| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Stalling out on the execution | Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit | luckybuck2088 | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 10:31 PM |
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| 11 | Would You Date A Woman With The Following Qualities?Probably not all of those at once, but I’ve dated women who were some combination of all of these and with just one or two exceptions they were fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 08:34 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sThe ultimate double standard in the United States: Men do not have full rights to our bodies until we age out of the selective service (the draft). Up until we age out, and it was just recently increased to nearly 50, the government has ownership of men’s bodies and will take them at a moments notice, even with prior service (read your contracts) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Men not going to collegeOne of the most important lessons I had when I started out as a welder was “don’t be afraid to think your way through a problem” All those guys were so smart and well read. Sounds stupid, but now that I’m in an engineering space, I can’t believe 80% of them went to college at all because they can’t do that; and then they look down on me for having a blue collar background before I got to where I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedAre you family with Monty Python? I’m not sure it’s women asking him to chop wood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 02:00 AM |
| 0 | Is a lot of this stuff an American cultural problem?You went to NY is half your problem, port Huron and Detroit will have some of that look, but not nearly as much. But otherwise yes, the dating app stuff seams to be spot on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 11:37 PM |
| 0 | Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to youContext “You’re so nice” vs “you’re too nice” have very different meanings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to youIt’s the universal meaning when it comes to dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.The reason women are seen as unattractive in an all male group is probably one of two reasons: 1) As a guy i KNOW every single guy in that group is waiting for me to screw up and is in the corner or actively working on screwing it up. This happened to me and ruined my engagement and the other guys family. 2) my brother’s friends all passed the girls around in their group and the girls made a game out of it, as an outsider I don’t want any part of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 02:57 AM |
| 7 | What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern eraThis sounds “hallmark movie” as fuck but it works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 01:04 AM |
| 1 | You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victimMight want to add an edit to clarify that in the main argument OP, it’s not bad information, just not presented clearly enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?I get banned every time I try to share links so I’m going to play safe and politely say Google it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?There are some studies out there worth a google that the current model of therapy is not only not helping men, it’s bad for them They are worth a read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 08:44 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events?But in my experience, they aren’t there to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events?It’s amazing what good hygiene can do for you too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events?Because they suck I’ve been to a few, bout 60 total people and I am not a bad looking dude, but I am not above average either, so if there’s one hot guy or more it’s pretty much over. Or And this has been the most common one for me, only two or three of the women are there to participate, the rest are there with their friends for “the experience” and are just wasting everyone’s time. Better than online dating, but not by much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 04:52 PM |
| 20 | Men have a biological clock as wellYou’re forgetting the biggest part: Men over 35 when they have kids may not be fit enough or healthy enough to keep up with them as they grow up and the potential that you’ll never meet your grandchildren also rises at a faster rate the older you are when you have kids. I’m lucky my parts have both made it to 70, but my brother is having difficulty having a kid and my marriage fell apart before we had kids and now I’m pushing 40 so they may not meet their grandchildren | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps.Men have to swipe right on everyone for this reason. It’s a vicious feedback loop, a dating arms race almost. It’s stupid and it sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 08:25 PM |
| 16 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"Welcome to the internet I don’t think anyone outside this space calls themselves that, but with a little googling you will find a corner that is regularly traveled and known | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 8 | Why is men’s dating advice “you are wrong”, and women’s “he is wrong”?I was gonna say that magazines at the grocery store are non stop “self improvement” stuff for women that seems so bizarre to me, a guy, but I am aware I’m also not the target audience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?Ain’t nothing wrong with that Still better than not acknowledging it at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why?Nah, it’s here in the Detroit area too But probably more common down there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Prostitution should be legalizedI think it is more important as a way to try and curb human trafficking, but other than that I don’t really care one way or the other. It would probably increase safety of anyone involved, allow for unions and benefits and whatever. But really the discussion should be about combatting human trafficking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 02:01 PM |
| 19 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"A time long overdue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"I hate the layout of both of these philosophies, and I hate the phrase “wait your turn” but there’s some truth to them. I’m in my mid 30’s, my career is back on track and moving up, I work out enough to look like I take care of myself at least, and have my own place and a new car (nothing flashy by any means) but I do not broadcast any of this. Sure as shit though, mid 20-something women are a lot more interested in me and it is a lot easier to get their attention as well, even when the “bad boi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 12:09 PM |
