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| 3 | Has anyone ever felt compelled to stay with a genuinely sweet guy they're kind of bored by because they know damn well almost everything else out there is absolutely horrible? | DISCUSSION | luckycharmsaregod | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:47 PM |
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| 3 | It’s so refreshing when a guy is nice and there’s no dramaAww, I'm in a similar situation. We've been together almost 5 months now. I never thought I'd meet someone like him. He's unreal. I never thought I'd have a solid relationship with a guy who worships with me and wants a future with me. Someone so sweet, genuine, affectionate, giving. I want a future with him. He makes me feel so safe. If for some reason I don't, he's the new standard. Nothing less. Fuck all of that hot and cold, hump and dump bullshit. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:49 PM |
| 14 | He also told me he cheated on an ex but he was “just being a guy”sounds like a real, quality guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:31 PM |
| 13 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*My current boyfriend keeps emphasizing he wants us to see my and his apartments as belonging to us both, so that it's like we each have two places to live. It's cute. What kind of 'boyfriend' says shit like in the screenshot? My god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 11:31 PM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020This comment. Holy yikes. This makes me so sad for her. I used to be like this, deluding myself into thinking guys, especially from Tinder, wanted me for anything other than seven-second sex, after which you'd promptly get kicked out. And then getting talked into unprotected sex with a stranger...horrific. "He's barely texted me since then too but that's not super unusual..." Oh, honey. I can't stop reading the Tinder sub for ultimate cringe. I also apparently like getting myself into a rage ove… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:42 AM |
| 24 | Sexism im sub reddits - stay away from r sex and r datingoverthirtyone time in a post about terrible hook ups with guys who don't care on r/sex, i said something about guys usually cumming no matter whom they're with or regardless of the fact they've known the person for five minutes and i got dogpiled and whatabouted until the end of time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:08 PM |
| 10 | Anyone else having a hard time dating in their early 20s?it's horrific. right now i have a bf tho because i randomly stumbled upon the sweetest, most open guy i've ever met. he's pretty unreal and i'm so happy. but he's the only quality guy i've ever met, literally. and i've met dozens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 01:53 AM |
| 13 | Worst AITA I've read to dateImagine making almost 200k a year and exactly splitting rent with your spouse, who makes a quarter of what you do...and takes care of your child to boot. I'm sick. What the fuck kind of man is he? Holy shit. I'm infuriated for her. What is this? How could he be that cruel? Lol, as if splitting is remotely fair or reasonable in that scenario. '$1600 extra a month isn't enough for you?' Is he kidding? It's clearly not nearly enough for him. Fucking hypocrite much? I don't understand how you could … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:46 AM |
| 15 | Men describing women as “snakes with tits” surprised OLD isn’t working.really don't understand why these losers think insulting women will make women want to swipe right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 11:50 AM |
| 50 | I went on my first date in months.jesus, asking someone on a date and not even being willing to pay $12 for them? absolutely pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:04 AM |
| 6 | Enough stories about LVM! Tell us a good experience you had with HVM :)lmaooo i love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:03 PM |
| 7 | I’m Not Having Sex Until I Love Youoh wow, i love this. now that i've had sex with someone who loves me and someone whom i care deeply about, i can never go back to casual sex. it's so much better it's not even funny. it gets better the more i know him, each time. i actually feel things. he truly cares if i cum, and i think i might actually be able to orgasm from just penetration one day. which before was absolutely unfathomable i know i can't beat myself up about it but i'm sad about how many gross hookups i've had. you live and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020no offense but this seems like a ton of projection + what’s the point of getting hung up on someone you can see like once a year, if that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:01 PM |
| 39 | This is why FDS exists. Carefully vetting our partners is imperative!this cuts so goddamn deep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:46 AM |
| 2 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENhahaha :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:20 PM |
| 149 | This guy has been hinting for weeks that he hopes we can get together soon but never offers any ideas. It finally made me snap.LMAO “fair enough” means he knows what he’s doing...why does he even bother omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:19 PM |
| 39 | Have a date from OLD this Saturday. Taking bets now!a cop? the military? sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020they’re not remotely minor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Yeah, I’m so used to having to play it cool that I feel like it should all be some push pull chess game. I can’t help it :( You’re so right. We will see :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:07 PM |
| 14 | A Kiss Can't Lie: If he doesn’t kiss you, he‘s not in love with you.Guy I’m dating now is amazing with this. We didn’t have sex until our 5th or 6th meeting (FDS lite...I’m getting there) so the times before that, we spent literal hours kissing each time. Just making out, no oral. Even now when I see him the first thing we do is kiss for 20+ minutes. And it’s never necessarily a precursor to sex...it just is. Then we cuddle and talk and shit. It’s so great. Sometimes I like it more than sex. Can feel more intimate sometimes and is less messy 🤭 Once I met this ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:01 PM |
