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Discussionlovergirlaw/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:04 PM
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Discussionlovergirlaw/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:57 AM
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DISCUSSIONlovergirlaw/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 04:44 PM
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Ahhh ok! I’m trynna help my friend find her man. We’re 29 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:33 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:14 AM
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This math isn’t mathing. It’s more like 5/10 in your earlier years (ideally in college surrounded by peers also pursuing higher education) and .5/5 if you wait until your 30s. Dating is about proximity and access to suitable mates. The longer you wait the fewer desireables are still single and on the market and the more your social circle shrinks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:08 AM
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The probability of finding a great partner with less numerical choices is overall less though. Or no? Standards increase and options tha meet them dwindle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 10:01 PM
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How did you guys meet if you don’t mind my asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:49 PM
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there are less great choices overall once you get past a certain age, due to a multitude of factors though. Ones discernment may not really even make a difference much of at that point, as you may be more inclined to take what you can get, or remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:48 PM
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Are you married? Ever been married? At this point, wondering what your threshold for a “successful” relationship even is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:58 PM
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Yeah depends on your worldview I guess. It could be in your benefit in a way to wait until maturity increases and everyone knows themselves better. The numbers are just simply not in your favor. Yeah the point I was making was that in your earlier 20s you’re less likely to have kids- biological or other. Once they come into the picture, the stakes are raised intrinsically. If you’re a parent worth a damn, that is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:37 AM
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It takes effort to break negative cycles forsure. And to form positive ones in their place. Are you willing to share if you’re currently in a serious relationship and age range? Just curious to know considering your perspective on dating and such. I married my college sweetheart so I’m definitely operating with certain biases as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:34 AM
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I’m 29 now. And this is not true from what I’ve seen with my single friends. The ones that allowed situationships to persist with no real commitment in our early 20 are doing the exact same thing now, in our last months in our 20s. Patterns have to be intentionally disrupted, they don’t just disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:03 AM
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Here’s the truth: situationships will happen in your 30s too if you allow them to. Now your options have decreased dramatically and you’re still in a situationship lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:49 PM
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A higher concentration of options yeilds higher probability, no? Of course this will depend on environment, but I’m not sure dating will ever be “easier” than it is in a college type environment. Of course you have to filter through nonsense, but this doesn’t change the older you get. Theres just less options available overall now. Like you said, if you’re willing to be a step parent or date in a divorced dating pool in your 30s, you expand your options. This being said, Not sure blending a fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:40 PM
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Dating in your early 20s is easier because more people in your age group will be single. Half or more of the potential mates you find desireable likey will be in a relationship, and therefore inaccessible to you, by 30
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:20 PM
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False. High sexual attraction = high initiation rates. At the very least extremely obvious signaling
/r/askMRP14/10/25 09:41 PM
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Why assume she’s cheating? You admit you’ve been a high earning slob and her sexual attraction slowly dwindled. Turn that around ASAP and don’t let your insecurities get the best of you. She’s clearly still committed to you so Move in good faith. Also don’t waste too much more time making the commitment she’s been asking you for if you want to keep her (marriage).
/r/askMRP14/10/25 09:41 PM
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Unfortunate!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:24 AM
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There is a thin line between self-confidence and arrogance with men in my experience. I am not attracted to arrogance in the slightest so I have to determine which it is first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 08:14 PM
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Not disgust, but slight confusion I won't lie. It usually comes on much later though when I'm remembering the interaction. Like "did I say or do something to make that guy think he had a chance with me?". Also, as an attractive black woman, all types of white men approach me. Even the ugly ones. It makes me wonder if they think they can scoop me just because they're white.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 08:10 PM
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Yeah I can only imagine it’ll be worse for the younger groups. Casual sex is being promoted as the thing to do and they are growing up in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:13 PM
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Exactly 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:51 PM
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I am 23. So the 19-25 age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:45 PM
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Fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:18 PM
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I feel like average women probably rack up more bodies than hot women. Just makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:08 PM
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Lots of women will say 7, but 12 is probably the truth lol. Have these studies been run on the younger generations? Because girls are racking up these days. I promise you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:03 PM
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Not fulfilling at all lol (to me). Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:01 PM
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Oh I see. Thanks !
