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Where is she in her cycle? That plays a big part for me in how I respond. If she is PMS right now, there is no way any sort of response is going to be beneficial to you. All you can do is latch onto one of the feels that work to your benefit and amplify it to distract from the noise.
/r/askMRP07/01/19 01:57 PM
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From the reply you got, it sounds like the guy just wants to change the definition of "Alpha Male" in order to better fit what he is currently defining himself as. That just happens to be what is typically referred to as a Blue Piller around here. Poor guy, really trying to justify his insecurities.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 04:08 PM
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What is immoral about MRP? Holy fucking ego wrapped in sanctimonious pontification. That is pretty much what I saw when I went into that sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 04:04 PM
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This is exactly what I needed to hear. I am failing to properly project that I am busy, and my being busy needs to take priority until I am at a breaking point or done. Instead I get frustraited which causes my frame to fail. Hold Frame Convey I am busy, but provide a reasonable timeline to when I will be available Make time to listen to the issue/question when the time is right
/r/askMRP03/03/17 01:38 PM
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You know, I wonder if this is the case. Only in the past year and half have I really started making male friends, more so than just the standard work related friends. Before that it was the classic "Nice Guy" style, so not a whole lot of interaction with other men just being men.
/r/askMRP03/03/17 01:36 PM
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This pretty much describes my experience. I am basically the expert of everything, partially my fault, but it is because I do research... and read. I do try to keep things light and playful making jokes out of the situation etc. She doesn't really get mad, more frustrated if I won't give her a real answer. As you said, sometimes I will give a completely outlandish answer just to gauge the response.
/r/askMRP02/03/17 08:11 PM
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My wife does love to stare at tits....
/r/askMRP02/03/17 07:32 PM
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Thank you for the advice. This is just a small issue really, more of an annoyance but this sub has provided such good advice for other issues I thought this would be a good sounding board. Sounds like I need to go back to the basics here and maintain my frame by stating I am busy and getting back to her when I am available, then provide positive feedback similar to what you recommended.
/r/askMRP02/03/17 07:31 PM
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I like the responses you came up with. However the context of these conversations is while I am in the middle of taking care of other things and she already has an answer in mind. She is simply affirming her personal decision with mine. We certainly have conversations which I do not shut down, but again these are distractions while I am in the middle of something.
/r/askMRP02/03/17 07:07 PM
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Two books shaped my childhood. Hatchet, and The Giver. Hatchet because it talks about self-reliance and owning your actions. The Giver helped me understand that people can all "see" the same thing but interpret it differently. For other good reads, Where The Red Fern Grows and Indian in the Cupboard.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 03:56 PM
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One thing that surprised me when I started taking note of male fashion was how much women judge men by their shoes. I spent a lot of time researching shoes and pretty much came up with this for the average 30/40 some man. Tennis Shoes - New Balance 574 solid colors (black, red, white); New Balance 996 Gray, Converse Jack Purcell White/Chuck Taylor Black. Dress Shoes - Black Oxfords in half-brogue; Brown Chukkas; Oxblood/Maroon Double Monk Strap. (Alden, Paul Evans, Meermin are by favorite brands…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 05:01 PM
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This test actually seems surprisingly accurate. Pegged me at 8% which DEXA has me around 9%. Most estimates or electronic methods either error or put me at a default 6% or 15%.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 01:31 PM
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Okay, this is actually an issue when you get to the height-weight ratio you are at. I use to have this issue too before I started lifting. You are going to find that the electronic methods fail to properly read. Your best bet is the calipers, DEXA scan, or water bath. Again, the later two choices are more for athletes but if you are in that height/weight ratio you are either an athlete or underweight.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 01:23 PM
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She is asking you to spank her and you need an excuse? Tell her that she has been bad for thinking about you fucking her all day long. How she needs to stay focused on the day. She can't be getting so turned on when you aren't there to fuck her. Porn is fucking weak... don't watch porn for ideas. It is visual candy to whack of to, not to learn from. Those women are being paid to have sex with those men, there is no skill involved.
