luchalondon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	She's scared that I'm a player, but I do like her! Well, I'm not going to argue with you because I'm sure you've got your experiences and I've got mine. I will say this though - in my experience talking about emotions (or as I like to call it, Dawsons Creek bullshit), especially before you have sex, only leads to a bad place. Disappointment falls firmly in the category of 'an emotion'. I'm sure there are guys out there who can make it work and still pull girls left and right. I have no doubt that it's possible. However, I personally recommend th…	/r/seduction	05/10/10 01:54 PM
1	She's scared that I'm a player, but I do like her! What happened on the second date? From what you've said, it sounds like she's upset that you have the upper hand in the relationship. She is trying to take the power back. Ignore her bullshit, carry on running your own game, fuck what she thinks. That is all.	/r/seduction	05/10/10 05:02 AM
4	She's scared that I'm a player, but I do like her! Just point out the good (non-sexual) things that happened between the both of you: the conversations, the jokes or adventures you both shared and mention how that is important to you. Bad advice. Never try to 'logic' your way into a girls pants, regardless of the situation. be prepared to walk away This, I agree with.	/r/seduction	05/10/10 04:51 AM
2	fPUA? We've created a monster!	/r/seduction	05/10/10 04:31 AM
1	Give me a mission, seddit A good one I used to use is "Hi, I'm working on my fear of approaching women, and my mate told me that if I get blown out by 100 women I'll have nothing to fear any more. I don't suppose you guys could reject me, could you? As brutal as possible, please." And then refuse to leave them alone until they tell you to go away. The first group was terrifying, the second was pretty scary, the third was fun and after that it was just fucking hilarious...	/r/seduction	04/10/10 09:13 PM
1	fPUA? Oh, my bad, I didn't realise you wanted to be the one initiating. I think these guys can probably give you better advice than seddit can tbh. Although pickup must be insanely easy for a girl...you just find a random wallflower you like the look of, grab him and say 'come with me', then leave the club and flag down a cab? Or am I missing something?	/r/seduction	04/10/10 09:02 PM
1	facepalm 10/10	/r/seduction	04/10/10 08:07 PM
1	How to get to the friend zone? Sounds like your problem is it's completely incongruous...can you imagine a Vin Diesel, strong silent type wanting to have girly friends he can chat about relationships with? Can you imagine Riddick sitting down with a bottle of red wine and a gal pal to watch Legally Blonde?	/r/seduction	04/10/10 07:28 PM
1	fPUA? It really depends. The focus of PUA, in general, is getting the most women possible, getting the best women is a different skillset. I'm sure some people will tell you it's just 'advanced', but imo it's totally different. As a woman, and I'm making a wild assumption/generalisation here, you probably want the best guys, not the most. Any girl can get the most guys, if she's feeling particularly competitive about it. The advice you're getting here might not be appropriate/what you're looking for. …	/r/seduction	04/10/10 07:00 PM
1	Hey Seddit. What do you guys think of Chris Arnett (PlayerSupreme)? I used his forums for a couple of months last year. I'd say his stuff is definitely effective but it's also very demanding. You can't just read some of it and slot it in with the other stuff you know, you have to embrace it completely and reject everything else for it to work. The method wants you to change everything about yourself, it's not just a bunch of openers and 'Be alpha!'. He's very critical of the PUA industry, and I agree with most of what he says on that subject. In his opinion, PUA…	/r/seduction	04/10/10 06:49 PM