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The 6 foot thing is very much an American thing, it’s not as prevalent in Europe where they use the metric system. You can search around and find the study. Pretty interesting.
/r/seduction10/03/25 02:21 AM
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If you can afford it, find a pickup boot camp, in a solid weekend you’ll do dozen of approaches if not a hundred and you’ll figure it out. Without that a couple of things work, 1. Eye contract, solid, unwavering non creepy eye contact. 2. Touch, don’t grab ass, but try to touch her arm or hand, make a joke, touch her arm to emphasize the point. Learn how to pretend to read palms and ask to see her hand. Wear some kind of jewelry that’s cool and have a story for it. Women with break the touch bar…
/r/seduction16/01/25 01:47 AM
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You can become funny and witty, these are learnable skills. First though, the guy below says lift, 100%, not just for women but for you and your longevity. I’m 55, started lifting and getting into fitness 7 years ago, best decision ever. Next, start reading about comedy, taking classes, find a place that offers improv classes, you’ll learn a lot!
/r/seduction11/01/25 12:37 PM
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This person gets it!
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:49 AM
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It works really well. Most men try to answer in a way that impresses them. The women is usually looking for a way to disqualify, it’s a bit of a shit test. You’re basically saying I don’t care to impress you, plus it throws sex into the mix. My brother in his younger days said he worked for the pound and when they thought that was sweet, he’d throw in the “someone has to throw the switch”, ie be the executioner. Worked really well.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:20 PM
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Think of it this way dude, you banged her when she is hot, for women it’s all downhill from hot. Give her 5 to 10 years and most of her hotness “currency” will be gone and what makes a man hot will just be kicking in for you. For context I’m 53, still getting 20 and 30 year olds.
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:21 AM
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Keep at it, body will repair itself. Add zinc, magnesium, google other minerals needed for repair. The human body is pretty amazing.
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:22 PM
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Read up on nitric oxide. The pharmaceutical companies pushing viagra and the likes never explain what it does. It’s quite simple. You get hard, you need nitric oxide in your blood. It’s a vasodilator, causes the blood flow to increase. Viagra, cialis, what ever others, they block substances that break down nitric oxide. You know what’s better? Up the nitric oxide in your blood. Well, spinach, garlic, pomegranate, beets, arugula (actually arugula is loaded!). You can also take Argenenine and citr…
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:49 AM
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First, identify what it is about your personality that's an issue. I'll go out on a limb and say you complain or whine about things or always bring up the negative. Stop doing that. For instance I know we are in a bubble and it's going to crash at some point and wreak havoc, I predicted the last 2, warned people, they didn't listen, just viewed me as negative. I don't talk about negative things now. Trust you will survive, don't bring up negative conversations unless its imminent, like a bus is …
/r/seduction17/12/19 08:42 PM
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Do you think flat women are attractive? For me, I'll take small boobs and a flat stomach over large boobs on a woman that's overweight. Muscle are our boobs. The cool thing is that you can build them (muscles, not boobs), and increase your attractiveness to women. Subconsciously women register that a larger stronger man can protect them. I'm speaking as a man that just started lifting 3 years ago. My body has changed dramatically and I'm 50, spent my whole life with excuses on why I didn't want …
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:17 PM
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Even if you wear baggy clothing, you can tell when someone is fitter from posture, body language, movement and other telltale signs like a taughter face, sharper jawline, visible collar bones, rounder higher ass, and your body is producing more testosterone which changes your pheromones and your scent.
/r/seduction08/12/19 08:18 PM
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Dude, she’s 42, I’m 50 and I don’t date them. By then, they usually have massive baggage. Who knows what her gam is but she’s probably some level of off.
/r/seduction21/11/19 10:02 PM
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You might want to check into a pua boot camp, they’re expensive, but I did one and got a lot out of it. DM m and I’m happy to point you towards something.
/r/seduction19/11/19 04:10 AM
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Not sure why this guy is being down voted for stating the obvious. Women more than men are affected by obesity, they dress badly, do nothing with their hair or makeup and have terrible attitudes. You pretty much need to import.
/r/seduction25/09/19 01:53 AM
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I would say closer to 90% of attractiveness for men is in your control. Get fit, dress well, get a good hair style, straighten and whiten your teeth, learn to be funny and charismatic, work on body language and vocal tonality. Now that I've written that, probably closer to 95%.
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:14 AM
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Have you tested this or have you just assumed it?
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:10 AM
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Agreed, took one, gets you way outside your comfort zone, will make you much more comfortable with people.
/r/seduction29/07/19 04:14 PM
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If you believe you can't improve your level of attractiveness because it's purely physical and not controllable, then WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING ON A SEDUCTION WEBSITE???
/r/seduction29/07/19 04:13 PM
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That's because you actually dont know what the fuck you are talking about and you are actively misleading people. Let's just presume you are correct and only looks matter. In that definition of looks are things you have full control of like fitness, fashion, hairstyle, quality of teeth. Think about this, what makes a woman a 6 rather than a 7 or higher. Likely she's fat. Most unattractive women significantly increase their attractiveness simply by losing weight. Same with men. Lose weight, build…
/r/seduction22/07/19 05:24 PM
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Happy to help. First of all, where are you from. Touching varies culturally (it's effect doesn't, just it's social acceptability). 1st, you can almost always hug. If you like the guy hold a little longer than normal. My hair stylist always hugs me from the side and caresses my other side, not obtrusively, but it's very effective. You can also use objects such as watches, rings, bracelets as an excuse to take someone's hand. It's also very easy to make a point in a conversation and touch someone'…
/r/seduction21/07/19 01:54 PM
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I’d say as a man, it doesn’t work the other way. I’ve done some seduction training and it blows me away how effective eye contact is with women since it does nothing for me. On the other hand, a woman touching has huge impact, arm, back, sides, shoulders, any where. So if you are interested in a guy, touch.
/r/seduction21/07/19 03:38 AM
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Hows does everyone in the room know. 2. Why do you think anyone in the room is even paying attention two you 3. Even if you get rejected and its humiliating a lot of people in the room will be impressed with how ballsy you were
/r/seduction13/07/19 12:21 AM
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Touch them on the arm. Might also say something like you're shy arent you and when she says yes, say something like that's really sweet. If theres a place to sit, say let's go sit down and lead her by the arm. See if that works.
/r/seduction22/05/19 05:25 PM
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I've been doing seduction bootcamps for a while and seeing good results. Biggest advice I can give is be friendly to everyone all the time. Just be that social dude. Talk to grocery store checkers, your uber driver, the bar tender, neighbor, everyone. Find out how they are doing, joke around with them. If you are always in that mode, it's so much easier to talk to a girl. You also end up getting free shit all the time.
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:11 PM
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I just pulled my second number from my gym, both very good looking, 2nd one, smoking hot. Just one date so far with the second one but she was qualify herself the whole time. This is a longer term strategy. Be friendly to everyone, especially welcome new people, tell them what you love about the gym, you've been there 6 years, you must be passionate about it. Let that ooze out. Do this with women, men, couples, instructors, staff, everyone. Become the guy everyone knows. If you workout in teams,…
/r/seduction10/05/19 01:49 PM
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PM me, I know one.
/r/seduction10/05/19 01:35 PM
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What's your shrink say about that
/r/seduction08/04/19 07:46 PM
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I'd say overall this is an embedded female strategy. It's not that some do it. All or most women do it.
/r/seduction23/02/19 05:50 PM
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Dude, you sound like a really shitty coach and person in general. If this is your idea of marketing, you suck at it. If it's also your approach to coaching you also suck at it.
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:03 PM
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After having attended many, dont expect much, women that have trouble meeting men are generally subpar, so expect old, fat and unattractive in general. 2. They will likely try interview style questions to suss out your status. Tease and fuck with them, dont answer directly.
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:51 PM
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First of all dude, you're very young and have a long life ahead. I'll be 50 next month, have always been ok, but now trying to become really good. Your fashion being on point is great. That will help a lot. Next, I'd focus on getting in the gym. I discovered the value of weight lifting a year and a half ago, then HIIT last year. Girls will start to notice. You'll also gain a lot of confidence, stand up straighter and have better body language. You'll also feel better and when you get my age you …
/r/seduction14/02/19 01:20 PM
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1st off, good for you for taking on the challenge of making a lot of improvements. What city are you in? I ask as most cities have a lot of not for profit organizations you can volunteer for. Early in my career I got involved in many, met people who have become lifelong friends, male and female. Learned new skills, even ended up in leadership roles, since this is anonymous, one of the friendships I built in a leadership role is likely to make me a multimillionaire next year (realistically I'm al…
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:35 PM
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I'm in a high rise 24 hour concierge secure building with valet parking, so I like to come back to my place. Clearly I'm not likely to harm someone the concierge swa enter and the cameras picked up. Plus, shes not getting past the lobby without me saying it's ok.
