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| 0 | Both a conservative think tank and a progressive college institute discredit major tenets of TRP. So why is TRP still a thing?Not to be picky but the study only shows data until 2015 which is before online dating really hit the mainstream. So their argument about the 80/20 rule possibly is being applied to mostly data about in person interactions (I don't see how they collected the data). In 2015 swiping wasn't really the dominant style in online dating, and sites like ok cupid and POF allowed messaging without having to swipe. The online dating system was different. Okc popularized the 80/20 narrative with a blog post… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | If More Men Are Seeking Help for Mental Health, Why Are So Many Dropping Out of Therapy? | Short answer: because the therapy and its delivery are designed for women, so it doesn't suit many men.Therapy is about finding the why of something. Finding the why can be important to change thinking and emotional loops. Sometimes though finding the why isn't useful and taking action gives the results. Therapy isn't so great at the action part. That's more coaching. The best is a balance of both. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/21 03:47 PM |
| 16 | What’s up with redpill and their distain for black women?Kevin Samuels' is not qualified in any shape or form to do what he does. He is a marketer and has no shame - he does what gets the most attention. He is not interested in studies or scientifically surveyed data only the narrative that sells the most. Hate of women is really popular across YouTube, and hate of black women is really the apex of that. There are COUNTLESS channels of black men hating on black women. Basically, he makes bank with his sex wars entertainment and he doesn't care. He's f… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/21 09:10 AM |
| 8 | Why do Redpill/MGTOW lifestyle coaches encourage men you only have sex with women under 25?I coach men to have loving healthy relationships and I've thought about this a lot. Other than the points mentioned, most redpill and Mgtow are anti relationship, and most women over 25 and especially over 30 are looking for a relationship. The average man is around 5 years older than the average woman in a relationship. So I have a theory that it might be a hidden selfish desire that a woman under 25 might be their last chance to find love. I say that because redpill and Mgtow men have a lot of… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | A GIRL'S COMMENT ABOUT THE MGTOW THAT NO MGTOW KNEW ANSWER.I'm not into Mgtow at all and maybe I'll get downvoted but we were asked to nitpick so here goes: I think the idea of mtgow when acted out in practice could well lead to men living longer. The current stats are based under an existing convention of marriage where men work for their family and solely rely on their wives with no other emotional support network as backup. At least in communities like mtgow they can support each other and have an emotional outlet. The jury is out but it's common sen… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 2 | The problem with dating coaches is the complete lack of standards in the coaching industryI'm a dating coach for men and I also have some therapy qualifications. Therapy isn't coaching and it isn't going to help you to meet and date someone. Most of my clients don't understand how to navigate the dating space. A therapist can't help you with that at all. There is some cross over though. For example in about to put out a podcast about porn addiction that I did with an expert, because I saw a lot of my clients were using porn and having negative effects that were definitely an obstacle… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 4 | The love pyramidVery good observation. I created a full blown model on this and more. In addition to what you spotted there is an extra metric - are they getting results being sexual with women? Incels can't get sex. Mtgow and red pillers can. But without any vulnerability, none of them can get a relationship. The triangle you describe applies to different ideologies too. You may not have considered that ;) | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 2 | sex in relationshipsFind a partner that has a higher sex drive than you. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 09:01 AM |
| 2 | How would you help someone going down TRP path?I've spoken with countless redpilled men and tried to help them. Then I realised, they don't want it. They are red pilled for a reason, and that reason is that it gives them freedom from the failure they used to experience. Being redpilled is a transition to something greater, and as you yourself experienced - its only when you start to see cracks in the ideology and realise that there is something greater still that you can aspire to, you change. When men can't unsee the cracks in their ideolog… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Ever notice how TRP/MGTOWS think that women are all the sudden different in the current year.Women as a group haven't really changed in the 20 years I've been dating. The way we overall talk about each other however has, in line with the economy, the rise of social media and digital photography. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is the opposite of masculinityI don't understand. Does this group have a problem with people offering mental and emotional support? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/21 09:43 AM |
| 0 | The red pill is the opposite of masculinityI'm not sure what you mean by you people. I'm not a member of either of these communities but I listen to the people in them and that's what they say. I'm a coach who helps people escape these spaces. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/21 02:31 AM |
| 0 | The red pill is the opposite of masculinityObsession with looks is more black pill than red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/21 10:05 AM |
| 18 | What men think women are in 2021We are at the cutting edge of humanity, and this is what the top men's dating coaches are describing women as. Is it just me or are people confused... You know... Just a tad? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/20 06:38 AM |
