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| 19 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.Amen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:24 AM |
| 66 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.Another child of the 1960’s here! Fifty is fabulous when you stop giving a damn about what men have to say about your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 06:54 AM |
| 11 | RANT: WHY do men feel the need to change their gender to "female" on dating apps?In a pathetic attempt to get their dick wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:32 AM |
| 11 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮For a man, desirable usually means “can be manipulated into sex easily”, so it stands to reason that 18-year-old girls would be their target audience. Women, especially those of us over 30, are looking for maturity and reliability and financial stability, which peaks for men in their 50s. No woman is actively pursuing “dad bod” for a casual relationship. There’s a lot of ways that this story could be misinterpreted to imply that men only get hotter with age while women don’t, which is a crock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 04:08 PM |
| 65 | It seems what we do is workingAfter a horrible 25-year marriage, I am loving my beautiful peaceful life. I will never date again, but I will grow old surrounded by friends and siblings and my kids. I don’t need to spend another 25 years washing the socks of somebody who treats me like crap in the hope that they might hold my hand in the hospital for five minutes someday. My ex couldn’t be bothered to hang out in the hospital while I was in labor with my kids, so I am pretty sure I would be dying without a husband in the room… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:14 AM |
| 48 | Ain’t this the truth 🤔I am middle aged and single and have my own damn fat wallet. That better be just part of the package they have to offer because all my bills are quite paid, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:45 PM |
| 17 | How to Be Successful Without Hurting Men's Feelings 101 - the double standards are real!Take off your wedding ring when you interview (and put on another generic ring if you have a tan line or an indent on your finger). You can put your wedding ring back on the day you start work. If anybody ask you about it, just say you were having it cleaned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:07 PM |
| 7 | Men think women dress for their attention because that's what THEY do. Men are peacocks (except they aren't beautiful like actual peacocks)Hey, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:33 PM |
| 20 | Men think women dress for their attention because that's what THEY do. Men are peacocks (except they aren't beautiful like actual peacocks)Just gonna point out real quick that some of us vegetarians/vegans consider it a green flag that a man has enough empathy toward animals to choose soy over meat. That being said, any man trolling through FDS looking for a reason to bitch and cry like a spoiled child gets zero sympathy, meat eater or not. Strike the word “soy” and I agree with you 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:47 PM |
| 8 | My flair got upgraded 😎Upvote for King Arthur’s horses! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:16 AM |
| 14 | Seriously pay your dues, scrotesOh, I totally believe that to be true. He always seemed seemed pissed that I was supporting him and yet wouldn’t actually be bothered to look for a job. I’ll look up that video. Edit: Oh jeez. That video hit me hard right in the gut. It is too, too true. Man, I wish we had things like FDS around when I was dating in the 80s and 90s. I was so, so clueless for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 06:08 AM |
| 27 | Seriously pay your dues, scrotesPreach. When I got married my husband made significantly more than I did. As soon as I got a couple of promotions under my belt to bump up my salary, he quit his job to become a full-time day-drinker. Just because somebody has a high salary when you’re dating does NOT make him an HVM. If you’re career- and goal-oriented, do NOT date someone who also isn’t actively trying to get ahead in life, even if they currently have more or make more than you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 28 | Seriously pay your dues, scrotesUnless you’re the higher earner. Then you have to pay him... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 14 | For those of us who haven’t been appreciated or loved... 🌸💖I don’t like the ridiculousness of the “someday it will happen” idea. I’m a 50-year-old widow that only got out of a 25 year abusive relationship when my husband died, and let me tell you, I guarantee it’s not gonna happen because I am not seeking out a relationship at all, now or ever. I can finally start to live my own life on my own terms and wow, I am happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:20 PM |
| 9 | Don't get it twisted; women didn't leave "in the good old days" because they were trapped, not because they were fucking ride or die. We literally had no choice but to put up with abuse and other myriad bullshit. Men cannot stand the fact that we are no longer forced to submit.Yeah, you’d think. He was making a six-figure salary when we got married then promptly quit his job after our kid was born. But of course I kept paying for daycare while I was at work because he was going to get another job “Any day now.” Back in 2001. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:50 PM |
| 7 | If a man says he can't think of you sexually because he respects you too much, RUN!🚩🚩🚩🚩As an older lady, it does my heart good to see younger women with their heads on straight like this, and who are also willing to reach out and help other women who haven’t quite figured it out yet. The younger generation gives me so much hope! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 02:46 AM |
| 17 | Men only want one thing and that is disgusting.💯And conversely, if you did something nice and don’t expect an immediate transactional reward, he’d likely consider you an idiot or a pushover and take that as a green light to take further advantage. Ugh. So glad you got out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:33 PM |
| 44 | Don't get it twisted; women didn't leave "in the good old days" because they were trapped, not because they were fucking ride or die. We literally had no choice but to put up with abuse and other myriad bullshit. Men cannot stand the fact that we are no longer forced to submit.If you have equal incomes it is much easier to leave. If you are married to an unemployed bum you are likely to owe him spousal support even if you don’t have kids. Honestly, looking at having to fork over 40% of my paycheck for the rest of my life really gave me pause. You can leave the marriage but the financial consequences follow you around forever. All the more reason to vet with extreme care, and leave as soon as things go south, because consequences for leaving long-term marriages are muc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | A high-earning woman may never be fully rid of a scrote. Beware.In California the employed spouse needs to support the one who wasn’t working in the marriage for a certain period of time, depending on how long they were married. After 15 years of marriage you have to support them for the rest of their lives, or until they get married again. Doesn’t matter if it is alcoholic bum NVM in a family of grown kids. They get approx 40% of your income for life. That makes “just leave” a lot harder... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:44 AM |
| 3 | This is the stuff we need to be teaching girls.If I ever have grandchildren I am 100% teaching them this rhyme from a very early age | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:11 AM |
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