lovelynotblond Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	How do I comfort my captain during a rough patch?	ASK RPW	lovelynotblond	/r/RedPillWives	01/11/16 11:30 PM

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3	Seeking advice to reframe my resentment I have been with my husband since late teens and we are now in the beginning of our 30’s. I have a simular situation as you, where my career took off, while my husband had challenges finding his place in this world. Here are what worked for me: Find out what you want: I loved my job, but I always knew I wanted to be a mom more. I therefore changed careers when I got my first kid that had less travel, less work hours and less stress. Yes, our income (with me as breadwinner) went down but I cheris…	/r/RedPillWives	14/02/24 02:15 PM
3	Supporting my man while he is unemployed I actually asked a similar question years ago when my husband was unemployed. What advice really struck with me was to “be his vacation”. It seems your SO is doing what he currently can do in such a situation and the best you can to is to continue to be the pillow he can rest a bit on. I also agree to spend and treat him with food and nice meals if that is financially not an issue for you. Good luck, and if he is as great as you describe him then remember and focus on that.	/r/RedPillWives	12/01/21 07:48 PM
12	Sending nudes? I’ve been 4.5 in a LDR with my fiancee and think it is a lovely way to boost his day and sexual desires. The pictures are never vulgar and never bottom part naked. I feel sexy and confident when I send them. I would never send them if we were not in a serious relationship and he is the only one I’ve sent it to.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/01/19 08:23 AM
1	How do I comfort my captain during a rough patch? Thank you for a fast response. I will work on being happy myself so he don't need to take care of me right now. This struck a cord with me, especially with the mommying part. I want to just be his soft spot.	/r/RedPillWives	02/11/16 08:23 AM
1	How do I comfort my captain during a rough patch? I know I have to be a better listener. Just listen and try not to solve it for him. I want to take the listening challenge.	/r/RedPillWives	02/11/16 08:21 AM
1	How do I comfort my captain during a rough patch? I love being his vacation. I will try to come up with new interesting ways. I try each day to take notes on funny things that happens whare I live as well as save interesting and funny links online to send him sometimes. Thank you!	/r/RedPillWives	02/11/16 08:19 AM
3	How do I comfort my captain during a rough patch? This is a great way of looking at it, thank you!	/r/RedPillWives	02/11/16 08:16 AM
1	Getting the Sunday Sads hardcore when I part from my SO So true! I'm in a LDR and when I returned home I found out that my lovely captain had not changed the pillowcase (the one I had used) for weeks. That's their secret.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/16 04:35 PM
2	What's redpill can help my relationship. LDR is hard. To make it work, you have to believe that this is just another obstacle to go through. And the best advice I can give is keep busy. Entertain yourself and take care of yourself. Your mind will eventually get used to it. And if you now get a text or a call it will be a happy bonus rather than a filled need. Write your feelings down and keep a diary. That way you get an outlet for your frustrations. And get friends and have forfilling conversations with them. Do something physical. Li…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/16 08:21 PM