| 1 | The Duality of love and Fear and the Myth of Unconditional Love.Do you have scientific proof to this? Which part? I have been studying this full time with my business partner for the last 3 years. We studied love and it's process and I've built a model with her which I intend to present in due course. What I wrote here isn't really talked about much at this point to my knowledge, it's the findings of the work I have done. You describe unconditional love as love without fear. That's not accurate. It implies that the mental process to love conditionally and un… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | The Duality of love and Fear and the Myth of Unconditional Love.The opposite of love isn't fear it's indifference. Unconditional love is just that, and it's an internal choice based on a specific kind of mindset that is absent of fear. People love unconditionally from a place of personal strength. Most love is conditional simply because we are human and fallible. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill has destroyed me and I'm only 17Over the past 4 years I've tried to better myself and my social skills I think this is one of the tragic aspects of the internet. Learning to enjoy life and relax, is important. At 14 and pre internet I had no idea about self improvement and I'm glad. I still got depressed because I couldn't figure my life out and did badly with women. It's pretty common. You are 17 years old and have enough to worry about with school. Give yourself a break. You got plenty of time. What they don't really teach o… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 11:26 AM |
| 3 | I need serious helpThe only thing you really need to understand from PUA stuff is that talking to women works and you should work to overcome your fear to do it if you want to improve your dating life and social relationships in general. The how part is less important than knowing that its possible. Everything else can more or less be discarded. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 11:09 AM |
| 4 | Some hope to any ex-TRP men still skepticalGood job | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 3 | My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a dayFantastic commitment. I applaud it. One thing - at 5 approaches a day, you will get a girlfriend long before you complete that year. If you meet a woman you really like, don't give her a pass just because you made this commitment - that would be foolish. Instead knock this challenge on the head, and focus on relationship work. It's far more beneficial in the long run. You don't need to impress or prove to anyone here that you made it a whole year. It's your life. Don't forget that. Source: Have … | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Have you escaped the friendzone? If so, what is your story?I used to be friendzoned over and over, and couldn’t understand why women saw me only as friends. After years of experience, the key lesson I learnt is you HAVE TO tell a girl that you like her. Ever since I managed to do that, my progress in dating accelerated. You can actually use being friends with women to your favor to get better dates. I talk about how here: https://youtu.be/oOKBsVH-VIg | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Ive got oneitis, am I retarded?This isn't really oneitis its NRE - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_relationship_energy | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I have serious oneitis for a girl I've met online. Help me snap out of it.What you are going through is totally normal and a hardwired part of being male. This can help you get some perspective and take right action - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=my8ih9gvLtQ | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Which ways do guys normally find a girlfriend?Always sad to see someone so attached to such limiting beliefs. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 11:41 AM |
| 21 | Which ways do guys normally find a girlfriend?When you say nothing happens. Well something should be happening. When you approach, you ask them out. Either you get a yes, or you get a no. Dating is a process, with steps and milestones. You aren't going to get very far if you aren't systematic on figuring out where your sticking points are. Saying nothing happens isn't helping you. Being specific is what helps. This is my issue. I do this. That happens. I've noticed a problem. What do you do differently? If you don't take this approach, and … | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Why some PUAs believe their method works on all women despite some rejections they've been experienced?Good for you. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/20 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Why some PUAs believe their method works on all women despite some rejections they've been experienced?Optimism isn't a trick. It's a mindset. There's plenty of evidence out there that shows that optimism positively impacts outcomes. One of the teachings of pu is to assume attraction. Many pu teachings aren't helpful, but this one is. Assuming you are attractive does make you behave in a more attractive way. It also helps you stay optimistic despite rejection. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/20 07:28 PM |
| -5 | Why some PUAs believe their method works on all women despite some rejections they've been experienced?OP is describing optimism and for some reason trying to paint it in a negative light. Optimism increases success in all walks of life. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Why is male sexual desire always demonized?I don't think it's about higher up the social ladder. I think it's about penis envy. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | How To Have A Killer First Date Every TimeI like the effort you put in Averyghayden | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Read this if you feel depressedGetting one might stands and getting a girl for a relationship require totally different strategies. I'm really good at getting a relationship, but not so good at getting ONS. Those guys are probably good at ONS but bad at relationships. Keep going for what you want. It will come. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 08:17 AM |
| 14 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?An alpha is a man who provides comfort because he wants to. A beta is a man who provides comfort because he has to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 10:48 PM |
