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OP I hear you.I am going to lose all my bridesmaids because of this election. I’m going to try this hey vina thing.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 08:08 PM
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So, this past year I started a monochrome wardrobe myself. Not gonna lie a lot of my inspo came from David Rose from Schitt’s Creek. I feel elegant & chic all the time now. 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 07:59 PM
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my mom was the knowing mistress in her relationship for years, until the wife died. let me tell you, it messed me up, especially as I grew older. What type of example is that as a single mom? She clearly doesn't have any respect for herself. He died a few months ago, and the whole situation came full circle for me. I have secondhand embarrassment from her doings, we clearly were never welcomed by his family or friends. It's wrong, it's more than a red flag, Thankfully, I didn't see this too late…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 03:14 AM
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I hear you 100%.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 11:49 PM
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Girl, I hear you & I am the same! Without a tan, I look sickly and witchy. I have a sharper nose, too. Once a slight summer glow starts to fade, I lose all my confidence. I use spf 30-50 and spray tan occasionally. I hate going through the upkeep motions, but it’s worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 10:58 AM
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I received a very generous job offer for an f100 yesterday. I’m still in shock. I’m going to miss my current easy (but toxic work environment) routine and job. Unfortunately I am in a position where I need to go where the money is. I will never achieve my goals if I don’t make some sacrifices now. Let’s just say the sign on bonus alone pays off my student loan debt. I had a rough life. I am not very good with acknowledging my accomplishments, so I’m sorry if this comes off awkward.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 10:54 AM
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I feel like I’m the only person in the world who is absolutely indifferent to Halloween. My friend closes on her house a month before, she is hoping to have a party. Would be the first house Halloween house party in 11 years 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 12:49 AM
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1- massages / Korean spa (my local spot just reopened today! Wooohoo!!!!) 2- facial care (facials, peels, Botox, etc) 3- beach & relaxing in the sun, anything between 65-80 degrees 4- hanging out with my dog 5- walking/hiking
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 06:19 PM
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OMG! Who is this lady? Not even 10 seconds though the teaser, she had me cracking up! Thanks for sharing : )
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 01:54 PM
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Hey! I know-I do have my own friends. Actually years previous, their behavior did so much damage to me that I was afraid to even make new friends and grew so much anxiety going out with my own social groups, because I was afraid they would treat me the same. Took me long enough, finally realized it’s not a “me” issue. casually mingling my friend group with this one is forsaken since they aren’t their culture. Not like they’ll treat my friends any differently than myself. It is the fact I am arou…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/20 12:19 PM
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I’m so sorry. First, welcome. Secondly, I don’t have much different advice than what others stated. I posted here recently about a similar situation, and received good advice so it might help you, too. I also went through similar situations with “friendships” it sucks, can’t say therapy helped, but let’s just say I learnt to enjoy my company more than anyone’s the last half decade. Last and most importantly- don’t think about them being better off than you. The fact that they’re evil spirited ou…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/20 12:05 PM
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Thank you so much. I am going to continue to try my best and be polite when it comes to the language shifts. I also agree about things not changing with marriage and kids. My fiancé thought things would get better when he “put a ring on it”. Honestly, I haven’t seen a change, nor would want to establish friendships with them solely because I am “married now” and “have babies!” 😉
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 12:37 AM
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Other women (read: my partner’s friends wives) will be more fake nice to me when we attend an event and I am dressed up. The second I turn my head they’re in a circle, whispering, gawking and pointing in my direction. It really sucks.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 11:48 PM
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Stay with a consistent morning workout routine 4x / week.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 11:40 PM
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I hit a wall at 28, too. Two years later I feel much better about myself. But I am definitely just a shell of what I used to be.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 08:46 PM
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This!! I’m 30 and would be thrilled if I was friends with a conservative female. OP may be 10 years younger than me but probably has more ideologies than 98% of women in my area / social circle my age.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 11:51 PM
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I need to continue to save money, not spend it 😭
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 04:26 PM
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I’m sorry. I know it’s frustrating. The older I get the more frustrated I’m with my mom. Between the divorce with my dad, lying about it my whole life (until I had the courage to find him, for him to only pass away two months later) , to seeing how she’s been with this good for nothing sneak & deadbeat for the last 25 years, my biggest fear was I’d be just like her. She had this guy around me for years, he was still married,his wife passed away and immediately replaced her with my mom publicly. …
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 01:22 AM
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Keep up the Weight loss. Calorie burn goal of 700 min. 4 days a week. Want to hit 125 and stay there. Ive been lingering 130-132 no matter what I try. Gotta look good in my maid of honor dress! Water. 64oz a day minimum.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 10:50 PM
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I second this. Look into moissanite!
