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lucasven/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:58 AM
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I think that's ok then. You're the one who must decide.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:55 AM
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The problem must be the first girl that told you that you didn't make her feel attractive. Your attitude towards her should be enough to do that, if she makes you horny then it's fine. Don't screw up this because of bad experiences. Remember: what a girl says she things or feels isn't what is really going on.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:54 AM
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If she doesn't even feels aroused with you, run! It's not worth it. No matter how much she doesn't want sex, she would at least feel aroused and let you escalate a little bit
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:21 AM
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"She is the most attractive..." There you sad, scarcity mentality, she is just a girl who is a fit for an LTR, you'll find plenty, she would still have to prove to you that she's worth it. Keep in mind that if logistics don't help, she's not LTR material. No matter how much you think it would be nice, in real facts it's not, because she will be far away from you.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:15 AM
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I lost my last LTR for this exact same thing. I took things for granted and started telling her how bad I felt for some shit. It took her less than 1 month, 2 weeks of getting weird and 2 others withdrawing sex. And them she got away. Before that I thought that redpill wasn't all that true as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 02:22 PM
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You don't have to tell your mom that you don't care about the dude, just say: that's sad. I learned to do that because I don't care, but people expect you to care, try your best to don't be rude to people. About being entertained, if you follow TRP philosophy YOU ate the one that should be entertaining everyone.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 05:10 PM
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1 You need to put on the effort, time and money to do so. Go do the stuff even if you don't want to. When it becomes an habit, you'll be doing it without even thinking about it. Hang you with different groups of people, one is going to introduce you to 3 or 4 others and when you get to know them, they'll introduce you to more and more people. That's the only way to do it, and it takes time. 2 you can game girls anywhere you can, but without social proof your frame needs to be the best. And you h…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:13 AM
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You don't ask for advice of girls but was wondering if you should do what she told you. Do I need to tell you anything more? If she is looking for comfort and want you to be blue pill, will you do it for her? Of course not, the moment you bend over she will fuck you.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:14 PM
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Health Money Body That's how I would approach the problem in order to regain my frame. Of course, if you can't afford health right now, money comes first. Last year I lost my frame and lost a LTR as well. Happened to me 3 times already. Hahahahaha Last year was about money, I'm going to treat a chronical back pain this year. Gonna need to spend a lot of money on that as well. I feel you man, you'll get better.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:04 PM
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Buy the damm drink for the girl and act like it was all just a joke for you. It didn't matter, we can see it did, but fake it till you make it.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 03:54 PM
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Thought the same shit. But I think this post is for the people who ask dumb questions on asktrp without reading the sidebar. He's trying to make them grow some balls.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:45 PM
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You're very indecise right now. I love LTRs too, I want a family and everything. But after I saw about SMV on man and woman, I realised that it's stupid to go for an LTR, maybe I should aim for MLTRs. Because on my age(25) girls are in the top of their SMV and I'll reach mine on 35. So it's not a good idea to to for a LTR right now because the chances of getting a low SMV girl or getting a girl that will dump me anytime soon are high. Also, as I think is your case too, I want a LTR because I enj…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 03:16 PM
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Last paragraph is gold, that's what he should keep in mind. She would fuck her abuser everyday, because she enjoyed being abused, ALWAYS ignore what she says. Her job is to make you beta. Your job is stopping her from doing that.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 03:01 PM
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Exactly what happened on my last LTR, all true
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:52 PM
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This is the game, to know when to be really cool and funny and to know when to be a jerk to her. Generally you initiates being nice and if she is a bitch, you become cold to her in a gentleman way, not responsive like you are offended. Or you can be a jerk to test how hooked she is. Or you can be a jerk in a funny way as if you don't care. You should adjust all this to yourself, as our friend said in the other comment. Frame is not you not caring, frame is what makes you outcome independent. Doe…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:48 PM
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What if we can break them down in paths? Like the salesman path, the entrepreneur path, the "normal job" path. We can join the skills of each path and help people find what best suits them.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:34 PM
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Nice input. Where I live I'm in the top 5% with my height. Guys taller than me generally are weird because they're too tall. My last LTR liked to be treated liked shit in bed and don't fit your description. But maybe she's an exception. What you said makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 08:24 PM
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I'm staying my journey as an entrepreneur while going up on my main job. I would love some inputs on how to do it better and would love to help anyone who wants that too. I think we can break down money making skills in steps. I'm developing myself to that goal for years and can surely help anyone who wants. But I'm not in the top game yet. Some people might think it's counterproductive to help other people aquire these skills, but as you can see in the comments not everyone wants that. So, make…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:17 PM
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It's a choice
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:11 PM
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Nice tip about Jordan Belfort. Any tips on managing people to get more out of them giving them less?