/r/askMRP12/01/17 04:49 PM
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I really see two parts to your question. What made her beg for sex and apologize when it doesn't happen? What made her go from sexually adventurous to mom to super sexual? The first one I can wholly attribute to Dominance in terms of advice from the DEVI method in SGM. Now, this likely won't work for someone already dominant, but I had already done the building muscle, and dressing/maintaining yourself better. Since I am not a strong Dominant person, me applying that dominance in bed kicked up E…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 04:43 PM
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Thank you sir, the post you made in MRP led me here for good... You have contributed to changing my life for the decisively better.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 02:05 AM
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LOL I see what you did there :)
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 02:29 PM
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Completely agree. I am sure he didn't want to look like he was turning the sub into an ad space for his book. However, it is hard to deny that /u/BluepillProfessor sets you up for success in the first 15% of the book. The bettering yourself message and the recommended readings timeline just beg to make his book the first book you read. The ONLY hesitation I would say is that sometimes people aren't ready to hear it. In that case I think "No More Mr. Nice Guy" should be #1 followed by his book.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 02:27 PM
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Oh I have, my wife loves to beg me to cum in her. When we were trying to get pregnant it is a fucking crazy flood of emotion and intensity as they milk every drop out of us.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 02:23 PM
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DEVI comes from "The Sex God Method", highly recommended. The D stands for Dominance, which is what you are I are both likely struggling with due to our upbringing/beliefs. It is really hard to change gears from compassionate to dominating and understand that to women it translates into the same thing at different mental states. The book does a fantastic job of helping you walk that fine line between the porn/tv depictions of dominance like BSDM and what you and I can actually bring to the bedro…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 02:22 PM
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I understand where you are coming from. But there are a lot of warnings and best practices that would have been very helpful. Hell I could have started this a year earlier instead of doing that whole "buy her shit" phase. Though part of me feels like I may not have been ready to make a commitment to myself like that one that has to be made to transition from Beta -> Alpha.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 02:15 PM
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I did buy some books, including the primary subject's book. I prefer to buy a book after I read it, like a tip, there is so much crap out there these days and the previews only provide so much.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 02:14 PM
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Thank you for the advice, I replied to /u/alphabeta49 after he posted similar advice regarding the other man in the bedroom. I am comfortable with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 02:11 PM
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Yeah, I figured I burned my bridge to DB once I posted here. I love the people over at /r/DB but I feel greatly saddened for them. There are so many cases of DB that are exactly like mine in terms of the transition from high to low sex and the time frames they occur (engagement, marriage, kids, etc.). I think there are three camps over a DB in terms of the males that fit my profile. I was somewhere between the first and second camp. I want more sex, but I don't want to put in the effort. These p…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 01:46 PM
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Okay well if I am honest with myself and you, I enjoy it. I enjoy seeing my wife get pleasure, whether that is from me, a women, or another man. It really doesn't seem to effect me in terms of jealousy. Recall I stated my major issue was with Dominance. I just don't think I am a naturally dominant person. My primary "resting" dominance is that of me being a business leader in the area and advising others. I am not the typical "Alpha" in terms of presence. However, I have noticed something very i…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 01:37 PM
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I feel like Shit Test squashing, like most of MRP just has to be practiced until it is second nature. Luckily I am a naturally sarcastic person so I just had to refine my sarcasm a bit to be more playful. The one that comes difficult to me personally is showing dominance over women. That part was so ingrained in me it takes a lot to actively reject my upbringing. Yeah the other guy thing, I could see that being an issue here. So far we only play with one other good friend couple of ours, because…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 08:58 PM
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Already loaded onto my phone :) I am working through "The Best of Rational Male – Year One" right now and already read https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ Good stuff so far. I found myself already doing about 1/3 of it, but some of the stuff I have been VERY guilty of and looking back over the past few months I have minimized that. One item that sticks out is the bartering for sex. When the sex drive started going down for her I started this, and I believe this was …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 06:22 PM
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So I found this sub from another user's profile in /r/DeadBedrooms . I am OP from this post. Something I am taking away from this thread is a real question on initiating. I don't initiate at all anymore. It became constant rejection, and lead to her backlashing telling me she felt pressured or what it evolved into which was constantly complaining about everything to preempt a chance at sex. This still hasn't changed to this day, I do not initiate. How should I change this? What is the best appro…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 04:27 PM
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Ummm... so yea I am OP, I had seen/read some of the /r/redpill stuff over the years but honestly some of it kind of rubbed me the wrong way. I just found this sub via /u/FearDearg2015 profile and noticed he was a mod here. From what I am seeing this is a much more RP version of what I was thinking. Basically people have basic animal urges and if you know how to exploit those urges properly you can use it to your advantage without hurting the other person. My wife is pretty much my only experienc…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 04:13 PM
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