/r/seduction09/12/18 09:38 PM
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The main thing you need to do is approach and realize nothing bad happens. The more you do it, the easier it gets. But, you will always be a bit nervous. I've been doing bootcamps frequently and I still get nervous, over time it just becomes more natural. Force yourself to do it, you'll most likely get a positive result. Won"t necessarily be a number or a date but will likely be a nice conversation.
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:43 PM
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Me too, lets go find some.
/r/seduction25/11/18 02:59 PM
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No one else seems to be addressing this directly, but women are not primarily interested in men due to looks. They will flirt with a guy that is really good looking, super fit, buff, etc, however, as someone estimated, that's like the top 5%. Often this will be pretty subtle too. Women are far more afraid of being rejected than you imagine, in fact some with preemptively reject as they think you will. So what are women attracted to? Here are a few of the most important things. Dominance Confiden…
/r/seduction25/11/18 01:17 PM
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No this is not what is being said. What is being said is that once you have more than one interested it becomes much easier to attract other girls.
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:50 PM
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Sitting on the opposite side of the table is for playing chess or negotiating contracts. I literally had one date where we sat across from each other, it was a venu issue. I told her she should sit next to me. She very excitedly said ok and practically jump out of her seat and moved next to me. Touching her starts oxytocin flowing, she can feel the warmth of your body and assuming you are larger than her, she can feel your strength. It all starts getting her turned on. Plus the escalation path i…
/r/seduction30/09/18 07:52 PM
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Touch him a lot, arms, hands, thighs. I had a chick from the gym slap my ass last week during the run part of our workout. That was pretty solid confirmation. That's a bit aggressive but if wears a nice shirt, rub it and his chest and say wow, you've got nice muscles. Or grab his hands and say wow you have, nice/big/strong, whatever compliment is comfortable.
/r/seduction30/09/18 03:03 AM
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Get Corey Wayne, 3% man. Stop texting constantly, back off to one date per week, max. The formula he will say constantly is hang out, have fun, hook up. Each date should end in sex, then leave her alone, wait a week or so, let her text you and then set up a date. I have one on the line that I was doing just that. Then I was traveling for a while, had one week between trips, tried to fit her in that week, she got spooked and pushed away. I left her alone for several months and like clockwork, she…
/r/seduction13/07/18 08:16 PM
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If you are willing to invest some money, Google Matt artisan boot camps. I did one, learned a ton, met some dudes that are really good, built some base level skills to improve on. Totally worth it. Don't work for them, just a regular guy.
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:01 AM
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Literally start being friendly and talking to everyone, everywhere, all the time. Not just women, young and old, male and female. The more you just tap to people, the wiser it is to just start talking to anyone, even a pretty girl!
/r/seduction30/06/18 04:16 AM
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Nice on two levels dude. Level one, 49 here, I can see my obliques finally, the first part of the belt, want to see abs by the end of summer, first for me. I do not feel 49! Some days I do 4 workouts, lift, lagree pilates, long bike ride (outdoor) and circuit training or a hiit run. It's working. Second level, that Dylan Thomas poem is the best poem ever! Having a lot of luck with early 30 year olds myself!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 12:25 PM
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Women's boldness is actually quite amazing. I dress very well, am very friendly, talk to everyone, went to an event last night, at least four different times had a small crowd just listening to me. Anyway, in one of these moments a woman came up, at least 20 years older, horrible shape, said something, I didn't hear it, found an excuse to leave. Later she finds me, comes up, says nothing, just hands me a business card and walks away. This is literally like lottery odds. I had a gorgeous 21 year …
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:16 AM
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Um, men don't shit test like ever, we're either interested or not. Most likely something you said something that later on appeared to him to be a red flag, or, he decided that you weren't as good looking as he thought you were.
/r/seduction25/06/18 04:42 PM
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Pick one single new thing to learn and focus all your extra energy on it. Want to learn to play an instrument or get in better shape. Do that and just work at it. Competence brings confidence!
/r/seduction23/06/18 01:27 PM
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Dude, stop thinking of yourself as pathetic. You're just learning. It took me until like 22 to have sex, 5 years later I could get that same girl to 15 orgasms. A lot happened in between of course, but being late to the game doesn't mean you won't be in the major leagues.
/r/seduction23/06/18 01:11 PM
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And where exactly did they each tell him that he's the only man they are banging? Ethical dating requires honesty, not full disclosure.
/r/seduction23/06/18 12:34 PM
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Good for you, especially on recognizing their inability to consent. I had to respond as, I had the same night, adorable blond chick with her hands all over me, 20+ years younger, first time I've kissed a woman I just met in a bar. She insisted I take her number and text her on the spot. Probably won't see her again, but, learned a bit!
/r/seduction23/06/18 12:06 PM
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Wow dude, so many mistakes. Big ones: Don't take a gift to someone you've never met, like ever Don't ask a woman what she wants to do, ever. Have a plan already. Figure out the eye contact. Without good eye contact nothing else is going to happen.
/r/seduction21/06/18 06:19 PM
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Feminazi liberal, they hate men (even the men hate men). Hold a door and see what kind of reaction you get! Ratios are messed up from a heavy tech economy. Be very careful if you move out. I've had many friends move to Seattle and then comment on how odd it is. I moved away and so much happier! This article is amazing. https://www.seattletimes.com/pacific-nw-magazine/our-social-dis-ease-beyond-the-smiles-the-seattle-freeze-is-on/ Btw, Seattle native here, I love the outdoor things available, hik…
/r/seduction19/06/18 10:33 PM
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Nice on the Seattle comment, yes, it is a wasteland!
/r/seduction19/06/18 05:47 PM
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Just wanted to follow up and see if you had your date yet?
/r/seduction17/06/18 02:38 PM
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I'd second 3% man, what he teaches can be applied to meeting women, to managing them to a relationship and once in a relationship.
/r/seduction15/06/18 05:27 AM
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No worries I sucked once, got super lucky with a girlfriend that was a virgin but 1. Very curious, 2. Non judgmental and 3. Lacked a lot of annoying female behaviours. 4. Was very communicative about what she liked oh and 5. Made a joke of the word multi-orgasmic. Top end was 15 and shed start not making sense so i'd stop. So kissing. I say yes, unless she acts weird. If you can coordinate it, keep in mind a womans neck, ears, shoulders, all super sensitive. So kissing can move around. Suck her …
/r/seduction13/06/18 11:39 PM
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Dude, that's a wicked way to describe it!
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:16 PM
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Well assuming you last a while, and you may, my endurance varies a lot by woman. My first time, no exaggeration was an hour and with that girl I was always able to do that. Others I've had trouble lasting 5 minutes without a lot of focus. Definitely start in missionary. An easy move from there is to put her legs over your shoulders. So after a while, just grab behind her thighs and pull her legs around you. You might hit her gspot in that position, so she'll like it. From there you can actually …
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:19 PM
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That's hard to answer, it will vary by woman. Think of it as she'll be in various states of undress at various times. The less you rush it, feel like you're in a hurry, the less she's likely to stop you. Also, don't assume you are going to get laid and be ok with that. She may shut you down. I had one recently that took 8 dates and she stopped me at every stage. So, 4th date at my place (she just got out of a long relationship, engaged and broke it off, so, it took a while to move her forward). …
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:36 PM
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Nice handle!
/r/seduction13/06/18 12:23 PM
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Lot of questions here. 1. Somewhere in between. Get a shaver that lets you adjust the level. You definitely don't want to shave it all off, that's too feminine. My tip would be to start by removing a little and see if it looks ok, then remove a little more if you want. 2. You can find some kissing videos on YouTube to help out. You can also make a set of lips with your hand and start practicing. 3. Foreplay depends on what you consider foreplay. Don't think of it as foreplay ending and suddenly …
/r/seduction13/06/18 02:53 AM
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Dude, college is temporary, it'll probably get messed up, won't be end of the world, have fun, be respectful, be a man and don't worry about it. If you mess something up it'll be embarrassing for like 2 weeks, funny for about a year and then forgotten! Years later you'll laugh about it, maybe with the chick it happened with. It really doesn't matter. Fyi, the girls want sex as much as you do, but they can't be forward about it.
/r/seduction08/06/18 01:13 AM
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You might want to find an FWB or girlfriend for a while. I was pretty nervous when I was young. I ended up with an RWB, ie, a live in FWB. Which meant sex up to 3 times a day and she'd initiate a lot. My comfort level and my skills skyrocketed.
/r/seduction07/06/18 10:19 PM
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Board game or poker? Poker could turn into strip poker.
/r/seduction02/06/18 11:22 PM
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No problem. Women that are comfortable with their sexuality are so amazing. Stay that way!
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:39 PM
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The key here is not to compliment to get something, compliment merely because you observed something and want to. Also far more effective to compliment on something the person has actually cultivated and not looks which they have no control over.
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:20 PM
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Ha, your handle is awesome!
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:15 PM
