loverofrain777 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I feel like women aren't interested in relationships and are just as happy as single Hey! Woman here. I think you’re on the right track. I’m personally engaged to my fiancé, so I am indeed in a relationship. What I will say though is I think it’s an additional layer of just having higher standards than men do (on average). We essentially have more “check boxes” potential partners need to meet to be considered a worthy lifetime partner/mate. Why put ourselves through unnecessary emotional turmoil and unappreciated emotional/physical labor for someone we don’t deem “husband materi…	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/25 05:30 AM
25	Are women choosing to be single because it's easier? In my opinion, it’s common knowledge it’s better to be single than be with someone you’re not compatible with or have no feelings for, essentially settling. It’s not a bad thing to have high standards. There’s almost 8 billion people on this planet, and the sad cat lady stereotype is over-generalized. I think women are choosing to be single because they realize there’s more to life than finding their Prince Charming. We are getting an education, we’re becoming more driven, we’re focusing on our …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 01:42 AM
1	If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on? I wouldn’t necessarily say so. I think it depends on context. Who is she engaging sexual activity with? If she has significantly more experience than her partner, then maybe, but only because his technique needs some improvement. Otherwise I’d argue no, because she has had enough experience to discover what she enjoys, what she doesn’t, and she knows what works for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 09:18 PM
2	Would you date a man if you found out he’s paid for sex in the past? Honestly it really depends. If he’s overall a great and wonderful person otherwise who I’m compatible with and who I’m attracted to as well, what’s the big deal? If him paying for sex is a major issue in his life though, like a sex addiction or part of a whole set of other problems he hasn’t addressed and worked through… then no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 09:02 PM
2	Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women? Women would feel safer. Please ignore us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 05:09 AM
4	This entire sub Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 03:25 AM
1	Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average" Yes let’s look at 9 women and then apply that to checks notes 3.9 billion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 04:11 AM
2	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory The red pill is bad enough as it is, but unfortunately you’re just an asshole.	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 01:12 AM
1	What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream? Yeah it’s not hard to use common sense but apparently people struggle to do even the bare minimum	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 11:52 PM
2	Do I have to be a leader/ dominant in sex and the relationship No not what I’m saying at all, just giving my own experience:) you do what makes YOU happy	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/22 01:33 AM
3	Redpillers never talk about Mental Health? Hey man that’s totally okay too! If you feel like it’s getting too much to control on your own, there’s never any shame in seeking help. I see a therapist on the regular, and my boyfriend used to until he couldn’t afford it anymore. Or do whatever makes you feel good. Find a healthy outlet so it doesn’t drive you crazy bottling it up inside. BTW there’s not a day where i don’t cry over something! No shame in it at all	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/22 01:07 AM
1	Do I have to be a leader/ dominant in sex and the relationship No you don’t have to be or do anything you don’t want to be or do. My man tends to take more of a dominant role only in the bedroom, but that’s about it. He’s more emotional than I am (although he says I made him that way, sureee). I find it cute though and sweet and endearing. It’s one of the many things I love about him. I love how he cares so much for standing up for others and making sure everyone feels like they’re heard and belong. I love how the smallest things make him tear up. I love ho…	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/22 01:03 AM
4	Redpillers never talk about Mental Health? No such thing. There’s nothing wrong with being sensitive. Ever. As long as your emotions don’t control you at least (like you feel like you’re spiraling out of control then that’s probably an issue).	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/22 12:58 AM
1	Q4W: How often do you get approached and asked out in public? A. My rating is weird. My face is a good 8-10 but my body is like a 5-6. You can tell I go to the gym but you can also tell I like my food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 09:00 PM
1	do you feel the need to walk on eggshells when you turn people down ? if so why ? When we end up having to defend ourselves from those very men	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:51 PM
1	do you feel the need to walk on eggshells when you turn people down ? if so why ? How do you know? You’re not a woman. You’ve literally never had to live the female experience. You don’t get to say what is sensationalism and what isn’t when I know what me and many other women have gone through.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:50 PM
1	do you feel the need to walk on eggshells when you turn people down ? if so why ? Safer neighborhoods aren’t the problem, buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:49 PM
1	Is the Red Pill life the best way for the genders to coexist? Should everyone live it? There’s no right or wrong way. As long as everyone in the relationship involved is happy and content. Blue pill, red pill, no pill, it’s YOUR relationship. Other people don’t get to dictate that, only in their own lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:25 PM
2	What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream? Right. People are praising this man for using common sense. Unless they lIke him for other reasons….	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:20 PM
3	What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream? Just don’t rape or abuse women, or anyone for that matter. Treat other people like human beings. And I don’t have a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:19 PM
1	A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys. This!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:04 PM
5	A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys. 1) attraction is subjective, not objective. You cannot look at someone and then place them on a number line and then determine that’s where they fall no matter what (well I mean you can but that isn’t going to define them). What I mean by this is not everyone is going to have the same definition of what a 4 is or what a 10 is. My 4 could be your 10, if that makes sense or vise versa. Conventional beauty standards do exist, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that because someone does not fall unde…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:01 PM
1	Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past. Not really. Women look at men as objects all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 09:33 PM
1	Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past. And a man with a promiscuous past?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 09:19 PM