| – | Why aren't males attending singles events anymore?I went to one and there were 30 of each, men and women All 30 men were single and there were two really good looking dudes and the rest of us were average. After the event you can figure who got most of the attention 2 of the women were single and looking to date, most of the rest were there with their friends “for the experience” I would rather be at home and play with my pets and mess with my stuff than throw away money on sub par pizza and beer and waste my precious free time like that again.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 02:32 PM |
| 21 | The best move a single man can make is work on being happy alone.Stoic philosophy is big on solitude and meditation, part of the reason it has surged in popularity in the recent years is because it aides with being at peace being alone. Loneliness often kills, solitude should bring you peace. It is a lot of work to get there though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Look, I’ve been cheated on multiple times by women who claimed to love me or whatever. I am doing my best not to be bitter about it and always hope the next one will be better, but the minute someone brings it up as a joke it really pisses me off, my SIL is EXTREMELY fond of it because the last one left me homeless, broke, my pet died as a direct result of being kicked out in a blizzard, and all the previous decade of life building was reduced to nothing. If I had become redpilled over that, Who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on DateTake what you can and give nothing back | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on DateYeah I agree, but the comment did phrase it a bit better | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:47 PM |
| 8 | Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women?Never let it be underestimated how much women like a guy who knows what they are about, even if it is just being a dork | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Why am I getting ghosted so often? I've been out of the game for 7 years and holy crap is this a huge problem!Yeah I run into those same problems! Though I don’t want to pay for bumble or tinder. It is Difficult to be interesting on line though, no matter what you’re actually into | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Why am I getting ghosted so often? I've been out of the game for 7 years and holy crap is this a huge problem!It isn’t much better in an area like metro Detroit lol | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why am I getting ghosted so often? I've been out of the game for 7 years and holy crap is this a huge problem!That’s probably the best advice I’ve seen in a while. I do that and it always seems to take the pressure off of both sides and gives you a natural stopping point or believable way to end the date | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Why am I getting ghosted so often? I've been out of the game for 7 years and holy crap is this a huge problem!Apps you used to have to pay for like Match and Eharmony used to be where you could go for serious matches, but even those aren’t great anymore now that tinder and those other all charge to join | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Why am I getting ghosted so often? I've been out of the game for 7 years and holy crap is this a huge problem!Yeah I’ve noticed that too after being out of the game 5 years for both online and people I’ve met in real life. It’ll be going great sometimes for a couple of weeks then… just gone and they are on to the next person. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 5 | What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ?Deal makers is a convo I’d follow! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?I doubt there will be a collapse but I have noticed a number of the women I’ve connected with through online dating (on apps like tinder, not pains ones like Match) eventually bring up OF or something along those lines, but unfortunately not to join them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Why omegle is a great place to practice seduction: lessons I've learned.First bit of solid advice here in a long time also, except for the Omegle part, almost word for word advice I was giving to a buddy last night to get his head in the game lol | /r/seduction | 09/05/21 01:07 PM |
| 3 | A bit of a reality checkOh good. I was worried it was your entire state. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | A bit of a reality checkI would hope that is the case | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 07:37 PM |
| 18 | A bit of a reality checkIf you’re in California they encourage it in public on the streets at every opportunity. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Some girls just flat-out suckUsually, yeah. (Obviously there are exceptions, if someone is just being a douche on the street they may, in fact, just be a douche, but the 70/30 assumes you’ve engaged in some sort of social dialogue or something). How you react to any engagement you enter is going either make it better or make it worse. You are as responsible or culpable for the outcome as they are but you can’t do anything about their feelings, that’s why there’s an uneven tilt. In a perfect situation where both sides are so… | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Some girls just flat-out suckIt is. It’s helped a great deal for me in my day to day life and since I began paying attention to it it’s made a huge difference from my interactions with my customers, to my friends and family, and even to dating | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Some girls just flat-out suckIt’s a general rule I came up with (I’m sure there are plenty of other versions out there, but this one is my take) that I apply to social and professional interactions. If someone is copping attitude with you, acting hostile in an environment where it’s not necessarily warranted, being short or impolite with you 70% of that interaction is probably you and your approach to the interaction. I’ve found it doesn’t matter how long the interaction goes, it’ll eventually boil down to this. 30% is like… | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 04:13 PM |
| 7 | Some girls just flat-out suckSounds like someone got their first hard lesson in chemistry and compatibility. Everyone has to learn at some point and it’s not always easy. But do remember the 70-30 rule, if someone has an attitude with you, 70% of it is you. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 10:36 AM |
| 10 | Make a habit of talking to all strangers, not just attractive women. Seduction is a subset of being generally charismatic with people.I never thought about it this way. I mean, I get it and I agree with the points. 100% accurate. I must look funny or talk to people who aren’t usually approached by well spoken types or are approached by creeps on the regular because this approach does work when you’re being genuine. While I’d never claim to be charismatic, it’s amazing how easy it is to get a phone number or a date or even simply make someone else comfortable by just being friendly, chatty, and engaging. | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 04:30 PM |
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