| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 569 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them. | RANT | lucid_sunday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:47 PM |
| 284 | He’s moved out and I’m moving on!!! | DISCUSSION | lucid_sunday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 113 | Reflecting on my last relationship | RANT | lucid_sunday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 45 | HVM plans the best date ever, surprises me with it, and I am still over the moon. | FDS SUCCESS! | lucid_sunday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Men offer me nothing that I can’t provide myself | SHOWER THOUGHT | lucid_sunday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:39 AM |
| 0 | I’m tired of being single but even more than that, I’m tired of men who offer nothing. | DISCUSSION | lucid_sunday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:06 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"Anti-immigrant rhetoric makes you look like a dumbass. I don’t care if immigrants replace me not having kids. I also don’t care about the hypothetical taxes your hypothetical kids will hypothetically have to pay. And why the fuck should I care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"Open marriage is a hard no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 05:11 AM |
| – | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"Yep. I’m a twenty something highly educated woman and I get told all the time that I should quit my career and be a housewife instead. No thanks! The dual income no kids life is the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 06:25 PM |
| -1 | HVM plans the best date ever, surprises me with it, and I am still over the moon.Im not in a relationship with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 03:58 AM |
| -3 | HVM plans the best date ever, surprises me with it, and I am still over the moon.I went a few months between dates with him, my choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 03:57 AM |
| 6 | HVM plans the best date ever, surprises me with it, and I am still over the moon.Ive been seeing him now for a year, but I will keep that in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?I hope I look hotter in my 30s! I wear my hair kind of short with bangs and I never want to grow it out because I love it but people frequently think I’m in my mid-teens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | I had to hang curtains because I was receiving disgusting texts from my LVM neighbor who could see in from his porch. I hate them, but I hate him more. It's bad enough that he was looking in my windows, but the audacity that he would text me about the "sexy hair flip" that I did "FOR HIM"....I hope you informed the police....this is peeping Tom behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:36 AM |
| 4 | This post will haunt my dreamsI don’t even wear sunscreen every day. I’m slacking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I read what you said and my statement stands. All that does is absolve them of responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I’m not going to pay someone to clean the house to absolve grown men of responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 8 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I don’t have $5k to break the lease. It’s worth it to not be in debt or homeless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I don’t know his dad but I do know his mom very well, and have known her prior to him moving in. I was much more comfortable reaching out to the parent I already know as opposed to the parent I’ve never met before who doesn’t even know who I am | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Wholesome high value behaviour from men that should be more the normYeah the side effects sucked hard but it was so worth it in the end. My acne was so deep and painful that I couldn’t lay on my side without extreme discomfort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:06 PM |
| 12 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I don’t need to hide the keys I have the steering wheel locked in my room | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Why would you marry someone who has to get their shit together. I hope he treats her the way she deserves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I’m just so tired of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:57 AM |
| 7 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Then I guess they can see how good bear spray feels. The one who stays on my floor I’m really close with, we’ve been friends for years. He also happens to be an MMA coach. The guys upstairs wouldn’t dare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Is porn just normalised cheating?How do you plan on policing someone’s thoughts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:02 AM |
| 36 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I have a performance car that I’ve built and one of them begs to take it to work so that he can impress his friends. Like no. Build your own | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:45 AM |
| 22 | She's beautiful even at 56, where's the wall men constantly keep talking about?She looks so fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:18 AM |
| 16 | Vile monster confesses to SHOOTING his wife’s beloved pet cat. Wife makes excuses for her deranged spouse, and basically ends the post with “Gosh, men are so dang silly, aren’t they??” Sigh. R.I.P. to the poor kitty, honestly.Yeah I spray mine with a bottle when they start going at it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:18 AM |
| 19 | Buying yourself a ring and loving yourself is trending!I did kind of the same thing. except I “married my work”. I work in human remains identification and it means way more to me than any male could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Not really an appropriate use of the word “triggered”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Pardon? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Is porn just normalised cheating?Does this include thoughts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:42 PM |