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Nice. Try fried chicken. Sous vide until done. Remove, add coating, fry until coating is done, best fried chicken ever! The cooking date works on so many levels. It's bold, you display a talent without showing off. SAying I'm a great cook is bragging. Making a good meal never comes off as bragging. She can brag about you later. Theres no awkward end of date, do you want to come home with me. She can check your place out and get comfortable before you make a move. (Btw, if you dont already, make …
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:08 PM
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Great going. Any resistance to this being the second date? It's my go to for the third, not making pasta but I cook for them. I've tried on the second date but seems like I get resistance. And same here, usually results in sex or a lot of physical activity but sex delayed to the next date. Btw, look into sous vide as a cooking style. Makes great food but also impossible to overcook. So, if/when you get distracted it doesn't matter, dinner still comes out good.
/r/seduction01/06/18 05:31 PM
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You should hit the gym merely because you'll be a healthier happier person that lives longer!
/r/seduction30/05/18 06:41 PM
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The ebook has l links to the videos. He has a lot of good content. You can just start listening to videos and pick a lot up.
/r/seduction30/05/18 06:02 PM
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More dirt, lol!
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:40 PM
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Cory Wayne's stuff is great as far as behavior. I've got two that are perfectly following the pattern of let them contact you, then, make a date. I've tried chasing one a bit, was going to be traveling, had a small window when I was home, was wanting to get laid of course, I tried to fit her in my window and she ran away. I left her alone a while and she contacted me, I set a date and things were back on. The other one, I backed off for a while, gave her a couple of months to think about me, the…
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:41 PM
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First of all, this is a marathon, not a sprint, so, pick something and work on it until it becomes natural. Eye contact is huge. Good solid eye contact is probably the single most impactful trait you can develop to be more attractive. You can also practice it on everyone, not just girls you are attracted to. Google it and start practicing. Especially look for when you catch a girls eye and she gives you good eye contact. Maintain it even if she is moving, turn your head if you have to. They will…
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:05 PM
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While this is true, I'm not sure it's impossible. FYI, yes, I posted below but I have a story. I spent 20 years in Seattle and had very poor luck with women, i.e. not really dating, occasionally you'd get lucky and latch onto a single chick and hold on for dear life. I moved, things improved, I'm traveling in for work. Two weeks ago, I went to a pilates class. Instructor was smoking hot. We had a pretty good conversation, but, it seems too cliche to try to pick up the instructor. We connect on L…
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:37 PM
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Seattle people are anti-social and asexual, all of the men are trying to be as effeminate as possible and all of the women are trying to be masculine and everyone is confused. I moved away and am so much happier!
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:23 PM
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Ok, no worries man. I've come to hate words like slut, etc. as, if women didn't have to deal with sex shaming, all of our lives (men and women) would be way easier and a hell of a lot more fun!
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:16 PM
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Btw, saw your post on always wear suits. Good call, me too. Couple tips. Check Nordstroms Rack and in particular, Saks Off 5th Ave. I just picked up a Versace, originally $1400 for $400, and a Canali originally $2200 for $600. At Off 5th Ave, find the clearance rack. I've passed up Armanis and other great brands. Once you've worn quality Italian, its hard to go back. Throw some color into it. I do pocket squares which let you spice it up for cheap. People notice.
/r/seduction29/05/18 08:50 PM
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The great thing in your post is, if you dissect 1, there are 4 items there. 3 are completely within your control. Get fit, be impeccably clean, whiten your teeth, get braces if they are crooked. If your face is crooked or you have big ears or a big nose, can't do much about it, but a lot of things are in your control!
/r/seduction29/05/18 08:32 PM
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Dude, no need to call them bitches. They're people too, they like sex, they like men. It's ok to be respectful. Also, the ones that take care of themselves are great in their 30s. Plus they are more interesting and can do more than lie there.
/r/seduction29/05/18 08:25 PM
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This is one of the epiphanies you experience at some point and keep seeing repeated. My first: conversation with a 10, MBA, smart, amazing woman. Described the women of her city as cunty. She agreed they were cunty, yes, said the work. Connected on linked in and sent me her phone number. She was probably 29. My pilates instructor. 33 super hot, pilates does a body good. Met her for drinks last Monday, first kiss on 90 minutes. This weekend, 3 member bachelorette party (hot, late 20s) boards the …
/r/seduction29/05/18 06:19 PM
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Hope his helps, I'm 49, working my ass off to be younger, i.e. Fit, well dressed, fun, stress free, etc. I have 2 women in their early 30s that I've been sleeping with, met one at a Meetup event, met one on bumble. I also went out on Monday with a fitness instructor from a class I took, she's 33 and a fitness instructor, so wicked hot body and cute. Hoping to convert her on date two or three. So 1-get yourself in as good of shape as you can (this is a process, not a destination, keep working out…
/r/seduction28/05/18 04:04 AM
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Hey man, life is just beginning and you are just starting to get interesting! You can easily dip down into the early 20s girls or up a few years. I'm really thinking in sales terms, trying to meet women everywhere and load them into a pipeline, using apps, going to meet ups, chatting them up at the gym and everywhere else. A lot won't make it through the pipeline, but that's not the point. Work on the skills, have fun, try to make their lives better, that's working for me so far!
/r/seduction23/05/18 05:31 AM
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Hey dude, there's an endless supply of girls, they have the same body parts, many have really great personalities and would love to meet you. Don't kick yourself for mistakes, recognize when you get it right! I spent 48 years fucking it up and now one year working on doing it right!
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:41 AM
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Dude, I'm 49 and dating women in their early 30s (32 & 33) and they really don't care much about age. They probably won't even notice. If they do, they are probably shit testing you, either be comfortable and own it, or exaggerate and tease them. Either way, it's not a problem!
/r/seduction22/05/18 10:45 PM
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I wouldn't really call this LMR, which is really after something has happened, i.e., making out, get the top off, but she stops you at the pants, stops you at removing panties, etc. Start some physical escalation way earlier.
/r/seduction17/05/18 11:58 PM
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It's not a matter of sugar coating, it's a matter of adding value. Either add value or don't junk up the world with your shitty attempts at cynicism.
/r/seduction17/05/18 05:58 PM
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This might be the most useless post in the history of reddit
/r/seduction16/05/18 01:49 AM
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Depends on what she looks like. I recently had an older woman try to pick me up in the airport . I look great for my age, she could best be described as haggard, so it was uncomfortable having to invent a girlfriend to keep her at bay. If you are cute, go for it.
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:13 PM
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A different city!
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:03 PM
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Say "ya, you aren't really my type anyway, I just wanted to hang out" and leave it at that.
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:01 PM
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You need to step back a level, target people at work, store clerks, waitresses, any one you encounter doing their jobs, just talk to them, be friendly, give a compliment about something they are wearing and see if you can do that less awkwardly.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:59 PM
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Its huge on a date too, keep really strong eye contact and then escalate touch.
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:43 PM
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Dude, you are in college swimming in hot ass. Trust me, once you leave college, you have a job, many of the women go downhill fast, many get married and just meeting people in general becomes harder.
/r/seduction03/05/18 08:20 PM
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Who the fuck are you replying to?!
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:40 PM
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Did you set a time? If not, I'd say "hey, I've got to do X tomorrow, (go to the gym, whatever works), does 8:00 PM work?" In this case, you are assuming she's coming and showing confidence, just solidifying the time she will show up.
/r/seduction19/04/18 08:10 PM
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Glad it's not just me. For context, I'm threading a needle here. Consultant working at a client, ie, don't shit where you eat. I stop shitting here tomorrow, and she freely gave me her number when I mentioned hanging out after I finish.
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:49 PM
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Ya, these seem like shit answers. I say move on and find the women in the location that are more likely to be interested.
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:06 PM
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First man, unfortunately you'll have to go her speed. I'm usually a 3 date guy as the third date I try to make dinner at my place and that makes it pretty easy. Recent one though, took about 8 dates and 6 months, holidays interfered as she manages a retail store. Took to date 3 to hold hands, date 4 was at my place finally, got make out session. Date 5 got boob but shut down trying to get under the shirt. Date 6 got topless grinding on my lap but shut down at the pants button. Date 7 after the h…
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:03 PM
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As a pilot, I can tell you that it has that effect. He missed one great opportunity though, giving her the controls for a minute. I've taken a date on a flight before and let her fly for a while and the smile on her face was huge even though, she wasn't really doing anything.
/r/seduction27/03/18 02:42 PM
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If it helps man, a lot of women, even those with lots of experience a seeming confidence are not so confident once naked. I had one girlfriend that admitted to having around 100 partners, I was no where near as experienced. And there was a lot of stuff she just wasn't used to, practiced at, for instance, with 100 men, no one had found her gspot. I did 😁. Main point, they may be older and "experienced", but their experiences might have sucked and their skills are poor. So, don't freak out about i…
/r/seduction26/03/18 09:57 PM
1

