lowcarbbq Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Wedding ring Cash for gold. Bought some nice booze.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/25 07:49 PM
2	How much alimony? Cheers FL brother. 25 years with her , 19 years at $4300/mo without her.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 06:52 PM
7	I put inheritance in joint bank account. Am I fucked? State specific. Talk to your lawyer on rights . Engage a forensic accountant if needed to substantiate where the money came from. Worth having a subject matter experts here on that $$$$ value.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/25 07:58 PM
13	What did YOU do wrong? Apparently I am a narcissist sociopath. I am so good at manipulation I got the marriage counselor to completely agree with me instead of me Stbxw. I am also so good at manipulation I got opposing counsel to agree with my asset split being fair and equitable, even though Stbxw knows I am screwing her over.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/25 12:07 AM
5	Hostile If you don’t provide a lawyer for them to serve the papers to, they will file and you will get served directly. Buying weeks here at best. Once served you would be best to respond per the summons. I suggest you lawyer up. Judges do not take kindly to people making a mockery of the justice system by ignoring court orders to respond/appear/etc.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/25 06:47 PM
3	I would like to hear divorce stories from guys in their 50’s with kids out of the house. Very state specific. But can quickly find out the basics. With no child support or custody. it’s much easier. There is no “your” retirement. Both of yours are combined to marital assets (caveat being any assets either if you had before marriage or specific inheritance type ones since). Expect the combined total to divide 50/50 Alimony is usually a function of delta between your 2 incomes up to a “need”. Generally to protect a stay at home parent vs career type. The more wild your assets are and …	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/25 07:02 PM
12	Ex family. I look at them from my kids perspectives. Grandma aunts uncles and cousins. And I don’t want my kids to lose those relationships. So I try to be neighborly. Best way to describe it. I know they are 100% on the side of my ex so there’s never going to be a friendship. But we can be good neighbors when interacting with our shared family tree.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/25 11:20 AM
5	STBX is trying to keep all the pets. We had originally agreed to split them up... I let mine go. Kids send me pics. Plenty of other shelter pets need love.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/25 11:11 PM
4	How do you fill your time? i go to the gym now and spend a lot of time there. exercise, then use the recovery stuff like their massage chairs. create a positive 3rd space. i also visit a coffee shop every weekend. its about a 35 minute walk. then i sit and sip coffee for an hour, people watch, then walk home. renewed my library card and hang out. lot more than just books these days. mine has a jig saw puzzle out on a table. so i'll put a few pieces in there. people watch. when the weather starts cooling, will likely look …	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 04:04 PM
2	Any experience with terminating alimony based on cohabitation? We must have married the same woman. Narcissist talk track she got from her therapist only caring about money. Never appreciating the life I provided. And now she’s trying to argue for a 70/30 asset split.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/25 12:00 AM