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| 1 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipthey absolutely should stop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipyep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipthat would be nice if women actually believed that on their end … but over and over again they have demonstrated that her money is hers and his money os ours … even in divorce they practice this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:34 AM |
| -3 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipthat applies to splitting assets gained in marriage… not income after marriage … bottom line a substantial amount of woman initiate separation from the man because they want freedom independence and “happiness” yet they manage Not to separate themselves from his income… and actually go after his income to support themselves . These are not non working women of 100 years ago…….these are modern working, educated women still practicing this helplessness/independence contradiction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 02:36 AM |
| -16 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipmen don’t care of she leaves … its when she leaves with his money and children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 02:04 AM |
| -1 | The only disincentives women respond to are shame and or de-beautification. Therefore the criminal justice system is unfair because it applies male centric punishment to women.Lol , shame indeed … don’t forget guilt and the need to be right as evident in the comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 09:02 AM |
| 0 | At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out?its hypergamy plain n simple… the men with the most resource and/or genetic utility will mate more with multiple women. I have 5 women in rotation 2 are exclusive to me … i have all the 666s but strangely these women are not even the best looking i desire. I can only imagine what more than average women hypergamous match is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?for the most part... Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 11:25 PM |
| 0 | CMV One Big reason why man today struggle is because they are delusional about they‘re own SMV.Women have basically voted to socialize an individual man’s SMV to a collective SMV. This is what is now called ‘the government’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 03:20 AM |
| 1 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?Any attractive women in their 30s is either taken or extremely picky with nasty attitudes basically continuing what they did in their 20s . All the other women on the market fat, ugly or single moms looking for step fathers. Does nit matter the generation. 30s men have to settle for single moms or an unpleasant attractive woman 30s woman have to settle dad bods or face fuck boy galore. The common theme is the illusion of choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 03:21 AM |
| 1 | What do men get for paying for the first date?you basically gotta play the game , remember the feminist and disagreeable women will continue want it “both ways” which will frustrate you. So to get anything out of it , make sure u filter these women out these women and then you will get a ROI with an actual traditional woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Regarding people that want children and LTRs…Why do you guys think single and childless people are not matching with other single and childless people ?nice answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023My personal take: for every accomplishment a women achieves personally, financially, physically and mentally she will expect a mate to be equally accomplished or exceedingly accomplished. As a result, there are many women that admire, respect and are impressed only by a “select” group of men. these are reciprocal components that cause men to chase and a courtship soon develops. Men can generally smell a women’s lack of pair-bond ability. Its reflects is her attitude and it reflects in her inabil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Why girls don't want a househusbandbiology.... and no idealogy can override it no matter what they say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMsif a man can afford it, 99% would probably go for a stay at home wife. The economics of a 2 gender economy make it less likely for a man to afford it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Does female bonding sound as artificial as I think it does? Or is this how women genuinely feel?A-lot of it is genuine and a-lot of it is competitive assessment via subterfuge. Some women consciously or unconsciously “assess” other women for potential ability to poach their mate (srry didnt know for women only question) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 01:47 AM |
| 2 | As a woman why should I get married?You already married to a man. That man is called the state you should get married or bonded to a competent man because there is a real possibility in your life time that men( the state, the taxpayer ) will no longer or unable to subsidize your lifestyle. Another words we all enjoy a certain lifestyle because the state. Women liberties and privileges are heavily subsidized(more than men) in many forms by a collective state. Shall that collective become unviable, then you should be bonded to a cap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:13 PM |
| 4 | Most guys hate plastic surgery and make up on women. Most guys would never get plastic surgery and do makeup to impress or compete with other guys. So why do women do it for other women?Women don’t “do it for themselves” they do it to appear attractive to another human being to some end. Whether that end be for mating, for female dominance hierarchy, to deceive a person etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Women are completely delusional when it comes to their physical appearance, yet they constantly suggest men are the ones overrating themselvesthey have to be… as its often thier primary agency in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 11:51 AM |
| -1 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessThe cynical attitude towards the biological imperative to progeny is bizarre . So much so its just as bad as the ultra conservatives that want children for the sake of children. I find it strange that soo many people are against the perpetuation of life, yet are sitting here breathing, eating and consuming because their forefather give them the opportunity to exist. Yet no one is killing themselves in mass. Surely this belief system of non-reproduction has to lead to suicidal ideation and a nihi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?if no consequences….yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 01:59 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?if u mean attraction in terms of fulfilling female sexual strategy, it when that man seeks to make your life easier for the short and long term and he takes tangible actions on both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:18 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?1)you don’t determine your sexual value… the opposite does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Where did the idea of a woman's SMV originate from? To the point where it has become a hot topic for PurplePill and Redpill Reddit?dont be fooled women are aware of it in some form..thats why they don’t disclose their age and weight … that nondisclosure is just a derivative of SmV awareness Like i said SmV has always existed but it recently become codified in modern mating /dating in western society its current from, came from a general pattern of women becoming more amicable to more men….when they get older , gain weight, and have children; juxtaposed to how they approach mating men when they are younger, prettier , thinne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Why do so many men think they would get a sexual harrasment charge for attempting to talk to a woman? Are they really that clueless about how to speak to a woman without sexually harassing her?Depends on the work environment. In my field (male dominated) females tend to leverage their gender to get out of work, especially labor intensive work; which was required to hold the position. One of the ways i have seen this done is to “ retroactively withdraw consent or acceptance” . Meaning i have seen some women accept sexual compliments at the time and when something unfavorable happens later on they withdraw the acceptance and claim it as harassment. They is often done to: deflect perform… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 06:22 AM |