Should be like a platinum rule!
/r/seduction26/03/18 09:43 PM
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I would text the next day and tell her you had a good time, enjoyed her company, whatever, so she feels respected. But would not bring up seeing her again. Wait a week and see if she reaches out. If not text again and say something reminded you of how much fun you had. Go read some Corey Wayne or watch some YouTube videos, he's great about advising how not to chase women away by being too clingy.
/r/seduction26/03/18 09:41 PM
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Totally agreed, but they'll get that in person. Too much texting comes off as being feminine and it's too easy for something to get misconstrued.
/r/seduction24/03/18 08:06 PM
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Nice going, you got lucky though, generally texting a lot is going to get you friend zoned or ghosted faster than anything else. They like to be curious about you, if you fill that curiosity up, there's nothing to learn.
/r/seduction24/03/18 04:50 PM
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The big issue is Attractive and Good Looking, totally not the same thing. For a man they are. For a women, yes, Brad Pitt is good looking, perfect symmetry, strong muscular body, etc. for women, good looking is part of it, but attitude, confidence, masculinity, humor, intelligence, emotional strength, style, social skills, whole lot of other shit add and subtract. It's way more complicated. One of the great things, just fucking being bold enough to think you are a good catch for her might be eno…
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:57 PM
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Was there a point to this?
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:06 PM
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Dating or sleeping with a woman is no guarantee to them of an exclusive relationship. Keep having fun and testing both of them for more long term. Eventually they (one or both) will want to have the talk. Go read Corey Wayne's 3% Man or watch some of his YouTube videos. He advocates leaving the relationship conversation up to the woman. Until then, obviously don't lie, lead them to believe anything, in fact, appear to be busy, don't give either more than a night a week. Keep in mind, girls can d…
/r/seduction19/03/18 08:55 PM
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He's an idiot, women wouldn't think twice of starting with two women.
/r/seduction19/03/18 08:49 PM
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Dude, you need to toss the out of my league thing out of your vocabulary. It's a figment of you imagination. They (women), literally operate on different rules. Let her reject you if she wants, don't reject yourself!
/r/seduction19/03/18 08:46 PM
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What part of Texas are you in and where do you find it best to meet women? I'm not a club guy. Having some luck with meet up and aps but looking for good locations to supplement.
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:21 AM
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Part of this problem though is that good looking and attractive are different things. You get older, dress better, stand more confidently, looks didn't change but you're more attractive.
/r/seduction17/03/18 11:26 AM
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You can still make out, get her shirt off maybe get a bj at a minimum, also, when I say make out, a woman has a lot of erogenous zones, neck, ears, nipples, shoulders, even without sex, you gives those a good workout and make her feel pleasure, she'll be back2. It's hard for the first time, but sex during a period is no big deal, Houst make her comfortable
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:14 PM
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What's with all the down votes, this is good info if a bit harsh. I wouldn't agree with no Friday's or Saturday's though. 100% agree 100% agree, in fact I'd look for a reason to disagree to show your backbone I agree here in terms of don't take her to impress her, but take her to where you want to eat, I.e., I'm going to take you to my favorite place Don't really agree here, early on might be better to do a weekday, sends the message you're busy, but I'd see when she was available and if weekend…
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:01 PM
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Dude, be bold! If you are a good cook, suggest a dinner at your place. If she's uncomfortable but attracted, she will suggest meeting in public. I tried this on a third date, she said she'd rather meet in public and I was fine with that (she's moved slow), date 4 and every date after has been dinner at my place. One tip though, you asked her for suggestions, don't do that. It sends a beta vibe. Either tell her what you are going to do, or tell her it will be a surprise (They love surprises), and…
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:56 PM
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This is a great post. Turning 49 in a week, last week was a first for me, 2 different girls within 48 hours, one I've been sleeping with for a while, 2nd finally converted, both are 15 years younger with great bodies. Trying to meet up with a 3rd that is 27 and ready to go. I just started this journey about 6 months ago, but at least some of them don't appear to care about age. The do care that you are dominant and masculine. As the others have said, dress well, get in shape, lift, ignore age an…
/r/seduction09/03/18 03:46 PM
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Not at all about money. Do yourself a huge favor, just throw that idea out and move forward, it'll change your life.
/r/seduction09/03/18 03:41 PM
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There are just as many lesbian women in SF as gay men, this doesn't help.
/r/seduction09/03/18 12:25 PM
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Dude, you feel sorry for the women? Ya, cause choice sucks, no one wants that!
/r/seduction09/03/18 12:20 PM
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How to be a 3% man
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:50 PM
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Sure man, if it helps someone else! For context, this girl just got out of a serious relationship, she's shy and she's lost weight and gotten in great shape, so, I think she didn't get a lot of attention before. She's been a bit slow to move along, but I enjoy her company, so, I've stayed with it. Date 4 was at my place (usually I have them there by date 3 at least), involved some making out. Date 5, making out, hands on the boobs, but tried to go under the shirt and got shut down, backed up, to…
/r/seduction07/03/18 03:52 PM
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Well, 1-keep in mind, if she's going over to your place, she probably already knows sex might (or will) happen. Just don't get weird about it or reference it. And don't apologize for no couch, just say, we can sit over here and watch. You might even make a joke and say, we can just sit on the bed if you think you can keep your hands off me. The reality is, I've never gotten through a whole movie with a girl that came home with me. Even though you make an excuse for them to come over, (my standar…
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:00 PM
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Do yourself a favor, get away from calling yourself a pussy. Society has taught us things that aren't true, Corey talks about a lot of that. You're in the process of correcting deeply ingrained behaviors, and you're man enough to try, that's huge. If this girl is shy, you may have to initiate more, just don't get into text conversations. Tell her your busy or whatever. Just text to say hey, was just thinking about you, let's get together, when are you free. She'll probably give you a few days. P…
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:11 AM
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That's a good one too. I'm using his stuff. Every time I go to text a chick, I read a bit, back off and she messages me. Do like he says, read that book 10 or 15 times. The two I'm seeing, I don't contact them. When they reach out for some asinine reason, an excuse to text me. I ask when they are available. Suggest dinner at my place which I make. They drive down, hand their keys to my concierge and come up. We hang out, have dinner, drink wine, make out, end up naked, they go home and text me, …
/r/seduction07/03/18 04:45 AM
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Dude, they all make us nervous, but the more you interact, the better it gets. It's just like anything else you had to learn. If it helps, I'm 48 and just starting taking initiative a year ago to make improvements. It's not that I haven't gotten women throughout my life, but they are the ones that landed in my lap. After 6 months of experimentijng and learning, I'm sleeping with 2 women that are 15 years younger, great looking, hot boddies and really like me and I'm meeting with another next wee…
/r/seduction07/03/18 04:24 AM
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What do you have to lose?
/r/seduction07/03/18 04:08 AM
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This might explain, she liked you, ghosted you to see if you are as strong as she thought, ie, all the betas chasing her would blow up her phone. You didn't, good job. I had something similar. About 8 dates with a chick, couldn't get beyond topless make out sessions. I stopped texting for about 2 months, figured it wasn't worth it. Reached out after 2 months to let her know I hadn't ghosted her but had walked away since she seemed disinterested. Was not planning on seeing her again. She suggeste…
/r/seduction07/03/18 02:22 AM
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If you don't show interest immediately, likely to get friendzoned.
/r/seduction06/03/18 06:23 PM
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One thing that might help is, understand that there's a difference between good looking and attractive. Women are looking for attractive men. You don't have to be good looking to be attractive. Now your goal is to start figuring out how to be attractive, too much to get into here, but this site has a lot of good info.
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:07 PM
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Ok man, well lets turn you into a sex god then. FYI, the first part you seem to have nailed, the attract and convert. That's great, that's where most of us struggle. Now you just need to learn how to give a woman a great time, this is a learn-able skill and the upside is, the practice is really fun and 2 its a skill that will keep a girlfriend or wife happy long term if that's where you want to go. The most important thing to think about I think, is to think of yourself as an explorer. Every wom…
/r/seduction05/03/18 03:54 PM
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Ok, well 1. Work on that, 2. You chasing them will not fix that issue. What makes you mediocre at sex?
/r/seduction05/03/18 03:15 AM
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Try this. Text them the next morning, tell them you had a great time. Don't get in a whole texting exchange, just do that one text unless they actually ask a question that needs an answer. Then, don't text again. It might take a week or two and they'll probably text you back. When they do, suggest getting together. Go check some of Corey Wayne's stuff, he's got a book (How to be a 3% Man) and some youtube videos. I'm following his approach to the T. BTW, I'm new to this stuff, started making cha…
/r/seduction05/03/18 01:56 AM
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Have you talked to your wife about this? Seems like she's into it as much as you and should be helping with the escalation, you guys should be a team!
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:39 PM
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Don't bring it up, just do it. Don't go straight in though. Better off going from lips to neck to boobs and working your way down the stomach and getting there when you get there.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:18 PM
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Just wanted to add, think of it as the long game. I just closed a great example last night. Met a chick at a Meetup group, was the first one I really started trying this stuff on. I'm practicing and she's shy, so, it took 3 dates to get her into my condo. Date 4, I got over the shirt boob action but she shut me down trying to get under. I backed out, told her it was ok, didn't make a big deal out of it and kept making out. Date 5 I got her topless and grinding on my lap but couldn't get past the…
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:03 PM
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Do it man. Don't think about getting laid or numbers. Just do it to find out about people, see how they're doing. Even easier, target employees, like yhe waiter, waitress. Or the cleaning, everyone treats them like their expendable. Give people compliments too, like cool shoes or nice jacket. You'll find when you make people a little happy, it does the same for you. Kind of cool.
/r/seduction02/03/18 02:28 PM
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Seriously, start talking to everyone, male or female. It helps a lot. I inserted myself into a conversation at a table next to me at a restaurant with two women, two men, women were both taken and they were British. Had a lively discussion about guns, I'm adamantly pro 2nd amendment and they were obviously anti gun. At the end all shook my hand and one of the girls came over the table to kiss me on the cheek. Just insert yourself into lots of conversations. As you see you'll be better received, …
/r/seduction01/03/18 03:40 PM
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You can be flirtatious, fun and interesting with both simultaneously. If you approach and find both attractive just tease and flirt with both. It's likely one will seem more interested in you. Go for that one, assuming there's something about her you like.
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:45 PM
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That's great, they'll have a place to put used gum. Seriously dude, unless you are model attractive, very few will follow through. It sucks, but we are the ones that have to face rejection, there's no way around it.
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:48 PM
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One trick is when you get close to the point of no return, literally stop, pull out if you have to and rest a bit. When it passes, start again. It's like edging, but using her. If she seems disappointed, switch positions or switch to oral. I find after doing this 3 or 4 times, I can go for a long time.
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:08 AM
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First, don't just approach to get laid or a number. Be friendly to everyone, find out about them, try to be the most friendly person around and then watch for interest. You're probably psyching yourself out by thinking you can only approach girls you're attracted to. Practice for the sake of practice is good.
