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LEVEL UPlovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:45 PM
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DISCUSSIONlovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:55 PM
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DISCUSSIONlovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:07 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFElovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:58 PM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS07/06/21 07:19 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tlovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:38 PM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS24/04/21 05:41 PM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS15/03/21 06:16 PM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS11/03/21 06:00 PM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS11/03/21 12:15 PM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS22/06/21 12:19 AM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS13/05/21 08:03 AM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS29/05/21 12:57 PM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS25/05/21 12:15 AM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS05/06/21 05:37 PM
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STRATEGYlovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:38 PM
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lovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:17 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!lovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:47 AM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS17/04/21 05:19 PM
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DISCUSSIONlovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:26 AM
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LIES MEN TELLlovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:07 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDlovetarie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:45 PM
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lovetarie/r/askFDS22/06/21 09:42 PM
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I want to pick an expensive ass Queen restaraunt just to see what he will say
/r/askFDS22/06/21 09:51 PM
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Self discipline for me to not unblock ..
/r/askFDS22/06/21 12:46 AM
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100%
/r/askFDS19/06/21 03:13 PM
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Discomfort (in knowing my exes were NVM, even negative no value male). Discomfort for me showed up as crying and anger, lurking, jealousy, with some comparison and questioning self worth. Acceptance…. Not sure if I have began that process yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:40 AM
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What song is this ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:39 AM
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“You’re smart and funny” . I was disappointed in that generic response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:27 PM
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Pregnant with one, and the other is a toddler. I feel like I’m so different than the women in my family who tolerates this. Maybe I would tolerate to if I were currently pregnant
/r/askFDS12/06/21 02:21 PM
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Personally I don’t like this. I would not tolerate it. But I’ve never been married. And I don’t have kids. So idk
/r/askFDS12/06/21 12:56 PM
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GOOD! It starts like that “not believing you” then becomes even worse! They do even more bad shit cause they “don’t believe you” I wish I knew to leave the first time! It started off when I wanted to leave my ex’s house after a certain hour because I had errands to do the next day. “I don’t believe you” then he would hide my keys and purse! TRIGGER WARNING: I would tell my ex I’m on my period. “I don’t believe you” and he would continue to take off my pants and check if I had a tampon or pad on!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:24 AM
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I want my mom to read this .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:11 AM
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Never again will I stand shook and startled when the male I’m seeing starts yelling at his mother. Never again will I offer free therapy for a male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:05 AM
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I notice this is always popping up in FDS. Men who don’t wash their ass. I’m so sorry for those who had to experience a horror story for it to be talked about so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:23 PM
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Thank you for this !!
/r/askFDS09/06/21 06:52 PM
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I feel so rejected. How is it not about me?
/r/askFDS08/06/21 10:27 PM
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I’m out by Ciara and Nicki Minaj!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:53 PM
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No they cannot. They end up falling in love and disrespecting you when you say No.
/r/askFDS08/06/21 01:23 PM
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It takes like a minute at the most. Look at the profile pics of these women. That’s all you gotta do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:50 AM
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Thank you for this!!! This is wonderful post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:45 AM
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Thank you,I’m learning so much from FDS.
/r/askFDS08/06/21 12:39 AM
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Thank you !!
/r/askFDS07/06/21 11:37 PM
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I gave him a bracelet (I know.....This was pre FDS., but I didn’t buy it and it’s worth like $3) and he always says he keeps it on. Even in the shower. So I hope he looks at that bracelet and is reminded that he treated me like trash. Thank you for your reply. It’s really helpful
/r/askFDS07/06/21 11:36 PM
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Begin with looking at his following list. Who does he follow? That shows a lot about his interests and social media activity.
/r/askFDS07/06/21 04:00 PM
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I’m so glad that FDS is helping me and changing my thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:22 PM
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Or a male trying to look cool to their crusty old and creepy friend that brought him there ... because he has no mind of his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:19 PM
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Thank you for sharing. I never want to take my ex back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:18 PM
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Mods: is this post allowed? I’m not sure if it posted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:33 PM
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Mental illness. And I don’t say this jokingly. I would do this to my ex cause I missed him and I thought he loved me and I had untreated traumas and depression. I needed therapy (I’m doing so now). I expressed my frustration in an unproductive way. Now I’m getting treated and know not to do that.
