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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Suppose you're a libertarian / conservative / right-of-center dude in a coastal city. How are you supposed to date women? Why would you want to date someone that doesn’t have the same values with you? Not a fling but actually be in a relationship with them? Makes no sense. You know your partner is supposed to be your friend too, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 09:45 PM
2	Women benefit from porn way more than men do This whole sub is full of awful takes from people that need to touch grass. I follow it for entertainment and to remind myself how bad things can get😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:29 PM
1	Who else doesn't date people from broken homes and crappy families? This is why I always say "staying together for the kids" is a bad idea. Always a bad idea. If the kids can't have a healthy relationship model to see growing up, then its better to have no relationship model at all (aka single parent household) so that they can figure it out on their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 04:25 PM
16	Dating is just sales. Exactly. Because wtf lol. Sounds like advice for the most hollow relationship ever.	/r/seduction	18/04/23 02:38 AM
20	Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom? Idk man the fact that you sound this relieved that you don't have kids with your own wife sounds like you might want to reassess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 09:36 PM
5	Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned. I can relate	/r/seduction	22/10/22 05:27 PM
4	Im a depressed wife who has let herself go... And my husband isnt attracted to me anymore. Therapy? This is above my pay grade. Also, someone can love you and just not be attracted to you anymore. I have friends of both sexes that I dearly love and am not remotely sexually attracted to. However, in a marriage that you want sexual intimacy, there has to be a layer of sexual attraction beyond the friendship, and you cannot force him (he can't force himself, either) to be attracted to what he's not attracted to. It's also why I think therapy and seeing a professional might help, because …	/r/askRPC	11/09/22 02:46 AM
0	Christians and divorce I can't believe it either! There are a lot of crazies in this sub.	/r/RPChristians	26/05/22 08:02 AM
4	When is the right time to ask a girl if she's a virgin? This tells me everything I need to know about your quest to find a virgin. Lol. "Import". Good luck to you!	/r/RPChristians	16/05/22 02:11 PM
5	When is the right time to ask a girl if she's a virgin? Unfortunately a lot of Christians need to learn the hard way. They don't understand why they're being celibate in the first place, and so "saving sex for marriage" for them is really a legalistic exercise and not a real understanding of the reasoning behind it. Hence the fixation on virginity.	/r/RPChristians	16/05/22 02:09 PM
1	How do you appropriately discipline a family member's child? Depends on how close you are to the family members. I would definitely correct my sister's kids when she has them as if they were mine.	/r/askRPC	04/03/22 06:47 AM
16	Worried about being talked about So what if they talk about you? What are you scared of? Are you ashamed of your desire? If not, then why worry about being talked about? You gotta own the fact that you're interested in her. It's not like you said anything rude or creepy, you simply expressed interest. It's not a crime to be interested in a woman (unless you're ashamed of the fact that you are a human who experiences attraction). And if she's not interested then you keep it moving! Let them talk all they want hahaha. Not the bes…	/r/seduction	03/02/22 08:48 AM
4	Tell a man you’re waiting for marriage or no? Please be upfront. The ones that run are weeding themselves out.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/01/22 12:18 PM
48	Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laid The book the person you replied to mentioned is called "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty". Please read that book if you haven't, it changed my life and I'm not even joking. Not even just with women. It'll also help you filter advice you see here.	/r/seduction	22/12/21 06:46 PM
4	26 years old. Making big changes in my life. Never had GF, Sex or Kiss. But that’s changing. Should I tell women about my lack of experience ? Be honest and be confident about it. When you mention it don't seem embarrassed, just mention it with confidence. They key is always confidence.	/r/seduction	28/10/21 11:52 PM
1	Mental Fog: Lazy & Unfocused. Diagnosis and Cure. Not for me, no. Depends on the kind of sex you're having though. If it's mindless hookups then yes, but if its emotional relationship sex then no. The desire for other "bodies" sort of just disappears, if that makes sense. I can't really put it in words, you just have to experience it yourself. And i should also note that being in a relationship doesnt mean you let go of rp principles, they actually enhance it and make it better. Anyway all of this is only relevant if youre interested in a long …	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/21 07:57 PM
1	Mental Fog: Lazy & Unfocused. Diagnosis and Cure. If you can abstain and make it past the "fuck everything that moves" stage, if you can just ride that out and endure it, I promise that the other side feels sooooo much better.	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/21 07:28 PM