/r/seduction23/02/18 02:30 PM
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Definitely no flowers. If you like wine bring wine, make sure she knows you brought the wine because you like it and want to share part of your world. Don't bring the wine to impress her. Have the mindset that you are good enough. If you bring something like wine, make it about both of your enjoyment, not about convincing her to sleep with you. And go slow. Enjoy kissing her. Suck on her ears (really sensitive) and neck. Listen to the sounds she makes, if she makes more noise and squirms, keep d…
/r/seduction23/02/18 01:06 AM
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Step 1, you need to get over the poor perception of yourself. What's the issue here? Describe a bit about yourself, maybe we can offer a path forward. Big thing to remember, you sound young, you have time to change, just need to start taking constant small steps forward.
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:56 AM
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Agreed. I honestly don't even recall having that conversation with my LT girlfriends. After a while it became obvious, we just spent more and more time together to the point where it was obvious that we didn't have the free time for other people. I say let it be until she brings it up. I think I'd know what I want already so the convo isn't a surprise and don't tell her you want what she does to placate her.
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:48 PM
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Hm, if you've got the balls for it and good income, suggest you go somewhere cool for the weekend. It's a risky move. I'd say on average, date 3 is the sex date for me, but if date 1 went really well, I might try the, let's go somewhere. Could also do a Saturday or Sunday full day trip.
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:36 PM
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Do yourself a favor and get the giant hoes wanting dick thing out of your head. Sex feels good, men and women are both biologically wired to enjoy it. Their wanting good sex doesn't make them hoes, but societies view that women wanting sex makes them hoes just makes it much harder for both genders to get what they want.
/r/seduction21/02/18 12:47 AM
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Think of it this way. It's a form of rebellion and independence. Women are attracted to men who don't care what others think. It shows strength of character. Doesn't mean a lot will, but some will.
/r/seduction18/02/18 09:37 PM
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Explain grunge to me.
/r/seduction16/02/18 09:38 PM
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1 tip to keep in mind, don't stay on too long. Your goal should be to make them feel like you aren't crazy and might be interesting and then move them to a in person meeting. If you tell a joke and you get an lol or smile or anything back, say, you seem really sweet and your super cute, let's grab a drink/coffee, what night are you free. When they respond, suggest a time and place. Once they agree, I say, here's my number, if you want to send me your number, we can switch to text, or we can stay…
/r/seduction16/02/18 06:34 PM
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Good start, make it a habit and don't expect quick gains, just be consistent and stay with it. I started 8 months ago, saw some gains after 3 or 4 months. I just benched 190 this week, when I had trouble with 150 this summer. I'm not cut but my chest and arms look totally different. The best event ever was scooping a cute naked girl off my couch and carrying her to my bedroom, without hurting my back 😁. Main point, think long term, make a regular habit, find a program and be patient. Gains will …
/r/seduction16/02/18 05:43 PM
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Dude you need to step confusing attractive and good looking. When looking at women, these are the same thing. For women looking at men they are definitely not. As a man, you can be visually unappealing and still very attractive. Don't ask why and just enjoy it!
/r/seduction16/02/18 05:25 PM
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Good going man, don't worry about outcome. You just did what 99% of men are unwilling or unable to do. Just keep practicing. I like that you approached the girl you weren't interested in. 1. Even if you arent attracted, you can make a connection with someone and make them feel good and 2. It's good practice. It'll become easier the more you do it. I follow the policy of cute enough. I don't really believe in a 1 to 10 scale, the question is, if I get her home, can I get aroused. I had a roommate…
/r/seduction16/02/18 04:46 PM
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That rocks. We should start a dating younger women thread to gather some stories/pointers, etc.
/r/seduction14/02/18 07:15 PM
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Ya, is say I don't limit it, the big issue is whether they stay fit, have a good attitude and have a decent sex drive, which I have. Then they can be great. The younger ones all look good with no effort. The key is to find the ones that are mature. You find a late 20s/early 30s girl who's really mature and 1-shes bored of the guys her age and 2-she both appreciates your depth and you can have a great conversation.
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:54 PM
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If a date goes well, you won't talk much, get used to it. If she's talking 70 to 80% of the time, that's a good thing. Listen, comment on what she says and physically escalate. Throw an occasionaal joke in to make her laugh and you're golden.
/r/seduction14/02/18 12:14 PM
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Don't talk about anything. Exchange 2 or 3 messages and suggest you get together. You don't build attraction through messaging, you do it in person. Meet for a drink or coffee, give strong eye contact, let her do 70% of the talking and physically escalate, try to kiss by the end. If all goes well, suggest dinner and move locations. If she's receptive, create an excuse to take her home. You may not sleep with her, but goal should be to create trust and comfort and progress as far as you can.
/r/seduction14/02/18 12:07 PM
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Hey man, don't focus too much on the age. I did for way too long. I'm 48 now dating early 30 year olds. Women don't care as much about age as we do. If you find a girl attractive and she's mature enough, and legal of course, just go for it. Don't even ask her age and she probably won't ask yours and it won't matter.
/r/seduction14/02/18 11:44 AM
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Well first of all, you should get the number on the date if not before. The tinder ap is the safety shield until you build trust, then get off it! 2nd, she might just be leary of men, so don't rush her, build trust that you aren't crazy. Suggest another date through tinder. Physically escalate on the date and get a number. If she won't let you touch her or give a number, move on, lots of women, your goal is to find the ones that are receptive.
/r/seduction13/02/18 01:58 PM
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Yep, been on 10 or so. Focus on staff, they aren't strictly restricted from interacting.
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:48 PM
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Dress really well, like over dress. Talk to everyone, just be friendly. Look for people that might be on the periphery by themselves and focus on making them feel included. If someone says something say your friends are supposed to meet you there later and leave it at that.
/r/seduction11/02/18 06:51 PM
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Trust me, you aren't going to attract her with what you say anyway. You attract her with your presence. If she's talking 80% that's good. I'm one of the most interesting people you'll ever meet and they hardly ask me anything. I screwed this up for a long time, ask insightful questions, pay attention to what they say, physically escalate, she'll eventually want to know about you, or move on.
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:46 PM
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Um, a 3 shouldn't be called a babe or hot, I doknt think the hb scale goes below 7.
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:41 PM
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Dude, this is an awesome post. I'm 48, have been dating in the early 30s and seeing little resistance. I'm in great shape, don't look like I'm pushing 50, so, it doesn't really seem to be an issue. I have not tried dipping into the 20s that much. Where are you actually meeting the girls? I'm not much of a club guy, so, it's been meetup groups, classes and some apps. I've missed a few situations early in the journey as I had a mindset that a woman in her 20s or 30s wouldn't be interested. Was a f…
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:49 PM
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Sit next to them, not across from them. You may want to scope out a coffee place first and make sure you can pull off sitting next to them without it feeling unnatural. Once sitting next to them, try to have your legs or sides touch. 2-keep strong eye contact. Don't stare but show you are comfortable looking into her eyes for longer than normal. 3-touch them. On the fore arm to make a point. Or on the arm, shoulder or leg. It's good to start closer to the knee in the safe zone. The whole time, p…
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:34 AM
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Dude, this is the long game! Remind me to have you on my side, and fuck Susan, whatever her real name is, we've all worked with a Susan before!
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:29 PM
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Trust her with what? Don't let her drive your car. If you are having kids and want her to be around so they're raised properly, then bet the shit out of her. Otherwise, protect your assets, enjoy it while shes in your life and when she's not, find a younger one.
/r/seduction03/02/18 06:18 AM
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Keep in mind, girls who are shy may have bad body language then open up once you show interest.
/r/seduction01/02/18 12:40 AM
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Yes, but prepare for the fact this never happens unless it's a scam, ie person has a sob story and wants money. We don't have as much fear of physical harm, like a woman would, but, likely would get over it fast.
/r/seduction01/02/18 12:37 AM
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Get over the slutty thing. Women are far meaner to each other than men are to women about that.
/r/seduction31/01/18 03:35 PM
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Great. Don't get too obsessed tho. Make it fun. Btw, if you've never found a gspot, do some research and tell her you want to look. If she knows where hers is, she can help. If she doesnt, awesome, shes in for an experience! Focus on what makes her feel amazing.
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:23 PM
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If you're trying to get into a relationship with her, I'd worry about her not texting. If its just sex, who cares, enjoy it. BTW, I had one of these and it was awesome. I treated it as training sessions, i.e. try new things, try to delay, figure out what worked, what didn't. For instance, with my FWB, I could push her to 15 orgasms in one session after a lot of practice. The great part was we weren't trying to impress each other like you might in a relationship, so, I could get feedback on what …
/r/seduction30/01/18 03:02 PM
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This is a great skill for a lot of things. My suspicion though is, you're talking too much. If you can pull of the transition, great, but then try to get her talking. Women literally don't care what you say, they just want to talk. So get them talking.
/r/seduction30/01/18 03:51 AM
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Well 1, thanks for the rant, some interesting stuff in here. Men and women should be more willing to help each other out. 2, nice photo, yes, I'd agree, you're very attractive. Sounds like you are delineating being hit on as someone just making a comment that implies they want to bone you (sorry, the term just popped into my head :-)), from being approached, in which case, the guy is obviously physically attracted, but, looking to see if there's anything else there? Is that accurate? BTW, I neve…
/r/seduction29/01/18 09:14 PM
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Buddhabee, it's great to see women's feedback on here. I think most of us assume you are swarmed constantly by men. How often would you say you are approached by a man and how attractive do you consider yourself?
/r/seduction29/01/18 04:35 PM
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Hey, look for meetup groups in your new city. Usually at bars but around a theme everyone is interested in. A little easier than a cold approach. Www.meetup.com
/r/seduction27/01/18 04:21 PM
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Physical escalation would be one means of polarizing. If you start touching, she'll either pull back, appear comfortable or hopefully reciprocate. Reciprocation is an amazing feeling as you walk out on a limb and find they want to touch you and want to be touched. Disagreeing with a statement she makes as well. I've had some very good interactions with Hilary adamant supporters explaining that I hate the woman and voted against her, and we respectfully debated to the point where we agreed that h…
/r/seduction26/01/18 07:24 PM
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Hey man, not a lot of helpful in comments here. I'll try a bit. The key is in the word you used. You said some of the boys are more attractive. I think the word you meant was better looking. Be really careful at viewing these as synonyms. They are not. You can make the most of your looks but attraction is something that's way more complex and you can improve dramatically. Really let that sink in, it can change your life. With that said, I wish I had one good book, but here are a few. How to be a…
/r/seduction23/01/18 09:56 PM
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Are you talking generically, or each person on here? For me personally, incredibly broad range of life experiences from travel (not club med, more like gorilla treks, thai massage classes, host family foreign language experiences), unusual hobbies, I'm a pilot and sail for instance, and lots of varied work experience. All of this means I can connect with people on a topic they are interested in, something they do that we share, rather than try to get them interested in my stuff.
/r/seduction21/01/18 07:30 PM
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Funny as I scrolled to the next line, I read, "a hardy pair"!
/r/seduction21/01/18 07:12 PM
3