/r/askTRP06/02/18 07:42 PM
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I couldn't agree more with you. Generalizations are shit. And I always adjust to the girl. As I told you before, my vision of this was because the only girl that didn't like it rough used to see me as BP. We are in the same boat man, no need for rage. But I came to a theory that I tend to attract girls that like to be highly dominated because of my height I'm 6'1 (1,86m). Just a theory as I said. I always adapt and do what works best.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:21 PM
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That's my story, unicorn and AWALT
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:26 PM
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No need for that bro, I'm just saying to try that with woman that say they don't like it. But if you've tried and they really don't, than you're right. I'm not saying this is an universal true. Just saying that on my experience I never found anyone that really really don't like. I have different preferences myself, and woman hardly guess what I like.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:07 PM
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I've been on this routine myself for over a year. I don't recommend it, I got a chronical back pain because I didn't get enough rest. It's been 3 years since this happened and I still have back pain for sleep privation if I don't sleep enough (9h) for 3 days in a row.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 08:24 PM
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When I broke up with my ex a few months ago I decided to hit the gym HARD and it worked pretty well because I got in shape and got laid much more easily after that. Besides that you know what to do, game girls, get laid, abundance mentality, she's not your snowflake and she's probably going to replace you with an alpha or ride the CC. What are you going to do about it? WORK ON YOURSELF
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:36 AM
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I've told my story here many times, but here it goes again. I, as you, thought that I could find some girl that would be nice to me, want to have sex, be there for me when I needed her. A true partner basically. I found that girl, she was my unicorn for a few months. Once she saw that I wouldn't dump her for anything and that she was all that was going on for me, she dumped me ON THE SPOT. If you're interested in the full story ask me on pm. But to sum it up to you, I was entering a depression t…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:28 AM
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I have one and can confirm
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 04:56 AM
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No matter how good you two go together, you always have to game her. Show scarcity and dread the hell out of her. You made a mistake, go back 2 places and start again.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 04:38 AM
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I'm doing the same right now. It's working
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:39 AM
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You start easy on them? I would love an input on how to fuck assess more easily. I generally go easy when starting because the pain can really turn them down. Maybe I'm not making them horny enough before starting. On pussy I always go rough and it's always more wet when I do it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:18 AM
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I haven't got laid that much, but I do believe that every girl like it rough, because it's genetic. They like to be dominated. The only girl that didn't liked me being rough to her was the girl that saw me as beta. All the others really enjoyed a good rough pounding. Get for example a girl that doesn't get wet very easily and fuck her HARD AND FAST while she is laying on her stomach. She will get dripping wet. I had an LTR that literally dripped every time I fucked her like if I was rapping her.…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:14 AM
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I had EXACTLY the same experience in my last relationship, I was always there for her. And in the very moment that I needed her to be there for me, she was gone. That's what made me swallow the redpill last year and I couldn't be more happy. I'm now practicing this and improving on it. The results are amazing
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:04 AM
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Telomers control how much you age, fasting is one thing that increases it's size (supported by science) that's my 50 cents :)
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 02:36 AM
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I read that one, used to have the same problems as op and I'm getting better now
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:55 AM
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Girls have the keys of sex, while man have the keys of relationships. You're just seeing it by your point of view. Girls want relationships and emotional connection. Man want sex. It doesn't matter to them how much sex they can get. As it doesn't matter to you how much you can fuck women and say no to relationships.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:29 PM
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Same here
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:41 PM
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"then you'll make yourself free, because you wouldn't miss the awesome opportunity of being with me"
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:39 PM
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My plate love to complain when I keep bossing around with her. But she always do what I tell her, trp is awesome hahaha
