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| 1 | My theory on attracting a woman at the gymVery nice, you get them maaaaybe curious about you, then you do nothing with it lol | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]They like it thick ^^ | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:19 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you?Well I think she wants some D, that's what I think lol I myself really enjoy straight forward girls that go for it, but eventually, every girl will have some more passive, girly side to them, so be ready for that as well, may times most of it is more of a play from her than her usual self, really But what's there to complain, really? The girl is doing all the work, let her do it, sit back and enjoy ;) | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Women trying to change youWomen are always shittesting you, trying to see if you still the strong man they fell for. Just keep your frame strong, shrug it off. If it's something truuuly important to her, talk like two rational human beings, chances are, she'll find out you have your reasons for your beliefs, if you do a good enough job. But overall just dismiss it | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 06:49 PM |
| 8 | Should i soft or hard next ? A case of oneitisShe acted cold because she literally told you she wanted to get fucked, and you told her to go for the bartender lmao But yep, always be spinnin them plates | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of taking the initiativeYou gotta fucking touch her though... Like how the fuck are you touching her as you see some part of her body EXACTLY like some girl? Are you gay? Or the girls lesbians? lol No offense intended | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | All the girls at my school only like tall guys what do I doPut on some high heels lmao Put seriously, you gotta differentiate yourself somehow, like be better than the other guys at sports, or way more social, intelligent, whatever can get you an edge | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of taking the initiativeThe excuses are good on the beginning though, you can't come to a stranger out of the blue slapping her ass and expect something good out of it (this pool example is really niche, sorry, but how many girls are you meeting on a pool, teaching "how to hold a stick" lmao? If op is a really just friendly guy, I suppose he doesn't even get this close to girls, most of the time...) You have to start touch somehow, that's the main point. Start slow and see how the girl reacts, then proceed accordingly … | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of taking the initiativeI mean, as far as eye contact goes, if she keeps prolonged eye contact, chances are she's attracted, or at least she wants to see where you take things (if she's not interested, she might start avoiding eye contact, some girls might get shy and ask why you look at them so much or so intensely, or tell you to not look some much at them, you can just say "can't I look at you? ;)", generally those tend to be attracted, but are more shy). If a girl looks down when you look at them, generally this is… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Afraid of taking the initiativeIt's exagerated, yes. There's very few women that will do those things for a guy just showing interest, as long as he's having minimal calibration (aka isn't actually sexually harassing/abusing them), and they are broken and should be avoided (shouldn't be to hard to spot, really). If you don't make a move, girls won't, because there are guys hitting on them all the time. They are more than happy to have more platonic friends to talk to! You don't need to be overt, though. From what I read, you'… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:01 PM |
| 4 | I've been talking to 2 girls recently and I met with both (not at once)No idea about that first girl... You met her at her appartment? Was it a party she was hosting? There's no context so I have no clue about what happened... The second one, was the sex good? Did you treat her the same way after sex? I guess not really, since you didn't talk anymore, but did you send her anything after sex? Maybe she's having a bit of buyers remorse because now that you got sex you ghosted her or something? Again, no idea because there's not much info in what you wrote | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Does going to a bar alone in 30s make me creepy?I'm 26 and I often go alone, many girls think I'm 23 (because it's closer to their age), people might not even think you're 30, relax man hehe | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 03:47 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]If you look at her, she won't approach you, most of the time... Because she expects you to approach, then, as you're the man. Try to not make eye contact with people, mostly just look with your peripheral vision. You have to be well dressed, good posture, all the basic shit, of course, but most important, is looking approachable: have open body language, look positive/happy, this type of stuff. Try to lure her in, pretend you're a bit distracted, but seem like a cool and open enough guy that she… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Girl with holding sex?She's a slut for dumb normies... Actual men know women are beautiful sexual being, and wouldn't judge them for this. But I get that a lot of society still pressures women in this way, including other women trying to get them down. This is why men have to be discreet with women, to respect their privacy as much as possible | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl with holding sex?This is why I never pay for anything for a girl, unless it's out of cortesy, like I would do for someone I like, regardless of my intentions, like my friends or family or even a cool stranger... The moment you start injeting money and fun and crazy activities, the relationship isn't just about you two, about the sexual and personal connection, it becomes this "fun activities buddies" type of thing, and if you're paying it all... It's even worse, your like her endorser or something. Even if you e… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Girl with holding sex?I think the thought of losing you to some other girl that actually is giving it to you is bigger than the fear that you would be just using her, besides that's the reason she considered you in the first place, because you were an attractive guy... A trap guys fall into is getting needy and focusing too much on this one girl, obsessing over her, and losing their cool, so the girl loses attraction. If she can tell you still the man she fell for, she will give it up eventually, but it's a fine line… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Girl with holding sex?I was in a relationship with a girl I loved a lot, we had many things in common, I loved spending time with her, I thought she was beautiful, but this also made me very horny, of course, because naturally I'm a very sexual guy, but she had like zero sex drive... She told me she had some trauma from the past, I asked her what it was, she told me she was not ready to talk about it, but told me not to worry, that it wasn't anything too bad (after I went basically crazy imagining fucked up shit in m… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 05:09 PM |