He's right, but I've passed on so many where I realized after the fact they were putting themselves in a position to be approached. Ast least you moved!
/r/seduction19/01/18 11:15 PM
1

Rather than this, you might keep her on the hook and start dating other women. I have one like this as well but am continuing to load the pipeline, so girl 2 who's quite sweet would have converted on date 2 but for that time of the month, but did convert on date 3. Girl one noe will have to chase cause I'm busy 😁. Changes your mindset completely when there are several involved.
/r/seduction19/01/18 09:30 PM
1

In my experience, the women going aren't attracting men to start with outside of the event because they aren't very attractive. You can use as a way to practice conversation skills with a bunch of women, just don't have high expectations.
/r/seduction19/01/18 12:47 PM
2

I actually did this recently and the girl is now chasing me. It impressed her I had the balls to ask for feedback.
/r/seduction18/01/18 10:50 PM
2

Yep
/r/seduction18/01/18 10:46 PM
16

Well, that's a good point, but the goal here is to send the message that you're a man, willing to disagree and you aren't going to be agreeable just to get pussy. Most guys will agree with everything she says so she'll like them. This doesn't work.
/r/seduction18/01/18 06:55 PM
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Start out like you already know her. When you meet, just say whatever's natural that let's her know you're excited to meet her. Next, hug. Don't shake her hand, but approach, open your arms up and give her a nice warm hug. I do this with every woman at the start of a date and it's always positive. Finally, she should talk 80% of the time. Don't talk about yourself at all. If she asks a question, answer it briefly, don't hide things, but don't brag, don't sell, dont try to prove anything. Then go…
/r/seduction18/01/18 03:50 PM
3

Totally agree with this guy! I was hesitant the first few times I said "you should sit next to me. " I have yet to be challenged on it. Reality I think, if they like you, they want to sit next to you, and they want to feel your touch. One of my best first dates, was just in December, I'm pretty new to this stuff. Escalated to hand holding and at one point, I pulled back, not thinking about it, more to do something with that hand, and she reached back out for it. It was such an amazing, this girl…
/r/seduction18/01/18 04:05 AM
3

San Jose is known by the locals as Man Jose. You should keep expectations low, it's a sausage fest.
/r/seduction17/01/18 02:01 PM
7

Yes. Women are great, I have lots of female friends, but when your life goes to hell and you need something, female friends will lend an ear for a while, but if you get too whiny, they'll bail. When you're really in trouble, you lose your job, get arrested, get attacked by someone, need to borrow some money, need to be talked out of marrying the wrong person, you name it, the tough conversations in life where you need a friend to help you sort it out, it's going to be a man.
/r/seduction16/01/18 04:22 AM
1

Totally not true
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:39 PM
6

You assume attraction and touch in further out areas first, forearm, knee, etc. You watch for reactions. If she doesn't like you touching her, she'll react, pull away, say something, move back, you'll see a reaction and you stop. If she doesn't react negatively, you escalate. Touch the same place longer or move to another place, further up the leg, further up the arm, to the hands, maybe brush her hair off her face it over her ear. The key is always look for negative reactions. Don't go further …
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:38 PM
2

2 things come to mind. There are cock rings that have vibrators on them. Turns u into a vibrator. I once slurped champagne out of my girlfriends pussy. She loved it! Thought of another. Go down on her but leave the panties on, just lick the fabric then at some point, leave them on but pull to the side. That drives them nuts 😁
/r/seduction13/01/18 06:34 PM
1

I'd be more interested to see how many you meet. In Dallas a ton of the hottest are scams, they match with everyone, open you and try to move you to a validation website. Not sure what other cities are like, but for instance, Vegas is loaded with hookers. So, again, hot girl, they open but soon the price comes out.
/r/seduction13/01/18 06:30 PM
6

With a newbie, might want to help the guy out and tell him be attractive does not require being good looking. It helps, but 2 entirely different concepts!
/r/seduction13/01/18 06:27 PM
10

Ya, avoid asking women yes/No questions. Say "you're cute, what's your name", assume she doesn't have one.
/r/seduction12/01/18 10:15 PM
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Kino is really just touching increasingly intimate areas and looking for a negative reaction. So it's easy enough to make a point while talking and touch her forearm. See if she pulls back or flinches. As 2 straight men, we could do this, it's natural, you wouldn't think twice if your friend or boss did it. Make another point,touch a little longer. Maybe tell her she has nice hands or fingernails. Women spend a lot of time, money and effort on their nails and no man ever comments. Tell her they'…
/r/seduction12/01/18 07:36 PM
1

Internship will likely be the best option careerwise. You're likely to get a job from it or it will figure prominently in getting a job somewhere else. Remember women are attracted to men that have a mission other than getting women. This could be the key to getting the most important part of your life handled.
/r/seduction12/01/18 04:11 PM
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Stay masculine, remember shit tests don't end when you start dating. She'll still say things to challenge how strong you are. If she says something you don't agree with, don't just agree with her. I had one challenging girlfriend and my catch phrase was "I don't buy that", meaning I don't agree. It would piss her off at the moment which I wouldn't placate but sent the message that I had the balls to disagree. She also tried to withhold sex once, to which I calmly explained that after I had bange…
/r/seduction12/01/18 01:05 PM
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Ya, I get hot, but I'm 48 and I'm not even dating in the 40s, upper limits like 35, late 20s to early 30s is best.
/r/seduction11/01/18 03:56 AM
2

Ya, then I just have to ask, why the fuck cougars!
/r/seduction11/01/18 03:53 AM
1

How are you going to get kicked out for sexual harassment? First of all, sexual harassment is a term that applies at work when you use a position of power to try to extract sex from a coworker. If you aren't at work it doesn't apply. Sexual assault would apply, which means if you grab her tits or ass you'll have issues. Where ever you got the idea that showing sexual interest in a women is sexual harassment is fucked up.
/r/seduction10/01/18 02:55 AM
1

Nice. On the upside, I look pretty good, lift 5 days a week and dress very well and it all seems to be worth it!
/r/seduction08/01/18 10:51 PM
2

Well, my tip would be, lose anything that doesn't support what you are trying to do. Cynicism is wasted energy, it's not going to help you get to your goal, so, just lose it. 2nd, the online thing doesn't work for most people. I'm decent looking, 6' tall, around my ideal weight, have high income and I have photos that I spent a lot of money on. When I posted them on facebook, friends asked when I was starting my talk show. With a lot of time spent on Match, Bumble and Tinder over the last year, …
/r/seduction08/01/18 07:13 PM
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Third date is a pretty reasonable expectation. A woman needs to feel safe first and thast takes a certain amount of time. Occasionally you might make it happen on the first or second date. Sometimes it may take longer, but to assume 1st date with every woman is going to be pushing it.
/r/seduction08/01/18 07:07 AM
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You're just going to have to trust me and try it. I totally agree, I'm an introvert as well, and the first chick I tried it on is asleep on my lap as I type this. I'm totally not kidding. Attraction happens at a subconscious level, until u see it happen u will not get it. U don't have to be that adept, but u adapt quickly as u see it happen. And I'm abreviating so as not to wake her 😁. Try this. When u make a point in conversation, touch. When u laugh with her, grab her wrist. When u turn to loo…
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:50 AM
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I've been blown away by the power of eye contact. I started gaming the admin at work, I have no interest in her, I've only done the eye contact and teased her a lot, no touching. If I even mention I need something, she gets it. The other day I asked where I could get a box on Kleenex. She said don't worry, shed bring it. And that's not the first eye contact incident.
/r/seduction08/01/18 01:22 AM
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You need to touch them early and escalate, also maintain strong eye contact, during not stare them down, but, maintain. By escalate, I mean start touching innocent places, the forearms and knees, move to hands, upper arms, thighs, don't be surprised if they brush a boob against you. If you can work a massage in there, that's good. Move slow, keep moving, it turns them on big time.
/r/seduction08/01/18 12:42 AM
1

Agreed, but, have you tried in person or just online? I've had some really interesting experiences in person that I have yet to convert. A 27 year old clearly suggesting she needed to go some place to have fun. Hot, but seemed like kind that woukd find your car with a baseball bat. Another, probably late 20s, met in the early afternoon, she mentioned 3 times the building she lived in, but I had things to do. Another 24, in Vegas but I had given up my room and was on the way to the airport. Any e…
/r/seduction07/01/18 10:15 PM
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Don't worry about it man, here are lots of cute girls. I'm old, 48, just figuring this stuff out now. Figure it out while you are still young! If it makes you feel better, I'm seeing 2 right now, not at the commitment stage with either, with a third sort of chasing me (not sure if I want her to catch me yet) a 4th in another city that I'm flying through in february on a trip. They are all in their 30s, smart, pretty, fit, good catches. Don't rush, figure out how to attract them (it's a learnable…
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:50 PM
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Sounds like you might be trying to move them into girlfriend status to fast. Watch some Corey Wayne videos on YouTube. You've got the first part down, which is the hard part. If you watch the videos, he believes women fall in love when away from you. Don't see them more than once a week, don't bring up relationships, have fun, let her get hooked and she'll bring it up. In the meantime, try to date a few at once, then you care less if one disappears.
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:17 PM
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I doubt they were fooling around with you. Even mediocre women have guys chasing them, so, there's not a lot of benefit to lead you on. Looks don't equal attraction for men, they are part of the picture, but attraction is a combination of looks, style, attitude, personality and other things. Make sure you have a good hair cut, dress decently, go get help if you don't know how to do that or look at magazines like GQ. FYI, there are tons of ways to find high end clothing inexpensively, everything …
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:52 PM
1