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 04:45 PM
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Save your money, stop spending it on clothes you won’t wear. Study hard and take school seriously. Stop screwing dudes. Stop with the FOMO.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 04:43 PM
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What’s more important to you? AN SO/marriage - studying for an MBA/developing your career - these major things are ALOT to juggle at once. MBA - financial freedom. Did you think about the possible student loan debt? I sure didn’t at 24. This can deter a marriage. Lots of things to think about. You have to figure this out for yourself. It is very difficult to achieve all at once. Now, since you are single, figure out your priorities. Be patient with yourself. Perhaps work on the MBA, focus only o…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 01:34 PM
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I WISH I relieved my rebellion at 18. I think it finally stopped at 24. Good for you! I also wish I had advice for female friendships for you. I’m a decade older than you, so hopefully the below will give you strength what not to do. I was never good at maintaining female friendships. I’m still not. It kills me. At 26, I lost sleep over it, at almost 29, I’m just happy to be alive and have a successful career to look forward to, blessing me with the financial stability I did not grow up with. An…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 01:15 PM
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I sincerely wish I can go back and change this... I would of never of moved in. Only can make a difference now.. no dwindling.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 10:12 PM
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Exactly how I feel. If I sit and wait, my eggs are dying. If I end things, I’m still going to have to go through a vetting process, eggs are still dying. He doesn’t want to listen when I tell him these things. I have a biological clock. He thinks having a kid at 35 will be fine. He doesn’t believe there’s a chance the child will have a higher chance of disability. He doesn’t understand the cost for IVF. He doesn’t believe me when I tell him the emotional damage and physical weight gain IVF cause…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 10:09 PM
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Thank you. Xx
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 10:03 PM
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I’m pretty sure it was almost close to a year before he said it. I said it first. It used to worry me so much how he never said it, but at the same time I realized what a hyper relationship stigma media placed on relationships. Together 4 years in May. Everyone’s relationship is different.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 07:39 PM
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Good luck!! From experience, look at the job opportunities and salaries before settling down. It helps you get the big picture of the cost of living.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/18 07:58 PM
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Nice goals!! I find it really hard to make in person friends especially at my age. I’m adding this to my list for next month! Do you live in an area where the weather is nice? Instead of the gym, get exercise and bring her along in enjoyable weather!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 01:54 AM
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1- Continue the Keto diet 2- Lose at least 5 more pounds 3- Keep up with the 4x/week gym routine before work 4- Clean up the house more and nag less 5- Save, not spend.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 01:51 AM
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10lbs down on keto, 10 more to go. Starting a gym routine again. Starting to feel like a classy woman again. Actually trying more often “looking nice” around my SO too.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 01:23 AM
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That’s amazing! Thank you for the reading. ☺️ someone else did the tarot’s around this time last year. Keep on doing this! It makes reddit fun.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 12:56 PM
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Omg glad you’re back! Ciao! Is my relationship growing and developing in the right direction or is it a moot point /dead end? (I think I’m being vague enough?)
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 09:00 PM
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I understand . Idk where to start. I’m willing to answer any questions you or anyone else has so I can paint a picture. I appreciate your feedback. I have some depression & anxiety bouts. He knows this. And I do feel disrespected for that exact reason. I don’t call him crazy when he’s angry.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/18 12:16 AM
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LOL
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 02:48 PM
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1- don’t be a slut. Just because you were bullied till you were 12 because you were fat, became anorexic and “hot” and were desired, doesn’t mean you should act upon it. 2- your friends really don’t care about you. Pick wisely 3- stop doing drugs 4- forgive yourself now 5- focus on school 6- it’s okay, you won’t end up like your mom. 7- your depression and anxiety is real. This leads you to being spunky outspoken and angry. You aren’t an angry teenager. Your mom just doesn’t know how to parent. …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 01:20 AM
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Lol!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 01:16 AM
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Wow! I love your response. Like OP, I have a hard time maintaining friendships. I’ve been feeling rather crappy about myself lately because of this. Thank you for the unintentional pick me up. (:
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 01:05 AM
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Love it. Some food for thought today. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 12:02 PM
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This is an awesome idea, OP! Hmm. How do I overcome the fact we have different likes: (i.e.- he's content sitting home, and sees value on a new TV, I rather explore new places and spend my money on making memories.)
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 01:55 AM
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I am in the same boat! 27, literally feels like my life has become more boring. It's a tough time. People change. People find themselves. People don't agree with our views. Your best friend may be out constantly finding a man the wrong way, while you're with your man who they "don't like" (aka jealous you're in a position they want to be in.) Do you. Do what makes you happy. Do the things you would do with a friend solo. (Seriously those are my plans this summer... kinda sad but kinda not really…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 08:40 PM
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1- Continue drinking green tea, not coffee (it's finally starting to taste better! Lol.) 2- Workout (between gym, kickboxing and yoga) 5x/week 3- Save money instead of spending
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 08:37 PM
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