| 21 | Something that helped me prioritize myself:Really relatable, damn. Got my first post-college job and am not used to being able to buy myself things so just went...WAY overboard. Used to be a minimalist (wasn’t much of a choice lmao) but lost it. Culminated recently in buying a new phone I didn’t really need. On a credit card...that drew me in by randomly upping my limit after two years right as I was thinking about buying the phone and right as I was getting super close to paying the dumb thing off. I feel so bad. But I’m regaining contr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 10 | Body of missing college student Anitra Gunn, found in Georgia, her boyfriend arrested. She went missing on Valentine’s Day. Yet another reminder that failing to INVESTIGATE and weed out LVM can cost you your life!This is just so heartbreaking and enraging. Every time. Men just treat women like garbage. Like their lives mean nothing. Makes my stomach turn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I’ve never been in a relationship before. It’s new and I don’t know how to act. Like, do I still never text first, be aloof and slightly unavailable, etc.? I’ll never text first anyway, really...I don’t wanna play mind games but I don’t want it to be too easy for him already, you know?Should it be? I have no idea what I’m doing. If you’re talking attachment styles he screams secure in every way, so I don’t think being aloof will make him like me more (I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:29 PM |
| 18 | I lost the weight and they came running. Boy bye.mike’s sheer audacity has me screaming queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:54 PM |
| 6 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENwell here i was mostly trying to say i don’t think i’ll ever meet anyone like him again, not necessarily not feel like this again. but that’s somewhat the same thing i guess lol. i totally get what you mean and that’s a good point and thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:55 PM |
| 6 | No, this isn't normal.this is SAD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:58 PM |
| 33 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENSounds about right. I’m 23. I’ve met dozens of men from apps and they were all horrific. I’m currently in a shit town, so boredom led me to keep swiping. The difference is that by this point I had no qualms about being ghosted or disappointed. It’s not remotely personal; it’s just the way these trash bags are. I was secure. I expected the worst and didn’t fear it. I also knew as long as I didn’t have casual sex I couldn’t really feel used or out of control (it also just sucks massively for me). … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Y’all. The AUDACITY!!Truly. I lived near a base for a bit in a small city so had slim pickings...first one I met was a creepy ass love bomber who scared the shit out of me, asked me to be his girlfriend on the SECOND date (which was the day after the FIRST!), and terrified me when he tried to pressure me into sex by saying, “what about MY needs?” Oh, and he carried a gun, on his person, which he didn’t tell me ahead of time. That was the only time I’ve ever been scared of a guy. The drive back (yeah, I know, no car,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Y’all. The AUDACITY!!I’m absolutely speechless omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:07 PM |
| 6 | Adele (31) loses a staggering 100 pounds after dumping husband (45)this is terrible and not going to last, my god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:43 AM |
| 3 | Watch as men get exposed for failing to know basic information about their significant otherthe teyana and iman vid made me smile so hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:01 AM |
| 13 | Watch as men get exposed for failing to know basic information about their significant otherIt was legit painful to witness. Lowkey infuriating, too, especially because you know you'd literally never see it the other way around. Amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:55 AM |
| 23 | Watch as men get exposed for failing to know basic information about their significant otherHow did one guy not even know her fucking birthday? Her EYE color? It's tragic how this is normal, expected, and supposedly cute, AND how we've normalized it so much that we're supposed to laugh about it. It's not funny. It's disgusting, pathetic, and extremely disheartening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜this comment is killing me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:03 AM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜my new bf and i both hadn’t had a v day in a relationship before. the bar is legitimately on the floor, but he’s the most wonderful male i’ve ever met. i feel like this whole thing has to be a joke, because no guy could ever be this genuine or kind. or have like all the desirable traits imaginable. he doesn’t watch porn (somehow has no interest), doesn’t care about my (accidentally revealed, way-larger-than-his) “number,” is super close with his mom, comes from money but doesn’t act like it, pay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:01 AM |
| 10 | 37M Virgin finally gets a GF (38F) after being rejected for being unattractive his whole life. Thinks he “deserves better” after she asks him to wait for sex. FRIENDLY REMINDER TO STOP GIVING SUBPAR LVM MEN CHANCES!!that post is so disgusting i don't know where to start. it's sad because you know SO many men are like this and think this way. abhorrent. misogynist. pathetic. delusional. imagine being basically a 40-year-old virgin and such a picky asshole prick. but i guess that's literally why he's never had sex, not because of his looks, whatever they are. it's because he's an awful, miserable, sick person. the entitlement is out of this world! i don't think it is, but this could very well be a shit post. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:29 AM |
| 16 | What FDS principle has helped you the most?don't text first, basically. it really weeds them out. it took me forever to realize that if you ever feel like you have to text them in order to see them, they don't give a shit. with my new bf, i never once texted him first. he just kept coming back and back and asking to see me and initiating. it was great...i never needed to lift a finger. once we became official he started texting me even more and he's initiated every conversation, every time. i love it. it's then that i know he actually ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:20 AM |
| 15 | So what do you all think about the saying "men age like wine; women age like milk"?Seeing men clearly lying about their ages makes me wretch. Absolutely pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/19 06:03 PM |
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