| 20 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.It would cost $5000 to break the lease so unfortunately that isn’t going to happen. I have zero financial security. I just had to take out a personal loan to keep the lights on so I’m going to have to deal with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:31 PM |
| 74 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Lease is up June 30 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:24 PM |
| 49 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.It was a situation of desperation after I lost my job. My disdain for men had to come second to preventing homelessness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Is porn just normalised cheating?Agree to disagree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:01 PM |
| -9 | Is porn just normalised cheating?It’s not personal participation. The girl on the screen wouldn’t know the watcher from Adam. I respect your opinion, and it is definitely damaging and hurtful, but I don’t think it meets the definition of cheating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:52 PM |
| 10 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.ME TOO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:15 PM |
| 30 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.My mistake was letting them move in after they’ve only ever lived with their parents. I’ve been on my own since 18 and can’t fathom still living at home and expecting my mom to clean up after me at 23! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:01 PM |
| 56 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.This is my first and last time having roommates. I’m so over it. This is copied what I responded to him. I know that you and other roommates can see the ring in the toilet, dirt on the floor, etc. It’s not fair that you wait for ME to do something about it. I shouldn’t have to ask. If you see something that needs to be cleaned, please clean it. I feel like I do 90% of the housework. You’ve gotten a lot better about cleaning up after yourself in the kitchen and I appreciate that. I just don’t bel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:50 PM |
| 167 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.You had me in the first section I almost went OFF. I called one of their moms today and said “teach your son to scrub a toilet. He’s 23.” She was pretty embarrassed but honestly I don’t feel bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Is porn just normalised cheating?I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:13 PM |
| 133 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I definitely have hypertension now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:13 PM |
| -9 | Is porn just normalised cheating?I think I draw the line at personal participation. Facetime sex with someone is cheating because there’s another person participating. I haven’t cared about partners masturbating in the past because I do it too. I DO NOT watch porn, but I do masturbate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 8 | Wholesome high value behaviour from men that should be more the normI used to be big into skincare and then I went on accutane and I have baby butt skin with zero routine. Sunscreen every day and that’s that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Is porn just normalised cheating?Not being facetious, do y’all consider masturbation to be cheating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:14 PM |
| -13 | Is porn just normalised cheating?I think that’s different from actually being physical with another person though. I think calling that cheating minimizes actual affairs where sex is being had and there is the potential to spread STIs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 70 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I can’t wait for this lease to be up so I can go back to living in a 1bd by myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:11 PM |
| 71 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I like how you think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 192 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I responded to each of them saying “YOU.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 4 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menI have 3 male roommates (we are all students, it’s the only place I could afford) who are all extremely LV and think I’m their maid and I’m seriously about to fucking SNAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 10:21 PM |
| 14 | Humans of New York story about a HVM. Must read!!!It makes me so mad when people say doctors are only out for money. My dad has probably given away the equivalent of half or more of everything he’s made in his 25 years in practice. He used to let people come to our house in the middle of the night if they had even a general practice complaint. Someone’s kid has a severe belly ache at 12AM? Dad would get up in his pajamas and bring them into the living room to examine them. I remember him putting stitches in a neighbor kids forehead at our dinin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 08:23 AM |
| 36 | Humans of New York story about a HVM. Must read!!!I’m getting there ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:58 AM |
| 23 | Humans of New York story about a HVM. Must read!!!Yeah I’m pretty sure I’m asexual/aromantic haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:56 AM |
| 44 | Humans of New York story about a HVM. Must read!!!Thanks! Unfortunately, or fortunately, I’m finding that I’m not particularly attracted to or interested in men but I appreciate the sentiment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:50 AM |