| – | Female women, why are you (99,99% of the time) not able to give good dating advice?could be competition. Since women engage in sexual competition differently than men . They tend to use subtle ways to undermine each other… bad advice might be part of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Who is more in responsible for women's beauty standards?Beauty is just a signal of genetic health .Genetic health is a requisite to species continuity and individual continuity. Genes is a byproduct of reproduction. Humans reproduce sexually. therefore the opposite gender(men) forms the foundation of what beauty is for the given sex(women). Subsequently men are responsible for all derivatives of beauty standardized by women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDwould you support randomized DNA test, where a child is selected for paternity testing at random conducted by a computer ? …. taking the “insult” part out it of it ….and these random test funded collectively by men by tax or other means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:31 AM |
| 5 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDwould you support randomized DNA test, where a child is selected for paternity testing at random conducted by a computer ? …. taking the “insult” part out it of it ….and these random test funded collectively by men by tax or other means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:26 AM |
| 7 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDhard for me that you will tell your child that as the sole reason… its more likely that you would embellish the rationale and amplify victimhood to sell the story to a child trying to figure why the family was broken up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDits because is not really about trust…. its about resource provisioning and women are using “trust” to conceal their biological state to extract resources from men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDIt would be nice to be mandatory, but women tend to vote pretty regularly and they wont vote for any politician that they perceive as placing a check on their sexuality. Paternity test is an indirect check on female sexuality and her best interest because it limits her ability to extract resources . She still need resources regardless of who is the father is. Eliminating potential resource sources will likely, and innately be perceived as hostile. I do no think ethics will come to play as her bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantthat stuff ancillary. They fundamentally know that beauty and youth is the primary attractor of men of means. That stuff serves to A)make up for pack beauty B) serve as back up just in case their man strays away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 04:52 AM |
| 4 | I am invisible to the women that I find attractiveyou have to know the pecking order of the men u are competing with. then u have to outperformed them in someway. For example i was able to attract women because i was single dad of a girl and i made a 6 figure income…. an aberration in the black community. If you white then u have have to outperform other men somehow and someway in ur immediate community | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Women have more to offer than menThe Geopolitical Infrastructure(government, military, social safety net) is generally maintained & protected by men and the physical infrastructure is generally builded & maintained by men. Now a days provsioning and proection is being socialized to all men at all economic levels. The sperm bank has to built by a man, and has to be maintained by STEM personell - which is generally men. The same thing goes for the internet. Women generally have little interest in STEM or building anything physica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 09:09 AM |
| – | Girl doesn’t believe in contributing to a household other than cooking cleaning , pitching business ideas and being “supportive” and man pays ALL the bills and expenses with the household and going out . Is this a fair exchange?I live nj shes in lives ny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 11:56 AM |
| – | Girl doesn’t believe in contributing to a household other than cooking cleaning , pitching business ideas and being “supportive” and man pays ALL the bills and expenses with the household and going out . Is this a fair exchange?great answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 11:33 AM |
| – | Girl doesn’t believe in contributing to a household other than cooking cleaning , pitching business ideas and being “supportive” and man pays ALL the bills and expenses with the household and going out . Is this a fair exchange?we are about the same... she is attractive but not the most attractive ive been with . we are not living together .... we keep getting into arguements because i feel shes entitled and not appreciative ... and she thinks that i dont care about here feelings and i cant take crticism... so its an bad cycle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 11:29 AM |
| – | Girl doesn’t believe in contributing to a household other than cooking cleaning , pitching business ideas and being “supportive” and man pays ALL the bills and expenses with the household and going out . Is this a fair exchange?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 11:06 AM |
| – | Girl doesn’t believe in contributing to a household other than cooking cleaning , pitching business ideas and being “supportive” and man pays ALL the bills and expenses with the household and going out . Is this a fair exchange?i was thinking that…me and my last girl had a 70/30 rule … i paid 70% and she paid 30% . ex felt thankful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ?good answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 11:41 PM |
| -3 | If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ?idk where u get micromanaging from but ok of course its Petty,just like she checks me to see if i will hold her bag, open her door and other test throughout the week …these petty food orders add up and accumulate weekly and daily . I want to see if she will contribute to the “partnership” in someway if she cant financially … idk why that notion is absurd …. you guys don’t want to be sexually abused and exploited …..we don’t want to financially abused and exploited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 09:06 PM |
| 0 | If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ?yes “partner” but apparently partnership has different meanings to each sex. i have had that partner discussion when gf told me that she should have input on things and have equal role on decision making. Heres the problem, for example, my girlfriend asked me to buy her a sandwich while im at work, and she’ll watch my computer. We both have remote jobs that we can cover each other. I have literally pay for 98% of the all food, snack and dates. shes in debt but she has decent job. i pay and i go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?here come the virtue singal comments that really dont match ppls beahvior in real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 12:37 AM |
| 9 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?I am a single dad. I have always had female help from partners and extend female family... I would only do it if i absolutely have too. Its possible, but surely not desirable for the kid or yourself... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | What kind of man pays Rich Cooper $1,000 an hour for 'coaching'?a foolish man with disposable income | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likemost of what u say is generally true in reality ... dont expect any reality here though...alot of the women here are unfortuntely and probably unintentionally live in a virtue signal spiral... They will disagree for the sake a disgreeing and they will somehow claim they are the magically exception to the rule,,, yet none of this pans out IRL, because their actions never reflect thier idealism, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’i think there must be a equilibirum between expectations and available mates. Otherwise both genders end up alone, apathetic and unhappy. A key is cutting off the "missing out" effect of the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:03 PM |
| 0 | Women earn the emotional pain they receive by creating and rewarding manipulative men.Ummm no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Women earn the emotional pain they receive by creating and rewarding manipulative men.very good analysis on the clash of the sexual strategies. I always find it hilarious how so so many dreadfully average/ ugly females on dating sites put “no hookups, no games, no married/taken men,dont waste time, serious only, don’t be lame, dont just say hi” and so and so forth. 50% of the profiles are inundated with “rules,restrictions and requirements”. They are doing this because soo many men message them and therefore the have an illusion of abundance. But then they will realize that all t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 08:25 AM |