| -1 | Girl with holding sex?Just because she told you something, doesn't mean she meant it... Girl, for the most part, want only one guy, and want commitment from that guy. Of course, sometimes they go through a phase of sleeping around for discovery and that type of stuff, but most girls saying they are "poly" or whatever are just posing. But I get you, in your place, I think I would have done the same, specially if she wouldn't open up to me | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Girl with holding sex?That's all true but you also gotta understand a lot of girls, if they seem like they really like you, won't be this guarded towards sex... And that it's a natural thing for a man to want sex with a woman, specially one he likes, so if she's not ready for it, oh well, maybe another girl is. I know this sounds very asshole-ish, but lots of girls also like wasting men's time, a guy could be happy having sex with another girl he likes (and actually like him back!) but instead is chasing after a girl… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 2 | i am loserThat whole work on yourself and be "someone worth being with" is bs for the most part, yes, try to make yourself as attractive as possible, but you won't get pussy just by going to the gym, this is irrational advice. You have to go out and interact with as many (attractive) women as you can. Don't download any dating app, they are sausage fests, instead try going to parties, night clubs, whatever, the drinking make socializing easier for the most part. You gotta grow in yourself the belief that … | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys fight emotional investment?You mean, the girl in you? lmao | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You.LOL OK, so you talk a big talk but what's the point of this post, really? You basically saying: "if you have a problem, find a fix for it". Isn't this sub supposed to help people getting answers anyway? You say you see these same questions every day but you don't need to answer them if you don't want you. Also you try to push for a new "frame" saying that guys should look for answers in themselves but still you haven't said anything useful whatsoever. I never saw such a bunch of useless shit get… | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 10:08 PM |
| 2 | What It Means if She Rejects Your ComplimentWhere's your book Hec? | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 11:29 PM |
| 8 | Asking a girl about what exactly went wrong and turned her off?Girlzz are about feelzz, she won't give you a logical explanation, not one that will help you anyway. You don't look desperate asking, you sure do look clueless though. Think about it: the same reason her attraction is gone is the thing you're telling you can't grasp. Also you're like telling her "you both" know, which sounds like you're trying to force a connection and imply you two are an item, which would make her even more disgusted if she doesn't like you. And again makes you look clueless.… | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 07:30 PM |
| 3 | I’m a college guy being “set up” with a girl by mutual friends. Any tips to avoid awkwardness?This happened to me once, the dude gave her my FB and we started chatting, we had some decent exchange about music and stuff so I invited her for a coffee, from there it was pretty normal. If your friends introduce you in person you could pace her by saying something like "I know this is kinda weird, but I think you're x and I want to know you"(x -> compliment, if you think she's cute/fashionable/whatever, otherwise why would you wanna get to know her at all?). But I would only say this if I can… | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Help me analyze a LONG night out and the ways I could have turned it around.Good luck and keep on playing, eventually you develop a process that works for you | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/17 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Help me analyze a LONG night out and the ways I could have turned it around.Maybe you just need more experience on night game in general, either you missed the window to close or it was never there on the first place, it's pretty important to try and get compliance from the girl from early on to see if she's really into you or is just flirty/playing with you | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Help me analyze a LONG night out and the ways I could have turned it around.You were drunk and dumb man, been there before. Try to close before 2am, that's my rule, I've got some girls and numbers later but it's pretty tiring to grind like that. When you're awake for that long and drinking a lot it's pretty normal to not have much pacience and your game just becomes weak in general. Also you shouldn't be doing all this crazy shit to get a girl, if you wanna embrace the moment and go with it ok, but I think you should have isolated her and tried to pull way before when y… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Women Take Texts At Face Value [Video]I like those videos for what they are. The articles in Girls Chase are already very structured and well written but it's nice to see something more spontaneous. When you're interacting with women and people in general you can't really be sure of what's going to happen and you have to improvise based on your experience and social skill | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Are Results Everything?Yeah yeah yeah, I been reading some stuff about anxiety and how people with panic attacks (much more intense stuff...) get over it by actually diving into that fear and accepting it, not trying to get rid of it or fighting directly the fear. James talks about it here too, the worst part of approach when you hesitate it's the anticipation, and when you stop and try to fight it, it just becomes worse. You still had not approached and the anticipation grows bigger and doesn't resolve, until you can… | /r/seduction | 16/11/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Are Results Everything?Ok, now we're talking. Thanks for the video, I haven't watched yet but I will. I definitely need to be less on my head, but I think it's really hard to not be in certain scenarios. The place where I see most of the beautiful women that seem interested in interacting with me is on my commute from home to uni, on the bus, and there isn't much social activity there. Generally I just feel bored and there seems there's a non-written rule that people shouldn't talk to strangers or whatever. It's also … | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 04:24 AM |