| 9 | What’s the worst gift you’ve been given by a LVM? Here’s mine. Story in comments.A guy has never given me a gift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:26 AM |
| 130 | Humans of New York story about a HVM. Must read!!!My dad is a trauma surgeon in a very rural area of Idaho. When he had a private practice, if he ever had a patient who would go into debt over their surgery, my dad would barter with them. One time he reattached a guys arm (ATV accident) in exchange for an antique rifle the guy had. Another time he saved a man who had been accidentally shot in the chest and didn’t charge him a cent; the guy owned a rafting tours company and we got to go on a multi day rafting trip. Dad knew that he could afford … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:24 AM |
| 22 | Why is she cleaning his apartment before she moves in?Plus I learn some good tricks about how to clean stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 69 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”I don’t want kids of my own and I don’t want to be a stepmom either so it’s a hard no for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:09 AM |
| 121 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”I would never date a guy with kids (well honestly I’d probably never date a guy) because you will NEVER be a priority in their lives. Ever. Kids and baby mom always come first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:06 AM |
| 44 | Why is she cleaning his apartment before she moves in?It’s therapeutic for me honestly. I like watching stuff get cleaned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:03 AM |
| 237 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”“That’s not fair” LMAO. You’re a better woman than me. As soon as someone says they have kids I’m out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:01 AM |
| 389 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️Tell him you’re posting bail and then just don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:13 AM |
| 24 | He’s moved out and I’m moving on!!!I don’t feel unsafe. His feelings aren’t hurt. He knows better than to show up. Thanks for looking out ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:33 PM |
| 30 | He’s moved out and I’m moving on!!!I’ve always had complete control of my finances haha. We never combined anything. I got to keep both of our kitties 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:17 PM |
| 33 | He’s moved out and I’m moving on!!!The locks can be changed, but the rental company has to be the one to change them. That’s what I’m saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:16 PM |
| 37 | He’s moved out and I’m moving on!!!It’s a rental so I’m not allowed to, I’ll have to ask maintenance to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Is marriage really worth it ? Are men even worth the trouble ?I’m currently sitting on a referral to have my tubes removed, and honestly I’ve lost interest in men. I’ve never seen myself having children but I don’t see myself getting married anymore either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:43 PM |
| -4 | Reflecting on my last relationshipNot all relationships that end badly are abusive. He won’t be back. He has a probation officer for a DUI. Not DV or stalking. He knows that if he comes back I’ll call his mom and SHE’LL beat his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:00 PM |
| 7 | Reflecting on my last relationshipIn his mind he can’t get out fast enough. He’d rather die than be anywhere near me ever again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Reflecting on my last relationshipHe doesn’t want to be anywhere near me ever. He’s not that type of person. He knows I call his probation officer and it’s all over for him. He’s smarter than that. Thanks for looking out though. It’s not something I’m worried about in the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 10 | Reflecting on my last relationshipI hope healing comes quickly. Despite his downfalls I still feel a huge hole in my life where he used to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:43 PM |
| 11 | Reflecting on my last relationshipHe’s moving out of state, I’m not worried about changing the locks. I’m at work right now and he’s moving out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 31 | Reflecting on my last relationshipHes already mostly moved out, I’m staying. He moved in with me, not the other way around. I will not let him bully me out of my own home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:37 PM |
| 16 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMShe dm’d me and I didn’t report!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 18 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMShe messaged me, and I’m not sure how/why she got banned. I’m so glad she directed me here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 167 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMI’ve only been here for a little while and I’m at work so I haven’t looked around much but holy SHIT I have been doing everything wrong. I kept setting the bar lower and lower and guys just kept getting better at limbo. I think this sub will be really life changing for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:56 PM |
| 20 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMShe contacted me and I can confirm this is the right place for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:33 PM |
| 79 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMI’m sorry you got banned though that sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | I’m tired of being single but even more than that, I’m tired of men who offer nothing.That’s kind of disappointing. I wish I could wave a magic wand and make all men be more high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 328 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMI think you messaged me! Thank you for directing me here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:54 PM |
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