/r/askFDS01/06/21 04:18 PM
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Drinks water and not excessive soda. Eats healthy instead of fast food all the time. I had an ex that drank soda and ate fast food all the time and his *** tasted like sh1t. A man that LOVES fruits and veggies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:04 AM
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Omg! I found fellow ladies that are pro snoop! 😍 one time I snooped in his private Snapchat folder thing in the app and I saw a video of a woman dancing on him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:59 AM
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He still loves her deeply. That’s why he said “we loved each other deeply” Who says that to a potential partner? Why include that part? He told on himself. There’s ways to talk about your ex. Even if they are deceased that happened so suddenly. He broke up with her then stayed friends. Was it just for sex? What he playing her and just dragging it along? If he just started therapy about this when it happened so long ago... he isn’t ready to date or consider a relationship.
/r/askFDS24/05/21 04:34 PM
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💯 %
/r/askFDS24/05/21 04:30 PM
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When guys post a bunch of selfies on their Instagram..nah...dating app...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:10 AM
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How in the world can I escape cheating and infidelity? It seems like with social media, you just never know what he is doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:09 AM
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Yesssss this is good idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:08 AM
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My ex who would say he loves me and never would cheat and is loyal, would watch Tazs Angels on Snapchat ON MY BED . I kicked him out and he slammed my door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:07 AM
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always check the following list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:09 PM
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this has happened to me before .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:46 PM
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Thank you .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:15 PM
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Can they still search for me and find my profile? I just joined so idk !
/r/askFDS13/05/21 12:32 PM
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Good question!!! I feel like maybe do in person because then you can see his initial reaction. Does he blush? Does he fidget? Does he laugh? Roll his eyes? Does he look disgusted? Can he look you in the eyes and tell you that he sincerely does not watch porn? Body language !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:16 PM
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What are some more questions to keep vetting? I’ve only had one guy flat out say yes I watch porn, the other guy lied about it (I ignored the red flags) I feel like guys lie about it and I honestly do not want to find out later in the relationship “OMG YOU ARE ADDICTED”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:14 PM
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Thank you for this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:37 AM
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Label it, reject it, move on 👑👸👸🏻👸🏼👸🏽👸🏾👸🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:37 AM
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I agree about the anonymous reporting. I think this is very important.
/r/askFDS30/04/21 07:41 PM
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I’m just curious, but what do people in the class chat respond?? Has anyone reported this? Is this only to you?
/r/askFDS30/04/21 06:59 PM
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When I was 20 My dad said it’s ok for a guy to cheat on me, as long as he comes home at night. When he said that I didn’t know he was doing the same thing to my mother. I found out years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:18 PM
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Phone 100% charged as well before you leave to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:10 PM
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You should already be inspired to be a better person BEFOREEEEEE getting into a relationship. That’s basic human self motivation and character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:08 PM
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He was rude :( thank you for advice
/r/askFDS29/04/21 08:13 PM
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Thank you
/r/askFDS29/04/21 08:13 PM
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They ALWAYS do
/r/askFDS28/04/21 04:20 PM
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This is basically the book. The title just doesn’t sit well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:04 PM
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If you read the book, this doesn’t only target women who love too much. It DOES acknowledge the fact that the men are unlovable and have their own issues. Each story literally talks about the men and his toxicity and it’s not a “it’s your fault you love too much”, victimizing the woman or even making her the villain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:02 PM
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When I love someone more than I love myself, yes I love him too much. When I put him first, yes I love too much. I love an emotionally unavailable (who is unlovable) too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:00 PM
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"A woman who has overcome her pattern of loving too much is profoundly different from who and what she was prior to recovery" this quote. we aren't just different. we are profoundly different. so much excitement and motivation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:17 PM
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Oh lol he was saying he wants to marry me, but I would friend zone him and let him kno
/r/askFDS25/04/21 09:12 PM
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Boundaries by Henry Cloud is so good!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:47 PM
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How did she gaslight you? You don’t have to give specifics but I think my therapist may be doing that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:46 PM
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what are some ways the book helped you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:22 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:22 PM
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Yes !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:22 PM
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Prepare your heart for it! I was crying because I related to so much of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:22 PM
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Did you like that book was it helpful? I just got this book today and I cannot put it down. It’s explaining so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:39 PM
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Just because he was better than my NVM ex I feel like oMg HE tHe oNe
/r/askFDS24/04/21 06:20 PM
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Thanks! :)
/r/askFDS23/04/21 06:42 PM
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Thank you !
