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Not this week but a few weeks ago: as a big friend group we went to camp in a state with legal recreational marijuana. My husband does not want me to partake and we have discussed many times previously when our friends were partaking illegally in our own state. Often I have asked him if I can partake openly in front of our friends and he says no. Before we went camping he came to me very seriously and told me that when I ask to partake in front of everyone and he has to say no, he feels like he …
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 04:40 PM
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Pepper crusted pork tenderloin, broccoli, and stuffing!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 07:52 PM
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When we took a look there were multiple posts about promoting cheating on your wife if she refuses sex/gains weight/generally isn’t meeting expectations. One guy bragged that he was cheating because his wife “hit 165 lbs”. In that same thread one man from Christian Red Pill said it’s wrong to cheat and this guy should work on his marriage and it was downvoted to hell. Just the bragging about cheating really turned both of us off. Also he’s not a dominant man in most ways, so he was turned off by…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 07:23 PM
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I’ve told my husband about it and showed him the subreddit. Then we made the big mistake of looking at MarriedRedPill together. We thought it would be like RPW but with both men and women posting. My husband decided then and there that he didn’t want to apply any red pill ideals to his life, but he supports me being active on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 07:33 PM
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Sounds like a scary place!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 03:23 AM
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What’s WAATGM?
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 03:15 AM
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“The Wall” might be a real thing but, in my opinion, most good men(future captains) who are looking to get married tend to be willing to look past some physical things as long as you bring something else to the table like a steady income or willingness to raise a family. I’ve seen it espoused on here multiple times, it’s not just about looks: A 3 can be a fantastic first mate and a 10 can be a ball-busting shrew. I would say worry less about “The Wall” and more about personal enrichment. Welcome…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 08:45 PM
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Thanks! I’m a big believer in love languages and the Love/Respect model of relationships. In my experience my husband craves respect and I crave love. If I give respect to my husband, I receive love in return. At least that’s how it usually happens! Lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 07:04 PM
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I try to show my hubby love by speaking his love languages. Words are important to him but not as much as acts of service or intimacy. If it seems like he needs a little boost I try to make extra sure that I initiate sex that night. He appreciates a dresser full of clothes, so I make sure to keep his dresser well stocked. Those kinds of things. Edit: I also try to constantly treat him with respect. I’ve found that speaking to him with respect ensures that I get respect back.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 06:54 PM
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Other than my husband, I’m thankful for my dog and cat right now. I’m at home with no children, so I get to watch my animals being cute all day. My life would be pretty boring without them.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 04:48 PM
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I’m so thankful for that, too! I don’t have any work to do from home to justify the pay, but at least I’m still bringing some money into the home.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 04:45 PM
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100% I have bipolar type 2 and he is forgiving of my mood swings and he can ride out the highs and lows. I believe I’ve got what’s described here as a “good man”. :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 04:02 PM
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You’ve pretty much summed up my husband too! He has helped me so much with my mental health issues. One thing I sometimes forget to mention about him is he’s GENTLE with me. He treats me sweetly when I need it and can be very honest and candid when I need a wake up call.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 03:54 PM
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I know what it’s like to feel like you’re emotions are completely out of control. It’s not easy. I have bipolar type 2 and my mental health is a very fine balance of medication, therapy, and the love and support of family and friends(including my amazing husband!). Maybe meditation could help control the roar of emotions. I’ve only tried it a few times.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 07:51 PM
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My therapist has told me that feelings are like waves. When you’re feeling the “heaviness” you’re probably at the peak of the wave. It will probably pass. I’m not trying to be that person, but I’ve noticed your username come up a few times here recently. I just gotta ask: are you alright? Like, really alright?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 06:23 PM
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I feel like my hubby has both alpha and beta, too. And I like that. I feel it’s healthy to have both. Just like how on this forum, I’ve been seeing that it’s important to be submissive but have boundaries. It’s all a balancing act.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 02:19 AM
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Thanks! I will try that next time. He’s a pretty good sport, so he will probably be open to it. Hopefully. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 10:20 PM
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I’m glad you’re working on yourself! That’s so important towards having a happy life(not that I have it all figured out, lol). I feel you. The quarantine is hard in a lot of ways and is really messing with me mentally, too. I’m just throwing myself into chores so I can turn my brain off and just vacuum.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 09:36 PM
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I just mentioned it to him because I thought it might interest him. He decided it wasn’t for him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 09:32 PM
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In my first relationship I lowered every boundary I had to please my partner. That stemmed from having addicts as parents/untreated mental illness and many other issues I needed to work on. That relationship did end before I was able to re-establish boundaries. I, personally, wasn’t able to put up boundaries until I went to therapy to work on my issues. Have you considered therapy? I can’t say enough about how therapy has helped me personally. It’s my answer for everything now! :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 09:30 PM
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Anyone else have a husband/LTR that’s not Red Pilled? My husband and I just have a very traditional marriage and a lot of the advice here is in line with our beliefs. I’ve mentioned Red Pill to him and he’s not interested. I’m not mad about it! He’s a good man. Just curious if anyone else falls in this category.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 08:48 PM
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I think I get it. Like enjoying the basics again instead of flying off into wild stuff?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 05:35 PM
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Lol. I would need help in any heels. :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 10:31 PM
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I will try something a little different. Maybe I’m coming on too strong.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 10:31 PM
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I’ve never seen that site before. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 09:18 PM
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I think what you’re feeling is something we all feel at sometime in our lives. I think you’ll compare yourself to other women less and less the older you get. I used to be really self conscious about my height (5ft 11in) when I was in high school, but now I’ve pretty much stopped thinking about it. I know the “it’ll get better when you’re older” advice doesn’t help in the moment, but let’s try to think of something that can. Try to pick out three things you’re proud of in this moment. I already …
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 03:16 AM
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Thanks! I certainly try to have a good attitude. It doesn’t always happen, though! Lol.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:48 PM
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I 100% agree with you. My husband is a tow truck driver and is considered essential. My job is not essential so I’m home. I feel like this is my time to step up. I know if the tables were turned he would step up, too. He’s a good man.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 04:50 PM
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Me, peeking out of the mountain of laundry I’m currently folding: What do you mean set up a washing schedule??? Lol
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 04:32 PM
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I’m a relative newbie to therapy(1 year under my belt), but I can’t say enough about how much it has helped me. I had many unhealthy fixations I’ve worked through. I’m still working on some. It’s a process, but you can work towards letting it go.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 01:47 AM
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