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| 4 | Update: Female response to "FR: First Date from Daygame. F- Close"3deep5me | /r/seduction | 18/06/14 04:19 PM |
| 8 | [FR] This girl threw me off my game when she told me her boyfriend died last month.I came here to say this. Like, just slowly read that title, it sounds sociopathic. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 03:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just picked up the hottest girl in my collegeReally | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Can an emotional relationship spawn from a physical one?If you've already agreed that dating isn't an option then it's doubtful. You have one of two choices, push the feelings down and continue the physical relationship, or bring it up with the other party. Most people shy away from the latter because it will end the physical relationship if the feelings aren't mutual, but it will end eventually anyways and probably badly if you don't discuss this with her and try to keep it down inside you. I speak from experiencing this several times. | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Can an emotional relationship spawn from a physical one?I would assume because there is a release of chemicals after sex that makes them feel good and they associate that with love. | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 04:44 AM |
| 5 | Had to write this for those who are strugglingYou've identified the problem, confidence, now you need to figure out why you lack it. Do some research on the subject and hell, see a therapist if it's a real issue for you. | /r/seduction | 17/12/13 02:32 AM |
| 2 | What's your favorite way to banter with a girl?"Go fuck yourself" "I'm tired from fucking your wife" "How's your mother" "Good she's tired from fucking my father" | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 08:05 PM |
| 2 | When women turn the conversation sexual... what the hell does it mean (I'm dense.)Yep, every time this happens to me, it's the beginning of the whole round about trip that ends in the giving of the D to said chick. | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 06:29 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a girl says asks you to entertain her?I tell her to entertain these nuts. Seriously, that comment just wreaks of "I'm better than you lowly jester", unless she's saying it in a teasing way or a trying to get you to have sex with her way. At that point unless it's the latter two scenarios, I will literally say something along the lines of "entertain these nuts", then leave her presence. I don't have time for that kind of shit. Edit: Just realized you said through text. If it's not in person that definitely seems like my first scenari… | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Good books to readModels by Mark Manson. I put off reading it for a good long while and now I'm almost finished it. It's a great book that actually gets to the root of why women find guys attractive and hits on a lot of inner game stuff. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl I've never spoken to asked me out. Caught me by surprise.To be fair, crazy is also subjective. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being such an asshole?This is really the answer. Unless you're really overtly being a dick, changing your sense of humor so people like you is people pleasing and in the end wont get you anywhere. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Girl I've never spoken to asked me out. Caught me by surprise.I don't know, I've had a few chicks ask me out and they're almost always nutso. It also depends on the demographic of women you're around. Sometimes you'll just find those women who are outgoing and confident, but then again, maybe I just attract crazy. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 06:40 PM |
| 11 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!Like this | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Newbie girl who needs tips on how to get this guy in bed ASAP.Well in that case just go for it lol. Escalate shit, he may just not know how to. | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Possible shit/true feelings test: Girl occassionally tells me that we should stop seeing each other.She either doesn't know how to communicate what she wants or is doing this on purpose. She's going to keep pulling you further and further along down the rabbit hole until she either wants a relationship (in which case she will be a stage 5 clinger and most likely super manipulative) or she finds something better and leaves you confused and fucked up (because she drug you in to thinking there was something more to it). If you can remain objective and without feelings, by all means keep it up, bu… | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Possible shit/true feelings test: Girl occassionally tells me that we should stop seeing each other.My experience with women like this...run, just run as fast as you can. Every single time it ends badly when they act like this. It's different every time, but it's always a case of the crazy. | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Newbie girl who needs tips on how to get this guy in bed ASAP.Do you know if he finds you attractive? Does he ever flirt with you? Asking here might get you mixed results because guys see things much differently than girls. Having been the object of unwanted female attention, if he actively resists flirting with you, drop it. If you flirt with him and he responds well, just continue to escalate things naturally, if you have to and it gets to that point, just be like "we should fuck". I had a chick pull the naked man on me once, good times were had. | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Question: Post first-date textOh I know the feeling. It was coming from a "that was fun, we should keep doing that" place. But like my old boss used to say "it's not about what you're doing, it's