| 8 | You Can’t Have Healthy Relationship With A Red Pill Man.I've met many, many men going through the red pill phase. They all had one thing on common. They couldn't have a relationship. I'd try talking with them by their ideas are so warped. They consistently see falling in love as a failure. And view intimacy and vulnerability as weakness. Therefore it's impossible to reason with them about how to have healthy relationships. When I tried they would simply laugh. The fact that I've well over a decade of relationship experience and am a coach wouldn't me… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/19 05:57 AM |
| 3 | It all comes back to one thing: Sex is overratedYou sound existential. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/19 09:26 PM |
| 7 | It all comes back to one thing: Sex is overratedThe fact that you see sex synonymous with taking a shit kind of says a lot. To me sex is healing. It's connecting. It's intimacy. It's love. Sex is beautiful. I feel sad for you that you don't have that experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/19 08:16 PM |
| 2 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidI want to say here that his advice is right. You should go out and approach and it will help to solve those issues exactly as he says it will. The problem is that you might not be able to do it. That's my point. If you try to do it and you can't then you have to go deeper. But that does not mean that you should not try. Trying is everything. Feeling ignored is a valid feeling. It's something that needs to be addressed. It's not your fault, but at the same time it's your responsibility. That's th… | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidGodspeed friend. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 05:03 PM |
| 20 | Mrs Midwest “Men are not trash”When a woman says men are trash what I hear is "I treat men like trash". And that is a whole different thing.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 3 | It all comes back to one thing: Sex is overratedSex is a drive. You can't turn it off without drastic action and resulting consequences. With time it can be utilized to do things other than sex, but try teaching that to an 18 year old. Your words will sound like a joke. What you are talking about here is identity and the struggle to find it. You found yours, they haven't yet. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/19 11:58 AM |
| 19 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidThis is true but it's not the real reason. There is a deeper layer to it and just telling people to approach more isn't helpful (I'm a coach and believe me I've tried). People today like your friend are suffering from deep seated mental and emotional issues. Fatigue is a major issue. Have you any idea what it's like to struggle to leave the house? People who don't struggle with this stuff simply don't understand it. They aren't even aware of it. Society is weighing us down, and leaving men ignor… | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 11:27 AM |
| 3 | How do I detox from red pill as a woman?Before TRP you had a reality. During TRP you had another reality. Red pill says there is only before (blue pill) and during. This is false. Now you can move to a new reality again. After TRP. These ideologies all say their way is the truth. It is A truth, not THE truth. You can pick whatever truth you want. You don't need to adopt someone else's, though it's pretty normal to do that to start off. You can create your own world now. (Or adopt one that is more wholesome). | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/19 07:22 PM |
| 5 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicWomen don't like to be approached in public False over generalized statement Getting approached in public by a stranger is just not a good situation to meet someone in. False. Everyone is a stranger before you meet them. There is no good or bad situation to meet someone. If there was, teaching people how to meet would be really easy. People meet in the unlikeliest of situations all the time, and just as much fail to meet in the 'socially acceptable' ways. It's false thinking to believe that a ba… | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?Time and effort. Life is full of that. So no need to rush :) Half assing relationships sounds difficult to manage. Why do that when you can full ass them? Finding a new relationship instead of working through the problems - well that's a solid way to make relationships a lot more effort. Much better to figure out the problems once and then never have them again, in any relationship. Poly can't be toxic. But people can. You outlined a few ways. I'm confused why you think it's easier to try someon… | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?I teach people how to do this. If you don't know what to do, it will be unstable. Some say it's not for everyone. I say it's not for those who don't know how. Having relationships (even monogamous ones) without nonconsensual power games is an important step to creating something that is both satisfying and sustainable. Pm me if you want to discuss. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?It can be done without hiding anything. I've done it myself with many partners. But to do so requires a very deep level of trust an communication. It's no bad thing to find something that works. This isn't a conventional relationship. People have to make it up as they go and that's not easy. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 11:16 PM |
| 2 | This might be the hardest thing I'll ever have to writeThis shows incredible awareness. Two points. It's easy to be disgusted with red pill or yourself, but this is actually a path of growth you are on. In time you will be able to acknowledge that the things you did aren't wrong per se. You were just doing the best with what you had. The second point is about your future. If you really want to move forward from here, I recommend a relationship. It's time to take the courage to do the very thing that red pill teaches you to be afraid of. It will take… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/19 04:51 PM |
| 11 | How do you guys deal with hypergamy?The same way I deal with being bald. I don't make a big deal about it. Hypergamy is just an idea. If you make it a big deal you just put obstacles in your way. Life is too short to worry about things you can't control. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/19 04:13 PM |
