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lpfield/r/MGTOW02/09/18 02:21 PM
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lpfield/r/ExRedPill20/09/21 11:09 PM
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lpfield/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 02:04 AM
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lpfield/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:03 AM
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lpfield/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 06:55 AM
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lpfield/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 01:53 AM
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lpfield/r/askTRP23/08/19 09:02 PM
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lpfield/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 07:47 PM
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lpfield/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:53 PM
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lpfield/r/ExRedPill27/11/20 10:50 PM
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lpfield/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:29 PM
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lpfield/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:10 PM
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lpfield/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:10 AM
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lpfield/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:33 PM
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lpfield/r/askTRP01/02/20 04:24 PM
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lpfield/r/askTRP10/02/20 12:55 AM
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lpfield/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:17 AM
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lpfield/r/askTRP15/02/20 04:28 PM
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lpfield/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:30 AM
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Not mad just… idk. Not even “wow all women cheat smh but like “I wouldn’t know what to do if that happened to me” it’s scary but u have to be vulnerable in love and life ig
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 02:30 AM
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What do you mean in #5 about being stressed / having a bad day. My gf gets stressed at work all the time and says she feels gross but I try to make her feel loved and cared for and she says she loves our sex life and I could never see her cheating i trust her with my life as opposed to my ex who did cheat on me multiple times with the “i was asleep” bit. I was down but I took the time being single to focus on myself and improve my life but man. I cant take being cheated on again
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 02:25 AM
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So its fake and all made up no one would do stuff this heinous at least not as common?
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 12:14 AM
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I have a good life and social i think. My warehouse is just a sausage fest but its fun. Fellas Inc I call it
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 05:11 PM
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Warehouse picking
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 12:44 AM
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Holy shit that was hard to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:33 AM
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Thanks. And NMMNG is a cornerstone in figuring out why I am the way I am like childhood etc. Really the only boundaries I had in the relationship were Exclusivity, like don't cheat on me If you feel any problems, don't be afraid to tell me Whenever I sensed something was off and I would ask her whats wrong she would just tell me "I'm stressed rn about work, bills, family" etc. What are some examples of boundaries to set in a romantic relationship? She was my first 'girlfriend' like more than fwb…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:33 PM
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Every relationship is unique tho. What I’ve gathered is it depends on the dude and the girl. Ie is the dude a mope or is the girl insensitive. I wanted to see what the general consensus was like thru societal conditionings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:25 PM
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Can you tell me more. Like where I can read up on that behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:22 PM
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For the longest time like age 17-19 I was all about TRP and all that. Then I read a bunch of books that totally prove it wrong (NMMNG, Models, Subtle Art) and she was the first girl where I wasn’t a total misogynist and tryna manipulate. I have been tryna deprogram from TRP but man this whole situation has me confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 10:55 PM
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I was down bad bc I couldn’t hike, run, swim, lift, work, or drive. Literally everything I like to do I couldn’t do after my injury. I felt like I lost my identity honestly. I opened up to her about it and she was cool at the time but I always felt a bad vibe afterwards. Like we would have game nights w her friends and she would be ignoring me most of the time and when she wasn’t she had a look on her face like it was a chore to get up next to me. When I was cleared to drive she would never come…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 10:48 PM
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Definitely fucked up on the wording. I said all bc apparently women and men have different brain chemistry. I’m just a 20 yo don’t quote me on that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 10:46 PM
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I didn’t really fear vulnerability. I read a book that summer, Models by Mark Manson which emphasized the importance vulnerability in relationships, romantic or platonic. Vulnerability isn’t just about sad shit, it’s telling a joke that might bomb to your friends etc. I never cried or anything and I said “tell me if I’m ever being overbearing w the shit” like setting a boundary. I never expected her to like change things for me but just wanted her to be there for me since I was down pretty bad l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:52 PM
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I was like “Damn baby this shoulder shit sucks are you cool with it tho?” And she goes in length how it was no inconvenience to her. I think that was a lie tho like the other guy said the subconscious mind isn’t even recognized
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:12 PM
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Wym
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 04:13 PM
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But she was always saying I was sexy and so hot and yes those were her exact words. And we had a solid sex life like we fucked at the end of every day we saw each other. Like I’m not tryna brag when I say that. Does that attraction just go away in a snap? This was my first committed girlfriend ever so I’m kinda clueless on all the aspects of it.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 07:19 PM
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I see. So that is called anxious attachment style? Looking for things that I should bring up to my therapist like things I can improve on myself
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 07:16 AM