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:24 PM
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In portuguese (Brasil) we say that dogs who barks don't bite
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 07:22 PM
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I feel you man, but after a few LTRs where the girls dumped me because I was exactly like you, I changed my mind. My last LTR was what we call a unicorn, she did everything for me, had sex with me Everytime I wanted, she used to pay when we went out and I had no money. But on the first sign that I was going to everything for her and wasn't going to dump her for the shit she did (not much, just failed shit tests). She dumped me in two weeks after she saw all that. She withdraw sex with me and I a…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:23 PM
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How hot are girls A and B? Seems to me that A is a 7 and B is a 5. Hot girls generally don't crave attention that much
/r/askTRP19/01/18 04:50 PM
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When I'm in such situation I try to make jokes, poke her stomach, grab her nose, grab her ears. All in a joking way, engage while you escalate, don't talk about a three and grab her shoulder or back, that's just weirder. Instead, just act like you can't keep your hands off her, in a joking manner, she will grow comfortable with you as you go. If you try, tell me how it worked out for you
/r/askTRP19/01/18 01:12 PM
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Thats exactly the kind of advice I was looking for. Thanks so much.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 11:42 AM
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She is the one who keeps around me all the time. I know she does that only to control me. And because she sees me as her beta emotional support. I saw her only to reassure my dominance, from now on I really intend to blow her off hard.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 03:14 AM
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That's what I intend to do. Thanks for the advice man
/r/askTRP19/01/18 03:10 AM
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Awesome man. I'm willing to improve my social skills as well. I'm already doing it on baby steps. But sometimes I think I keep going back and forth
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 05:46 PM
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Not nexted her, or, as soon as she disappeared, he shouldn't let her come back. Being aware of her emotional instability and play her differently.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 03:57 PM
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Laws of power means you're using power, manipulation and leverage to gain what you want. For me, that means you're using it to make people help you get what you want in life. But if for you that means using it to make random people like you, be my guest. When it happened to me, I kept my frame and continued working on my shit. No one never knew I was not okay with that. And as I didn't care, people forgot about it eventually. One should not care what retardeds think about him. Keep that in mind
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:23 PM
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Making real friends is really hard. Try writing down what you're looking for in a friend and they will show up as you are aware of what you want
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:48 AM
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If you're afraid that your ex will ruin your place, your SMV is lower than hers. She should be the one afraid of seeing you with hotter chicks. She's dreading you, even not knowing what dread is
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:24 AM
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You wrote all this presuming woman can't lead. But you didn't know for sure. Before throw shit away that you can't explain, do your research. I want to add to that, that I never met a good female programmer. They always lack the logical thinking.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:14 AM
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You haven't entered the LTR and already lost your frame. If you don't want to commit to any of them, then don't. If you would want to, you would have done 2 years ago when you met them
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:08 AM
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I would suggest you to read red pill since you don't know. But for a hint I would say: your SMV sucks. I've reading red pill a lot, and your problem is in there. AND you're being dreaded by your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:04 AM
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The way I told above
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:57 AM
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You're the one who knows the girl. The way you putted the gang bang story, I believe so. Why are we still talking about this? Are you still considering? If you are, I truly believe you should be cuck
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:55 AM
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This cut you off stuff seems a lot like anger. I wouldn't go that path. You want to show her her place, not scare the shit out of her. Being cool is the best alternative if there isn't a long history of humiliation or avoidance
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:52 AM
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Whatever suits you better. I would go funny: I know, I'm fucking awesome. I actually coached a few known rock stars
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:50 AM