| 3 | It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%.I recently started a podcast and this was the first topic. Online dating used to be good for men, but not anymore. But it's not even good for women now either as we explain. Tinder is effectively dating elitism on steroids. https://loveopenly.net/podcast-1-why-online-dating-probably-isnt-working-for-you/ | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 09:18 PM |
| 13 | The bro code and happiness inequality between gendersI found lasting happiness when I started finding positive qualities in people, and appreciating those. I don't see bros or hoes. I see human beings who are doing their best just like me. And if I give my best, I feel satisfied about my place in the world. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | My friend has no boundaries, tries talking to "my" women, need help understanding...unless you're a fucking cuck. Dude this is seduction not the_donald. I suggest to work on your insecurities and stop with the projecting. People are trying to help you. You don't have to take all advices as rote. But be grateful for what you get because not everyone is so fortunate. | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | 30 and moved back home. Am I doomed until I move out?As long as you have a private space its fine. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 07:27 PM |
| 2 | YouTube terminates Addy A-Game and Street Attraction channels - YouTube has deactivated two channels run by "pick-up artists" after a BBC investigation into the online industry.Back in the early 2000s There was this guy posting on masf. He was weird as fuck. Creepy as fuck. Nothing changed except he got together with some other guys on there and built a multi million dollar business.. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 07:20 PM |
| 6 | YouTube terminates Addy A-Game and Street Attraction channels - YouTube has deactivated two channels run by "pick-up artists" after a BBC investigation into the online industry.Shutting down male support groups is so misguided. This is not going to end well. I've been in and out of these groups for 2 decades, and while I mostly didn't agree with them, it was obvious how necessary they were. You can't just rip out mens need for emotional support and friendship. They struggle to get it as it is. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on the “number count” for women?If I meet a guy who gives me number counts I typically think 2 things: He's probably bad at relationships. He's probably bad at sex aswell (has to make up for it with new women). | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/19 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Problem talking to girlsLet me ask you a question that will help you think about this differently. Can you explain to me what it looks like after you talk to that cute girl? Is it a positive or negative experience in your mind? How can your life change by talking to her? Will nothing special happen or will there be a significant change? How would you feel if you did it? | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Painfully shy around women, but can talk to dudes with npBeing shy is really tough. The way to deal with it is to have a strategy. Having a strategy means that you have a set of actions that you can take despite how you feel in the moment, or if the events are new to you. Courage is important if you are shy. You have to take a step into the unknown and it can be scary - especially the first time that you do it. But before you have courage you need to think more about what you want. You want to talk to women.. okay. But what outcome exactly are you aim… | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 02:04 PM |
| 0 | Is he interested or just wants sex?!Sure you will know if you have been on lots of dates and know how men think and communicate. But many women have not done that and are just as clueless as men when it comes to dating men. OP doesn't 'know', hence her post. What makes you think all men are such masters of knowledge and dealing with women? Dating isn't a set game - people approach it differently. The only way to know for sure is to sit down and talk about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/19 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Is he interested or just wants sex?!Be honest. Let him know that you really want to have sex with him, but being in a commited relationship is important to you in order for you to be able to express yourself and feel comfortable. Let him know that how much you like him and tell him that you don't want him to feel any frustration. Tell him you are scared because you don't know what he wants. Something like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/19 12:11 PM |
| 5 | Is he interested or just wants sex?!> Men know what they want You are generalizing a bit here. Men frequently don't know what they want. Many are pretending they know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/19 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Is he interested or just wants sex?!Why aren't you ready to have sex with him? If you know - it's important to sit down and communicate those reasons to him. Men aren't cold emotionless machines. Sex is a vulnerable thing for them too. If he likes you and you created a distance with him, he's going to be frustrated or confused about that. This is an opportunity for you both to get closer by communicating and being vulnerable about how you both actually feel. It's a chance for you to actually cement a commitment to each other. Hope… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/19 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Just an advice I want to give my fellow brothers: "Girls should not be your destination but should be part of the journey." If whatever you're doing is to try and get girls rethink your mindset.If you go out and approach women every day for 30 days, you will get results with women. If you goal is to meet a woman, then that is a great practice. 100% focus on something you want is an excellent way to get results. If your goal is to do something else, than that is your goal and meeting women may get in the way of that. There is no should. Just aim for what experience you want in life at that moment in time. Don't listen to quotes online about what you should or should not do. Do what you … | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 08:53 AM |