Nice! Any tips? I'm new to this line of thinking, within the last 6 months, sort of shocks me to be honest. Am dating a few early 30's and to be honest, that's young enough, but, I'd love to get some tips on how you are managing the early 20's.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:04 PM
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Adding here, pick a place where you are sitting side by side and for touching start further out, forearm, and knee, gauge her reaction and move to more intimate areas, further up the thigh, maybe ask to see her nails cause they're pretty, take her hand gently and hold longer than normal. She'll give signs, just be slow, pa y attention, be respectful.
/r/seduction06/01/18 07:44 PM
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Yes, what krung said. If I knew how to help if your situation, I would happily. So, here's the thing, you have a hypothesis that it's all about money and looks, I'm telling you it is not, there are attributes of masculinity that naturally attract women. Your writing skills don't seem to be indicative of a 12 year old, so, clearly you have some higher cognitive functions, my suggestion is rather than focusing your energy on trying to prove the hypothesis that women only like men with money and lo…
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:23 PM
1

Dead on on San Francisco. Should add Seattle, or maybe you've never been, same feminazi attitude, ratio issues, etc. In SF though, the women do actually dress better.
/r/seduction05/01/18 10:31 PM
1

Try meet up groups
/r/seduction05/01/18 09:55 PM
6

You're first issue is viewing someone as someone you are not interested in. I don't want to be a dick here, but I have 2 masters degrees, a high income, speak 6 languages, have been to 90 countries on 5 continents. I literally can't remember the last time I met someone that I couldn't find something interesting about. So, that's the first fallacy. Probe and ask them questions until you find something interesting about them. You're busy trying to figure out when to jump in and talk about what you…
/r/seduction05/01/18 04:21 PM
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Here's the problem here, you're mistaking correlation and causation. I have high income because of certain attributes, I'm smart, well educated, am able to lead, am able to take risks, am emotionally strong. All of these things will lead to high income. They are also all attractive to women.
/r/seduction05/01/18 03:20 PM
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A good rule of thumb about their sexuality? They are as sexual as we are. My first long term girlfriend was a virgin in college. One day while making out on the couch in her parents basement. She was sweet, shy and very innocent. Looked at me one night and said, "can I try something", and she gave me her first bj. Went on to have a great sex life with her. Would have thought she wasn't very sexual and she was down for anything.
/r/seduction05/01/18 12:05 AM
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First dude, start talking to everyone you come in contact with. Men, women, groups, foreigners, employees. You become much better at talking to random people and seeing the response. Great example, on three instances I've opened a cute girl with a man at bars, at the bar, seated. Had great conversations with both of them, in one instance the dude was making himself look like an ass and the chick was rolling her eyes. At the end, in all three instances, as they left, they both shook my hand and s…
/r/seduction04/01/18 11:59 PM
3

They're around. Meetup groups, networking events, my condo complex, yoga, outdoor bars, airport bars, restaurants, bumble. I don't really approach, it's more like I engage everyone that enters my sphere, so, if they sit within a few stools of me at a restaurant bar, I'll start talking to them.
/r/seduction04/01/18 10:38 PM
1

Think of it this way, while we may be doing this, the women are spending insane amounts of money and time on clothing, hair and makeup to attract you. The awesome thing is, we get to keep our self improvement and reuse it. Women are merely fighting a losing battle to prolong hitting the wall!
/r/seduction04/01/18 08:57 PM
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I think we tend to overestimate how much age matters to women. I'm 48, though, don't look it or act like it. And I'm doing decently in the early 30s range, 32 seems to be a sweet spot. (I sure as hell wouldn't be interested in 64 year-olds!) I've had a few instances where even into the early to mid-20s seemed to be showing interest but I didn't or couldn't really follow up. Dress well, get a good haircut, whiten your teeth, get/keep yourself fit (I'd recommend lifting over cardio), i.e. look you…
/r/seduction04/01/18 08:47 PM
1

What browser were you using? Chrome pretty easily allows you to see your history, unless you deleted it. I've found many things in the past by searching through the history of roughly when I looked at something and then opening the sites. Try that.
/r/seduction04/01/18 06:46 PM
3

Thanks for this reference, read Tao twice last night, love what's in it, not just for pickup.
/r/seduction04/01/18 06:42 PM
2

What this guy said! I've got 30 years on you and a lifetime of experience, but ironically I find most people really just want to talk about themselves and their stuff. One thing is to find logical tangents from what someone says. So for instance at some point, I might say, I learned to sail in the British virgin islands. From that sentence alone, you can go into sailing, in fact you can say, id love to learn to sail and ask what it was like or what is recommend, you can say you've never been to …
/r/seduction03/01/18 05:21 PM
1

No worries man, never be ashamed of your sexuality, as long as it's not hurting anyone.
/r/seduction02/01/18 03:34 PM
3

Sounds like a normal reaction. Like I said above, if your cuddling with her, and she senses you got a boner, she's probably going to get turned on herself. She knows she arouses you and that's a good thing. You should definitely be touching her, shoulder rub, hold hands, kissing. If you get to the point where you're making out, and you get hard, push her hand over your crotch and say, see what you do to me.
/r/seduction31/12/17 03:31 PM
3

Dude, what is getting hard when it's inappropriate? This is the first thing you need to eradicate from your brain. I guarantee you, even if you are just hanging out with a female friend and "she gets you hard", she may not admit it, but she will be flattered. This is a reaction your body should experience, own it, don't be ermbarrased by it! It's the way things are supposed to be!
/r/seduction31/12/17 06:07 AM
5

Yes, what he said. Texting won't increase attraction, only downside risk.
/r/seduction28/12/17 05:55 PM
1

Well first of all, storytelling is a very valuable skill, so, it's worth working on as it's not just for women, it'll come in handy in your work, so, find some books, look for classes, get that sorted out, it'll be worth it. Even if you are good but just think you are bad, practice will make you better. Next, maybe you are coming off like you are bragging. I'm often referred to by friends (who are themselves very impressive) as "the most interesting man in the world". 2 masters degrees, 90 count…
/r/seduction28/12/17 05:26 AM
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I would say cautiously. There are a few things you can do that do cross the line. For instance, good eye contact. Compliments are fine, in particular, keep it to clothing, ideas, comments, stuff like that. You can get away with teasing, giving a hard time, don't be mean about it. Touching can be done, but limit to forearm, upper arm, don't escalate. Now, I have a great example of this. I work with a woman that I wouldn't probably date, but I've been practicing this stuff and looking for anyone t…
/r/seduction28/12/17 05:15 AM
1

Look at the ratios of men to women in CA versus TX and FL. Way more single men in CA, especially San Francisco, if that's where you were. In Texas, slightly more women than men and in Florida, it seems pretty even but the male population is really douchy so you may seem higher quality by comparison.
/r/seduction24/12/17 04:04 PM
1

That's good to know, I assumed the expansion was mostly bringing in lower quality women and making it worse. Good luck up there!
/r/seduction23/12/17 12:22 AM
1

I consider it all an experiment. If you think it's going no where, just keep escalating and call it practice. It all makes you better at it.
/r/seduction21/12/17 09:12 PM
1

Hey this, don't message more than a few times, suggest meeting up the next day or so. You can't seduce someone through the ap. I was trying to screen through the app. Now I just exchange a couple messages then suggest we meet, ask when will work, set it and then go. Don't even confirm, just be there. See what happens. I had two last week, one was terrific, meeting her in Jan when I'm back in town.
/r/seduction21/12/17 09:09 PM
1

This is really the wrong attitude. Seriously, try this. Next date, go in with the mindset of, there are 3.5 billion women and they all have the same equipment. Some look better, some worse. The question should be, I like the package enough, the outside, but does this person merit my time. Will I like her. I hope so. Seriously, just try it. The investment is low.
/r/seduction20/12/17 09:17 PM
2

Hey, well, for 1, I'm just figuring this out on my own. It was only 6 months ago that I started learning about attraction and suddenly started noticing that younger women were attracted, which was a bit shocking, but awesome. i.e. no way in hell I'm interested in a woman even 5 years older. I agree, lot of married, lot of fat, lot of other issues. A few things, 1.get out more often to different places and don't do it to "pickup". This Saturday had my hair cut, on the way home, walked by an outdo…
/r/seduction20/12/17 06:22 PM
3

A huge one, attraction for a women is superficial, we like women who look a certain way. If women want to be attractive it's mostly biological. Men are attractive mostly from behavior. Looks, wealth and other things matter a little, but not to the same magnitude. Display attractive traits and women will be attracted. I recently discovered this and at 48, I'm seeing interest from women in their 20s and 30s, cute ones.
/r/seduction20/12/17 01:48 PM
2

