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Question For Womenlowlylatinist/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:08 PM
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Psssh I would want the least handsome, smallest dick guy I could find. I would be the most selective
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:39 AM
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I think it's quite funny the amount of disdain for age gap relationships, when in Asia it is quite normal for long term relationships. I see many Asian couples with 10 year age gaps, and I have personally heard from Asian women they don't like dating men at their age, and definitely no one younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:24 AM
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I will say in my experience that while many girls have been with a guy who works out and maybe have seen pictures of fit bodies, most girls have not had the chance to touch those bodies or examine them too closely. Certainly not really defined muscles and six pack, just usually some vaguely athletic dude with the outlines of abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:05 PM
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I gotta say that my girl is quite touchy, and the muscles definitely helped with that. Not just in sex either but in every day life. In terms of sex, I think we generally are responsible for getting them very aroused before fucking them, a lot of kissing and touching to get them very wet. But once we finished with getting them to cum, they usually want us to fuck them. Plus we are already ready to do so. So they do not need to get us more aroused. That being said, I have a girl who was really go…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:00 PM
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I gotta tell you that I think it is heavily dependent on the man but it seems kinda homophobic to not consider female female body count as actual body count. It seems to suggest that lesbians don't really have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:09 PM
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What is a high n count woman according to you which differs from the subs general opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:52 AM
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All of them appear overweight, and none of them I would date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:05 PM
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A couple things, I said my ideal range was 45 kg to 50 kg, meaning the taller woman would be a higher weight. I didn't mean to imply 45 kg 170 cm was my ideal. I don't think it's charitable to take the extreme of the range as what normal for what I like. Asians also tend to have higher body fat at lower bmis than white people. 50 kg 170 cm would be underweight but not severely emaciated. And I haven't ever dated or had sex with someone I would think is anorexic. I would say ideal if I would pick…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:38 AM
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I have slept with overweight women before, I have also slept with normal weight women. A few women I have slept with have been underweight but I didn't think they were unhealthy looking. Aesthetics-wise I prefer around 45 kg - 50 kg(100 to 110 pounds, assuming you are between 155 cm and 170 cm. I tend to prefer short girls, mainly because I am short. Sexual performance wise I found that overweight women were worse at sex than normal weight women. While they were easier able to accommodate my dic…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:35 AM
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Bingoo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:56 PM
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You really don't understand attraction, for one Asian men get Asian women too. Are you saying that all those short Asian men are paying the women? What about the poor ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:15 PM
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Not in Asia. Even short by their standards guys aren't with morbidly obese women, if you have good facial aesthetics you can make up for it. There are plenty of guys I know here who are tall but ugly who are with low tier girls, single moms or just normal looking girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:35 AM
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What kind of idiot thinks he is gonna go to a country where the people make a few hundred a month and not pay for dates?? That's the silliest thing I have ever heard. I also don't think most passport bros are egalitarian as you think. I am fairly conservative, these girls are more conservative than most religious people in the US. It has never bothered me, if you don't care about understanding the culture or the language then you should stay home IMO. Going overseas to have sex is cringe, but if…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:29 AM
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Yeah I ask if it's unclear. Usually you ask how many boyfriends they had, have far have they gone, how many people have they kissed, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:55 PM
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Ahh that is much more honest. How would you avoid the man flirting with you if you had to interact with them on a daily basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:48 PM
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What are your strategies to shut it down? Particularly when you need to interact with them for work, for example. Especially if it is not extremely overt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:46 PM
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Perhaps true, I tried to allow them to say how they would react to the situation. But I would individuals would be honest on an anonymous forum if this had happened to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:38 PM
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That is a fair statement here, I should have specified non-Chads since the vast majority of men are not Chads, they are the ones most at fear in that situation. But can you address the part about the feeling and how you avoid the relationship getting stronger especially if you have to be with that person for long periods of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:31 PM
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Cannot deny that. I am mixed as well. But I am just saying that people who would identified as Mexican or Latino in the US, would pass in Japan as fully white.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:16 AM