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Where should i start though? I saw the other comment about attachment theory but other than that I’m not sure and I would like to hear how i can be better. When I left the red pill I started therapy and reading (well audiobooks) like Models, NMMNG, and The 4 Agreements to be more self aware but yes I have a lot more to work on it seems.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 06:44 AM
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Do you think she really just can’t handle it or did she just find someone better. I can deal with the former but the latter just drives a nail through my heart
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 02:28 AM
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What do you mean by my story telling tho? I was always anxious she would leave me but she told me she loved me and she was here
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 02:27 AM
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I love her so much still but I ended up just blocking her on everything
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 02:14 AM
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For reference, this was the first girl I allowed myself to be vulnerable with and never used red pill bullshit and radically trusted her vs assuming shes fucking every guy behind my back or that I have to be “super alpha.” Everything was good until one day the vibe was off when we hung out and then I didn’t see or hear from her from like 12/18 to yesterday. She has been interacting heavy with this dude on Twitter who is 6’6 since I last saw her which leads me to believe she has the hots for him …
/r/ExRedPill31/12/20 02:12 AM
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r/seduction too
/r/ExRedPill26/12/20 05:20 AM
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Very nice to hear a professional input on the red pill. I am looking forward to more insight from you on this subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/20 05:32 AM
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You think that’s my only shot?
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:56 AM
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How can you tell
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 05:13 PM
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You’ve got the AIDS! Big time!
/r/ExRedPill22/11/20 12:58 PM
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Needed to hear this thank you
/r/ExRedPill14/11/20 03:01 PM
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That’s what I thought, thanks for the reassurance. I’ve isolated myself from my friends and drove 2 girls away bc I felt like everyone was out to get me. I reconnected with my friends and told them that I projected my insecurities onto them and they said “We thought you just didn’t like us anymore. We missed you dude.” I nearly fucking cried man. TRP really solidified my insecurities and led to self fulfilling prophecies of getting cheated on or ghosted due to treating the girls like shit. My mi…
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 03:06 AM
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That’s amazing. What did he end up doing when he felt the feelings of alienation? Did you guys stay sexually intimate while he was in the sling?
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 01:31 AM
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No More Mr Nice Guy by Glover and Models by Manson. Once you read these, try not to trip yourself up on red pill this blue pill that. Just apply the thought processes that you read about in your day to day life. Very important you write down or highlight what resonates with you in the books.
/r/RedPillBooks14/10/20 09:45 PM
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She should’ve called the cops
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:05 PM
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What is normal? What one man can do, another can do. At the very least, read NMMNG and practice outcome independence. You’re not ‘abnormal’ you just don’t have confidence in yourself.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 11:13 PM
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Let me rephrase, I go to the gym buzzed. Not out of my gourd high but enough to make me an awkward mumbler. Helps me zone in though. That being said I think so, you can tell via body language and stuff. I don’t exactly know what being hit on feels like therefore, my post.
/r/seduction05/08/20 10:58 PM
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But I see girls hitting on guys at my gym
/r/seduction05/08/20 10:46 PM
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If I could say just one sentence to 16 year old me: Don’t do drugs & don’t trip over bitches. For post high school, find a solid paying job (ideally with insurance benefits) doing something you’re not terrible at (auto mechanics, yard work, construction, warehouse etc) and befriend your coworkers. They will most likely be way older & they’ll fuck you around a lil bit because you’re the youngest. This means they have the life experience and knowledge you don’t yet. A lot of new friends & connecti…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:49 AM
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Not even game or looks or whatever. These guys are just comfortable and natural having fun and enjoying life that they give off a vibe that everyone can feel. Truly at peace with themselves so they don’t GAF about what people think about them. It’s not something you can fake.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:42 AM
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These words are golden. Learn how to play the game of capitalism OP
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:35 PM
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You have to let out the inner caveman. Men and women have that basic human instinct and shit just clicks. If you think too much about it you’ll fuck it up
/r/askTRP07/06/20 08:28 PM
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If you’re obese yeah lose some weight. But don’t even trip about how women see you if you want to get jacked and strong. You need a caloric surplus to get muscle and body fat is inevitable on a bulk.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 11:22 PM
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Real deal. I’ve bought from them for years
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:05 AM
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Yes, I have too many fragrances. Not only chicks, but literally everybody notices it. I wear it for my enjoyment, smelling a complex fragrance change as the day goes on makes me feel good. Spray lightly though, you want it to be subtle. Don’t be that guy that gasses everyone out (yourself included)
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:55 AM
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La Nuit Homme (can’t remember the exact name) smells exactly like Aventus, has further scent projection, longevity, and is only $20-30. FragranceNet is clutch.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:49 AM
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Let the man live. We all started somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 10:32 PM
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Something’s in the air bc the same shit just happened to me too
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 06:54 AM
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“Omg it’s not even alcohol anymore “ And yeah the plan was hit up my other plate and wait for this one to come around (not hitting her up) so I’ll see. Cheers
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:34 AM
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I assumed labeling her as a plate implied that. Does this change your answer?