/r/askFDS23/04/21 06:41 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/askFDS23/04/21 06:41 PM
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I share some similarities in your story. Thank you for sharing. I wanted to ask, validate how? Idk if I should continue seeing this specific therapist I’m seeing now.... she says I was neglected but like ok? I know that. What do I do about it now cause it’s showing up in my adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:33 PM
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SAME!!!!! “Future wife”. “Forever partner”.... I used to get so flattered and then devastated when they wouldn’t come thru
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:25 PM
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Red flag I say this because cars the seats are close to each other. He can easily try to sneak in a kiss. Guys are brazen like that. You’re in his car, I think that’s also a safety issue since you two don’t know each other for long time
/r/askFDS17/04/21 05:33 PM
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I get you girl, I been thru this. We are finally at the other side and life is better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:31 PM
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Thank you for this reply
/r/askFDS11/04/21 04:26 PM
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I feel like I grow more beautiful each year I grow older. And it’s outward beauty as well as inward beauty. LVM don’t recognize inward beauty they are too busy bashing women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:55 AM
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Thank you for your reply, it’s very helpful
/r/askFDS09/04/21 03:36 PM
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All of these red flags I ignored with my prior relationships. I was a #pickmeisha but no more cause FDS is helping me
/r/askFDS09/04/21 03:36 PM
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Thank you 💜
/r/askFDS15/03/21 11:12 PM
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👑 👑 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:11 PM
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Deep fake? Is that a subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:34 AM
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I was prescribed the pill birth control to “balance my hormones” in HS. Got my period 2x a month. Three years later i entered into a relationship and I endured getting an IUD inserted in me for my man child ex LMV boyfriend . It was so damn painful. It’s out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:20 PM
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I want to be 100% sober.... I have a bad relationship with cannabis. I think it’s hindering me. Thanks for the advice and encouragement this really helped
/r/askFDS13/03/21 11:10 PM
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Does it tell u how to fix it ?
/r/askFDS13/03/21 10:11 PM
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Yellow flag or red flag if they bring up their ex
/r/askFDS13/03/21 08:29 PM
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Did he ever talk about his ex in any convos with you?
/r/askFDS13/03/21 07:39 PM
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Thanks. Wow that was good read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:36 PM
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After 2 months of leaving him, you will so free that you will wonder why u didn’t do it sooner. This is coming from experience . I wasted 4 years when I should have left on the first day
/r/askFDS13/03/21 07:33 PM
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I tried searching what the Blood in water test meant and couldn’t find it is it possible someone tell where to look? Google? Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:39 PM
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Can I repost this ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:00 PM
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What about Dominican men? I’m interested in one.... I had a close girl friend of mine and she was Jamaican and said that the Jamaican sons are raised that cheating is ok and it’s ok to let a man walk all over you and have four other side chicks. Honestly idk, I have dated a Jamaican man child before and he had a soft porn issues along with cheating, etc.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:41 PM
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That’s how my ex was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:26 PM
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My ex would follow random girls, soft porn accounts, all these random girls that would never give him the time of day... he knows it hurts me but continued to do it. One time I caught him IN THE ACT of watching soft porn on Snapchat. He was in my room on my bed. I kicked his ass out when I saw that. He slammed my door and said I was a bitch. Did I take him back? Yes 🤡 We are forever done now and Trust me it won’t hurt forever ! 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:57 PM
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Sameeeee!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:56 PM
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This is what my therapist told me yesterday, that it’s rare . I honestly fear going out to parks and beaches even tho it makes me happy. My mental health is shit cause I’m scared to have fun. Any person safety tips ???????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:52 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:49 AM
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Thank you ! This is good advice too
/r/askFDS11/03/21 11:59 PM
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Thank you ! I’m going to work on this
/r/askFDS11/03/21 11:57 PM
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Omg. I’m sorry the LVM wasted your time
/r/askFDS11/03/21 11:57 PM
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Yes !!!!! Three years ago I HAD a male gyno. At that time I was on birth control and I had really bad cramps (like period cramp, not a stomach cramp) when I would eat soy. I told the Dr. he laughed and said “so just don’t eat soy”. And I was shocked that this DOCTOR is laughing at my concern while taking my money. I said “can we check to see what’s going on down there? It’s really bad pain. Can we do an ultrasound? The doctor said “no we can’t. Since you’re on birth control IUD There’s no way I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:44 PM
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It’s so toxic here :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:28 PM
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OMG. How did he think that was ok or attractive??? Was he a Scrote when you visited? WHY do guys do this??? What is their fascination with feces? This reminds me of how this NVM I was just platonic friends with in the past did the same thing to me. And in my own house.