| -1 | Having women as friends is basedFemales tend to make bad friends.Not all of them, but alot do. The attractive ones, are very self centered, they dont really ask questions or engage u as a human being. Rather they just blab about thier life and how the world is treating them and countless bad relationships. They sing random songs and they talk about work or celebrity gossip. They also tend to be oblivious to the world around them and world events, politics, science,exploration and important happenings in the community. Its like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:53 AM |
| 3 | What is more important Physical Connection or Emotional Connection?once u past the physical threshold…its mostly emotional. Think of the physical threshold as a spectrum and then the emotional connection as the next level and the platonic as the level beneath . platonic is for mutual benefits for the individual, romantic is mutual benefit for the unit-family building The stronger the physical connection the faster u can get to the “romantic” emotional connection and faster u leave the platonic . The weaker the physical connection the longer it takes to get to r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?for males its A) a protection instinct to not hurt ur feelings and to get ur in pants B) trying to sneak in ur pants Manipulation - by telling u what u want to hear 3) they are extremely feminized or gay …. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 02:13 AM |
| 50 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?its almost entirely some form of “signaling language”. It’s the same way a females will talk about each other like dogs behind each others back and then be very cordial with each other. The lack of “hurtful honesty or rejection honesty” probably has some biological/anthropological reasoning behind it. I think there is probably some evolutionary advantage(children, harm avoidance and cooperatives) involved in this communication style. Of course the language barrier can be bypassed… by simply obse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Why would a man want to become a feminist? Why would a woman want to become “redpilled” or Men’s Rights/MGTOW sympathizer?male feminist is either trying to get laid by pretending to side with misandrist ideals or he can rationally explain his ideas beyond reproach. Since very few have the IQ to do this, i would think most male feminist are just trying to virtue sneak in the p-ssy. I would a female red piller is a sort of chess player and on 2 fronts. She will know the signs of RP and know how to counter any psychological games or at least preempt red-pill gaming . Another front, like male feminist, she might be try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 09:27 AM |
| 16 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?thats misleading. While there are exceptions , there are general trends of attractiveness. To virtue signal outliers is a disservice to ppl that want to be attractive to the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 09:19 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.manopshere doctrine is to only expend resources on a women that is generally interested in you. A second doctrine is to expend resources on a woman that is genuinely physically attracted to you. Preferably a man would prefer a women’s genuine physical attraction, because that is least costly(time n money) to mate and sustain a relationship . The game of life, the end goal, is reproduction. Very few men really expect a woman to drop her panties for a dinner date. Thats hyperbolic rhetoric thats p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?In a Bilogical sense and because the physical act of sex is reproduction she is highly invested in the phsyical act....by jumping ship to another man.....A) She reproductively risky as her actions can or could have caused u to invest in a child thats not yours B)She is rejecting your DNA and essentially saying you (ur genes) are unworthy of continued existence in the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.few modern western females will ever admit to it, but we all know most women have a biological propensity for wanting to be provided for - including before, during and even after courtship...Most of the rebuttals from women on this subject will be some form of virtue signal claiming to be some rational "exception to the rule"...problem is that so called rational gender fairness rarely plays out in real life. Yeah it sounds nice, but for the most part its academic - as female ACTIONS and what the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 06:05 PM |
| 6 | Roe v. Wade Mega-Threadinteresting how a women challenged Roe,,, and then Roe herself challenged Roe years ago. Its not a gender thing , its ideals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | The experience of being a woman online.All men want true intimacy. But most want a return on investment. The key is will the emotional investment produce not only a mental return but a physical return as well. Because alot of women will often use men as emotional tampons/listening therapist and will not return that investment in physical or mental dividends. Some men will "test the waters" by intentionally being perverted to see if he is at least physically attractive to her. Lets face it, if a women is physically attracted to a man,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 2 | The experience of being a woman online.the end game is for biology is reproduction aka sex. I really dont get the "turned sexual" comments by some women. That should be expected whether its 3hrs or 3 months. Its not like women take the initative to "turn things sexual". I dont get the mind reading annoyance women feel on this issue- he cant read ur mind and pick the exact point its ok to "turn things sexual" with u. Again the end game of dating is reproduction/child, there nothing else . I commend men that get to the point and try to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?Mother nature is not dumb enough to make men comparative picky as women. Biology 101 - life wants to perptuate it self at ALL COST | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Dating Market for the 40 and up crowd?seems like a cruel joke to have so many options of women with little to no fertility who want to "re-settle" with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree/disagree with this discussion that women should not fuck around till their 30's in finding a husband?You have been responding with rational throughout this post, i don’t really get the rebuttals I wonder if there is something human psyche or EGO, that rejects rational judgement, rational truth and fills that void with ‘exceptions make the rule” like counter arguments. I wonder what is this mechanism ? is it emotionalism? is it coping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 7 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?because male sexual strategy involves limiting her sexuality to only him. Her sexual strategy is limiting her sexuality to only highest genetic and status man she can get. Both strategies are complimentary and competitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 01:59 AM |
| 20 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?its the meaning of life of EVERY organism on the planet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Western women are becoming more r selected as time passes but still have cooperative programming. That is they will tend to be more “indirect” relative to men. you have to be direct and aggressive with most women to filter out through all the inconsistent, mix or validation/cock tease nonsense. If she starts “pulling away”…dont bother as she is still filtering out her choices putting u into a queue . When u confront and break through her “cues or signals” her positive response rate determines if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Women approaching makes a lot more sense in contemporary societybeen approached by several women,,even lost Vcard to an older women that randomly started to make out with me... I have to say that most were old, fat or i wasnt really into. Attractive women just give u hints...and play the subtle game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Women approaching makes a lot more sense in contemporary societyGood luck with that.... they will throw a thousand hints...but they will never be that direct not in 200,000 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Majority of TRP people want a familythats a lie...the number one guy in the red pill community has been married 20 years... All these dudes will marry a childless women under 40 in a heartbeat...no matter what they claim. The redpill is against marrying single moms and marrying women that have aged out of fertility. Both of which are logical preferences. I mean you dont want marry a short man or a man that cannot provide thats a logical female choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinku wont get an honest response from the females here and they all think they are the exception to the trend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Do regularly unmated / unfathered men have any incentive in gathering surplus resources and sustaining their communities?refreshing response, its seems there is a-lot of signaling here among the female redditors that think ppl are doing progressive things or should be doing “out the kindness of their hearts”. idk if they are purposely ignoring or just plain ignorant of the invisible hand motivation behind male behavioral actions and inactions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | New study on dates shows that men paid for the majority of male-initiated dates (68%), but women or both paid only 33% of the female-initiated dates.between men and women….women take pleasuring in receiving and men take pleasure in giving … its hardwired. Any guy or gyal that tries to play pc with it is lying at worse and virtue signaling at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?Mostly Incentives. Women have historically had to endure violent tribal/nation-state warfare in which she is with one man at one period and then another man at another period. This is survival instinct to form new linkages to new men(preferably stronger, more resourced men). This is in contrast to her other mating strategy which is investment. Both are at play. To put it bluntly, men are easily substitued now-a-days. Woman substitue a mans company in many ways. They can easily find a social subs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Do people genuinely think only women “hit the wall?”if u say so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Do people genuinely think only women “hit the wall?”Go to a construction site…go to the military and see what the women are doing compared with the males. Reality and biology don’t care if it sounds “misogynist” . It is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 08:47 PM |
| 15 | Do people genuinely think only women “hit the wall?”the wall usually refers to sexual agency and power over males related to beauty and pair bonding...thats "generally" reduced as women ages. The wall for men is there but thier agency and power over women, is not nesscarily beauty related. Therefore, male walls come from being essentially incompetant unable to provide. There are always outliers and im sure women care about a male-age related looks. Nature has given men leeway on looks and age and women very little leeway. Nature has given women l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular?women dont take kindly to parting with resources | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?i think men would just take on multiple LTRs/wives with a min but fairly wide standard of beauty and those women will probably be on different points on a madonna/whore spectrum of sexual personality. Thats on top of a variety of other favorable traits like intelligence or extroversion etc . Men like the variety of many women, but im not sure they would enjoy the pump n dump lifestyle and they sure wont be waiting for the perfect stacey to come along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 09:43 AM |
| 2 | CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointlessi love you until i don’t… the fact is the more sexual and/or financial agency you have, the less marriage has any utility to you… the repercussions is men don’t have the sexual and companionship security and women don’t have the financial security ….to me and pragmatically speaking marriage is useless unless probate, children or old age are in play. An alternative would probably involve an increase of min standards to be issued a marriage license. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 09:30 AM |
| 2 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?Since the apps benefit only a minority of the sexes and undermine the sexual strategy of the plurality, we can presume that it would move into a market equilibrium. Therefore for those ppl with pragmatic approach to dating, they will find mates in real life. For those with the “chad or die alone mentality” or the “stacey or die alone mentality”…well…they will die alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymoreso you are arguing in the outliers lol i forgot the fallacies of course they do, but they dont dominate the tax base, they are the minority, i would dare to guess they don’t even contribute 50% of taxes paid(50% taxes paid is not the same of 50% of taxpayers) . If they dominated the tax base. And honestly hope they do become a majority or half the tax base, perhaps they will vote differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymorestate assistance needs male tax payers to make it viable for the current standard of living. Antidepressants needs in some cases tax payer subsidy (which is male dominated ) and it needs investors(financial risk taking is dominated by males). Porn requires female performers … We need each other , any misandrist and misogynist tell u different , is being unrealistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | “Lower you standard”, is the worst possible advice a person can get, when it comes to datingThe question is why are such standards are in place?. Because that person has been exposed to experiences, simulations and relationships that created those standards to compare to. Some times the apperance or abduance of choice can distort those standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:19 AM |
| 4 | pumping and dumping male vs femaleYet another offshoot of an unregulated sexual market. Basically, you have options, you exercise those options, you compare the options and the process in which u weed out options is the pump n dump phenomena. The double standard serves to undermine the male sexual strategy in favor of the female. She can effectively contrast/compare sexual experiences, finances, social standing , genetics until she hits hypergamy optimization. However, The notion that her optimization point is unknown, distorted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Going to the gym won't really change muchone result of a financially masculinized women is that she will valuate appearance a-lot more than we think. that baseline or minimal valuation of attraction will make the courting process much easier and organic. the more masculine your features the more women u will attract im terms her minimal/openness to approaching …ever notice those so called “bad boys” and gangbangers are rarely fat n sloppy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanwell i know that. But we are doing fine because we are living under a underlaying religious framework that manifest laws and social systems for everyone to thrive in. My point is religion might have an adaptive function Perhaps star fish sex is better than no sex . Perhaps forcing a Chad to be committed to a women and children is adaptive for a stable society. Perhaps marrying a meh guys might be more adaptive than waiting it out for chad and risking not reproducing or splitting resources in Har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanno we are animals that have ability to regulate our behavior depending on selection pressures(environment) that require us to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanthose sexy men with any brains or foresight kno “it every man for himself” mentality can only get u so far with maintaining that sexy position with women. if religion regulates the sexual market to assuage those “ugly guys” enough to prevent them from teaming up and over-throwing the men hording all the women(and keeping women from alpha-windowed loneliness/ or being in a harem), then I say religion serves an important purpose in the sexual market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanBiology and animal instincts do not care if someone is being treated as “human”. It wants what it wants. being treated as “human” is a social construct that humans have developed to regulate and manage instinctual behavior. Biology and human sexuality will dominate if we don’t not develop and maintain the systems to manage it. Just like we manage all our other animal behavior. These systems it self is what we call “society” . Some ppl call it tribes or nation-states. Ironically, society have cre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it?hypergamy keeps men competitive…but whereas the standards have been pushed up significantly for me in LMS. Female standards have no kept up. So we a bunch of unmated men and women, that should be mating but are not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:24 PM |
| 11 | Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men todaymaybe ur right...my view is biased as a man. when i see a women that is akward, aloof quiet...wierd ... non girly....im still sexually curious about her just as much as the flashy confident chick... maybe it a male thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.i have been both... a fat man has a much bigger chance with a regular sized chick...the blck community is a little different... blck women are more masculine n more picky with looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:07 PM |