| 1 | School Acquaintance Flaked, How to ProceedWhen girls realise there's others interested they can become warm pretty fast, so good on you. Also sometimes the girl might think you're being too friendly and mistake your advances via texting. Sometimes it's cool to be cheeky and put a bit of a sexual vibe to make sure she doesn't think your just going to play chess or something together lol There was this girl I kissed on a club and added on FB and she was being dodgy on meeting up, but a made a quick joke about handcuffs and after that she … | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 03:11 AM |
| 1 | School Acquaintance Flaked, How to ProceedDon't reward bad behaviour, but don't act too affected either (which kinda is rewarding her with attention, even if bad, or giving her the taste that she made you mad for not answering) | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 02:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Porn Ruined My First Ever Hookup"left out by mistake" :D I been thinking about no fap, but I just fap way too much, like stopping feels too hard. Also I get boners from girls pretty easy so I don't know if it would make much of a difference. I remember trying twice and noticing my libido actually going down lol Fuck, I'm 22 too and still live with my parents, it sucks so hard, I get girls ready to pull with some consistency at clubs but I don't have a place to fuck. I got chicks on dark alleys and stuff but it just feels too y… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Are Results Everything?I was hoping Hector would answer since he uses the word fuckboy a lot on an article he wrote in Girls Chase, but if you think you know better because of your online dictionary or whatever then congrats. Also details are what makes the difference, most of your comment is completely useless fluff, self-help crap. Looking good and "being attractive" helps a lot my game, I'm a really lazy nigga and rather have chicks making shit easy for me, I get AIs pretty frequently from attractive girls and at t… | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | An Excerpt from my Book, King of CollegeHope it's not too expensive for some broke Brazilian college student, I would love to buy it, I have a Tucker Max book here because of you Hec hehe Will it be announced in GC newsletter when it comes? How will I know? I understand this duality thing well since when younger I used to be some judgemental religious beta cuck. I felt like I was right always, but it never felt right, hence me challenging my beliefs to the very core and trying to open up my mind to everything (this and some cold asian… | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Secrets to Getting Girls: Move FasterMissing windows hurts | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Secrets to Getting Girls: Move FasterYeah, someone has a video on it so must be tru... (derp) It's not that rare to happen honestly if you go to places with horny chicks and less judgement (like night clubs/concerts/etc) and you have your fundies together (and move fast/know how to be agressive). But it feels more like luck than game. It's very rare, again, even if you're good, to bang a girl without saying jackshit. Sometimes you'll have to at least sort logistics for sex (not that this is exactly game but you're talking anyway so… | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Are Results Everything?How would a fuckboy answer to a cute chick that steps on his feet and turns around spreading all her charm to say a sooorryyy? I just threw a no problem with a bit of a smirk but I was really caught off guard. Thinking of it now I could have milked it to start a convo but I always get surprised by those small things. Maybe I am just rusty? | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Should I meet a girl that I've slept with before if she has a boyfriend?I appreciate your honesty. I think she would too. I think you could just tell her what's going on and that you respect that she has a bf right now. If you really like her I wouldn't advice trying to go further anyway since if she cheats on him she will probably cheat on you too | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Surprising Sex Insights into The Mind of a College GirlIs that surprising, really? | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Missed Opportunities...I agree that nowadays with all that rape culture BS guys are afraid of going for what they want but people been pussies at all times, just look at all those old unhappy marriages, arranjed stuff and so on | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Is there anyway for a very quiet, almost catatonic, good looking guy to get girls?I must say you're getting it wrong. If you know these girls are attracted you don't need to impress, you need to deliver, you need to help these girls getting you. So instead of talking a lot you need to get good at listening and being physical with girls, escalation. Compliment them in a genuine, real way and ask them about their lifes, what they really like doing, their dreams, if they meet your standards, if they cook or whatever you are into, while also touching them and moving things forwar… | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 04:51 AM |
| 2 | From platonic to romanticHang out where? How? Just try moving things forward, find excuses to touch her, compliment her on something you really like about her, tease her a bit, if she's interested she'll enjoy and get the message | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 04:37 AM |