| 5 | Girls want you to take actionGirls want you to take action *Some. Many women are not waiting. They are indifferent or undecided. Either way, action works well for both you and them (within reason). Some, already decided they want you to leave them alone. Acknowledge that when you see it and respect it. girls are just cute, goofy, insecure dolls Please don't paint all women like this. If you view them as insecure, you might think they need saving and this will not result in a healthy male to female dynamic down the road. Wom… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 10:25 PM |
| 18 | Short Asian dude pulls tall 10/10 blonde. If can do it, you can too.The problem with guys like you is no matter what evidence you are presented with, you still manage to find an excuse to blame others instead of taking responsibility for your own life. Here is some more evidence you can ignore: UKs smallest body builder. I met this guy once and not only does he get laid more than I do, but he is asian and 2 foot smaller than me. I realized that I could not compete with this guys drive for life. Meeting him was a mind blowing example of the truth that beliefs… | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 01:25 PM |
| 3 | There is no fucking difference between cold approaching and swipe right on tinderIt's 10x more difficult to date a woman from Tinder than real life. The swiping creates the false illusion that success is closer. But it's not. Everything you do in real life, you still have to do using Tinder, plus with the extra work of playing the Tinder game. It's a shame, as online dating used to be pretty good before Tinder came along. | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 03:56 AM |
| 2 | How not to sound NEEDY through text | Texts and Dates MachineClearly likes you. You can safely talk emotions with her. | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 02:28 PM |
| 5 | If you're a housewife, you can use your spare time for self-education. Don't let your intellect rot.I'm a man so forgive me if this is obvious: Audio podcasts are a fantastic way to learn on the move and if your hands are full. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girlfriend or fwb during summer at uni?Approach women in the day time in your city center, go for instant coffee dates. Commit to minimum one approach per day for 30 days. | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you convey your abundance effectively?Abundance = love I.e. the more you express love to people the more they express it back. Feeling that love is synonymous with feeling abundant. Some might say this is the opposite of abundance, because it relies on other people, but that's exactly why it works so well. It's only when you love others expecting it to return somehow that you create scarcity. Expressing it is an altruistic act, but it also a selfish one because it feels damn good. If you don't feel abundant it's because you haven't … | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Yesterday I was reaffirmed that women WANT you to have multiple Women (No..seriously hear me out.)You are reading into this wrong. What she is really getting at is she is confused because she thinks that you like her and that's why you didn't go with other girls. (I've been in multiple relationships so i'm not discounting your point, but in this case I think you are reading too much into it). | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Female equivalent?Unfortunately thats a bit far off for us. If you youtube search there are some videos out there: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=female+pua+lesbian | /r/seduction | 23/03/19 08:06 AM |
| 3 | Female equivalent?Here is 30 days of Lidia going out to meet men 2018 Create Your Dream Relationship Challenge: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLumTQLWfsuI3EWdQdKbONGp6uBN-EBpHu It's in my roadmap to help women. We have barely just begun. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I let go of my slutty past?Just to point out. Most women your age have slept with more than 10 men. Relative to others, you couldn't really define yourself as promiscuous. In fact, you are overly conservative. And I think that is the problem here. You are trying too hard to be conservative, and defining yourself by what you are not, which makes it impossible to ever move on... If you want to move on, you have to loosen up and be less conservative, instead of trying so hard to hit an ideal vision of yourself that is imposs… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/19 02:23 AM |
| 3 | How to support him knowing he has ED and DGS.This response is amazingly on point imo. One thing I wanted to suggest about the DGS, is you could take your bf to a sex shop and buy a cock ring. That will provide the grip that he is familiar with and allow you to have penetration so that the healing process can kick in. It won't help with the mental aspect of getting hard, but that's not something you can help with. He has to work on it himself and kick the porn habit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/19 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Female matchmaker goes on a rant about her female clients having totally unrealistic standards for men, dating, and marriageSuccessful relationships start with compromise, thrive with team work and forgiveness, and end with no regrets. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/02/19 03:24 AM |
| 6 | RPW does not mean we are playthings for men.All I can say here is that you get the man that you think you deserve. So the answer lies inward. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/19 08:56 AM |
| 4 | How to make a man fall for you.Its a catch 22 situation. Vulnerability attracts people who appreciate it and repels those that don't and it's hard to be vulnerable if it's not well recieved. However without vulnerability in a relationship the relationship won't ultimately last anyway...so it's better to practice it until the right person shows up to receive it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/19 02:54 PM |
| 5 | How to make a man fall for you.How to make a man fall for you? Don't try to make things happen. Enjoying the cyclical logical right there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | I feel as though I wasted my good years...In your 30s, character starts to become important when looks fade for women. Seems like you made a head start on that front. Good job | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..I’m using my friend’s account. As I started pick-up and struggled a bit, my friend told me there is a sub-reddit group where I can ask for men’s perspectives, and let me use his account. | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 10:39 AM |
