luciesssss Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship. I think some fighting is normal just as occasionally you might fall out or a disagree with a friend it doesn’t mean the friendship is over. We’ve had a baby in the past year and the external factor of that has been hard. The sleep deprivation, differing parenting methods etc has been a learning curve but I still don’t think marriage itself is hard. It’s the other stuff.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/21 03:07 AM
448	MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship. I’ve never looked at my husband and thought ‘oh my god this so hard’. External circumstances are hard but he’s my equal and my partner so the marriage isn’t hard. If you have an equal then marriage is just normal	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 07:47 PM
180	I don’t really have words for this one. There’s been a few posts similar to this (excessive porn use/infidelity) on relationship advice recently and one thing that always stands outs is these pickmeishas pornify themselves, they make sure they’re never fat, they’re the ideal wank material for their scrote boyfriends/husbands and yet are still surprised when these men have porn addictions or cheat on them. Almost like men are the problem? Not women. You don’t get to not have a man with porn addiction from catering to his every bizarre …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/21 03:42 AM
16	I've decided to actively understand Zoomer's clothing style Shoo-gee apparently according to one tik tok I saw	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/21 06:51 PM
39	Andddd it’s confirmed. 🙄 my heart goes out to Anna💞 Honestly so disappointed in him. Genuinely thought he was better than this. Teaches me not to have expectations about male celebs 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/21 05:10 PM
68	imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡 Football attracts the worst of the worst. Fucking scrotes. The lot of them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 11:45 AM
20	Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently. Two hours of oral sounds absolutely fucking awful…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 03:47 AM
5	Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job. It’s a fake post. It’s so clearly rage bait.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 07:09 AM
19	Found this gem on Twitter I think deep introspection is necessary before any life changing decision. But introspection on this matter doesn’t mean you need to come to the conclusion that you should be childfree. It’s ok if after the deeply reflecting on what you want you still want to be a mother/have children. It’s also ok to acknowledge the role the patriarchy may play in that decision.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 02:25 PM
22	Where's the lie????? I wear my great grandmothers wedding ring so I can remember her and have her with me but she also had a long and happy marriage. Her and her husband adored one another. It also makes a difference that it’s from my family, my great grandmother who I loved so much. I wouldn’t want it from a woman I never knew	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/21 01:52 PM
77	Men want to trick you into doing it ALL but won't even pay for your dinner or celebrate your birthday anymore. Dont fall for it. I would have made a terrible housewife. I’m currently on maternity leave with my 3 month old. My husband works full time from home (albeit his job is flexible). My husband provides 50% of the childcare, he cooks every meal because I’m breastfeeding on demand and he cleans. I tell him if I want something doing and he does. On a morning when he’s going through his emails he takes our baby and gets him ready for the day and gives me an extra hour or so in bed to myself. Now I don’t consider this HV…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/21 05:11 AM
17	I literally got downvoted and told not to kinkshame because i said i never had rape fantasies. (:(: A lot of women have rape fantasies as a way coping with trauma. Also, a fantasy is just that. Doesn’t mean they want men to force themselves on them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 01:07 PM
5	When the trash takes itself out Thank you!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 01:27 PM
13	When the trash takes itself out Ok so I have a legit question. I saw a video where a girl was taken on a picnic date. It was summer, he prepared food and drinks and they went and had a picnic. Would that be a FDS approved date or is that a sign of a LVM? I personally probably wouldn’t want that date because I’d rather go inside but if you’re an outdoorsy person idk	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 01:08 PM
7	Words of advice to the Poly-debate. You aren't "radical" or "non-conformative" you are literally enforcing stereotypes as old as time. You are a HUGE part of the patriarchy. Charles Manson, other cult leaders and sultans etc all had harems of women, you are no different. We aren't buying your lies. Did my a levels with this girl	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 12:04 PM
10	When "doing the dishes, talking a walk, trimming his beard" are considered romantic 🤢 “When he feels really in love with me he wipes his own arse and doesn’t smear shit on the wall”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 03:26 PM
5	Ladies, when you hear a "I did nothing and she suddenly went crazy for no reason" type of story, rest assured it's complete bullshit and the guy is omitting a lot of things to make the girl look insane When I hear that I assume he manipulated and gaslit her and treated her like shit and she finally had had enough snapped and good on her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/20 07:41 AM
44	Dump him. I sometimes worry the bar is too low so I never like to call my husband a HVM but I’m pregnant and when I discuss it could take months for us to have sex after I give birth he’s like “so? It’s taking you 9 months to prepare to give birth it won’t go back to normal overnight” and that’s not a HVM it’s just a regular decent man thing to do? Isn’t it???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 03:54 PM
3	She had us in the first half ngl I wonder if he picked her	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 09:37 PM
12	Financial independence is one of the keys to FDS Yep! I will never not work. I will never be dependant on a man and then fucked over if he leaves. On my terms always.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/20 12:30 PM