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:00 PM
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I agree. Women reveal their true counts to one another. I am at 5 and have not heard that number from another girl in at least two years lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:59 PM
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Most of the girls I went to high school (2014) with were at 5 by then. I have an n count of 5 myself at 23. If I were single I’m sure I would be in the 10 range also. Haven’t met many other single women with n counts below or on par with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:58 PM
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Ehhh idk. Maybe it’s just because I just graduated from college, but the 10-15 range is VERY common both in and out of my friend group. Can’t speak to national averages.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:55 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:54 PM
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My (23) single friends have about 10-15 bodies at this point. I know others that have much higher but 10/15 is a common range I hear these days
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 06:43 PM
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Exactly ! Did this at 19 in college because I didn’t want to get caught up in hookup culture. Landed myself an alpha that had done his share of fucking and had gotten bored of it. 4 years strong ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:37 PM
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This is exactly what I did and I landed myself a natural alpha with just enough beta traits to be a great partner. Gonna have his babies ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:30 PM
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We are a package deal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:13 PM
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Lmao what the poster wants.🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:09 PM
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You are the one begging for blowjobs just for being a good person. This means we are the prize. Sexual acts are the result of sexual attraction. It is biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:08 PM
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Yes obviously lol. His friendship and great personality would make me consider the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:05 PM
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Would kind of feel like a charity case? If my good friend had never gotten a bj before and I felt empathetic enough I might grace him with the experience. Would not be the norm though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:00 PM
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I happily give my man bjs because I am attracted to him and giving him pleasure in turn gets my pussy wet. Can’t just go around giving every lonely man a blowjob. That is ridiculous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:56 PM
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You can find all of this in a person you are actually attracted to. In turn all of those positive characteristics you mentioned could make me more attracted to a person that I wouldn’t be as attracted to otherwise. But I’m not going to sleep with someone just because they are a good person, and you shouldn’t expect other women to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:48 PM
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Why are you sleeping with people you’re not attracted to?? You can’t expect others to lower their standards just because you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:42 PM
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lol well! At least you gave it a shot😊
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:56 PM
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True lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:50 PM
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Ahh you’re right! Very exciting potentially 👀
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:46 PM
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Eh but what would be your reasoning that’s not specific to his sexuality?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:45 PM
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😨! Do you mind summarizing?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:44 PM
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Hmm! I could totally se myself being ok with my man coming out as bisexual. I would cherish his honesty and trust. I’m glad you two are happy :) Has he ever come to you and asked if could experiment with men?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:36 PM
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Woah ok! Do you then boo. Just know that your opinions can perpetuate violence against innocent people.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:33 PM
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My apologies! I wanted the opinions of women, didn’t really consider it on behalf of men.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:31 PM
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Lol no no. This is outdated and just kind of ignorant. They can genuinely be attracted to both. But do women want men that want both , is the question.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:28 PM
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Great answer. I feel like it’s more simple than people realize. For me it would just be getting over the fact that my man desires other men sexually (subconscious/conscious homophobia?).
