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| 35 | NOW THAT'S WHY WE SHOULD VET THEM | MALE DEPRAVITY | luckyshvara | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Controversial sex vetting idea | SEX STRATEGY | luckyshvara | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:51 PM |
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| 0 | About "Getting The Bag" ...One more thing - many FDS women are concerned that this is 'indecent' behaviour for HVW, and are concerned of loosing their 'dignity'. Firstly, I personally lost my decency while being 'Barbara the builder'. I lost my decency while dating ugly and cheap guys, brainwashed, as many women in modern society, by the idea of 'love conquers all'. I lost my decency when my boss hired male intern who couldnt tell debit from credit into accounting department because they were from same university, but que… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:21 PM |
| -1 | About "Getting The Bag" ...No one has been talking about becoming financially dependent in this post. Y'all reading? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:38 PM |
| 7 | About "Getting The Bag" ...I fully support this. Now I am in great social circles, yet HVM are rare to come by (contrary to some FDSers who say 'find good hobbies and good social circles' and who demonize OLD), they only look like HVM. But I enjoy flirting (with men and women) and I enjoy being courted. Also dating/flirting (without sex or serious emotional commitment - from my side) helps me to have some rest and recharge from my intensive career-building. To all FDSers who commented 'focus on your career' to your post -… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:31 PM |
| 5 | About "Getting The Bag" ...Hmm, but why cant I have both? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:19 PM |
| 10 | “What you fear, you will want to destroy”Women symbolize infinite abundance and energy in in Hinduism/Buddhism. Not only because of child birth. Who traditionally cooked, and therefore created amazing international cuisines? Women. Who cared about beautiful home (as opposed to 'mancave')? Women. Who cared about beauty of colors, jewelry, clothes, make up? Women. And it's not always about 'male gaze'and beauty standards. If I move into new home, I immediately start to think how to make it convenient, beautuful and stylish. Female figure… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:39 AM |
| 122 | I can receive a notification, see a part of the comment, and not even a MINUTE later:Aaah, that's what was happening to me! I thought my reddit app was glitchy. Thank you, mods🥰🥰🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | In Russia, men do have a day! That day is today."Much better" =/ equal Russian culture is incredibly opressive towards pretty much all minorities =/ Some Russian people, especially the older generation, are very xenophobic (that's how you could put it, and it would have been much more accurate) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:37 PM |
| 2 | In Russia, men do have a day! That day is today.Actually, my point was - it makes me sad to see people (especially Russians/Russian descendants) making sweeping generalizations about Russia/mostly showing Russia's negative sides in the Internet. Which reinforces negative image of Russia created by Putin. Which, in it's turn, creates obstacles in career for Russian expats - especially in corporate field. I have never seen other nation with so much self-hatred as us, Russians. E.g. - Russian expats in foreign countries pretending to be not Russ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:21 PM |
| -1 | In Russia, men do have a day! That day is today.I have lived in many countries (including UK), yet failed to see a culture without attitude of discrimination. If you think UK is much better than Russia in these regards - hmm maybe you are privileged enough not to see it? Unfortunately, as a humanity we are still a failure lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:48 PM |
| -3 | In Russia, men do have a day! That day is today.It's not 'Russian culture' to be incredibly oppressive towards pretty much any minority, but many people participate in it - just like people from other cultures. Or we, Russian women and liberal people don't belong to 'russian culture'🙄? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:22 AM |
| 184 | I bought my 7 yo daughter chocolates and flowers, so no dusty ass will impress her with cheap stuff on vd.Yep, you have described me before 15 lol. Please teach her healthy boundaries, which will protect her inner light and will help her grow into happy and successful lady!! My parents taught me to be kind to everyone, so here I am, at 24, struggling to learn how to stop being so kind to people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:21 PM |
| 27 | If you aren't easily offended, G.L Lambert gives you some straight NO-BS advice and insight into the male mind and dating 📖 Didn't see his books in the FDS recommended books but they are some legit LEVEL UP books where he takes no prisoners and gives no f*cks!I read both of his Amazon top-rated books, which are "Ho Tactics" and "Men dont love women like you". I even planned to make book reports on these books for FDS, but was procrastinating a bit. Thank you! I absolutely loved these books, even if author is NVM. That's exactly why his description of generic male behaviour is so accurate! I recommend everyone on FDS read these two books, just ignore any advice which is not-FDS. I think these books are great insight on how NVM think straight from the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Understanding the pain he projects to the world is the pain he feels inside him. His hatred for women, is hatred for himself. He's no different from a fearful child, lashing out, because he didn't get the toy he wanted.Exactly this. I am very empathetic person, so I fell into this trap waaay to often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 18 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedThe majority of women are very good, generous and attentive in gift giving, on Valentine's day, New Years, Christmas and what not. Why should we settle for less? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:31 PM |
