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| 1 | A different kind of overthinking. | loxagos_snake | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 12:49 AM | |
| 1 | How to stop getting intimidated by confident girls | loxagos_snake | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 04:30 PM | |
| 0 | Handling jealousy with a woman that is different from the others. | loxagos_snake | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 01:13 PM |
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| 2 | Do you think women's breasts are way more sexualized than they should be?I think it's an atrocity to treat breastfeeding as something repulsive. Humanity at its lowest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Man locks out his abusive girlfriend, who blames him instead. Drama ensues.Keep in mind that there are successful devs our there who are extremely protective of their personal life. The ones who have generated controversy are usually going after it, like Notch for example. Call me a hopeful, but I don't think a girlfriend would stab you in the back out of nowhere. There are usually signs that we choose to ignore until it's too late. Personally, it took me 13 years of dating to develop a keen eye for crazy bitches and a healthy personal frame of reference. Not trying to… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Man locks out his abusive girlfriend, who blames him instead. Drama ensues.Hey pal, I was lowkey stalking this thread, but had to comment when you said you're an indie. I'd say I'm in the same boat, but that would be a stretch since it's just a hobby for now. Still, I dream about a game dev business some day, and I do co-own a small pastry shop, so I understand not wanting to let personal issues bleed into your work. Like most of us, I've had my fair share of bad apples and paranoid dates, and some of them have caused me trouble with my work. In fact, the last girl I w… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Don't daygame or go to bars aloneThe only one I seriously doubt that a subreddit can be so cohesive as to everyone except me accepting one, catholic opinion. If this is the case, then I don't find much value in a place that only echoes a monophonic sentiment; discussions and arguments exist for productivity's sake, not to stroke our egos. Thus, if you or the vast majority disagree with my opinion, feel free to do so. On the other hand, I also have the right to stand behind my own opinions. No one is 100% right, ever. In any cas… | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Just had my first sex. However, I didn't really like it all that much.The vast majority of guys I know who managed to have sex with their dream girl -including my own experiences- is that it was 'nothing like they imagined it'. Truth is, the first time rarely lives up to the hype, and that's a normal thing. To have truly good sex, you have to be comfortable with each other and know what makes you and them tick. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Don't daygame or go to bars aloneOK, OP is referring to this post where we had a disagreement. I respect your opinion and point of view, but to go and make another post with a clickbait title about this only makes you look bitter and angry for no reason at all. Nevertheless, I'll state my case here too, to prevent you from paraphrasing what I said as it suits you. I've never heard one success story of a guy going up to a random girl Yes, I, PERSONALLY, have never heard a 'loner at the bar' success story in real life. I'm pretty… | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?I don't mean changing your personality and supplicating to the girl in order to bed her by being a faker. I'm talking about trying to find the common points between you and her and making them work for you. For example, if she's shy, maybe go a little out of your way to make her more comfortable. If she's a party girl and you're a world-class metal nerd, give her lifestyle a try. If she likes you, she will have to adapt to your likes at one point or another. You can very much 'be yourself' while… | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 12:10 PM |
| 1 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?Yep, we tend to forget that girls are social, human beings (quirky ones at that but still!) and that any ability to relate to other human beings is going to translate rather well. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?Wow, first of all, I didn't tell him he needs to be "6' tall", "high status" or to never go alone at the bar. I'm 5'9 and considered of average height by girls, I'm presentable and just a uni student with financial struggles. Just to be clear on this from now on. In the meantime, hundreds of success stories from guys alone at the bar--or daygame--are pouring in here Well of course it's going to work sometimes, it's a numbers' game, but let's be real, it's also weird. And unless you subscribe to … | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 11:52 AM |
| 9 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?That's a huge compliment, thank you. It's easy to be real and kind to people that are going through something you've went through in the past, and I like helping someone escape the rut! | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?The hobby doesn't matter. My friends all broadened their circle by visiting my uncle's darts bar, one of them even picked it up semi-professionally on a different note. Just find excuses to be around people and weed out the ones you don't like; everything else will come. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 08:49 PM |