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:50 AM
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Even if I fucked her 3 times in the past week? Yeah I was kinda wary of those red flags but I didn’t worry anymore after I fucked her
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:43 AM
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And obviously I want her to come over and fuck, should I try to get her to come over tomorrow or would I be coming off as needy? I only have one other plate and shes not as hot
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:36 AM
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Yeah I’ve kept this in mind the second she showed interest, learning abundance has kept me from catching feelings vs the past
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:07 PM
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Yeah bruh that’s a good call. I don’t claim to be Mr Alpha, im just stoked I got laid after bullshitting my life for so long
/r/askTRP15/02/20 05:07 PM
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For sure. If I don’t ever hit her up with anything is she just gonna forget about me, bc bro there were SO MANY dudes in her notifications
/r/askTRP15/02/20 04:47 PM
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Hell naw u buggin
/r/askTRP15/02/20 04:47 PM
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Yeah for sure man. I was looking for a way to word it without being beta as fuck
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:42 AM
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Shit my house I guess
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:32 AM
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Just netflix and chill + alcohol
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:24 AM
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They’ll be grilling me about it until I move out but it won’t be the end of the world. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:22 AM
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“Let’s meet at my place. Your house might be better bc my parents are home” sound good?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:15 AM
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Should I add “my place or your place?” after this I’m 19 and live with my parents lmao
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:02 AM
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I think this is a winner. Thanks man
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:33 AM
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I agree that sounds needier than my idea. Good call on the adjustments
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:26 AM
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Just hang a little brain and they’ll be all over you
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:28 AM
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You’re right Navy Dad. This was good advice as my ego is a big problem and not just with girls.... I’m always ready to learn something from those older and wiser. Thanks
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:58 AM
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I could easily buy the shit myself. Also paying for a chicks meal when you met the day before is some simp shit.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:47 AM
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Exactly what I’m thinking. On one hand, I kinda wanna ghost her and keep my dignity intact. Shes keeping me around as a simp orbiter by buying me all this shit. But on the other hand.... a sugar mama, exactly what a broke underage needs
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:37 AM
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This is in a span of around 2 weeks btw
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:10 AM
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Yeah good call that’s simp shit now I look at it
/r/askTRP01/02/20 04:41 PM
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Shit, I've been taking 5mg a night
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 04:15 AM
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From what I've experienced, TRP is all about primal human instincts
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:58 AM
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Is the end goal of eating a delicious lasagna not worth at least challenging yourself to try and do SOMETHING? ANYTHING? Would you rather STARVE? C'mon man
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:54 AM
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My impression?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:16 PM
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I'll check them out, I've been reading How To Win Friends & Influence People for about a week. Thanks man
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:40 PM
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No I have not. What are they?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:38 PM
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You're not wrong. I came to trp to quit being a pussy. I've read the sidebar and I'm still trying to execute what I learn in daily life. Best course of action here, just forget about it and don't be a pussy from now on I'm assuming?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:18 PM
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This x1000. OP if a chick with a boyfriend is hanging around you she's just using you for attention. Run far away
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:54 PM
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Is it not too late bc everyone already thinks I'm a pussy?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:44 PM
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So what now? Just cut everyone off?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:41 PM
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New to the red pill, how would I execute a "pressure flip"
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:35 PM
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Aright I thought so too. I feel like confronting him at this point is insecure beta shit
/r/askTRP23/08/19 09:38 PM
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I have snap shots but don't know how to post them here
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