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Your mindset is almost identical to mine, props.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:46 PM
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I still think Anna Karenina is the greatest novel ever written. It's so brilliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:31 PM
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I feel like women parrot similar points too. Like when they say "Looks aren't everything! If a man treats you terribly/he is bad in bed/he is a cheater then his looks don't matter" It's not as if all good looking guys are terrible people and all ugly guys are saints. Women don't have to pick a ugly dude to make sure they get treated decently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:37 AM
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I am not sure why someone who was traditional wouldn't be able to discuss philosophy, literally for the thousands of years philosophy was done by mostly traditional or conservative old dudes. That seems to be historically ignorant at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:47 AM
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I would say 3, normalish
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:37 AM
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I am happy that we share the same mentality, I am sure your husband is a lucky man. 😊 I will say a lot of women do not and frankly do not care to improve at sex. Since a man's climax is relatively easy in comparison, the skill portion that varies most is simply head game. But most women don't invest much time getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:06 PM
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So if he asked if he was the biggest would you answer him? And if the answer is no, can you see why people often have that association between penis size and manhood/sexual ability? Especially since girls often reinforce the idea with insults. I am not actually sure what the point about faking an orgasm makes. Women and men fake orgasms, it doesn't make me feel better about not being the best. I know when girls fake orgasms, they just want to make the boy feel better. I have faked orgasms before…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:05 PM
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They never ask, but I would because I would want to be the best. If I am not able to be the best, i wouldn't want to be in the competition. The difference is I am trying to guarantee that I am the best by improving everything that I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:58 AM
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I think we unconsciously compare, when you first saw him naked you probably had some thoughts. Often I think we try to deflect from the truth. Now i know a bigger dick does not mean better sex always but it's a pride thing for man. Women even perpetuate these ideas as well, consider the big/small dick energy comments. I would feel bad if I wasn't the biggest, even if she said it didn't matter. I have heard girls tell me that their current lover is not their best lover before. So even though you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:53 AM
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That's fantastic, I am happy you were able to love each other and make the sex the best. But if you say it like that it seems like it maybe didn't start out that way, as in he wasn't the best in the beginning. And it would be really painful for many guys if my first time with a girl was worse than how the last guy did it. Especially if that person may have had a one night stand which was better than our first time. That would be doubly embarrassing. That is one of the issues, one of the other is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:49 AM
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From my experience, they seem to not care about that. I have never had a girl asked me if she was the best i have ever had for example. If they did though, I would completely understand where they were coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:41 AM
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Really? I found the opposite in Japan, they couldn't tell the difference between Mexican and White in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:38 PM
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First of all, I appreciate your attempt to articulate the female perspective on this. I of course will try to be as honest as I can, I think the men here using statistics to try show high n count women are bad are just trying to justify what they already believe by finding a study to support their preconceptions. Even if those statistics were valid, it would mean nothing for an individual since each person is different and having a high n count does by no means indicate that you will certainly c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:33 PM
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I assume you mean a girl who is 8/10 with a high body count not post op Trans?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:49 PM
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Because I am dating a woman not a man. What I want to date is not the same as what I am. It's simply not what I value in a partner. A woman can have different standards than men have. I have muscles but I don't hold my women to that standard, women tend to want tall men even if they are not tall, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:08 PM
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Men don't value sexual experience as something good in a woman. We want to be the guide, the best they ever had, the biggest, the most attractive, etc. But if your body count is 10+, how likely is it that I am the best? What about 50? Even a high value man with great characteristics(attractive, muscular/athletic, sexually proficient, big dick) will be beat by someone if you sleep with enough guys. Women seem to care less about those things. If they didn't then there wouldn't be a demand for Chad…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:55 PM
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Allowed? I have my standards of what I want to date and girls have theirs. I don't want a girl who is very sexually experienced. Most girls I have met, want a guy who is sexually experienced. If a girl doesn't want that then they won't want me. Similarly if they have a large body count then I don't want them. They aren't entitled to be pursued by me, nor am I entitled to sex from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:03 AM