1	I need some advices on what to write to this girl I’m interested in If you can't meet up physically for a date because of the distance, find someone you can meetup with instead and get over her. I would've advised you to be straightforward- "Hey I think you're really cute and would like to take you out on a date". But if that's not legitimately possible it's kinda pointless rn. You don't "start" a new relationship as a long distance one unless you're into masochism. Lol.	/r/seduction	21/09/21 07:54 AM
5	Almost 25 never had a bf, is this a red flag? Uhh, I disagree. If my date was really knowledgeable about stuff at a museum I'd be extremely impressed and really interested in knowing more. I am definitely incredibly attracted to an intelligent woman. I'd rather that than someone whose personality revolves around being attractive and the only thing they do for fun is watch The Office	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/21 11:31 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 05:42 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Is there a podcast I could listen to with basically the same content debated in this sub?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 08:48 AM
0	What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them. Don't suddenly force anything on yourself. Are you saying there's nothing you like in this world? No activity that you'd probably be okay spending more time than average on? Just look for an activity that you genuinely enjoy that also involves meeting people in person. This isn't even about having game or seduction. This is about making friends- the skills you get from learning to make friends transfer over easily. The hobby you choose doesn't even have to have many women, remember this is about…	/r/seduction	11/08/21 04:54 PM
2	I realized that in this country, my only chance left is to cold approach. I'm a 26 year old virgin with no social circle. I think I've got the attitude down, but I don't know what to say. The first few things I have to say/ask are a puzzle to me. This. This is it.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 01:09 AM
1	I realized that in this country, my only chance left is to cold approach. I'm a 26 year old virgin with no social circle. I think I've got the attitude down, but I don't know what to say. The first few things I have to say/ask are a puzzle to me. Try to make friends first and have a social life. So when you meet someone they won't be the only interaction in your day and you won't scare them off by being too needy.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 01:09 AM
24	27. Never Dated Before. How to find a man who's husband material? You're very religious, why not try to meet one at church (or wherever you worship)? There are often a lot of "young adults" subgroups in most religious gatherings	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/21 07:04 AM
3	I have stretch marks everywhere This 100x	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/21 12:38 AM
2	Just lost my virginity at 22. I used to think like you till I quit porn. Porn fries your brain, you don't even realize how much it does.	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 08:53 AM
4	21 y/o Virgin Looking for Help I don't think telling her about your anxiety will do anything for you. Might even put her off a little (if you're not in an actual relationship). You've made the right first step. Quit porn, do kegel exercises and eat better. You'll be able to get it up. Quitting porn is pretty important btw, even though you're physically attracted to her your brain is desensitized because of the sheer volume of porn stars you flood your brain with. My opinion.	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 08:46 AM
1	A response to criticisms of “independent women” I want an independent woman but not an independent woman where being independent is her main personality trait. Also, the things you claim to "gain" from independence... Well idk. I'm an independent man that still shaves and trims regularly, dresses modestly, etc. So I guess in a way, you can look at it that some people aren't interested in your 'true' self, and not necessarily because you're independent. It's just that this "independence" which you feel the need to make a point of every time is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 09:04 AM
5	People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes. Me too	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 04:36 AM
93	I could get this and with a whopping 110 out of 110 cum laude cause there was no bitch distracting me. I could also spent a magnificent time with my dad and brother to thank them properly for their support during these 3 years. No chance of doing that with some bitch in the way. Stay MGTOW brothers! You can go your own way without calling women bitches or otherwise disrespecting them. This is about minding our business and just not having to deal with them. That said, congrats!	/r/MGTOW2	17/02/21 10:58 AM
5	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. Do you openly express interest in guys you're interested in? And are you shooting for the top 10% of guys too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 02:45 PM
8	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. I disagree, as long as you aren't overweight most guys wouldn't mind being with a woman they're emotionally compatible with (i.e a woman that does the bare minimum to show interest in them).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 02:41 PM
3	Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you? Yes, instantly	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 09:13 PM
1	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized @the title, I just learned this. The other way round, though. A pretty face is meaningless if the personality is unbearable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 02:13 AM