| 4 | Is it normal to be a virgin and not kiss a girl at 20 years old? Is it normal for a guy to not get asked out first?None's normal, everyone is fucked up, don't worry about that. That said, if you really wanna get girls you gotta figure it out somehow. You seem to be focusing too much on the past, let it go, these girls you didn't get shouldn't even be on your mind, other than for experience on what went right or wrong. You need to chill and focus on the opportunities you have now, don't let the past make you bitter or those past rejections make you feel bad about yourself and stop you from trying. All that ag… | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Is it appropriate to ask a girl her age?I remember a really hot chick dancing in a sugestive way looking at me, at my sister's prom, I asked her age, she said I would not like to know it, I thought she was like 17 like my sister, I was 19 back then. My sister came up to me and told she was 14 and been drinking tequila shots all night, I was like WTF, she had a nice body, and all dressed up and with the make up on she looked older for sure. So if you need to ask, ask, this thing about being rude is BS, she may lie though | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 04:10 AM |
| 2 | My key to getting girls at concerts/clubsLol metal chicks are fucking mental, I got an indirect approach from one in the bus and I managed to get rejected xD I acted like a dork and interrupted her like 5 hundred times but it's not my fault that I wasn't interested in those weird ass bands she liked, you can imagine how she reacted when I asked for her number and said we were going out on a date: "No, we're NOT going out on a date...", slight shocked face She wasn't that cute, she was freckled ginger so I was curious if I could take th… | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Should I meet a girl that I've slept with before if she has a boyfriend?Maybe you can sleep with her again. But if you're going just to be friends don't expect anything other in the future, it probably won't make a difference you going or not, I mean. Unless you going there gets she thinking about how great you're together as a couple it won't make a good difference, for the sake of attraction. If you really like her company go for it, but as I say don't expect anything more, this is fooling yourself. How distant do you live from each other? What do you expect of th… | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 03:46 AM |
| 2 | if a girl is very comfortable with you touching her but doesn't touch you back, what does it mean?I took a girl like that on a date and what I felt is that she was just inexperienced. She added me on FB after we kissed and danced on the club. I was pretty mad that night because I was feeling too rusty, my approaches were all weak and the only girl I really enjoyed talking to was playing hard to catch, after deep diving her for like half an hour she prefered to dance with her friends. So there was that other girl and for some reason I asked the girl if she knew her, she said, I don't know her… | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 02:48 AM |
| 2 | I realized I might've misunderstood what Seduction is all about and the mentality that one should haveThe thing is that an invitation to approach is nice but at the end of the day you gotta go for what you want. You never really know if the girl is into you, maybe she's just flirty with all the guys, maybe she's shy and doesn't know how/can't get your attention. Also a lot of "good looking" is subjective and can be improved, I didn't get that much attention before I started studying game and improving my fundamentals like my style, the way I walk, my posture, etc. | /r/seduction | 28/03/17 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How to pull in clubs/after parties?I don't like to dance on girls like that either, it's kinda creepy lol Unless they start dancing on me ;D For approaching in a loud dance floor you need to touch the girl in some way, otherwise she probably won't even hear what you say. So you come up to her by the side and rest your hand in her arm. Touch it lightly, don't squeeze but let her feel you're there, like you would to go talk to a friend, remember, it's loud, you need to get physical. Then wait for her to look at you, if you can noti… | /r/seduction | 27/03/17 09:00 PM |
| 3 | I realized I might've misunderstood what Seduction is all about and the mentality that one should haveThis one seems solid, thanks for sharing it ;D | /r/seduction | 27/03/17 12:59 AM |
| 2 | I realized I might've misunderstood what Seduction is all about and the mentality that one should haveYeah, I know, the first time I went out by myself was almost an accident, my sister was supposed to go with me but she had to cancel it and I decided I would go anyway because I had nothing better to do. Every time I go out by myself it's still kinda weird, I get a lot of those thoughts like "I should just stay home", "I'm not feeling well today", but I kinda know it's bullshit so I push through it. Sometimes I get there and already start interacting with other people and it feels great, sometim… | /r/seduction | 27/03/17 12:58 AM |
| 3 | How to pull in clubs/after parties?If you're getting really physical really fast then you have to try to make it happen there and fast too. Something like take her to the bathroom or to take a walk outside and stop at some dark alley... You have to understand that even though kissing is a form of compliance and sexual touch, which is nice, it releases sexual tension and a girl might feel better by just kissing and doing nothing else, no pressure for her to choose if she wants to have sex with you, and all that. If she's really ho… | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Get The Girl To CHASE YOU- My Text Game!Push-pull is pretty cool | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 08:14 PM |
| 36 | I realized I might've misunderstood what Seduction is all about and the mentality that one should haveI can relate to this. But many guys feel attracted to girls and do nothing. Some guys don't ever approach and hope that somehow that kinda decent girl they know from work or school or whatever will realize how awesome they are, or rely on shit like Tinder to find someone. Game is a lot about pushing the boundaries of what is possible using attraction and social knowledge. To me is more like what you said, making it happen when you both like each other. I'm pretty good-looking too and people comp… | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 07:58 PM |
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