| 12 | Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men todaythats a different type of awkwardness cause by a different mechanism thats unrelated to most men . The Reddit version of social awkwardness is basically fear of rejection expressed as social anxiety. That fear is often based on experience …the skill can only be reenforced by a positive back loop and practice . These is why physically attractiveness is vital part of confidence …. those traits all feed off each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Why women hate porn (1.)most men will drop porn for a decent wife that finds him physically attractive. In effect his wife becomes his porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | I wonder where the disparity in attraction comes from between genders?her own success enhances and sensitizes her bad seed radar. The disparity exist when ideal mating outpaces mating in itself period- a sexual disequilibrium of sexual strategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:13 PM |
| 37 | Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men todayi found that the more physically attractive she thinks you are, the less “awkward” the interaction is. hope that helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 11:50 AM |
| 8 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?this is good response. U hit on a good point in that hypergamy must be on a equilibrium gradient. Hypergamy must be balanced not eliminated hypergamy unbalanced is illogical and maladaptive. It leaves too many men and WOMEN unmated. A women shouldn’t have to be choose between being a single mom, being in a harem or “never settle” childless/mateless. one choice burdens herself and possibly society , another choice splits resources with other women and the last choice is a genetic death. The only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?Newton is outlier. All genius is outliers. Newton had a socialization disorder as well. Newton was in 2 parent household. Both fathers invested in the wife and presumably the children of the house- which was rewarded at the time. Newton had the same female desires as any other male. Newton’ mom rewarded LTR minded males and LTR behaviors/traits which undoubtedly created a more favorable environment for Newton to express his genius Ok, whats ur point. The OP said how can STR lead to a society dec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:58 AM |
| 9 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?its because those males have less incentive to invest in the women and offspring because more and more women are rewarding/sharing the same men. The modern western female way of insuring LTR investment while fucking good looking men is thru the socialization of resources via the state. this occurs thur “maternal-collectivist like” voting patterns that most women have. This is from the natural instinct to take care themselves, their children and the collective regardless of merit-Generally speaki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?u will not get an honest answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Are millennials a lost generation? Or just the start of a new normal?On the female side, There is less incentive to pair bond with a tradtional provider and there is less incentive to accept trade-offs, settle with less than an ideal male. The social and financial safety net can easily supplant an average man in providership. And more women have self agency. Women are also bombared with images of ideal perfectly groomed, defined, and masculine men. Why settle for less ?why bare the children of what she percieves as an subpar man. On the male side, there less ince… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 12:56 AM |
| 3 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesI would certainly hope this is true.... i know 2 f-boys and they run through women all the way into thier 50s, regular women ...I cant tell if this is a this a norm or is this an outlier experience for women to have these hit n run sexual encounters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Low standard in men ruin dating for everyone."Good looking men" are not being rejected... they are just alternates until her hold out period is done...... more than likley she has ran into or experienced an even better looking/status man and holding out. The only solution is to improve phsyically and be that guy she holding out for.....another words one womens alternate guy is another womens holdout guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 07:47 PM |
| 5 | The so called "simping" crisis is a result of tolerated polygyny making available female partners scarcerGo to gym and have decent finances be realistic and u wont have to simp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 07:42 PM |
| 39 | CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to womenI wouldnt say "invisible" but it take sooo much effort that its like pulling teeth...then you OBSERVE how "higher" tiers or if you Move into a higher tier... how little effort it takes to get an everyday women. Essentially Beta bux is being replaced by the state and by society itself.This in effect, pushes up all sexual marker requirements for all men. This manifest itself in that there is a greater demand for ultra masculine physical, social, financial traits in men- where the demand exceeds th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop?There is a lot of back n forth on this issue concerning the overall rationale of makeup. I asked my girl: if most women whom wore make up , would continue to do so if they sat in a box by themselves with no human contact. after some “hamstering” she admitted probably not , with of course some exceptions(which should never be used as a general rule). I mean it wasn’t hard to convince her, every-time shes home with me she wears no make up. makeup is presenting an image of yourself to other human b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Mayor is creating incentive to falsely accuse, by offering a fast pass to free housing. This is the source of many false accusations today.its like ppl totally discount human behavior and incentives. The mayor cannot not be this dumb especially in a community where the family is already torn apart | /r/MensRights | 28/02/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Men here are always talking about not wanting to date women with high n-counts. So what's an acceptable number?its not about the number …its the amount of sexual experiences to compete with and lurking male ghost that she may be keeping a light on for. Its also about the ability to have long term bond with men and that such bonds are not broken up frivolously(bordem, etc) . Basically how risky u are for long term investment. All body count is is a relationship risk assessment? “Is this the best i can do” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?after reading all these, the most common theme is: not be fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | The Economics of Singledom in the Welfare Stateseems plausible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | The Economics of Singledom in the Welfare Statemaybe alot of ppl think they will just work infinitum or its not a problem because its “far “ in the future or perhaps they will never get old ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:31 PM |
| -1 | It's too risky for a woman to be with a Red Pilll man.men might cheat but they wont be "droping" any women if she ages out. thats a womens sexual stratergy , not men. Men are the true romantics and will have a sense of loyalty to a loyal woman,,,, even if he is no loner sexually attracted. Male love is actually developed by her abi;ity to be loyal in the midst of temptation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past?Women have always desired wild “sexual biographies” but not because of mens behavior, they NOW have greater incentives to have a sex based strategy because : a) women have greater economic and resource self agency b) women that do no have agency, their economic needs are subsidized and socialized by the state. c) When economic needs are met, women focus on the genetic/social markers of male strength, dominance protection and provisioning aka Looks/Status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past?male equivalent would be any man that engages in a pattern of behavior that makes him a LTR risk. like being chronically broke or lacking ambition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?1) Investment Risk for children thats not his due to previous sexual encounters. Signals unwilling or inability to engage in monogamous sex thereby increasing investment risk for another mans offspring. Doesn’t mean its true, it just signals that. 2)Investment Risk due to “comparison factor”. The belief more experiences a women has had , generally, the harder it will be to satisfy her in a monogamous relationship. Under this condition, a LTR will be risky in terms of ROI. Without LTRs, children … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:34 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Guys being rejected/dismissed for not having a social media presence is a BS, hypocritical thing for women to judge men onIt depends on her own presence and age. Some girls want a “well known” socially adapted bf others don’t care. Women tend view this as an asset for resource related reasons. However, if ur circle is small because you are workaholic or introverted sigma , u will still hold value to a women, because u would have accumulated resources irl. I find if a girl has her own circle and u demonstrate value irl, she cares little of social media presence or social circle. Its a tradeoff alot of women willing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Men are hypergamous too, but with looksthere is a lust factor in men and there is a LTR/marriage factor. Sometimes they cross and more often they oppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Curiosity Post: What famous people do you find sexually attractive?chole moretz and Eliza Coupe and lauren london | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:07 AM |