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I am always 100% honest with my body count and my experience, if they don't want an experienced guy they can walk for sure. That being said, even conservative girls haven't really minded too much. Certainly none have broken up with me over it. Some have teased me for it for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:02 AM
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A. When do you ask a woman what her body count is? I first find out if the girl has had a lot of relationships, how many long term relationships, how many people they have met on the dating site, etc. Ask about their career, what they like to do, etc. I think about their age too and type of person they are. I try to judge before we go out how many people they have probably slept with. If they have a short or fairly innocuous sounding dating history, I will usually ask if they are a virgin on tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:04 AM
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That definitely is possible. If you have ever seen Clerks, then you know there is a big difference for women xD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:01 AM
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I definitely think there is a significant difference between one partner and none. I also know you can be better at by practice, if you ever been to massage place you can see the difference in skill. But I have not found that a person with a higher body count is better at sex than lower body count. I think women often don't need to improve at sex since men rarely complain. The best head I have gotten(from a non professional) was from a girl who I took her virginity. She was eager, willing to lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:43 PM
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Strangely enough I have not seen a correlation between dick sucking ability and body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:28 PM
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Strangely enough I have not seen a correlation between dick sulking ability and body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:28 PM
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Male contraception is really great, it has had only positive side effects for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:33 AM
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They didn't specify, they just said small. I remember one said that they reached to feel for it and it wasn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:26 AM
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I don't know, I have had several girls(read: 4 different girls) tell me they rejected a guy mid-session(when they saw) because he was small. I don't think they were size queens either, just were turned off by the small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:00 AM
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Asia works. They don't know what Latino is. Stay away from the sun, shave your facial hair, wear sunscreen, keep your body fat low.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:51 AM
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I have seen quite a few in the Phillipines. It seems almost normal there, not just with foreigners either but even filipino/filipina relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:56 AM
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He is the best. Anna Karenina is the greatest novel of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:57 AM
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If they had cum, you would be able to tell. If you cannot tell they didn't cum. Even if you think you made them cum, there is a chance they faked it. So the best you can do is be communicative and try to respond to your partners body language and expressions/grunts/moans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:23 PM
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Maybe I misunderstood you then. Where in SEA are you talking about? Thailand? Because the Philippines, Laos, Cambodia, Indonesia, and Malaysia are all significantly shorter than the US both in statistics and real life. Even though Thai people are slightly taller in the younger generation, it's still a noticeable difference. The only Asian country I can think of which is comparable to the US is South Korea(maybe Singapore) but that's not SEA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:22 AM
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Have you been to SEA? Yeah it's true the younger generation is taller than the previous generations, and it also depends which city you are in but come to Saigon and then visit LA and tell me that the teenagers are taller in Saigon. I work with teenagers(17-18 year olds) daily and the guys are usually around 168 and the girls are usually around 158. That is definitely taller than the previous generation but it's not a huge difference compared to America where you frequently see women around 180 …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:03 AM
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Average virgin for sure. Edit: on reflection, most girls that I have told my body count have been more attracted to me afterwards rather than less. I don't know of any rejections I have had for either relationships or hookups. I think men and women prioritize experience in sex differently. I never had sex with a girl and thought "man I wish she had fucked a few more guys so she would be better at this"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:46 AM
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I am much shorter than him and have had many non-obese partners. I did have some obese partners. Some overweight. But most have them been normal weight or skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:06 AM
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They need to examine this in countries besides the US, it seems to me that being muscular in non-US countries is much more valued. I cannot tell you about how many times girls have grabbed my arms or pecs. Or girls that specifically have been into muscles that I have been with. But all of them were in either Mexico or Asia(Japan, China, Vietnam).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:41 PM
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For what it's worth, I wouldn't be interested in being with a bi woman but perhaps I am homophobic or biphobic. And I do care about a woman's sexual past, so it's consistent for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:20 AM
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