/r/askFDS11/03/21 06:56 PM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:49 PM
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Would u have gotten out of bed with him? Drove home?
/r/askFDS11/03/21 06:48 PM
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😭😭😭 “him CLAIMING it was just a joke” LOLLL I promise u it’s not. If I can take those 4 years back I would. Mommy issues, entitled, NVM, stole, etc. I honestly think I was Effed up in the head to continue dating him.
/r/askFDS11/03/21 06:41 PM
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I need to get a steady income. I have projects here and there and I’m taking classes 3 times a week. I’m on my parents house and I want to move ASAP. REnt and houses are soooo much where I live. Cant relocate from this area. FDS hopefully I can get finance tips !! This post was inspiring and motivating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:57 PM
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I needed to hear this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:16 PM
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I’m saving this post for future reference . Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:31 AM
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Thank u for encouraging I needed to read this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:11 AM
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When they can’t find something that is literally right in front of them... “oh I can’t see it!!!!!” “My eyes are bad”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:29 PM
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I apologize, I’m new here, my first post on this. She did ask “would you let your husband or future husband DJ at underground clubs?” In her post so I was answering. But I will read the rules of this subreddit. Thank you for correcting me
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 10:04 PM
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By the way, you are not controlling your boyfriend by stating your boundaries, desires, and needs in a relationship. You matter too
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 08:40 PM
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Personally I wouldn’t tolerate that. What are your own boundaries?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 08:38 PM
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But above all, pray to God for wisdom in this. Truth, clarity,
/r/RPChristians04/03/21 06:20 PM
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Porn May likely be on his phone.... or something else he wants to hide In my opinion and based on experience.
/r/RPChristians04/03/21 06:16 PM
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What are some examples of behavior that would be considered guarding her man? While I definitely don’t think other female friendships is appropriate if we are in a committed official monogamous relationship leading to marriage... but I never heard of the term “guarding your man” May you explain? Thank u !
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/21 03:15 PM
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When I was in middle school I loved that song. Unknowingly of the lyrics... I just looked at the cute guy that sang it. (He ain’t even my type anymore) That song is repulsive. I still have a lot of work to do but I came a long way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:25 PM
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4 years of sex with the same guy and I never orgasmed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:23 PM
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At first I was like “at least he made you a love note...” And girl that stems from me wanting love notes from my last two ex’s! That I never got! Reading the comments here I’m just like..... I need to raise my standards big
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:14 PM
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But a cookbook! I only knew how to make scrambled eggs in the beginning of this year but I bought a cookbook, all recipes are from scratch and I started off by cooking one new recipe from book a day. Now I love to cook the recipes multiple times a day and I cook it faster. Cooking requires everyday practice in my opinion Then you get better. You learn what works and what doesn’t Try out different cuisines. Seriously cookbooks are great
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/21 01:01 PM
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There's nothing to explain or discuss. I love that. ima say this next time when a guy is trying to convince me to compromise and gets mad when i say that him and i are incompatible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:04 AM
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thank you for encouraging me. im keeping my boundaries . I'm getting better but i want to be at the point of leaving at the first sign....i would give years and months to these boys....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:59 AM
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wow....this entire comment 100%%%%%% truth !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:14 PM
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