| 18 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedBut Valentine's Day is a special day to treat your beloved ones and to express your love. Cheap date or home meal is not exactly a 'treat' for me and shouldn't be a treat for you, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:19 PM |
| 11 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedNope nope nope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Held off on sex, it was horribleEven if I bought it myself, I say smbd else gave it to me because I dont want to attract 'momma's boys', 'golddigger men', as well as stingy men and fuck boys. Stingy men and fuckboys usually are terrified at thought of investing in women. Thats why they invite us to walk/coffee dates. Also, my logic is that saying that you bought all of that by youself may give him wrong impression that you are progressive liberal pickmeisha (and LVM will be absolutely happy to hear that) But that's my thoughts… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Held off on sex, it was horribleLol its not about appeasing men. It's about temporarily hiding how good you are before you vetted if he is HVM or not. Same like you dont tell your home address, company name, etc on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Held off on sex, it was horribleEdit: oh yeah, also if he will compliment the aforementioned bag/whatever I am wearing, I would say "Oh, thank you! Its a gift" and will smile vaguely (😈) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 09:39 PM |
| 16 | Held off on sex, it was horribleAlso, if you have expensive bag (or anything, and I personally encourage everyone wear smth expensive on the first date) and on the date he asks smth like 'Where is that from?" or "Where did you buy it?", you can also answer "It's a gift". If he presses further and asks "From whom?" you can answer "From a former ~friend~". Hope he will take the hint. Don't answer 'from my ex', that will be too blunt. Dont say "From my family/bestie", because it will not serve our purpose (to show him your expect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 09:29 PM |
| 40 | Held off on sex, it was horribleWhen you will be dumping him, please don't forget to explain that reason is awful sex skills. This male ego asks for a blow😉😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:56 PM |
| 28 | Held off on sex, it was horribleIf asking a guy to help is not your thing, you could measure his effort in gifts, maybe? How much did he spend on gifting you VOLUNTARILY? Did these gifts show his efforts to know what you need/like? I usually google price of premium escort in my city and dont sleep with him until he spent on me more than that. I am not cheaper than sex worker, and I dont care if I called 'golddigger'. If there is a possibility that I will experience horrible sex, I would rather be 'paid'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:45 PM |
| 12 | Don't hand out second chances because of apologies.If they come up with an apology, send them an invoice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:34 PM |
| 16 | Get off of OLD!May we stop shaming women who use OLD? WE KNOW it's not the best way to meet people, but sometimes we don't have any other choice. I don't believe that OLD is scary place which attracts only LVM, as well as I dont believe there is magical place which attracts only HVM. If you apply FDS guidelines, you are mostly safe regardless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:28 PM |
| 7 | If a man says he was abusedT H I S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 06:49 AM |
| 4 | Healthy Male Crying Vs Manipulative Displays Of EmotionSis, if you are happy, I am happy. If you have a good relationships, its a win for me and entire FDS. Hope it is truly as good as you describe it and...make sure his commitment to you can be measured in monetary value. I know many ladies shy away from hypergamy/money aspect of FDS, but I am strong advocate for it. Rich, generous man does not equate HVM, but the majority of men hate to spend money on 'placeholders' and 'sidechicks' they are stringing along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:11 AM |
| 27 | Healthy Male Crying Vs Manipulative Displays Of EmotionSorry, story of your bf doesnt sound healthy at all (and I am mainly concerned for your wellbeing) Firstly, why doesnt he go to therapy to heal all of these intense feelings? Thats what I would personally have done instead of burdening my SO (given that emotions are quite intense) Secondly, are you sure you keep the record of what he actually has done for you vs. how often he cried about how much he cares about you? Thirdly, sorry (not sorry) for lurking in your post history, but you have been d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Apparently besides being their mother, women are also therapists and rehabilitation centers.Well, I would say as soon as you start tantric (buddhist or hinduist, doesnt matter) religious pratice - and I mean true practice, having Guru with good reputation, receiving Diksha (receiving explanation of particular religious practice and receiving a blessing to practice it) - you get karmic cleansing, even if you dont practice Kali. That 'karmic cleansing' which I and my acquaintances received was far more serious than what New Age ppl talk about ('your Nvm bf broke up with you, you are spir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Apparently besides being their mother, women are also therapists and rehabilitation centers.absolutely love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:53 PM |