| 7 | Most of women AND men’s issues are due to patriarchal cultureMen are more than willing to accept that double edged trade off in exchange for a decent looking women and children to come home too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Alternatives to Monogamy?Im thinking a polyamorist/polygamist like mechanism which optimizes the sexual strategy of both genders a) Female is guaranteed a group of productive men and their resources and provisioning b) Productive means the male is willing to perform a task for resources c) The female can never know which is male is more productive than the other she is only knows the outcome while guaranteed access to that outcome. b) Each male is guaranteed one or more offspring c) In each group the female is guarantee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the future of dating will look like?My girl says those same nonchalant things :”not my problem” , “not my business”. I find it troubling because it indicates a lack of forward thinking. Even successful couples don’t live on an island onto themselves. These types of issues certainly pour into the lives of “normies” and even the top %. Mass single motherhood certainly will affect us all in both fiscal and monetary policy. Masses of unproductive men will certainly will affect us all in both fiscal and monetary policy. These 2 demogra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:49 PM |
| 0 | What do you think the future of dating will look like?It would be illogical to mate for looks only if mankind wants to reach the next level of development and problem solving this limbic pattern of mating will likely drive down IQ, innovation and conscientiousness. There has to be or will be some genetic control mechanism to strip way some “bad boy” traits while somehow keeping the bad boy look….otherwise we will are in for one unproductive ride in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent of a 666 male?1 1 1 not more than 1 kid(because i have 1) not more than 1 charge off(bad debt) , not more than 1 standard deviation from ideal average BMI . For men its highly individualistic, with common themes like weight , kids and bad finances…. Weight has a lot of leeway with men, alot more than most pol would admit to it the kid thing is problematic…but ironically if u have no kids by 30-35, some guys will think something is wrong with u biologically or mentally. bad debts and financial decisions will m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Found a solution to the PPD debate for me and maybe other guysjust work with the ugly girls…. its better than letting ur lineage die out waiting for chick to lower her standards or dealing with gay men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | How many people here have had their heart broken?every man on any RP online iteration has had their heart broken at some point hence “who hurt you” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Polygamy worked in the past because a man's sexual success was based on status and resources rather than genetic or perceived genetic valueand which culture is more productive and innovative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 01:33 AM |
| -1 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?they are basically saying they want to be lusted after for non looks based attributes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?Good. I hope you make the appropriate trade-offs to get as much of those 3 traits as possible. A man would be prudent to signal IQ just as much as he signals masculinity. I say this because in the near future where many men are going for a Chad look/appearance…where every man is trying to be a you-tuber/mini celebrity .. females will start to select for IQ more and more to distinguish the pack. A female would be prudent to signal fertility and sexual availability to not only good looking or char… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?looks and provider-ship is somewhat intermingled. Another words having a nice body and a visible jawline are not appealing for its own sake… its appealing because it visually signals being able to gather resources, protect the family and dominate other men in competition. Its really a breeding style for a time where surviving involved brute force and aggression with regards to provisioning. I think looks now is more about perpetuating lineage so that a good looking man give her a good looking so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 10 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?the 65 yr wants be lusted as well but has to become pragmatic about his desires. By that age..his T would have dropped so low, his lust for an 18 yr will be very brief. He would probably desire a much older compatible partner over a 18yr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 10 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?Not anymore. they very much care more than u think. Men are adapting to woman’s mating preferences. they know mating is reverting back to a limbic or animal way as oppose to the older breadwinner monogamous way. They are “looks maxing” to the letter and they care about vanity almost as much as women. This is why u see an increase in male cosmetics and things that make men appear more masculine. For example things like groomed beards and arm tats are some signals men send out to increase their “m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?i think is a fair but deceptive like makeup. But i don’t think its very masculine. i think that most women, will usually lie and say “ i dont care” but internally view such an act as feminine and a turn off. therefore their ACTIONS will speak louder than words in terms of what happens when they find out ur faking ur height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Polygamy worked in the past because a man's sexual success was based on status and resources rather than genetic or perceived genetic valueAncient stacey didn’t have a nation/state to socialize and subsidize her carnal mating preferences…. polygamy didn’t work too the extent that societies that wanted to advance needed to be cooperative. Cooperation comes a reduction of male in-group conflict in which a genetic polygamy would exacerbate . We would not be where we are at now without the evolution of monogamy . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:15 PM |
| -2 | How can single women be happier than married women?basically daddy/hubby government is a “single” women’s LTR … that entity will always be there to backstop all her decision making ….including helping with children sired from irresponsible men. When society and government has made ur life so comfortable why would u need to be shackled to a man. What u do is socialize male provisioning to all men through the vote, , that why u never need any single man as a permanent partner. Daddy government is starting to become many men’s LTR too, as men becom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:59 PM |
| -2 | How can single women be happier than married women?basically daddy/hubby government is a “single” women’s LTR … that entity will always be there to backstop all her decision making ….including helping with children sired from irresponsible men. When society and government has made ur life so comfortable why would u need to be shackled to man. What u do is socialize male provisioning to all men through the vote, , that why u never need any single man as a permanent partner. Daddy government is starting to become many men’s LTR too, as men become … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:48 PM |
