Post wall woman here. I wish these guys would get that actually liking women and not just wanting to fuck them is a basic requirement to meet a decent woman. We know when they don’t. They may be able to hide it at first, but not for long.
Yes, one that is smart, kind and emotionally available. I date less attractive guys than myself as a rule. I was married to a hunk (looks are overrated ).
Women want to be degraded??? We may want to be dominated on occasion, like ravished in bodice ripper books. I wonder if some women think some men like that?
Ohhh, that was your point. Yeah, everyone is picky in their own way, especially women. Plus, why would I want to hook up with a stranger? Statistically women don’t cum with those.
Does anyone ever ask that? You are really reaching. People say, I won’t date you if you have a gf or are already having sex with someone. But, “I won’t date you if you are dating someone in a sexual way” is just bizarre.
If they are practicing safe sex and not lying to anyone or hurting anyone then I won’t judge. What bothers me is people lying about wanting a relationship when they just want to hook up or cheating when they have committed themselves.
Yes! Some of the men our age can’t keep up. I wish the younger guys would take care of themselves and wear sunscreen. Then when they are 50+ they can still be active and not look so much older.
What are you looking for in OLD? I’m older than you, have my kids, house, friends and career. I’m not looking for a husband or father for my kids, although if that happened, great. Are you looking to have kids? That may make it more difficult. I had no problem getting matches. Now were they all quality? No. But it hasn’t been boring! I think men just out number women. I’m off apps now.
Only if you are EXCEPTIONALLY good in bed. There’s going to be fighting and breakups. The sex will be hot, but only last maybe 6 months, if you’re lucky. My personal experience, I just dumped him.
True, plus so much of our sexuality is really inside. It’s a state of being. Of confidence and being comfortable with ourselves. I’ve never been sexier.
From my experience, men want to be desired and wanted for themselves. I know a lot of fairly well to do men my age. I think sex workers would be a good alternative. They don’t. 🤷🏻♀️
No, you have no idea what mothering is. My husband stayed home to take care of us after I had our last child. He thought it would be a piece of cake. One night he came to me and said, “I need to go back to work. I need a break!” He worked 60 hours a week at a labor intensive job. Lol
Mmmm, it was kind of insulting and you meant it to be. For what it’s worth, my ex isn’t a bad guy. He’s just not someone I want to be with anymore. We are friends now. Does he wish it was more? Yeah. ☹️
Her family, her friends, her nursing home. Honestly, by a certain age we don’t want men. They are usually much more crippled and the men I meet over 50 all have heart conditions or need multiple surgeries. I’ve had my kids. I don’t want to live with a man again. I like other aspects of men, like sex and cuddling ( when I can find one that’s any good at it).
Yes, we do. Both sexes should end bad treatment/relationships as soon as possible. If you don’t then you can get used to the treatment and even addicted to the drama. Out can also hinder your chances of finding a good partner if you become embittered.
I wish I could disagree. I am liberal and had higher hopes of my liberal dates. They may be worse, but I don’t have a huge dating pool to confidently confirm this.
I was recently red pilled. Such a mind fuck. I told him I couldn’t see him anymore because he made me feel crazy and I’m not. Edited to add: he contacted me again after a month asking for another chance.