about what it looks like you're doing". | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Question: Post first-date textHonestly it depends on the girl. You have to remember, the hotter a chick is the less she will understand why you are hitting her up for a reason other than to hang out, at the beginning at least. She has options, so she is in that frame of mind, to her, you texting her that doesn't make a lot of sense because it's something she wouldn't do and she perceives as awkward. What to you is a major victory (k-close) to her is probably a Thursday. I'm not saying it's not awesome for you, just trying to… | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Question: Post first-date textVery true, "when are you free" is probably the best way to go about it, because leading in with "I'm free these days" still gives her a chance to counter with not being free as an excuse. | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Question: Post first-date textYou may be right, but I've never really had an issue with it. If feel like "we're doing this on this day" has always been a little too assertive and gotten me worse results. | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 05:00 PM |
| 2 | I suck at getting girlsThe problem is not how you look, it's that you care so much about how you look that it is affecting your confidence, even if it's only subconsciously. Short term fix, work out and get rid of the weight. Long term fix, work on your sense of self and confidence so that it doesn't rely solely on your looks. | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 03:57 PM |
| 7 | Question: Post first-date textMy thinking is, she knows you had a great time hence the kissing and whatnot. Since you already mentioned the weekend before you left, the text was reiterating things already known/talked about, and within the last hour no less. This makes you look clingy and comes off as "I really wanted to hang out with you this weekend so I'm sending this text to remind you of that and pretend like I'm ok with you not hanging out with me". I have been guilty of this a lot in the past, usually it leads to flak… | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend gave this to me during a mutual breakup, to me this is what seduction is all about.This. I've had some long relationships and if the girl is down to earth, it could take up to 2 years for the honeymoon stage to end. Usually stuff doesn't fall apart for me until they're living with me. You learn a lot about someone when you live with them. | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Kissly virgin needs advise on a girl who might be hitting on me.Dude, pretty sure if she's that out going in those ways she's in to you and if she's that all over the place and you try to escalate but get rejected, you can just chalk it up to her being that way. There's no real downside, right now you aren't fucking her, if you fail, you are right back where you were, if you succeed, well you succeeded. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:07 PM |
| 2 | She's just not into youI am pretty good at reading people and she doesn't seem like the kind of girl that just wants attention, most girls who want attention constantly contact me. At this point I'm just going to go out with her on a night that I wasn't planning on doing anything. If she stands me up, I'm right where I was to begin with anyways. | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Two problems; 1) I'm not DTF... Really. 2) I'm ONS worthy but not BF material apparently.I'd push that book to the front of your pile. It's not a PUA book, but it's awesome for inner game if it applies to you. Read the first chapter and if it sounds like you, dive in, if it doesn't don't bother reading it. I tend to be the same way and I feel that a lot of it is me being shy/not wanting to take risks. You may be completely different, this is just my experience. | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Two problems; 1) I'm not DTF... Really. 2) I'm ONS worthy but not BF material apparently.You sound very similar to me, if you haven't read it, read No More Mr. Nice Guy, that book really helped me understand why I was acting the way I was. | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Two problems; 1) I'm not DTF... Really. 2) I'm ONS worthy but not BF material apparently.Also, you mentioned your weight. As a larger fellow, I've been working out lately and it has greatly increased my sex drive. Being over weight puts you at risk of having low testosterone and higher estrogen, which could be playing havoc with your mind. | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 05:34 PM |
| 7 | She's just not into youThe thing is, not to be drug down by it all. If a girl doesn't show interest by the second date, see her less or not at all. Find someone else who is more along the lines of what you want. I am much more free flowing with the way I deal with chicks. I don't really have tests or structures. I have this one chick who is decently attractive and is flakey as fuck. She's bailed the last two times, so I stopped really talking to her. Just got a message from her the other day about how we need to hang … | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 04:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The girl in the 4 year LTR. K-CloseYeah, now you have to walk a tight line between seeming too eager and too cold/off putting. This is one of those situations where the next time she asked to hang out I would say I have plans with a friend, and then reschedule, because it demonstrates you wont just drop anything for her. | /r/seduction | 20/08/13 07:09 PM |
| 4 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.I've never met a girl who doesn't do it. Hell I do it with women too. There are girls with whom I am "just friends" that after I break up quickly become the next thing. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 02:07 PM |