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:26 PM
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I absolutely could not peg my man :(
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:24 PM
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I think that bisexuality is the same for men and women. I am just not fond of the idea of my man being with another man sexually
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:23 PM
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Lmfaoo. This was pretty homophobic. You would’ve gotten eaten up in that thread even more than I did 😂😂
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:21 PM
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I love your confidence. I would be hesitant but would not say no if he was everything I wanted in a man otherwise
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:20 PM
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Yes this is what the thread was about. That loads of men are bisexual and have to hide it if they want to date women. I share similar sentiments as you but I did have to realize that it’s because it is just not the “norm” we were socialized around.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:19 PM
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lol I so feel that last part about doing something just to appear accepting. I feel like I could date a bisexual man. Just wouldn’t be my first choice if I had one,
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:17 PM
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Did you know from the jump that he is bisexual?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:16 PM
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They basically were saying that women with homophobic ideals will refuse to date them once the find out they have been with or want to be with men. This leads to the men having to hide their sexuality in order to date women
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:15 PM
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But I can have both ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:33 PM
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I like it when it comes to sex. Very hot.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 09:49 PM
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I find it attractive because he is even more unattainable not community dick and obviously more focused on other more important things. Men are known to be easy lays, so the one that can but doesn’t just stands out to me. Obviously a high value man is a high value man and him having a high body count won’t change that like it might in a woman. But, like I said, it’s just a sweet little cherry on top 👅🍒
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:39 PM
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I love this, so hot!! Being able to fuck exorbitant amounts of people but choosing not to is just as attractive in a man as it is in a woman IMO.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:27 PM
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Yes, we agree :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:19 PM
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Lol so basically you’re saying that being attractive is valuable? Because that I will agree on 100 percent. Comes with a multitude of benefits including easily attainable casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:10 PM
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Lol exactly. Only to those that absolutely cannot have casual is it seen as valuable. Even a 3/10 woman can go out, and find some guy willing to fuck. Truly sorry to those women who cannot find easy dick. But for the rest of us, it is so easily attainable that it might as well be dirt. Value is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:00 PM
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My pleasure ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:47 PM
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Exactly! And you may be drunk but I understand you. I don’t feel you’re wrong for feeling that way at all. Like you said, you are lucky and so are the other people engaging in promiscuous behaviors. Do you, but also have accountability. Every action has a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:33 PM
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Sex in itself is value. Not sure if the casual aspect is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:21 PM
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Women’s fight for sexual liberation is simply to be on equal playing field as men when it comes to sex IMO (For it to not be stigmatized). Imo, if you want to sleep around, no one is stopping you. But you can’t change the way other people might see you because of it. Of course there are always going to be cases were casual sex is absolutely beneficial for women. As a 23 year old attractive woman, maybe I have just not lived enough life to personally experience one of those cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:02 PM
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Yeah I guess we all take for granted what comes easily. But also, even if these femcels were able to acquire casual sex, it would still be very difficult for them to obtain a commitment relationship. So how valuable is it truly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:56 PM
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Yeah I feel you! I really do. I guess personally I just don’t find satisfaction in getting dicked-down (even properly) if the man doesn’t value me. But that is just me! A lot of people can be happy with just the physical pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:12 PM
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Good points made. I guess I’ve just gotten to the point where I feel as though most men I come across are absolutely not worth having sex with for various reasons. To each her own though !
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:53 PM
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What is the worth in having sex with multiple men who couldn’t care less about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:43 PM
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Lol FKA is really that bitch.
/r/askMRP23/10/19 06:35 PM
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I’ve never understood when other women brag about casual sex. It’s the easiest thing in the world for most of us to attain and is very empty/kinda gross when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:33 PM
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As a woman, it usually has to do with insecurity or ego. As I am not insecure, I have seen the appeal in the ego boost it is having a man that is devoted to someone else. This is not sustainable though as shortly after the deed is done the shame sets in and I respect him way less. What kind of man doesn’t honor his word?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 07:01 PM
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Integrity and ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:33 PM
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Where is this thread??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:00 AM
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Can you link me to the thread of pics everyone is talking about please :)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:59 AM
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Cuteee!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:49 AM
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Honestly it’s just difficult to want to give pussy to a man that hasn’t earned it and has nothing besides dick to offer, when the man I’m giving pussy to at home gives me the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:03 PM
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Right! to each her own ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:25 PM
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my gawd the man you posted is absolutely gorgeous. I will take him lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:06 PM
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