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Based on red pill study you know you should next her because of the flirting, having oneitis never ends well. Based on what you're saying, she's using you as support in case she don't have options. But if she finds someone interesting and this person hits on her, based on history is very likely that she is going to do something.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:43 AM
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I prefer the honesty approach too.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:38 AM
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If it's just one, it's not plating
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:36 AM
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How many other chicks are you plating?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:35 AM
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You fucking told the other guy to take her when she was flirting with him (crying like a baby), she blew up your phone. And you is still fucking talk to that bitch? That is a clear sign that you're in her hands. About the gang bang, if she flirted in front of you. In a Rave where everyone is on drugs, don't you think she would have the balls? Now I need to know, what's so special about her that you can't let her go?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:32 AM
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Why are even considering that? You shouldn't go if you know she gang bangs guys at this kind of party. Unless you like watching her having sex with other dudes. What you should be doing right now is thinking how you're going to get the next. You already bitched her, she knows you're in her hands. From what you wrote, the only thing I see is a girl who does not know how to control her impulses.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:11 AM
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Why do they matter? Is your purpose in life to be perceived as a nice guy who pleases everyone?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:02 AM
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I was going to say that. Once you become someone worth following, people will follow you. They will envy you, and will want to know how you do what you do.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:57 AM
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You lack abundance mindset. I believe you love her, I used to be there myself. Once I realized I could get the same shit from other girls, I stopped caring.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:29 AM
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This is not going to solve anything, but once you reach 8% body fat or less. Your sex drive will go away. For me, 10% does the trick. But porn is a way of reward without doing any effort. You'll be pissed with yourself for not being able to get off or get hard watching porn, since you do it for the reward. Believe me, I used to watch porn for 6 to 8 hours straight on a moment in my life.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:52 AM
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I tend to focus on the stuff that will bring me the best outcome. If you can read one book and accomplish what you need, then why read the other one? NMMNG have plenty of examples of guys feeling guilty for setting boundaries, it's a full time job to be always aware of this and stick to it until it becomes natural.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:45 AM
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I used to eat 1900 one week and 2000 the next one. On the 2000 I used more carb and less fat. That way I had a week of refeed while still on deficit. I managed to go from 20 to 10% body fat in 8 weeks on this diet. But sincerely, if you are focusing on other stuff I don't recommend you to do that, because i lost part of my sexual drive after reaching 12%. Talking to other people that got that lean, they told me they did lost sexual drive too. Today I am somewhere between 15 and 18%. It's the bes…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:41 AM
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Man, I have the same background as you, I'm about your age (25 here), raised to be polited. After reading no more mr nice guy I realized what people here say and do. On the book you'll find tons of examples that corroborate the behaviour you should have. Believe me when I say: when you stop trying to please others, things will come to you much easier than you thought they were. This book is a must read for you.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:23 AM
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My last 2 ex told me they wanted to me friends with me, and they really meant it. What you said about friendship really hitted me in the stomach. Thank you man, I'll improve on that.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:02 PM
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Seems like you need a psychologist. Sorry if it offends you, but drugs and emotional stability don't go very well together. At least not for me, I used to be like this when I was on drugs as well. IMHO drugs are a symptom that something is wrong with your life. This girl isn't the reason you're like that, you're like that because you don't enjoy yourself, because you don't think you would be happy without someone, and that shouldn't be that way. I think you should go to redpill and start getting…
/r/seduction23/10/17 03:28 PM
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Actually, feminism is being raised to break up the family structure and make people easy to control. Much easier to control a single unit than 2 that can discuss what is better for them and teach their children how to behave property, if you're fighting about women's rights you won't have time to raise your child properly.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 01:44 PM
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