| 5 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.So, uh, how you doin? | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 01:25 PM |
| 7 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.It doesn't even necessarily mean the girl will cheat on or leave a guy because there is another guy they also find attractive, women like to have options. My friend and I call it the monkey branch theory. Women like to have another man lined up in case their relationship ends, the same way a monkey has his hand on the other branch before he lets go of the last one. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 01:19 PM |
| 9 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.Details are important, we like to be listened to. Knowing too many details can come off as a little obsessive or stalker-ish though. Thank you for pointing this out. I have a ridiculously good memory as do many of my friends, I've tried to explain this and they don't seem to understand that being able to recall everything about a girl can come off as creepy to them. To chicks it shows neediness because most people would have to work to remember all that stuff. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 01:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Holy shit, my first (cold!) approachWhen she said she had a boyfriend he should have responded "does he even lift?" | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 02:43 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Sitting in a coffee shop, 2-set opens me, and I still manage to wuss out.YOU SEDUCE WOMEN LIKE OLD PEOPLE FUCK /RLeeErmey | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Sexual energy "he said hello like he could fuck me through a wall"They're not? My whole life has been a lie! | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 01:16 PM |
| 2 | What do you say back to girls fishing for compliments?Because I'm not your boyfriend? | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 01:13 PM |
| 2 | What do you say back to girls fishing for compliments?I just look them both up and down and say "eh, I'd fuck you both". Then continue like it wasn't a big deal. | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 01:13 PM |
| 8 | Sexual energy "he said hello like he could fuck me through a wall"I read that as lazer eye, and I was like "well you might burn her", then I read it again and I was like "I'm retarded". | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 12:55 PM |
| 3 | "The Secret Language" : Lessons in understanding attraction building through sub communication1) I don't know you, so I can't say anything to the contrary of how you describe yourself, but I've met girls that say the exact same thing, but in the moment act completely different. 2/3) You're right and this is why push/pull exists. Giving women just enough attention to keep them there and then backing off so as not to overdo it. Usually completely ignoring a girl just pisses them off, there is a nuance to not giving too much attention as to fulfill all her needs for attention, but giving en… | /r/seduction | 09/07/13 02:01 PM |
| 10 | Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino.Exactly, one thing many guys are missing is being interesting. Do things, have hobbies, have life experience to draw from. My friends often sit there going "how do you have such long conversations with women?". Easy, I do more than jerk off and play video games, not that I don't do those things too, but you have to get out and do some shit. They act like women are obligated to talk to them about shit they don't enjoy. Now I'm not saying to go out and do things you don't like, but if you go out a… | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 02:45 PM |
| -1 | The #1 Reason You're Not Having SexYou really think someone would do that? Just...go on the internet and tell lies? | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 01:10 PM |
| 2 | A reminder - don't be the Nice Guy.Copied it from my ebook, guess I didn't highlight far enough over, changing it now | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 01:29 PM |
| 11 | A reminder - don't be the Nice Guy.From the book 1 If it frightens you, do it. 2 Don't settle. Every time you settle, you get exactly what you settled for. 3 Put yourself first. 4 No matter what happens, you will handle it. 5 Whatever you do, do it 100%. 6 If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got. 7 You are the only person on this planet responsible for your needs, wants, and happiness 8 Ask for what you want. 9 If what you are doing isn't working, try something different. 10 Be clear and direct.… | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 12:58 PM |
| 4 | The reality is differentI'm somewhat of a natural and one of the biggest things that I press on my friends who don't understand how I sleep with such attractive women without trying, is that the reason I do is that I don't try. I am not anywhere near the most attractive guy they could be with, and I'm not saying I have the "ultimate game" and can pickup chicks at the bar every night, but I talk to them like a human being and I don't put up with their bullshit. They know I'll walk away because I don't care that they're … | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 04:12 PM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Just because you don't need to have money to write a book doesn't mean having the money wont make it easier to publish/get out quickly. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 02:19 PM |
| 4 | [FR] ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED: At a stoplight, get the girl's phone number in the car next to me...Holy shit that was the single most flawless response I could have hoped for, I laughed for a good solid minute at that. Thank you sir. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Do. Not. Deal. With. Shitty. Women. Period.This, so much this. These girls seem to be drawn to me for some reason. Every time I fall in to it. They fuck with your head hardcore | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 07:00 PM |