| 1 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..It’s my friend’s account. As I started pick-up and struggled a bit, he told me there is a sub-reddit where I can ask for men’s perspectives and let me use his account since I don’t have it yet. | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 08:45 AM |
| 2 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..I like this :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..Less rejection everyday, tho. Yes, online dating is easier, but quality of dates is not necessarily great all the time. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 10:02 AM |
| 2 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..Haha, thanks for the nice comment, too! | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 10:00 AM |
| 2 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..Find it pretty surprising that men will consider women approaching them first to be low value. Thanks for your comment, anyways. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 10:00 AM |
| 2 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..I agree. I learnt from experience that it’s important to leave a bit of room for a guy to contribute to the conversation at the beginning instead of bombarding him with my nervous questions and self-introduction. That way, I can rather quickly tell if he is interested or not. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:58 AM |
| 1 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..So I guess what I need to do is not to take rejection personally and quickly move on. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:55 AM |
| 1 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..Haha, it’s too much work to be staged, going out everyday and filming it. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..It’s not fake. As Tim replied earlier, I’m borrowing his account at the moment..I think it’s common sense that not everybody will find me their types. So I’m trying not to take rejection personally :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:53 AM |
| 1 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..Thanks. I can see the pattern of advice here, don’t be too direct and aggressive. I will work on that :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:49 AM |
| 2 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..I like what you are saying. I’ve noticed a common pattern from the initial reaction of guys I’ve approached so far. They get shocked and really suspicious first since it rarely happens to them..As you said, I think it’s important to give a bit of room to guys to process after I stop them to talk to. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:45 AM |
| 3 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..Thanks. Sometimes I get a bit frustrated that I’m told to play a pretty passive role of waiting instead of talking to guys I like. But I hear what you are saying. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:42 AM |
| 3 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..I agree. I understand some men could think that I’m trying to sell something or even a hooker. It’s not too surprising, I guess. I will try to approach less aggressively! | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:39 AM |
| 6 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..Yes, that’s what I’m focusing on at the moment, being more natural :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:36 AM |
| 8 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..Hey, I find everything you said here really helpful. I particularly like what you said about rejection. I got to understand a lot more what many men might go through playing an expected “role” of approaching a woman first. Doing this challenge helps me a great deal to understand about myself as well. Thanks for your comment, anyways :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:35 AM |
| 5 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..There is a time difference in Vietnam. I never expected so many comments. It's overwhelming! | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:22 AM |
| 2 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8d6pm1/as_a_woman_doing_pickup_im_struggling_with/dxm7yes/ | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:22 AM |
| 3 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..I'm the guy in the video. I'm 35 actually :) She doesn't have a reddit account so she used mine. ~Tim | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:20 AM |
| 3 | What does being an Alpha mean to you?http://io9.com/why-everything-you-know-about-wolf-packs-is-wrong-502754629 | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 01:45 PM |
| -1 | Just discovered theredpill. I don't get it.I can see I'm wasting my time here. Keep burying your heads in the sand. I'll leave with this article and I wish everyone all the best. http://io9.com/why-everything-you-know-about-wolf-packs-is-wrong-502754629 | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 01:38 PM |
| -2 | Just discovered theredpill. I don't get it.This all seems a little black and white. The reddit seems top heavy on stories of manipulation, which can only attract mysognystic men, who then get a further twisted viewpoint. Where is the balance? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 08:42 AM |
| -3 | Just discovered theredpill. I don't get it.What in your opinion makes my relationship unhealthy.. the fact that it's not accepted by society. What makes you think I don't want to better myself and meet women? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 08:37 AM |
| -2 | Just discovered theredpill. I don't get it.I don't see any discussion on how to resolve this 'war' only fuel to the fire. That's my point. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 08:04 AM |
| -2 | Just discovered theredpill. I don't get it.Yea coz men can fuck loads of women but women can't have multiple partners. That's a double standard society created to keep you shackled. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 08:02 AM |
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