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That's what a lot of people tell me, actually.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/20 06:03 AM
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I will definitely keep this in mind when I start online dating again (after moving)! Did the man you're currently dating take the lead after your initial contact? A lot of RP-type media goes on and on about how a woman should NEVER approach, whether it's online or offline to see if a guy is really interested or not. Honestly, it's a bit confusing at this point.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 01:47 PM
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Did you send a message to the men first? I tried online dating a while back, but I never "approached" anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 05:13 AM
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Not mad about it. I just sometimes feel uncomfortable when there's so much attention on me. I'm just worried that I come across as rude or cold, when I'm actually just feeling nervous. A guy I dated previously told me he hesitated before approaching me because I came across as a "snob".
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 02:46 PM
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Not a single person who has read the book has commented here. Not one. I know what his history is, but I've been reading his blog for years now and I have seen how he has slowly changed his tune. Does that mean I trust everything he has to say? No. I meant the question to mean something like this: what do you think about the advice that this man (with his disconcerting past and all) is giving to young women in his book? I just wish someone who actually read it would chime in here 😆. Some of the …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 06:16 AM
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Just to clarify, so both parents generally take time off from work with a newborn, and when they return primary childcare during working hours go to one of the following: daycare, nannies, au pairs, other family members? I'm just curious to know what the most common arrangement is in those circles? Who takes care of the kids when the parents are working? Like I mentioned in my post, having an au pair stand in is very common in the DC area, where I was at one point in time.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 03:49 AM
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These career women, what is their philosophy when it comes to raising children? Do they take a few years off (or just maternity leave), have hired help, or stop working completely? How do these women balance their careers with family life?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 08:14 PM
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Who do you think IS looking for a gentle flower type of girl 🤔? Oh my goodness, I can't believe I'm a...gentle flower.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 06:14 PM
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How does a woman become an exception to the rule, in your opinion? What advice could a woman benefit from that the RP won't give (regarding RMV)?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 01:54 PM
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Would you say that men from different backgrounds have different expectations of their partners and choose differently? For example, a man who was born in the UC might have higher standards than a self-made man who comes from a MC background, even if they have both reached the same level of success in their lives. Some high-status men do sometimes have their 'kept women' or model wives that don't necessarily have a lot of substance. I wonder if the choices made by some of these men are influence…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 02:22 AM
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Agreed. I think it'll probably be best to just do what makes me happy and then work with that, instead of trying to force myself into a mold in order to appeal to a certain demographic of men who I THINK would be a suitable/ideal match.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 12:49 AM
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Thank you for your answer. I was hoping someone would give it to me straight! You managed to put my thoughts into words. May I ask what you studied? You say your husband comes from old money, how did you two meet? And also, are there any misconceptions women have, or perhaps any "cons" of dating men of this calibre? I'm asking because I think it's easy for some women to get caught up in the idea of marrying up, or being with a certain kind of man or part of certain social circles without really …
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 12:37 AM
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I would love to have my own in-home preschool as well. A few of my family members have also suggested the idea to me. I'll admit that I can sometimes have a rigid idea of what a high value man is. I'll definitely try to be more flexible and focus on the traits. For example, a trait that I look for is being smart with money, which is more important than having a lot of money. A man that can make the most of what he has. I've seen far too many well-off people have financial problems later in life …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 08:05 PM
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Finding a way to position myself around high value men won't be too much of a challenge for me, I think. I just have this insecurity that being a teacher won't be "good enough" in those circles 🤷🏻‍♀️, so I've avoided putting myself out there.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 06:18 PM
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Trust me, I've read A LOT on this sub. Of course career isn't what initially attracts a man. But wouldn't a high value, intelligent, successful man with a lot of options have higher expectations? Wouldn't he want a woman that can fit into his life and get along with his peers? Wouldn't he want you to reflect well on him? I guess it matters WHO you're trying to attract. What do you think?
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 06:13 PM
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I see what you mean and I agree. However, would it be wise to pursue a degree in a field that doesn't attract me all just so that I can meet men? I'd be miserable. ECE is something I truly enjoy and it's something that I can talk passionately about. Do you think that these couples mostly pair up because of proximity and not necessarily because of impressive credentials? Let's say I position myself in a way to be exposed to more high value men, I just feel my career choice would be looked down up…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 06:06 PM
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Only after paying for and reading the book did I notice the similarities? I didn't know these things beforehand. That's why I bought it. To see what he had to say, considering his reputation.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 01:11 PM
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When someone who wrote something like that suddenly writes a book for women about how to find love and MARRIAGE, I was quite curious what his advice would be.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 03:35 AM
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Don't you think it's important to at least investigate and see what you find? Of course I don't agree with everything he says, but a lot of his advice for women is similar to what you would find on here. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater 🤷🏻‍♀️?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/19 05:24 PM
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If that is the bare minimum, can you please give examples of important things that come after that?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 04:08 AM
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I currently live in the Washington metropolitan area.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/17 10:14 AM
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No, I don't mind. I usually just assume most men I meet have had previous partners, especially if it's a man who is older than me. If he had a really high notch count I'd find it a bit concerning, though.
/r/RedPillWives16/08/17 09:28 PM
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