| -2 | How can single women be happier than married women?basically daddy/hubby government is a “single” women’s LTR … that entity will always be there to backstop all her decision making ….including helping with children sired from irresponsible men. When society and government has made ur life so comfortable why would u need to be shackled to man. What u do is socialize male provisioning to all men through the vote, , that why u never need any single man as a permanent partner. Daddy government is starting to become many men’s LTR too, as men become … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The workplace is the best place for most adults to find a partnermee too perhaps….OLD for women is a fish fest for compliments and validation, while she tries to filter through endless choices …. I have been on few subreddits where women asked to be rated… and alot of attractive women pretend to feel ugly , when really they are looking for simp validation. its the same for OLD. OLD will never be as effective as regular contact at a workplace…. I think Women will start to abandoned OLD , or OLD will evolve away from its current incarnation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?yet another example of society making life sooo comfortable that this person is embolden to make such a statement your “intellect” and money, wont go far without the systems that men have built and men maintain. Are u one of these women that sit home on a computer saying women dont need men, yet no women seems to want to actually: take ur trash… maintain ur cable and internet wires… keep ur plumbing and sewer clear… treat ur drinking water… program and engineer ur computers, drive load and unloa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?wow everytime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:30 AM |
| 10 | The workplace is the best place for most adults to find a partnerthe workplace is probably the most prolific place ppl meet and end up in relationships … yet it seems to be very trendy to say “don’t sh-t where u eat” . Its probably good advice but not realistic or practical in the human experience. Fact is , once ppl are physically attracted to each other and are in regular contact …its almost impossible resist engaging in flirting or full on relationship. As far as it “going bad” despite what ppl say here ….most ppl will risk it if there is mutual attraction… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?i sure hope so… my point highlight a potential future problem if mating market remains unchecked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Single young men, if you could only choose one. Being single but sleeping with various women and never having kids or a relationship. Settling down and starting a family and being in a committed relationship. Also what is it that you want from your love life right now?having kids n family… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?dominate means to repeatedly win in competition. Men live in a world where they have to implicitly or explicitly compete for resources, careers, positions, sex , on a constant basis. Women generally compete in terms of beauty, but increasingly resources as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?are u virtue signaling or are u for real… because that comment doesn’t really fit into how women behave or respond to in real life. Are claiming that your are an exception to what women generally respond to with respect to dominating men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?not “well known” alone ….but rather status relates to the ability and ease your partner can attain, control and allocate resources, and dominate other men in a hierarchy which also relates to the ability to protect you if a problem arises. They are talking about status in this sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:23 PM |
| 11 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?Jermey meeks actually gained status from looking good. He married rich. As a man i would prefer to be genuinely desired on a genetic level …. then doing all the work to achieve status. As far women , I would guess she wants both looks and status in some sort of equilibrium, But take looks if given only a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?so ur saying status is a non factor in your mate selection? i ask because OP is talking in terms of mate selection not popularity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?what about old age and retirement expenses which typically exceed working year contributions. The pensions and Ss payments have to be socialized because so few ppl can save up through investments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:07 PM |
| 8 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?many men do revert to bluepillism or simpism when actually talking to women. many women revert to traditionalism and submissiveness when actually talking to man… There is a difference between theorizing on the net and real life behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?are u taking “abnormal” in terms of the negative connotations of the word itself….or Or are ur taking it as mean “not normal” in a biological sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?lol “hopefully” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?the biggest problem i see is… when the same men excluded from LTR market place are the same men who are the skill labor, police/military forces, tradesmen, and the otherwise backbone of society….OR the would-be backbone of society. The question is: can the Chad class hold society together and move it forward. Can Chad and his alleged hypergamous harem keep society together as it it now. Women are not traditionally the backbone of society through the workplace …they usually steer clear of dangero… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?fascinating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?i think overtime it will, and i think it would worsen if every potential partner u had was infertile… i cannot see myself having a sustained arousal by a “hot” woman knowing she could never beer my children. For me i would imagine myself being turned off overtime …but me thats me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?not improve, but extend your life(genes) into the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?the drive to mate and drive to reproduce is the same drive. If u made everyone infertile , they sex drive would diminished on current conscious level and eventually be selected out human behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?makes good sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?Were do u suppose wants and desires come from…. they exist for its own sake?……conserving calories/energy is biologically logical, that why we store fat. Therefore it would be quite normal for u to be averse to exercise. The taxes we pay now pay for safety net of other ppl that are not paying taxes. SS recipients and pensioners usually take more money out than they put in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?Fascinating … i think the prospect of merging DNA with a ideal partner and creating a baby is tied directly to the enjoyment of sex … even if the conscious brain doesn’t want the responsibility of a baby. Maybe I’m just a weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?so only the wealthy and free should breed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?so ur say that immigration will simply replace the would be born labor….But what if childfree movement spread throughout the whole world so its no longer just individual ramifications but human species ramifications? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?very thoughtful and fair response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:00 PM |
| -2 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?u still want kids, but under optimal conditions … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Is “I don’t want kids” abnormal?perhaps if u made the right investments… but the current safety net relies heavily on new ppl coming into the system and contributing and/or borrowing from future generations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Would you stay in a relationship with someone who let themselves go physically?depends on how bad…and how much of a mental connection that i had. also facial beauty as well. There are some trade offs that ill take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:16 PM |
| 0 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?i think that generally those men, if given a choice, would prefer biological fatherhood than step fatherhood. I don’t know what u mean by weird, men make that calculus every time they engage with single mom in a LTR. Its never a preference to be a stepdad, but rather do i think she is such a good women, that i am willing to be a step dad. Cucked calculus has nothing to do with looking at a kid with a side eye-its all about men wanting to spend resources exclusive on thier own DNA …. Just because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | What is it about cheating that is so traumatizing? is it social conditioning?beyond the trust and betray nonsense we have to explore it at the evolutionary biological roots. I believe it hurts so much from a female pov, because it signals a diversion and stratification of resources/provisioning away from her and her offspring From a man pov, it signals a potential liability which could lead to investing in offspring thats not his own. It also signals genetic death | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:47 PM |
