| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | Divorcing my wife, she's asked to sell the house before the divorce is filed. She may or may not be requesting alimony or child support once the divorce is filed. | lsudo | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/21 10:20 PM | |
| 4 | Daughters mother playing matchmaker with our 15 year old. | lsudo | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/25 08:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home.Wait until you see their google search: “abdominal pain after anal > oral > vaginal” | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Want a divorce but terrified of the unknownI’d rather be alone in happiness than together in misery. I was in the same situation myself at 39. Three years later, there are always going to be hard days, but I can always look back with complete satisfaction at my decision to leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/23 11:59 PM |
| 3 | How much did divorce cost you?All of my misery and unhappiness | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 03:53 PM |
| 8 | I feel like I now hate womenI swear I’m one more relationship away from finding another straight guy, getting married, and having tons of cool guy shit together to enjoy. Just date who we want to date and live independently for the most part. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/23 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Today is/was our anniversaryMaybe It’s due to my being through someone completely different but I couldn’t give a damn I find anyone else at this point. I learned through the last years of marriage that the only person I need in life is myself. Sure a partner can be nice at times but it goes both ways. Good riddance I say. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/23 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Just got into an argument with my exBecause they’re certifiably psychotic by nature. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/23 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Is it better to marry girls who want to be SAHMs or ones who are career-oriented and “independent”?Why marry in the first place? What do you really gain from signing that contract? Does it somehow enrich the relationship and bring you closer knowing that the state and federal governments acknowledge your union? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/23 09:16 PM |
| 3 | She wants to work things out, but she's seeing someone and doesn't know I knowRight there with you. My STBX was banging some guy on the side “secretly” or so she thought. For months after I separated she kept bringing up the fact that this was on me since she still wanted it to work out. All whilst still dating her side piece. Wait out as long as you can stand it. Wait it out as much as you can and document everything you can. Keep your nose clean. Just remember this can slowly whittle away at your sanity so don’t stay deep too long. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/22 08:18 PM |
| 5 | After 7 years and a 2 year old, wife wants divorce.Sorry to hear this brother. It can be tough but you have to remember that with time you’ll heal completely and can build an even better life than before. Sounds like she did you a favor. Woman, in my experience, are all bat shit crazy emotionally driven/controlled lunatics. You just need to focus on finding one that can reel it in. I was fortunate enough to have had a wife that I couldn’t rely on for a damn thing aside from causing constant anxiety and heart arrhythmia. The best thing that ever … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/22 12:57 PM |
| 7 | Divorce after 4 months of marriageDodged a big ass bullet there brother. I’m happy for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the minimum age a man should get married and what should he know coming into the marriage?This one made me think a little. I’m doing my best to raise her with the knowledge that she needs to be capable and rely on nobody else for support in life, especially a man. This way, should a relationship go awry, she’ll be able to take care of herself. So I guess the answer is yes. Otherwise marriage in this context would be nothing more than a security blanket for her and as we here in this sub have seen, it’s anything but. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 3 | What is the minimum age a man should get married and what should he know coming into the marriage?At no age should a man get married imo. That entire institution is a joke. The fact that I need a piece of paper from my government to acknowledge my union irritates me. Outside of a few tax breaks, I see no benefit whatsoever. You can have just as strong and as meaningful of a relationship without ever bringing that into it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like their life expectancy increased?Shit cured me of almost all of my health issues. Doctors would have had me eating pills like a bowl of Kix every morning had I not cured myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 5 | Is there really a 50% chance of this happening?They’ve done studies you know, 60% of the time it ends every time | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Man are there days I want to video and post her behavior here.Kevin Hart does a bit about catching his girlfriend camping out in the trunk of his car trying to catch him cheating. Catches her and He sees her see him seeing her and she runs back home. When he gets home to confront her she proceeds to deny the entire thing happened. I always thought he made it up until this actually happened to me…. Right there with you brother https://youtu.be/6EzSQ26Ya-0 | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/22 01:52 PM |
| 3 | I’m (29M) considering divorcing my wife (28F) due to her failure to contribute anything to our marriage financially. Yes, I can support her and I make a pretty good living. My problem is that I should not need to support her at the level that I am, due to the context of our marriage currently.Nobody should need support, period. Any breathing adult without a disability should be setting up their life so that they can completely take care of themselves. An adult dependent is a scary ass thing. There’s not a damn thing you can do to fix it as it is all on them. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Just was told by my wife of 30 years that she has fallen out of love with meNo chance of making it work as a partnership? 30 years is a long time to grow and change. I have to imagine most of the kids are grown up and out of the house. If you still enjoy each other’s company and share common interests there’s a chance you could salvage the relationship to a degree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/22 06:06 PM |
| 7 | This is why marriage rate is dropping…. A man has no chance when the laws punish him for his wife having an affair…. https://www.forbes.com/sites/teakvetenadze/2021/12/21/uk-court-orders-dubai-ruler-to-pay-ex-wife-over-730-million-in-divorce-settlement/amp/I’m honestly done with marriage, probably forever. The entire concept it is just ridiculous. I need a piece of paper from the government in order to validate my relationship with someone else? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/21 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Standing TogetherWife was on her N-th affair and I had it. I was done. Then she blamed me for giving up. Things can’t be more clear for me now and I’ve never been happier since I ended it. She’ll never change. Being married for those 13 years taught me the best lesion of my life: I don’t NEED a single person in my life but me. My dad said: “you might not know what you want in a woman, but you sure as hell know what you dont”. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | I am a divorced dad, but I need advice on a new relationship where I have to either commit to emotional change or end the relationship.Hey man. 39 divorce here. I’m through changing. I am who I am and I don’t need a damn thing from anyone to live. 40 years on this planet and I’ve done all the changing I can do. Time to enjoy me and if someone else does that’s good to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 09:49 PM |
| 3 | I am not married but this sub has scared me enough to never get married.Ditto | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/21 04:58 PM |
| 8 | Am I the only here who is seriously considering never marrying again even if I find my "soulmate"?Perfectly rational. Don’t need a piece of white paper from the government in order to validate a relationship. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/21 05:22 PM |
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