| 0 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Now all he has to do is create a new object of class newGirl() every few months! | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 11:05 PM |
| 2 | My transformation. Thank you Seddit.I wish I could start a slow clap right now. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Are Emoticons Killing My Text Game?Send that bitch a smiley face, bitches love smiley faces. | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 08:14 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with girls that are overly forward??Reply: "My shift ends in 3 hours, lets get together then" | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 06:01 PM |
| 8 | What are some of the most unbelievable closes you've ever pulled off?What in the actual fuck did I just read? | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 08:27 PM |
| 0 | If you know a girl likes you, and wants to kiss you, what's a good line to make this happen?I once had a girl pull the naked man on me. It worked 100% of the time. | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 07:44 PM |
| 1 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.Zack and Miri make a porno, you wouldn't think it would work, but it does. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Approaching a "mean" or "cold" girl..it's like the whole interaction was a stream of shit tests.If you ask them to hold your beer, they feel obligated to stay until you come back instead of just walking away while you piss. It's really that simple. | /r/seduction | 07/01/13 04:39 PM |
| 0 | [FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor"Well I'm certainly not going to do it while he's there, that's not even a question of morals, that's just stupid. Otherwise, it's her responsibility not to sleep with me and if she does it's her choice, not like I forced her. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 07:50 PM |
| -1 | [FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor"My rule is, if they're married I leave them alone and if they've been with their boyfriend for more than 6 months I leave them alone. Otherwise it's not my problem. I wont actively pursue like he did in this case, but if they want to fuck me I have no moral obligation to their boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 06:06 PM |
| 2 | I just realized that I am lying to myself all the time and it's destroying EVERYTHINGThis book is awesome | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 08:29 PM |
| 3 | #-closed with a girl on saturday, she now says she has a bf, but still wants to go to coffee "if that doesnt change anything"Normally when women say they have a BF, I immediately respond with "oh, do you tell everyone about your problems when you first meet them?". If you just want to screw her, go have coffee and screw her. If you want to date her, don't, she'll cheat on you if she's willing to cheat on him. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Update on the trial of the false rape accusations made against me (for those who asked me to update when I went to trial).He wasn't fired, his bosses held his job for him the entire time he was in jail. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/12 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Wtf is wrong with me?As a man with hairy knuckles, I can confirm that you can still jack off with hairy knuckles. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 04:49 PM |
| 1 | My roommate suggested I share my story with you guys.Oh I'm well aware of the law, I wasn't home at the time. The roommate who let them in is an idiot when it comes to laws or rights or pretty much anything that doesn't involve him making a profit, and even there he's not all together. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 06:15 PM |
| 1 | My roommate suggested I share my story with you guys.I don't think he said that anywhere. I am the third roommate that lives in the house and this is how they explained it to me. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 04:57 PM |
| 1 | My roommate suggested I share my story with you guys.They did not even say they were police officers until they were in the house from my understanding and he didn't ask to see the warrant before he let them in. They just said "Can we come in?" and he let them in. I was extremely pissed at our other roommate for how he handled it. He's not the brightest bulb in the universe. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 04:54 PM |
| 2 | My roommate suggested I share my story with you guys.I am the third roommate who wasn't home at the time he got picked up. I gave our roommate who let them in a whole world of shit for that. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 04:43 PM |
| 1 | My roommate suggested I share my story with you guys.Also, they did force him. They handcuffed him and took him out of the house. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 04:42 PM |
| 1 | My roommate suggested I share my story with you guys.I can confirm that he isn't lying, the States Attorney is brand new and doesn't want to lose her first case. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/12 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Whats a classy way of saying "Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck?"Ever had your asshole licked by a fat man in an over coat? Would you like to? | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Response to being too short?"I bet I'm tall enough laying down" is the best retort. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 05:50 PM |
| 22 | [FR] First P-Close, thats right the infamous pizza closeThis isn't the only pie you'll be getting from that shop.....zing | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 01:27 AM |
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