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| 1 | ‘Beta’ men care the most about a woman’s past or n-count because they would have invested a lot (emotionally) in her whereas ‘alphas’ are the opposite | Discussion | lueyguy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 09:13 AM |
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| 0 | What do you think a Red Pilled man actually is?You sound like an insecure Pickmeshia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:59 PM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?Not one of them. I just don’t invest much into the courting process nor am I emotionally invested into the relationship. I was already alone. I’m not necessarily jaded because I’ve accepted things for what they are and I am not bitter about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:58 PM |
| 2 | What do you think a Red Pilled man actually is?Yes but I’ve also seen genuine people on both sides being cheated on and taken advantage of. They deserved that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:56 PM |
| 0 | What do you think a Red Pilled man actually is?Lol irrational | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | What do you think a Red Pilled man actually is?This doesn’t make any sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | What do you think a Red Pilled man actually is?Women always say this but I see plenty of genuinely intentioned bluepill men being taken for a ride by manipulative women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?Plus. I’m from a place filled with low value people (by your definition) in general. The dating climate is extremely toxic. I’ve tried communicating, being open and all that other stuff. Trying to be high value here will ensure that you get cheated on or used 99% of the time. Whilst I have done so in the past it would not serve me to take women to dinner or to put in much effort into the courting process. I’m simply adapting (to get laid). Even then I don’t just sleep with every woman that comes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?Actually fds is also about extracting the most benefit from a man whilst putting in the least amount of effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?It doesn’t take much to be considered low value by your lame standards. If you’ve ever made any mistake in your life you’re low value. In fact you’re low value for participating in this sub. It’s just nonsense shaming tactic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?Lol who said I think I’m high value? I just need her to think I’m high value and if honesty is the only thing holding me back then why not tell a few lies :D. You’re the one who’s low value for judging someone based on what they did in their past especially if they’ve changed now. Also how do you even define a high value woman? Looks, status, money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?I could even just lie that I’m a virgin lol. How would she find out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 09:35 AM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?Lol. It’s very easy to hide that information. I lie and tell her I’ve only had 3 casual sex encounters during a dark period in my life which I regret and I realised that it wasn’t for me. I could tell her I’ve only been active within the context of long term relationships. Lol. How’s she going to find out? I rarely get asked this and even when I do I’ve been fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?Actually women rarely prod into your previous escapades. At least not to the degree required to extract this type of information. Least of all the successful career type. I think I’ll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?I’m trying to have fun. I will also work on myself and if I should bump into a high value woman that likes me then that’d be cool. I’m not actively seeking her out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlease do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?Honestly as long as she’s attractive enough and can hold a conversation I don’t care. I’m just looking to smash right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 08:11 AM |
| 1 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?It is but that’s not how women operate is it? Otherwise you wouldn’t be complaining about not finding good enough men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlease post this on dating_advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m going to make a post for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | If 40 percent of the American population is obese and makes less than 50k a year, is really hard for men to get women?Fat women also display poor control with their sexual urges just as with their food intake and are just as likely if not more to cheat on you. All it takes is one guy who will reciprocate or make advances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 12:55 AM |
| 0 | If 40 percent of the American population is obese and makes less than 50k a year, is really hard for men to get women?Lol you want hot women but aren’t hot, charismatic, high status, rich or at least bold enough to approach? Entitlement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Men, what do you think women gain from being in a relationship? Women, what do you think men gain from being in a relationship?and yet so many of them are single mothers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Men, what do you think women gain from being in a relationship? Women, what do you think men gain from being in a relationship?To what degree should it be someone giving you something? Does that mean I can pay for a woman’s attention and it would be equivalent to her being there because of my personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 06:38 PM |
| -6 | Men, what do you think women gain from being in a relationship? Women, what do you think men gain from being in a relationship?Most women these days are child free, don’t mind waiting or are ok with being single mothers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Men, what do you think women gain from being in a relationship? Women, what do you think men gain from being in a relationship?Most women these days are child free plus they don’t mind being single mothers. No wasted time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s not my problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve actually done that before. What’s funny is the girl hooked up with me knowing full well that her friend had a crush on me. I convinced her that it was okay because her friend never made it fully obvious to me that she was interested. What’s weird is this girl had such a big crush on me that her entire immediate social circle developed crushes as well (including the gay guys). It was the weirdest thing when I think back on it. The only reason I knew she had a crush was because they would tel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t take women seriously. If they want me to know that they like me then they have to make it obvious otherwise I will proceed to fuck them and their friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat position? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:18 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoesn’t matter whether there are hints or not. Try with every woman (subtly) in your vicinity. Fuck every single one that gives you a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is why I can’t take women seriously. Once I’ve fucked I keep it moving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf that’s true this is why guys hit on every living thing. After we’ve identified the matches we fuck and then leave them hanging. That’ll teach you to use your big girl voice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 08:10 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen will make it very obvious if they’re into you. Anything else and she’s just being friendly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 07:45 AM |