| 20 | Apparently besides being their mother, women are also therapists and rehabilitation centers.Being Kali worshipper, I may also say that if it will happen, I will be quick to cut his head off 😛 Women have been indoctrinated that 'kind and accepting' is the only face of divine femininity. Which is not true. Sometimes there is no healing without harsh criticism and destruction - which I am happy to provide for any LVM free of charge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 14 | Self-Sabotage! Don't Underestimate Your Subconscious.I struggle with that too, sounds like great idea, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:35 PM |
| 20 | Finnish newspaper interviewed Russian men about the rise of feminism in RussiaMy personal opinion: I think it's a vicious circle someone should break. I can't make LVM into HVM, but if all of us (I was a pickmeisha too) will stop dating and having sex with LVM, may be they will start to reflect on their behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:13 PM |
| 92 | Don’t give men your time when they have nothing to offerNot exactly. We won't think you are an idiot - actually this phrase is one of the silly rhymes for kids - the original is 'laughter without reason is a sign of silly person'. Thats how kids mock other (too giggly) kids in pre-school. I think she referred to this phrase, but didn't explain it to you. No one in Russia thinks you are an idiot if you smile too much. BUT we usually don't smile too much to strangers, because we subconsciously think that smiling should be genuine. We have special 'poli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 10:19 AM |
| 15 | Finnish newspaper interviewed Russian men about the rise of feminism in Russiaименно так, товарищ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 10:01 AM |
| 84 | Finnish newspaper interviewed Russian men about the rise of feminism in RussiaWhat's more, there are three categories of Russian women, who moved to the West: 1. Career women who mostly got rid of accent, hence we are invisible and indistinguishable from other Western women 2. 'Prominent golddiggers' who pretend to be 'man-pleasers', marry Western LVM, get citizenship and RUN (I don't judge them any more given that men are true golddiggers) 3. Pickmeishas aka man-pleasers As a type 1 we are almost invisible, types 2 and 3 get the most attention because of the accent. That… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:37 AM |
| 70 | Finnish newspaper interviewed Russian men about the rise of feminism in RussiaBasically we have pickmeishas, we have HVW, we have SAHM and we have career ladies. Just like any country. But scrotes gonna scrote and want to stereotype | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:09 AM |
| 92 | Finnish newspaper interviewed Russian men about the rise of feminism in RussiaI lived in Western Europe and there we have reputation of 'gold diggers'. I live in Asia now and here we have reputation of 'man-pleasers'. IDK WHO I AM ANYMORE 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:07 AM |
| 203 | Finnish newspaper interviewed Russian men about the rise of feminism in RussiaAs a russian, I can say that on one hand, Soviet times really helped with feminism in Russia - in early Soviet days 'career woman' and 'woman who has it all' were heavily promoted by Lenin and his clique, thanks to which we have quite a lot of female executives, and I believe at certain points of time Russian workplaces were even more feminist than European ones.Yet we have two bad jokes played on us: Lenin died and Stalin came to rule. While Lenin tried to create 'true' career woman and infrast… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:36 AM |
| 13 | how do you deal with your own ‘imposter syndrome’ while dating?I agree with you. But as someone who does my best to level-up everyday AND still having an impostor syndrome, I can say that leveling up can take some natural time to bring 'fruit' (you can't make a tree grow faster), while crippling self-esteem issues try to sabotage me everyday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 63 | Queenshe is so pretty, I am dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:20 AM |
| 30 | The amount of times I see posts like this makes my eyes roll so hard that I’ve probably fractured my optic nerve. The entitlement is realIf I, as a woman, from the pickmeisha point of view: should make the first move should do house chores for both of us should look 10/10 all time should have a nice job to support myself and my gamer porn-sick LVM should propose to him should take care of my orgasm (since my LVM limp dick can't) The question is.... Why would I need a man at all? I can have it all by myself. These scores are truly replaceable and are leftovers of evolution process. Ladies, please don't reproduce with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:37 AM |
| 73 | Male fragility at its finest !Feeling same. We give birth to men and nurture them as mothers, support them as sisters and friends, and love them as girlfriends. How soulless men should be to hate those who take care of them DAILY? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:06 PM |
| 44 | Another cheating scrote. Online dating just festers with these men. ALWAYS stalk a man before a date!! Always. It is not 'creepy' like those on the sad sub datingoverthirty claim. It keeps you SAFE in a unpredictable dating world and ensures your time is not wasted.Even if she will get defensive, please do that! If women won't take care of each other, WHO will? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on Subtle Asian Dating?No, that's fine :3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:00 AM |
| 13 | Thoughts on Subtle Asian Dating?how about replacing 'Russian bride' with 'mail-order bride'? sorry for intervention, but there are Russians on reddit, and we are not awful people, neither all of as are pickmeishas. (some of us are even pretty good gold diggers lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 9 | If you really want to decipher men as quick as possiblehmmm...what if as European, I would say that some Korean guys go for White girls because they are not up to Korean girl's standards?When you are in a foreign country, you may not know the standards of dating there, and may unknowingly settle for less (like Asian girls in Western countries and Western girls in Asian countries) edit: same goes for Black girls. That's not racist, that's just sad truth: NVM of one race prey on unknowing girls of another race. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:43 AM |