| 20 | People underestimate the significance of body fat percentage on attractiveness.I had the same experience and its more than just “confidence”, its an increase in sex appeal with a more masculine face and masculine body thru body fat reduction. PPl tend to underestimate it because 1) they never achieved serious weight-loss 2) Refuse to even try or don’t have the will power to try 3) Cannot fathom the rewards or a woman asserting herself to you as sexually desirable. this is a way than average man can hack hypergamy without years going up the career ladder or become a status … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Good answer! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:24 PM |
| 0 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?u do have a point… there is no incentive for a single man to pay taxes to support masses of single women( the women that are unproductive ) And the women that will be unproductive with age i always thought is was strange how women avoid danger and hazardous work- the same work society is ran on…but claim independence from men…. you would think independence means being able to provide for oneself without the need for another party to finance, backstop or hold up an institutions to further ur inde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:38 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?one of my coworkers was a so called alpha screwing many women… he settled for a single mom wines and dined her and she dumped him without warning “my feelings are not pro gressing” … seems like a lot of secret mistrust between the sexes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:33 PM |
| 3 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?you touched on something with “will to fight” … idea of having an intact stable family is indeed something ppl fight for. When i was in the navy i can remember every Sunday looking forward to a letter from my wife… All these war movies where the protagonist is staring at a photo of his/her family before storming into battle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?i think both mated and unmated men care to some degree. The idea that a man is too busy getting pu-ssy to care about male-female sexual dynamics and society as a whole doesn’t seem to be a logical conclusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:17 PM |
| 9 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?i dont mind a single mom personally because i have a child myself… but i can certainly see how a childless man will have a natural aversion to expending time and resources into another mans offspring. That childless man my see themselves as being cucked, if the first father is not around to support his kid . Also in terms of looks , i find myself attracted to all types of fat or older women… I think many men… will literally “find the beauty” in most women. I dont think women think that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 4 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?yeah it seems that many women take offense when u point out peer-reviewed and documented aspects of their nature… its almost a knee jerk reaction to defend it , even if it has grown malignant or out of balance within the sexual marketplace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:01 PM |
| 20 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?the differences in responses from F redditors and M redditors is fascinating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?i always thought abortion repeal was more about keeping american population numbers up and prevent the need of of immigration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?wow interesting possibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:47 PM |
| -2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?I could fathom that scenario, but me personally , I find that my drive to have offspring is stronger than my drive to be happy alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:47 PM |
| 24 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?the second is more predatory than the first(despite the first being illegal in some jurisdictions) because eventually the 16/20 gap would be nominal and normal in only two years at 18/22. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:32 PM |
| 17 | Seinfeld is proof that people were picky before OLDToday George would have never gotten Susan..... Elaine would have stopped orbiting around jerry, cause she can "do better"...jerry would have never gotten all those beautiful women without actually being a multimillionaire..... Kramer would be the same and still winning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:08 AM |
| – | How much has losing weight impacted your dating life?wow, so who are the HV women hooking with millionaires and superman....doesnt seem to make sense for someone women to reserve themselves for such small amount of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 10 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?quickconsent wow, thats gonna put alot of gold diggers and sperm jackers out of business | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 2 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?i thinking kissing is 99% non verbal cues and escalation.most men know or should know if a women is physically attracted to them enough to respond positively to kissing.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How much has losing weight impacted your dating life?read this: https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=898532 10 years of this question being answered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 04:50 AM |
| 6 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?interesting . Never thought of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 04:41 AM |
| 0 | How much has losing weight impacted your dating life?idk why i chuckle when i see females repond to these type of post. Are fat girls having problems getting kissed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 04:39 AM |
| 3 | How much has losing weight impacted your dating life?As long as your facial symmetry is at least a 5/10(most ppl are). You will undoubtly increase mating prospects the lower your body fat.Its not just self confidence, u become a sexual being to more ppl. In todays market of Hyper-hypergamy.. you will still struggle after getting past her min looks test....so u will have to do alot work on other fronts as well. I think if your a white guy at a medium body... you will get lots of oppurtunities with Asian and Black girls... on race elitism alone....b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women?No, the selectivity of a woman and the less selectivity of a man is a rational equilibirum that nature designed for the best outcomes in human reproductive evolution .... Culture and conditioning has disrupted such a balance and thats why she keeps going to floor six | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women?No. Men have foresight. Men know about trade-offs and not "having it all". Men tend to calulate trade-offs and oppurtunity cost in LTR. For a man's existence, visiting 3,4,5,6 presents several challenges that require critical thinking and foresight. One example is "how many other men are going to 3,4,5,6" "What is the quality of those men, where do i stand in comparision""Is the women on 3, worth competing for and should i go for 4". "Will the women on 5 cuckhold me for a man she percieves to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 09:50 AM |
| 0 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?i think most men can look past the kids part as long as the father is contributing to the expenses of the kids and the new man get his own child out the deal. Its gets repulsive when the previous father gets to propagate his dna for free(no ongoing financial contribution) and the women doesn’t wanna any more kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?so patriarchy puts her hypergamy and his polygamy into equilibrium creating a regulated competitive yet reasonable market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?No, dollar general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 12:15 AM |
| 7 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?i live in the black community , first hand , 50-75% of our weave wearing and non wearing women are being impregnated by the same secret set of gangbangers, scammers and f-boys who have money but almost no “observable” economic output … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 10:45 PM |
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