| 8 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you’re asking this question she isn’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat if I get the skills but not the qualification? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow is data science as a career? I’m busy learning it but my parents and friends think I should focus on acquiring skills that will earn me a real income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:49 PM |
| 4 | You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating ClimateMy condolences to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 08:30 AM |
| 7 | You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating ClimateOf course I’ll never be Chad material. If I was meant to be then I’d be born one but I wasn’t. The jokes on you though because I’m not bitter. We have different advantages and starting points in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 08:24 AM |
| 11 | You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating ClimateHow women justify their desire for Chad dad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:34 AM |
| 6 | You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating ClimateThis is why it’s not worth it to be a stepdad. Your stepdaughter will always crave her real biological bad boy Chad father’s affection more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:50 AM |
| 8 | Is a woman wrong for hiding her sexual past from her partner?As someone who used to be insecure about penis size and even slept with a size queen I can honestly say the importance of dick size is overstated. Just don’t have a micro penis but average or even below average is actually fine most of the time. Focus on the foreplay and overall experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:48 AM |
| 4 | You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating ClimateLol. Your stepdad was a beta cuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt might be a recent thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t know if I would call it racism but there’s a strong preference for white men in many countries. A significant portion of Asian, African, American black women etc would rather pick white men over their own. I think it also applies to a lot of men as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadScratch that wrong race part unless you’re a minority in a foreign country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreador the wrong race Side note: if someone told me that I’d be going back and forth with a Russian ppd today I most likely wouldn’t have been surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat if they’re just ugly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere you go again. So if a guy is single he’s red flag or not a green flag? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can agree with that. The only contention is I’d add that more green flag men are single than green flag women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo do I but I also recognise that a significant portion of women are messed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s the go to insult or accusation when you point out how messed up a lot of women are in fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost women are red flags then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey can date anyone. That’s my point whereas men aren’t as in demand so many green flag men are still single. Most women whoever are taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen with green flags aren’t necessarily as taken. Proportionally speaking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen with green flags are usually taken already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 09:10 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s also true. The only difference is men don’t exactly have much choice so they have to decide to what extent they’re going to tolerate red or orange flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlease explain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadr/HealthyFemaleDatingStrategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 07:45 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAfter interacting with and dating women who complain about this I’ve realized that they subconsciously or consciously filter for such men. Basically any man with a healthy self esteem and respect of boundaries gets filtered out after round 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | QfW Most Common Ways you Signal InterestI gave up on that. Let it find you. Also you shouldn’t feel guilty. They would do the same to you. Just treat them well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 07:36 AM |
| 1 | QfW Most Common Ways you Signal InterestHonestly I’d say just go for the easy women. You don’t even have to take them too seriously. Have some fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 10:12 PM |
| 6 | QfW Most Common Ways you Signal InterestReading stuff like this makes me never want to chase a woman. If she wants to she will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 09:18 AM |
| 3 | In your observations, what are the main differences between the wo/men as described by users here, and the wo/men you know irl?Ok I’m a man and I will say what I’ve observed of both sides Women A large portion cheat on their boyfriends without a second thought. they care a lot about money but more so that you just have your stuff in order (own place, car etc). they actually and genuinely fall for guys using the beta bucks and nice guy strategies. I kid you not. The thing is you have to use them without any sense of entitlement or expectation. You’re basically partially open to potentially being used by the woman in ques… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you feel if you saw your male love interest/boyfriend/husband cryingJust divorce her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Is a Man Approaching a Woman in the Streets an Effective Way of Dating today?but then if she wants to reject you she has nowhere to go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Is a Man Approaching a Woman in the Streets an Effective Way of Dating today?What would you recommend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 07:33 AM |
| 20 | If virginity in men is a red flag for you, after which age would you consider it a red flag and why?So preselection is real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 05:34 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy don’t men like casual sex? Why does it make them anxious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:33 PM |
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