Ok, no worries, I just wanted to make sure you're an adult. If you are both adults, there are no rules other than what feels right for both of you, but as the man, it's your job to lead that. You move forward a step and she either is compliant or she objects. If you hold her hand and she seems happy, you wait a while and try to kiss her, on the lips but closed mouth, no tongue. If she's ok with that, kiss a little longer, if she's still ok, you make out with her. Don't ask her if she's ok with s…
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:36 PM
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No, not at all. How old are you anyway? You can kiss her as soon as you want to and she appears to be comfortable with it. I.e. don't force her to do anything, if she says no or pulls back or shows discomfort, stop what you are doing and go back a step. But there are no, you need to be dating before you do X rules. Being in a relationship tends not to be black and white, it tends to happen over time and be by degrees.
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:04 PM
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More than likely after you rejected, if you didn't seem bothered by it and you walked away, her interest level has increased. Don't start chasing her. Go check some of Corey Wayne's videos on you tube, they're very good. This is a good thing though. Don't tell you that you like her, tease her back, and get her on a date, but tell her, "we should do x", don't say, would you please go out with me or I'd like it if we did x.
/r/seduction19/12/17 07:17 PM
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This is a crap answer.
/r/seduction19/12/17 07:00 PM
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Absolutely not. You should be trying to touch her as soon as possible. It will likely be weird if you try to kiss her before holding her hand. Start the date by hugging her when you see her. And touch her asap, arms and legs are safe areas. If she has an jewelry, tell her you want to see it, take her hand and fondle the jewelry. Look for signs of comfort or that she likes you taking her hand. If so, keep holding. These aren't things you wait for dating for. Touching (again lightly and in safe ar…
/r/seduction19/12/17 06:59 PM
1

Read Corey Wayne How to be a 3% Man and it'll help understand no responses to texts. Can also google some of his YouTube videos.
/r/seduction19/12/17 05:06 AM
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Sit next to her not across from her if you can help it. (If you are going somewhere, go to the venue and figure out where you can sit so she's next to her, this is very important). Ask questions, don't talk about yourself, just keep asking her questions, listen to what she says, and ask more questions based on what she says, keep eye contact while she speaks. Don't agree with her to please her, if you have a different point of view, share it and be confident about it, don't apologize about a dif…
/r/seduction16/12/17 10:19 PM
1

Well, I have a feeling you have a few mindset issues that should be rewired out. All actions aren't about getting sex. You can flirt with someone and make them feel good about themselves and have it not lead anywhere. In fact, do this with waitresses and sales clerks, it gives you practice, it might make their day and honestly, you can tell when you make someone feel good and it makes you feel good. Sometimes you might even get something free out of it, a drink or an appetizer from a waitress. I…
/r/seduction14/12/17 06:18 PM
1

Look for a furniture consignment store in your city. This is where rich people take their really cool stuff, high end furniture, art and other cool stuff, vases, blown glass, decorations. Find something that speaks to you and get it. I for instance am a pilot and have a polished propeller in the corner which is a great conversation piece. But, find something that fits you. If you want to go to Africa, get some African masks, if you're into boating, get a ships wheel or something like that.
/r/seduction13/12/17 10:35 PM
1

Women like you are awesome (from a guy that hasn't been a virgin in decades), that's why you're scoring points left and right here. Keep it up, you're life will be great!
/r/seduction13/12/17 10:26 PM
2

Talk to everyone, women, men, young, old, cute girls, girls you aren't attracted to, just everyone that comes close to you. Find some meetup groups and just go from person to person and ask about them. Make a comment about your surroundings or something. If you see something cool about them, their shoes, their glasses, anything, give a compliment. Just engaging people and having them engage with you will give you a lot of positive experiences. It feels good to make others feel good. Eye contact.…
/r/seduction12/12/17 09:58 PM
1

The "trying to find my keys" literally made me laugh out loud, I may steal that one!
/r/seduction12/12/17 09:45 PM
3

I've got a new rule I call "cute enough", that is, if I meet a woman that is cute enough that if I ended up in bed with her, I wouldn't be ashamed later. Doesn't mean she has to be hot, just cute. Then, spend some time getting to know her. I'm coming off a long dry spell and to be honest, mostly practicing and refining skills, focusing on giving them a great time. I'm finding that the ones that are cute enough, start becoming interesting from their personality and experiences and we have a reall…
/r/seduction12/12/17 09:37 PM
3

Dude, this story is awesome!
/r/seduction11/12/17 06:47 PM
1

Not in Seattle currently, used to live there, likely returning. Wondering how much luck you are having. Seattle was a wasteland when I left, but, I have different skills now, hoping it will help.
/r/seduction11/12/17 05:13 PM
2

It'll come up again sometime with someone new, just store it in your head!
/r/seduction11/12/17 04:55 PM
1

Just say 'I know, pretty awesome right' in reference to you don't think like other people.
/r/seduction11/12/17 03:33 PM
1

The leg is great cause you can start at the knee which is harmless and slowly move north. If your hand reaches her upper thigh without her pulling back, well, you pretty much know she likes you.
/r/seduction11/12/17 02:35 AM
5

James, first of all, don't just start approaches women you are attracted to, just start talking to anyone that is around you. Really engage them, ask about their lives, make it all about getting to know them. You need first to get really comfortable just talking to everyone. And clubs might be a bad idea, but one day a week, decide to go to dinner by yourself, sit at the bar, chat with the bar tender, talk to the people around you, don't look for anything from them, just have a good time. Ask qu…
/r/seduction03/12/17 05:01 PM
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I'll give a personal experience here. Went to brunch on Sunday alone, trying to check out places near my house, I'm in a relatively new city. At the bar, hot girl with a date taking to the bar tender, mentioned something I could jump in on, so, I did. Was having a great conversation with her and her dude, and the bar tender being very fun, guy was kind of making himself look like a dipshit, which I subtly pointed out, i.e. she got it, but he didn't figure out I was making fun of him (what he did…
/r/seduction28/11/17 09:52 PM
1

I'll give you two to avoid, Seattle and San Francisco. Ratios are a mess, significantly more men than women and loaded with feminazies. Chicago and D.C. both seem promising. LA is loaded with hot women. Minneapolis might be worth a look, supposed to be full of if people.
/r/seduction28/11/17 03:43 AM
1

I just want to say, it's really awesome when women come on here and give good advice to an obviously decent guy looking to improve his life. Thanks!
/r/seduction27/11/17 01:07 PM
3

First of all, I'm just getting started with this myself and I'm 48, and I'm finding my ability to attract women in their early 30s is pretty easy. Got one that I'm trying to slow down the "girlfriend" evolution, which I sort this stuff out. Another that I met on Tinder that flat out said the other day in text, she's "trying to figure out what sex is like with a guy over 40". Another one in another state that's made it pretty clear that she's interested, also late 20s or early 30s. This has all j…
/r/seduction26/11/17 04:46 PM
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Here, try this, it worked well on the last girl that wasn't giving me a lot of signals or an easy transition. Get in a position where you can massage her shoulders, either next to here and just reach over and do it, or, behind. Literally just say turn around, you'll be surprised how compliant women are. Then massage her shoulders for a while. You'll be able to tell if she likes it or not, should either be a feeling of comfort, or she'll stiffen up. If she stiffen's up, the kiss is probably not g…
/r/seduction21/11/17 07:22 PM
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Honestly, if you get that much of an IOI, it probably doesn't matter what you say. Try, "wow, you're cute, what's your name".
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:18 PM
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Find some meetup groups with subjects you are interested in. Makes it easy to break the ice and if nothing else, maybe you make some friends or learn something.
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:09 PM
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Dude, this post rocks!
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:42 PM
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Permanent. I tend to relax the rules on vacation, like when I was in Belgium last year, I did not pass on the beer! Walking makes up for it. But, all the benefits make up for what you give up.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 07:00 PM
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Well I started as a way to lose a few pounds. Without little effort, in about 4 months, I lost 40 pounds, little effort meaning, when you start it you have to adapt before you can work out the way you do before or you hit the wall. I went from running 2 to 3 miles a couple of times a week to not working out at all for 3 months and lost 40 pounds. Other benefits, acid reflux went away, snoring went away (people say this is from weight loss, but, if I eat a bunch of carbs now, I'll get indigestion…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 01:54 PM
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I'm no expert, but, I would do both. The more muscle you build from lifting, the more energy it will need, so, the extra muscle will help you burn more fat. I've only lost about 5 pounds in the last month or so, but, I'm having to take suits in that were tight and have them tailored as I'm having to cinch my belts up and they are gathering. Muscle is much heavier than the same volume of fat, so, you may not see weight loss as much as a change in body composition.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 10:53 AM
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Check out the reddit\keto subreddit. I switched to that diet years ago, got back to my high school weight. Lifting as of 3 months ago. Keto will work wonders for you.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 03:07 AM
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No, go for the hug dude. Ever woman I've ever met off any ap, ive hugged, never had one of them show a negative reaction.
/r/seduction09/10/17 02:35 AM
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You need to look harder. http://www.zerohedge.com/sites/default/files/images/user230519/imageroot/2017/07/26/2017.07.26%20-%20Obese%201.JPG
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:45 AM
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I love how all the people on here commenting have probably never left their country and they are also missing the point. I've been to 90 countries and here's my experience. 1-there is much more pressure in developing countries for women to compete for men, so, they stay thin and treat men well. Feminism has also not infiltrated and taught them that men suck. Europeans in developed countries also at healthier and walk more. Their obesity rates have been rising, but most are thin and they dress we…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 01:55 PM
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Dude, do people read any longer? Not my question. Wasn't into her, was ignoring her, not to get her attention, I was ignoring her because I deal with a higher class of people, and there were more interesting people at the table. The question is, do women pull shit tests on people that aren't actually chatting them up?
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:18 AM
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Sounds like Seattle!
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:11 AM
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So, I can't let this fly, the workshop is into you?
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:10 AM
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Hate to be the bearer of bad news but in the next 10 or so years, a lot if this blue collar work is just going to be done by robots. I wouldn't consider this safe at all. Learn tech, at least be the part that's doing the automation not getting automated.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 10:29 PM
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So, in all this story, sorry I'm shallow, but gotta know. How the F did you get the nude photos of her?!
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