| 2 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?If you're in to various hobbies try to go to public events/places where you can mingle with others. Not with then intention of trying to pick up women, but simply just to socialize/get to know people. This advice is gold. If you listen to stories from guys who went from awkward to successful with girls (I'm not talking about those fake-ass pickup artists, I'm talking about real people), more than half of them transformed after broadening their social circle. I myself had a radical change after b… | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 08:26 PM |
| 9 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?Don't worry, your formatting is fine. Listen, these are a lot of questions, but I have no problem conversing with you if you will have me - I love having this sort of discussions because I too used to be in a tough spot. So, let's get to it. Right down to seriously considering quitting dating altogether Can you really do that? I doubt it, and that's a good thing. It's healthy for a man to desire women (or men if they're gay) and repressing your urges will only lead to some nasty mental health pr… | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 08:21 PM |
| 11 | how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin?Alright, this is gonna be long, but I want to help you out because I have a friend just like you. Honestly, virgins are the last type of person that should be using Tinder. Of course it might be semi-hypocritical coming from me, as I met my current SO for one and a half years on Tinder, but I wasn't a virgin. Tinder, for all it's advantages, is akin to picking fruit from the grocery store: you're looking for the best produce. When things are impersonal, your first imperative is to search for the… | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Handling jealousy with a woman that is different from the others.Thanks, that was a great, well-rounded answer, that didn't rely on extremist opinions. While I do have the urge to not believe she is an AW, as she does show genuine concern, how would you suggest I handle this behavior? EDIT: Whatever the case, I think she is genuinely into me. She spents a lot of her time with me, even if it puts pressure of time on her (i.e. with her studies). I definitely think she cares more about my attention. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting intimidated by confident girlsFuck yeah, I don't know why I couldn't find the words. You sir, hit the nail in the head. It's how easy it is for them to socialize that puts me in a lock, so to speak. I feel like my less developed skills wouldn't match up. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting intimidated by confident girlsI'm not gonna deny that. It's just...the vibe they project can stop me at my tracks sometimes. I guess the more I can 'counter' them on any sector that causes me to be insecure (i.e. crafting an attractive body myself) seems to alleviate the symptoms. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting intimidated by confident girlsHmm, that's the conclusion I'm reaching. Things are simpler than they seem. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting intimidated by confident girlsYep. Women don't want to be treated like chaste mythical animals that somehow carry the inherent flaw of being sexual. Women are sexual and want to be treated as sexual people. "Aha!" moment right there. I understand that now, but to get a little more hands-on and stop bothering you -you've already helped tons!- with comments, we all know that most girls deny their sexuality when in the presence of men. Field example: the girl I'm currently dating, she's devouring me every time we make out. She'… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting intimidated by confident girlsYeah, as far as I've seen so far, no amount of theory and affirmations can trump hands-on experience. I never understood that 'it's simple' to talk to cute girls until I reached a point when I was too bored to think of something cool to say. Driven by emotions and insecure an she is looking for a man who's better than her This. This is what I'm struggling to understand. So far, I've been fed the notion that they don't need us, and most girls act way too tough; so, I've been conditioned to think … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting intimidated by confident girlsI'm not going to blame you for that and you're still helping. Can you elaborate a little bit on that, though? Practically, I can't see them like that. For example, a girl who's extremely fit is a dedicated girl (we all know how tough working out is) and a girl who's successful with men will have a solid base in confidence. What am I getting wrong? | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting intimidated by confident girlsThat was very detailed. I didn't quite get the first part though. Do you mean that I had a false image about women (them being delicate princesses) and by treating them as such, I was actually giving them the opposite of what they wanted? This sounded weird. Are you saying you're shy? Not in the usual sense, no. I used to be full-blow shy, but now it's more like "I'm not in the mood of being too social, I just wanna have a drink"; as such, sometimes I am distant with girls because I have no desi… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 05:08 PM |
| 1 | A different kind of overthinking.No, that's not the case. The girl was off-schedule and was sitting with us for a drink. | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 11:12 AM |
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