| 43 | How can I know if a guy is dating me because he wants western citizenship?date guys who are HVM and rich this way even if he will want your citizenship, at least he is not poor and can give you smth in return | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Find a partner that is supportive and proud of you! Even though her husband is more on the conservative side he fully supports her and that’s important.lol indeed sorry for the rant, I saw enough shit while dating in Korea. hope this will help someone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:48 AM |
| 13 | Find a partner that is supportive and proud of you! Even though her husband is more on the conservative side he fully supports her and that’s important.Yes, that's true, but as time passed, I think she became overwhelmed with her popularity and engagement to Korean guy (for k-pop fans that means A LOT) so her advice became more and more biased. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Red flags in KoreaHey, I am living here as well, can I ask your advice about dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:17 AM |
| 33 | Find a partner that is supportive and proud of you! Even though her husband is more on the conservative side he fully supports her and that’s important.Firstly, she is certified pickmeisha - pay attention to who makes the majority of money in their family (hint: Megan), who doesn't have a decent job and slacks on the house chores (hint: her hubby). Secondly, the advice she gives to foreign girls about Korean guys is not only pickmeisha advice, but even misogynistic and dangerous to a certain extent. Her advice glorifies Korean guys and shames foreign girls who try to exercise standards in dating. Shame that she is a foreigner herself. Thirdly, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:10 AM |
| 4 | Find a partner that is supportive and proud of you! Even though her husband is more on the conservative side he fully supports her and that’s important.No, but somehow related. You can dm me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:44 AM |
| 32 | Find a partner that is supportive and proud of you! Even though her husband is more on the conservative side he fully supports her and that’s important.This is not goals. If you knew more about their background, you would have known that he married her because he is a cheapass and wouldn't have a shot with Korean girls as cool as she is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:42 AM |
| 29 | If he asks you out, make sure to vet the restaurant too!Absolutely! PLEASE VET HIS HOME ADDRESS TOO !I had a date with seemingly HVM guy. I and him live in same area, and I said that I would love to go for Italian. He chose one, it seemed good in Google reviews, so I agreed. When I was approaching the restaurant, it turned out: a) this restaurant is 2 min from his house (I didn't know his address, but I knew how his house looks like); b) he knew where approximately I live, and he KNEW I will have to take 30 min bus to him. Amazing. I wanted to turn b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:55 AM |
| 3 | After 23 years of pickmeism, I found the salvation that is this sub. Thank you. Here's a perfectly less than "perfect" bouquet of beautiful roses I got myself for my birthday.These roses are perfect, just like you are❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:45 PM |
| 8 | Let a bot run through a dating site and match me with 9870 guys. Here are the resultsOP, you are IT Queen! Thank you! 89% reactive messages? YES I thought something wrong with me or with guys in my area...turns out they are the same. I wonder why though? Is that because Pickmeishas do all the labour and scrotes expect us to do the same, or because these guys don't believe in finding anything (even a hook up) on OLD and prefer not to waste energy? What happened to the art of flirt, of small talk, art of seduction and building tension? Sad truth, but I will have to continue to use… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 04:09 PM |
| 8 | are British men actually gentlemen?I don't know if you are asian yourself, but for me as non-asian, dating life in Asia is horrible. What I mean is that the majority of men are LVM anywhere. Especially when you try to date out of your race, because you are not only exposed to LVM, but also to their fetishization. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:47 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if there were no men around for 24hrs?With my fellow queens will take over all major social institutions and large corporations, as well as take over control of weapons and chief military positions at 3 pm, and we will have matriarchy at 6 pm. The rest will be history, hehe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Is this too much?debit cards😉🤑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 20 | Have any other women noticed that some men are obsessed with being accepted as they are, but want the women who work out, study, and pay careful attention to their sense of style?I am sorry, but they are nearly not as good as chicken nuggets😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 06:46 AM |
| 12 | NOW THAT'S WHY WE SHOULD VET THEMI imagine that scrotes would have gone absolutely mad, if some girl would have posted: 'I pretended to be a HVW and tricked a good guy into a date! HA HA". NVM are hopeless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | To my fellow Asian girls, this is why you should NEVER feel bad for dating out no matter how much Asian incels lead you to believe otherwise.double that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:38 AM |
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