1	Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past. Say a woman does have a promiscuous past, should she just go fuck herself in your opinion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 09:13 PM
1	The most attractive women I know tend to be the nicest and most grounded I think this is universal for men and women. I’d like to add however, conventional beauty ideals aside, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I’ve met some fairly decent looking people and once I got to know who they were or learned their personality, they quickly became extremely unattractive. And I’ve met some pretty average looking people upon first glance, and I got to know them and they had so much to offer the world, with their kindness and unique quirks and personalities. And then sudden…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 11:44 PM
1	If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here? Half of us are just here for the drama and to try understand viewpoints we consider bewildering. Additionally, r/PurplePillDebate is not the real world. More people on this subreddit need to go outside and touch grass. Like any other subreddit, it’s where you join similar or like-minded people who hold strong (or extreme) viewpoints that is not representative of the whole population. I don’t think anyones lying, I just think that too many assume that what happens in this subreddit is reality whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 01:47 AM
2	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are This is valid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 01:05 AM
2	I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebags You’re probably right	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:52 PM
1	I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebags This. They can’t handle the possibility that the problem might just be them. They’ve got a lot of baggage to unpack and a lot to work on about themselves (and who doesn’t?), but it’s easier to place the blame and responsibility on someone else. Instead of actively trying to improve themselves or change their mindset, they fall into this victim mentality where every single woman or the whole world is against them. It’s not. But that isn’t anyone else’s problem but theirs. They’re only digging the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:50 PM
1	Casual dating/sex, one night stand and any other time when act is done out of wedlock(only for reproduction) is degenerative. Using “dengerative” unironically makes you a degenerate. Cringe	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:34 PM
2	I'm thinking of telling an employee where I work his fiance used to be a hoe I just don’t get it like, does this person literally not have any compassion or emotions for anyone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 01:16 AM
1	Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity". Go outside and touch grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 08:11 PM
2	I'm thinking of telling an employee where I work his fiance used to be a hoe That’s exactly how I’d describe this situation. He’s not remotely even concerned about the dude because you can just tell in the way this message is formatted and worded. It’s really just a way to get an instant sadistic satisfaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:46 PM
-1	I'm thinking of telling an employee where I work his fiance used to be a hoe That’s really not your place or business to tell. People change, and either way, it’s possible he does know of her past sexual history and it isn’t a dealbreaker for him. It’s kind of gross and very low of you. This woman is minding her own business, as the couple are, and you actively want to seek out chaos and possibly ruin someone’s life? Or their relationship? It would be one thing If you had proof of her being unfaithful, but if it happened before she was with him, like I said it’s absolute…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:41 PM
15	We know women don't care about men's safety, but they don't even care about their own children's if you think about it Source: trust me bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:35 PM
1	Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity". The feminist movement was started so women could achieve basic human rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:33 PM
2	Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity". This comment wasn’t necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:32 PM
1	Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity". I feel like rather than women having this innate instinct to fix men, it’s more of something that’s been socialized into us and ultimately also depends on how you were raised and what type of family dynamics you had growing up. I personally never felt the need to fix my significant other. I had a healthy relationship with both of my parents, thus I wasn’t as much at a risk of codependency or anything like that. Women who grow up in abusive or manipulative households or one in which one of the pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:28 PM
3	Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity". It’s not that people are calling masculinity toxic, there’s just this separate phenomenon in which toxic masculinity is separate from just your traditional understanding of masculinity. It’s this concept that men must be emotionally withdrawn and can’t express their emotions or be vulnerable otherwise they’re seen as weak or “less of a man” (when in fact, suppressing emotions is proven to be harmful in the long run and has many effects overall on mental and physical health). It’s not a feminine …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:20 PM
2	Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity". Absolutely. And I say this as a woman. Before anyone tries to call me a pick me, it’s true. If we actually want to eradicate the roots of toxic masculinity, we also need to acknowledge that women are just as responsible for contributing to the problem as men are. Many women truly do love and appreciate emotional men, and want to see more men embracing their emotions and feeling confident in who they are and able to express themselves freely and healthily. However for whatever reason, many other …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:09 PM
1	Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place? I think that the type of ideas or ideologies that incels spread can be harmful and generally are. It’s one thing if you’re spewing all this stuff in an echo chamber and not really trying to influence the general public to get on board with this stuff. But it is toxic and unproductive. Plus, there have been actual events of incels going out and committing acts of violence against the public and women. Think of Elliot Rodger. Scott Berierle. Jake Davidson, and others. Someone gets stuck in this mi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 10:43 PM
1	Do you think the average of 5 lifetime partners is accurate or outdated? Ok. Can I ask where you’re getting that information from? That 80% of women sleep with 20% of men? Where is this statistic from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 10:29 PM
1	Do you think the average of 5 lifetime partners is accurate or outdated? 1) 80/20 is BS. 2) what someone does outside of a committed relationship isn’t really anyones business but theirs, as long as they don’t carry any STD’s. 3) I’ve only ever had 1 partner (in terms of sexual intercourse) (my bf) and he’s had like.. I don’t even know. Way more than me though. And it’s really no big deal because it’s in the past and that ain’t my business. I guess it also just depends on what type of people you’re associating yourself with? Because most people I know personally and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 02:39 AM